Somali Guys screw around with every nationality as well. Who people date others for watever reason have the choice to do, but Naxariis part, You are right Somalida odhan regardless of gender Ajnabiga bay uroon yihiin iyagan isku darin yihiin. We need to rethink about how we treat each other.

Hmmm...A tour of Somalia...Perhaps we can sent cameras after these guy and have our own reality show starring Yeey, Shariif, Gheedi and Mogadisho & Co.

Originally posted by Jimca Lee: God! maaskax dhaciif ah is unattractive. . Take easy buddy...No need to get nasty.We just fooling around here.

Originally posted by Caano Geel: Chez- yes please stick your non-capitalist comformism and stay away from the women, it lead to decedence and away from your virtuos path. Yeah sure blame me for this....we are Somalis, everything we initiate leads to decadence.....lol On serious note, people missed the point...Enough with cheap imitation n just strive for individualism....Thats all i was saying...N Che is no conformist and our women is way too beautiful to stay away from...They could even change the mind of a monk.

^^^^^Lead da way zu

Back off Now

^^^^^ee macbuudka...iga leexo noh....it ain't for yu...waa for cusmaanta kaa dabeensa

Do these "Agreements" ever take hold and yeild something tangible....Meelay u gooshayaan markasta!!!!! birina midkale baa xanaaqaya....n off we go to another town

Waayahe macaanto...

Daam...Waa iiga hormatay...Very unprotected indeed.

Only conformist capitlist fat pigs like Dat States would celebrate V-day. It is just a nice day to milk your wallet and why choose dat day only to express your love to your significant other. The whole thing is very scripted and very impersonal to say the least and not mention un-Islamic. Why follow the herd. Choose your own day....a perhaps a day dat represents a significant milestone in your relationship. Mine is 15 feb and it is great.....Less crowded places, empty resruarants, better service n da list goes on.

NG is on his hoenymoon in Seychelles with his second wife....Will be back soon Org...dats harsh...take it easy buddy

Originally posted by Ahura: QUOTE]* Points Che towards the politics forum * Over there, luv -----> Just disecting Somali behavior....Nothing political walaal!! Waterlily.....Facing the wrong of a gun would have definately changed anybody. Imagine getting wacked for no reason. The explanation for doing away somebody is supposedly that there are descents of mythical lost arab who came to the shores of Somalia....Geeze man, do I look Arab. MMA.....I understand where you are coming from, but there is real possiblity that he actually did it. Lets keep an open and let court deal with it.

Originally posted by The Rendezvous...: quote: TEN: I was particularly put off by this lady.I felt that we need to strive more to reduce tensions between our families.One issue that is normally forgotten is that Marriages and Love are "Nurtured" right from day one.Then there is "Sabar"(Patience).You must permit yourself to persevere a lot for "your loved one".. Do u think so? I think you are forgetting the fact it takes two to fail at relationships and marriages in particular. Be more reflective Saaxib and ask yourself is that Somali men are doing to put off our women. Don't just dump this at their feet and blame them for divorce rate.

Well Kat.....I was qabiilist and for good reason. As kid who saw the horrors of 91, everyone was forced to choose side and Hate the other side. Period, it is hard to like or respect the people who want to cut off your neck literally, or who rape your women not even leaving your 70 years granma. Before the war, I didn't know my qabiil and as kid who was born in Xamar, it didn't really matter to us. My ciyaal xaafad were more important to me than my qabiil, but sadly the very ciyaal I used to hang out with were calling me "Fa-q-ash" came 1991 and wanted my throat slit. Through experiences i do only came to dislike or even hate certain segments of Somali society soley based on their Qabiil background. Lucky for me, I grew older and wiser, and came to find out all Somalis were the same. Every Somali that took part in the massacres of innocent maryooley from Hargeysa to Kismayo can't tell why is that they had to murder their fellow Somalis and those in Xamar were no diffirent. I doubt anyone of them knew why he or she would want me dead considering the fact that I have never harmed anyone in my life and I was no fan of the Barre regime. Somalis have mob mentality. We need to break away from that and become our own individuals.

Iam just little puzzled people.....Everyone who replied to this post and that includes me sort of indicated that they are not tribalist N that's all good. Now the question is we ain't da hardcare qabiilists maryooley...who is?...n mind you we are good sample atleast to an extent of the larger somali people population that could used to measure our qabillist tendencies. What are the chances of this many Non-qabillist maryooley meeting in one place?.

When did Hannibal become the leader of The Carthaginians ? N let continue with da assissanation with theme...when was Che Guevara killed?

^^^^^Iam sure we do have a collection of sickos!!!!

Castro...We as Somalis Need Cultural Reformation. We use value system that has outlived its purpose. Essentially, the Somali race is unable to reform and move forward!!!

Very sad, but hilarious at times specially the Sikh dude, and the fat dude drove by house and saw the cops there, yet came back to the house looking for a victim...how perverted can you get. Even the presence of the cops didn't discourage this guy. N Iam happy they caught the school teacher!!!

^^^A point can be made....loooool

Well we could counter their support of sangub by coming out in support of the girl, and making our voices heard in the court and media. Hopefully Qabiilism won't undo our efforts since the brightest of us usually fall for that.

^^^^^Those were possible solutions. Somalis need to figure what is that they seek in a relationship first. Put the effort and time in your relationship and be honest with each other. These marriages fail coz the couple don't really know each other and each other's needs. As maryooley, we hurry through things,and tell each other what we want to hear not what need to be said. Only after the couple actually get married do our true personality shows up. I believe knowing the person you gonna is key to succesful marriage.

Every Society whether be Somalis or Non-Somalis are plagued by the same problems.Looking for someone else outside your culture to solve these issues is not bright idea as that someone is not immune to the very problems that you are running away from. If these women are looking for love for the right reasons.....We wish them luck and success, but if they believe men from cultures are diffirent than Faaraxs, then they might be in rude surpise. Either way, I hope they find Happiness. And as for the divorce problem among maryooley, I think Somalis jump in too quickly into everything. One must know what he or she is looking in a patner before actually commiting to marriage. Most Somalis don't take the time or make the effort to know each other's needs. You gotta figure out your own needs first and that of your patner, and then see if both of you are looking the same thing. N to do this, one must be honest!!!!!!..

Originally posted by Laba_Xiniinyood: Che , what have i said that could be counter-productive? That we should kill those who insult the prophet? Kill away buddy, Just do not say I and millions of fellow muslims don't love or respect The Prophet PBUH.