Qudhac, I wish if i had read your reply before the editing. Bs yallah inshalla next time Voltaire : "I may not agree with what you say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it" Singing : Lemme dream... Lemme dream .. 2 have a freedom in my dream...

I Lack the etiquette of staying in touch with my friends,relatives and colleagues :confused: and that's really causing me troubles. My aunts, uncles, cousins, all the da relatives keep shouting on me coz I don't answer their emails, calls, SMS, letters or postcards. My friends are fid up with me. Yesterday i took a long lecture from my Aunt, she kept cursing my mobile coz I don't answer her calls & messages and its very rare when i answer her. What to do? I think i should hire a secretary or a Tele.Operator

^^^^^ People in my dictionary are four types:- 1- People I respect, I like and I deal with'em 2- People I respect but I don't deal witht them (4 some reasons). 3- People I deal with (wenever required !!)but I don't respect them 4- People I don't respect and I dont deal with them @ All (Al labeeebo bel esharate yafhamo) People reply to each others in SOL but without mentioning their origins or where they are living in? but it seems some people are different, they CAN'T LIVE without mentioning carabaha or af carabiga :confused: I thought we are all Somali Nomads in SOL and it's not important where we are coming from or living in or what language we are using? Besides when you wanna criticize someone's mind or attitude, you have to criticize his/her mind ONLY and not his/her language, nationality or origin. Peace !!

Originally posted by GlassEyeGirl: That was hilarious Galaasiig.lol Maka weynaano miyaa this childish game of Somali men are this and Somali women are that...like we're competing for gold in Athens. GlassEyeGirl, Who said its a childish game?? Nobody is under-estimating or degrading our Somali men/guyz, but ever since I joined SOL and all the topics about da Somali Girls are tasteless yakhy. Bellah caleeki go and find a topic by a Somali girl offending our guyz. Our guyz start the harsh topics and they can't stand and tolerate when we reply'em back *7agah '3areeba wallahi* 1- Somali girls N Da clubs with Africans, Americans ,,,, etc 2- S0mali girls and the naked truth 3- Somali women weakness Go check their replies you will find few of them (Only two or three) are defending their girls, the rest are walking on the Clouds and consider themselves angels without sins or mistakes. Who protect and respect their Somali culture. Besides, when they start their own topics and they generalize all girls, we have to either ignore their posts or agree on what they say. But when we say our opinions about something related to them: Then either we hate our somali culture, or gender-bashing, or hate the somali guyz. Hello, where is the Freedom of opinion and expression !!!!!! Iam a Leo-Lady, Iam a generous and easy-going person : How about having a treaty, let's enjoy some peace. Respect and don't under-estimate the Somali girls, the Somali girls will respect you. d'accord??

Originally posted by Xoogsade: Btw, you are nice, I think somebody must have hurt your feelings Alla, Doc Xoogsade, lemme tell you the truth, can I lay down on the sofa. It happend yrs ago, i was a teenager and so pretty and fresh. I was so Active and Attractive. I was living my life and enjoying every moment. Now my tears are falling from my eyes, why have you reminded me Doctor??? I kept this in my chest all these years, i was burning from inside and trying my best to hide it. My mama kept asking me everytime she passes by me "na bal yabkan kalaya arka, na ininta waxay qiiqan ka su baxaya" She didnt know that i was burning. So painful and miserable memory. It was a rainy day, it was raining so heavily, i was in the park (awena 3ad fel park), dancing under the rain and eating a Chocola (Fat Free Chocola, note this doctor this is a very important point, the chocola was fat free one, allright). He came from nowhere, he was short, bald, skinny, with cross-eyes but he was so so so hungry. He asked me "What's your name?" i told him "Classique", he said "Galaaseeeega, cajaba rabbi, and what the hell is Galaaseeeeg". I told him "No No No its not galaseeeg its Classique sweety, Classique" Then he said " o maxad meesha aad ka qabanay" , I said "Iam waiting for my destiny here" , I met a Gypsy lady who read in her crystal ball "I will meet my husband in a park in a rainy day and dance with him under the rain" You know Doc what he did, he stole the chocola from me. Without any prior notification, he stoled it from me and run away and broke my heart. I wouldn't mind if he danced first with me then stole da Chocola but he didnt even look at me cause Iam 169Cm and he was shorter than me. Since that, i decided not to talk to strangers, or carry a chocola, or dance under da rain. Noted Doc !! When the next appointment will be :confused:

Originally posted by J11: Even in this day of 'Globalization', where - we were told that - colonialism is a thing of the past, the old colonial dogs of the west are at it(again). I don't think the Colonialism is over. It's not over, just the style of the imperialism and coloniaism has changed. Earlier the West used to invade, colonize and control others' lands and freedom by weapons,canons,bombs to control these nations. But Nowadays, the West dont colonize any land by weapons, destructions or killing; but by Debts Agreements, Westernization methods and Globalization. Even Globalization is a kind of colonialism but in a modern way. Globalization=Americanization, controling the world as per the Cowboy's rules. Believe me, sometimes i feel that the Colonialsim in old days were much better than these days, earlier the nations used to struggle for their independence for their freedom and liberty. How to defeat their enemy so that they lead their own lands, politics, economics by themselves..etc. But unfortunately, the Enemies are very smart and know how to change their ways and styles of controlling others. Nowdays, they don't control our lands but our minds. That's why we are so weak and cannot stand and defeat them. The Africans, the Muslims, the Arabs, the Asians all are controlled and can't fight for their rights, and if they speak they will be labeled by "Terrorism" or called as "The Rouge States" Anyway, simply I think if someone hurted your feet on purpose and you kept silent for that;you didnt defend your right from the first time, then don't blame that person if he spit on your face next time. African continent said "Yes" to the Slavery once, then they said "Yes" to the Colonialsim again. And now they can't run their politics after the so-called "Their independence and Freedom". I dont have any idea about the mine clearance operations in Somalia. But I heard of buyring biological and chemical European waste in the Somali Lands. Ever heard of "The North get richer and higher and the South get poorer and sicker" That's because those evils first, steal or buy the mineral resources from these weak and poor nation's in cheap prices and take them to their factories in their lands then sell it back to the weak nations in high prices. And if they have any trashs/waste they want to get rid of , they don't bury them in their oceans or lands but they send them to AFRICA (GOD When AFRICA will WAKE UP, this is making my blood boil, eeft) So, Same story but with little difference, using our land as a Basket for their Trashs. You wanna the truth : People ,The Wild Wild West is still colonizing us. Congratulations :mad:

one friend once told me : Salma : Inadeer classique our males are good men walahi, they are better than many males in this world Classique: Good men :confused: , o lesh, what they did for us, don't tell me they are leading the strongest Country in the world, don't tell me they are the greatest men on the world, don't tell me they are the bravest men on this earth. 4god sake :mad: , besides if His Majesty your husband is a nice guy it doesn't mean that all the somali men are good. Every rule has an exception, and your husband is the Only Exception in Somalia Salma: na bal listen to me carefully:- 1- Somali Man will eat anything from your hands, he doesnt ask much in food. Maybe some of them are obssesed and love Meat, Lever, Maraq and Moqma alot, but still they are not crazy about foods, anythng you give them they will eat it from your even if its poison LOL 2- The Somali man (husband) don't care about his wife's clothes inside the house. She can wear anything she wants and he doesnt ask her to wear nice, beautiful clothes all the time , full make-up, henna and blah blah blah, You don't have to be a babydoll full of colors just to please his crossed-eyez. 3- The Somali man has good relationships with his mother-out-law LOOL i mean his (Sodoh) 7amatooo ya3ni. Our men have no problems with their Sodohz. They consider them as their mothers. 4- The Somali men are not scrooge, its true they have hot-tempered personalities, they may fight with their wives about their tribes, cities back home, their bravery when they were teenagers (5re6y 6ab3an) but they don't fight about money. 5- The Somali man don't poke his nose in his wifes' concerns: who r her friends? why she is coming this time? whom you are talking to? why are you wearing this color? how much you spent on this dress? how much you have in your account now....etc 6- I know they are so tough and harsh when they say romantic words (na wan ku jecalahy eeewwwww) but wallahi they are kind. I mean this is our somali language, style and culture, this is how they say the romantic words, what we can do?? we cant change'em @ all, even if they reached the Moon. wallahi they are good Classique : Wallahi ya Salma you are dreaming, and i know you are reading my reply. So stay in love huuno

1- Disagree, its possible to change a man of course for better LOOL. Time change, weather change,seasons change, sizes change, earth change, so its ok , just work hard on your projects ladies 2- D/A, I don't have BF and i despise this term anyway, so I dont have to close any door. 3- D/A 4- D/A, In a Mental hospital :confused: , so pessimistic :rolleyes: 5- D/A, All Men are NOT da the same. Otherwise, life will be hopeless and horrible. The disagreer is out

Mashallah raganimo raganimo Merci for the replies, I appreciate them. Btw, brothers, when i asked you "Is it shame for men to cry" i meant by crying "To release the tears. It's not necessary to shout and scream while crying, i think that's why ppl consider it shame for men to cry coz they think that men will act like some women and scream while crying. I meant by crying is tears on your cheeks, That's all. 1- Ngonge: "We dont cry we punch the walls" I believe crying is better than breaking your fingers and destroying your house LOOL, Life is easy but we make it complicated 2- Alle-Ubahne: "The reasons are clear: men use their minds, not their emotions". Is it? Do you depend on your mind in everything?? I think If men depend on their minds they will be Robots only. I think men should use their minds and emotions too. 3- Viking: I agree, U know what even the Prophet (SAWS) companions Like Abo Baker Al Sadeeq and Omar Bin Al Khattab (May Allah be pleased with them) were kind-hearted and merciful men, a short verse from the Quran would shake their hearts, they cried for the muslims and if they do a small mistake or a sin. And guess what, they cried while Allah (SW) forgave them in advance and reward them the Heaven. Sometimes the situation we are living in and our Muslim brothers & sisters who are suffering around the globe in Palestine, Iraq, Afganistan, Chichan make some Men cry and feel bad and can't stop their tears. So Is it shame in this situation to cry? No its something good to feel your brother and sister everywhere. Thanx again Peace

Q: Is it shame if the Men cry? :confused: and if its so who said so?? who considered it a shameful act?? A: Yes it is a shameful act, the Society said so. Is that true, the Society said so???? But the Society is a group of individuals, People (Humans). And Humans need to cry, to release their anger, pressure,dissapointment, depression. I consider crying is a natural need just like Breathing,Food, Sleeping....etc. And crying is not always for negative things as mentioned above, but sometimes we shed tears in the peak of our happiness like succeeding in something, having a baby, seeing a friend from long time, in prayers and so on. So who said Crying is a shameful act. Anyway:- I was invited to a dinner two days back by some somali friends. Everything was cool and i was really enjoying my time till their boy (9 yrs) entered the living room crying painfully. Once we saw him, we all gathered around him and inquired from him what happened and made him cry in this way. So, before the boy start talking. His educated,so-called "diplmatic and good in relations father" suddenly yelled at his son's face and said " "shrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrp, don't cry, i don't wanna c u crying. You are a MAN, you know what is a Man. The MAN NEVER CRY :eek: besmella el raxman el raxeeem. He silent the boy with his shouting and silent all the guests who were terrified by his voice. And it took me maybe few minutes to realize what did he said and how he handled the situation. "Men Never Cry", who said so. Who said Men can't cry. Who said they can't show their tears. Who said Men can't express their feelings by crying. Yes, expressing our emotions or thoughts is not only by words, gestures or actions. Sometimes there are feelings inside the human's soul can't be expressed by words or actions. Tears are the best way to express them. Besides, HIS SON was 9 years old ONLY. Is 9 yrs old boy considered a MAN??!! Ya rabby bs, Are there men/guyz out there in this life who also shout at their sons and stop them from Crying. Now, imagine why this boy was crying? The rest of da story: Because he was beaten up by a bunch of boyz in his neighbourhood, who are older than him. Even if they are not older this is not the case, but they were group and he was alone :mad: , which i think its ok, kids always fight, its kinda normal but what counts is how the parents or school administrators handle the situation. I'am sure this kid won't refer to his dad next time if he faced any other troubles. Who knows maybe next time he will take his avenge by his hands and make a group for himself and terrify other kids. Perhaps he will grow up later while putting in his mind "Take your right by your Hand, coz MEN NEVER CRY, Coz Daddy will embarrasse me if i ask for his Help" yeah yeah And who knows maybe hundreds of men grow up in this way "Dont cry, Don't show your tears to Your dad, mom, sister, brother, wife, daughter, son" Don't show them at all. Keep them hiding. When you feel lonely, depressed or down do anything but not crying. Keep all pressure in your heart but never Cry Cause "Men Never Cry" and that's why they created Weapon of Mass Destruction LOOL Anyway, is it true "Men Never Cry" ?, would you raise your child in this way? Would you make fun of your Friend and consider him "Weak or Chicken if he cried? Do you think twice before letting your tears come out from your eyes or you just free them and feel fine about it? Do you think Tears are only for the Pinky Creatures "Women and Girls" and not made for Men? Peace

LOOL, funny 1 Thanx

Originally posted by Qacbaro: U said i don't reply to the Baro group, and yet u r replying back to me, what a contradiction, gabar yahay imaqal if u r frustrated of not finding a man, pls don't take it on us. ilaahey hakuu fududeeyo midkoo, oo frustratio kaa baabi'iyo. no one needs to reply back to ur posts, but anything posted on this forum is free for everybody, or else just pm the person u want. p.s. kaalay dadkaan carabaha dagan ma saan baa dhamaantooda lool. hey ga' iga sii so hee, kaftan lee waayo, haddaa xanaaqdidna maradaada maa ka badanee QQ have you checked your attitude here? "Frustrated bcz i couldnt get a man" is that all what you can say/comment :confused: , and what's wront with ppl from Carabaha? You always talk/attack Arabs and whoever live in their lands. What's wrong with you? Are you "Born-to-Attack" type. Anyway, i think there is no need for troubles really. Just Let's keep SOL in peace. The topic is for a specific person, if you were smart enought you would notice that. But it seems no use to draw your attention to that. No Problem @ all

Aree gabar yahay, from that statement u made, waan soo ceshtay all my faanis to u. u r one of the somali male bashers in here. [/QB] Excuse me !!!! How about keeping your faanis with you? P.S : QQ, have you noticed smsing? I reply to almost all the Members here except a group? You will know them if you are smart enough. Squeeze your brain and figure out who are they? Once you know them, i hope ALL this group's members to avoid replying to my posts in SOL as I do with their posts. Besides, i wana tell you the reasons behind Me avoiding this group:- I've noticed that in every Forum in the Net, whether English,Arabic or Somali. You will find a provoking, disturbing and pain-causing group. A group of Net-Gangesta who like to bother other members and spoil their pleasure in any Forum. Either by be-littling them, degrading their posts or making fun of them. Why, it seems that the NET is da only place to release their Anger or Madness bcz of their failure in life while being unseen and unknown from other ppl. Anyway, I hope they get treatment ASAP. But for the time being, I prefer to avoid them and they avoid me. Now I'll leave you to solve the quiz, TYT and solve well. Good Day

Her Fiance :confused: when OG will get engaged she gonna make a big party 4 all SOL nomads in a 5 star Hotel ***** like Cadaan Hotel or City Plaza in Burco or Ambassador Hotel in Hergisa Celebrities don't hide their marriages :cool: (Ouch) so kabax linka Basha. I think you are dreaming to be her Fiance just bcz i said "Tall, Handome, Gentle,Tactful and a romantic Somali Guy", man i was joking there is no Somali guy with all these good qualities. -I would believe that Dianasours exist till date. -I would believe that there is a White Raven. -I would believe that birds produce milk, but i will never believe there is somali guy with all the above mentiond qualities I can feel some mad somali guyz. It's time to vanish J/K bros don't get mad

Most welcomed, make yourself comfortable , would you like to drink smsing, a free Cano Geel for every new member

Go to Ceerigabo Barwaqo, to Daallo to Surud. You gonna enjoy alot. Stay away from the Cliff coz it has a strong gravity, its so beautiful place. My tips:- 1- Our ppl are hot-tempered, you may come across two men talking or negotiating on something, but they are shouting at the same time. So you may think that a big fight is going on. Don't worry bro, they love each others alot So don't panic. Specially in the Market, if u wanna eat xabxab or camba laf. 2- Take you own First Aid box and your own medicines, you must take them. Take panadols, syrups, pain-killer, bandages, vaslene, injuries cream, muscles cream .....etc coz there the prices of the medines are so high and also they are all from Asia (India or Pakistan). You will never find medicines from France,Germany or UK. 3- Don't trust the shops, don't drink anything you get specially in the Airports or Hotels. Check the expiry date, coz some shop-owners care only about profits. 4- Take a Video Camera, trips are great only with VC to record your memories and enjoy them later. Peace

Salam, Salut, Subax wanagsan, Habeen Wanagsan, Kamustanaqaaaa, weenich feeh ma7ad ychoofich abd?? arjo elmane3 khair Where are u girl? We don't see you much here, missing ya, log in, log in, log in, ASAP walaken:- 1- If You are studying hard, allah y36eech el 3afyah. O 3o2bal el Ph.D in Space Engineering LOL 2- If You are on your vocation, then Bon Voyage and hope you enjoy it. 3- If you are still doing Bronzage then don't get burn alot LOOOOL. 4- If you got married to a Tall, Handome, Gentle,Tactful and a romantic Somali Guy,then ulolololollololololay, durbanka garaca ,alf mabrook menech el mal o mena el ceyaaal, o eb2a shoofely law 3ando a'7 zo'3anan 7eeleewa o mereyesh o sh3ro mesebseb 3ashan a'76afo 5- If you are eating Laxooox and moqma or beer, then please send me some by DHL. 6- If you are watching Oprah Winfery Show now, naga daa inadeeer o su log-in SOL LOL 7- ama etha you decided to quit SOL like Darman, then mmmmm, i'll think how to punish you well. A Gas Chamber 3la 6areeqa el 9oomaliyaha, basawelech Somali Holocaust. A Sudani Bukhoor in Small room. Peace (Em)

Seems so depressd, the words :- 1- Started with "I wonder" and ended with "Wake UP" 2- Written with Capital Letters (Which means either angry, mad or nervous LOL) 3- Connected with each others without spaces. 4- It contains "Nightmare, misery, tears, shadow, nights,sorry, destiny,dreams, heat :rolleyes: , let's search the Utopia and i do believe in the Utopia in my own way. Buumaaye, how about:- 1- Keep in touch with the Higher and the Best Healer in this life: You can communicate with him in the prayers and his holy book. Pray bro and read some verses from the Holy Quraaan. Life is great and it has great meaning. 2- Draw a big smile on your face and say "life is lovely" 3- Change your avatar pic , maybe this is the reason behind yr misery J/K Be Happy P.S: adry adry akeeed a7d mnkom baygool "hathy metfayja o ma waraha salfa)

Xoogsade, there is no NP called "Al-Facshir" in UAE at all, but maybe IL CAPO means "AlFajer NP" (btw "AlFajer" means the Dawn). So probably he meant Al Fajer not AlFacshir. Here in UAE, the most criminal or bad Somali are those who deal with Forgery, Fights, drunk individuals or some rubbers. But not in prostitutions and such bad things. I remember a local guy who said "The somali ppl are clean from this side, but they have hot-tempered blood and they are ready for fights always , yeah i know tell me about it. But, since Somali ppl are humans ,they do mistakes and they are not perfect or angels who are without sins. So anything could be expected from them. Anyway as i said earlier i haven't heard anything about this story and i cant get any trusted source for it. So Il Capo, where did you heard this story and any source for it? It could be a rumor, who knows!! An Announcement for All SOL Nomads Dear Nomads, This News is not true for now, repeated not true, investigations are going on and you will be informed about the updates Classique Channel 5, SOL Virtual TV Abu Dhabi Island,UAE Peace nomads

Allah, how lovely, today is Friday the 13th, its a Holy its precious day. After the Friday prayer the Sermon was about appreciating, respecting and obeying the parents. And later, the lunch was Delicious biryaaani heleb, and at evening we had our weekly Islamic Lesson in The Somali Sisters Society in Abu Dhabi (SSS). A group of Somali girls from different places in Somalia. From North,south, east and West. Its a place where souls meet the minds in a nice atmosphere and harmony. "Love your sister as you love yourself" We are 16 memberes (girls only) and we meet to build a strong small society. We have vistors who are not regular members they come for listening only. We discuss suggestions and ideas of how to help our ppl in Somalia, an Islamic weekly lesson, we raise funds for the homeless and sick somalis in UAE. We teach the old Somali women the Arabic Language, Qura'an, Hadith,the Prophet's biography(PPUH)and the Islamic History. And we help some children on their studies as volanteers. Also, we run Arabic discussion Book and we work to have better projects that would help our people. It could be easy and simple things what we do, but really it makes me feel comfortable and happy. I feel happy to be with those girls and be member of this small society. The Somali woman by her study, knowlege, power, smartness, ambition,ability,work. By the way she she deals and co-operate with her husband or her ppl and the way she raise her children. If she did all that in Islamic way that satisfy ALlah and the Messenger (PPUH), she can build a strong society. You don't have to be great to start but you have to start to be great. I hope all the Somalis keep in their minds that we are all brothers and sisters in religion and soil if we are not brothers in blood Sorry for writing so long , My day was Peachy Peace Thanx Juxa

Iam in UAE but I haven't heard of this guy's news, but whether he is a single skunk or a married monster he doesnt deserve any mercy since he is after a Forbidden Fruit. Anyway what about the slut? where is she and what happened to her? Did they sentenced her 4 10 yrs too? And yes Ngonge Dubai is full of whores everywhere u go: Russians, Chinese, Euthopians, British, Israelis all kinds of nationalities, but it depends on these ladies or pimps to work either undercovered or in front of '7lg allah. So if they choose to work infront of '7lg allah, once they are caught, the Authorities will send them to a nice journey behind the Sun. waxaa la dhahe "Cimrigaaga oo Raago Geel Dhalaayo uu Ku Tusaa" Maxa yaab keenay :confused: , this is life expect the unexpected.

The worst rasicm i've ever seen is the Somali Blind Tribalism. But,I'am not gonna get mad from all the Somali ppl coz i know not ALL of them are rasicts, only the Sick-minded ppl who still live in the Dark Ages. Specially those Somalis who think themselves the purest blood in Somalia, the blue blood masters, who belittle other somalis and call them low-level ppl or without origin. I have a close friend who loved a somali guy, lets describe him this way: Muslim-Somali-Decent-handsome-funny with charming personality, who works in a good job. I know the guy personally,he is a man,a real gentleman, we rarely find men these days. We have many MALES and few good MEN. He went to her family and the family refused him coz "asal ma'aha", "what does asal ma'aha means? it means we don't know him, we don't know his parents, or ancestors, actually we don't marry from them. It's scandal to marry from them. No need to mention why they think "asal ma'aha" coz i hate this ********* . Anyway,the girl tried her best, but it seems what what is engraved in our people's mind will remain till the Doom Day probably. At the end,She had to choose between her love and her father and her family. And she choosed her family and her father's satisfaction. End of the story But does it mean she has to hate all the Somalis or only the sick minded racists. So plzzz not all Arabs are racists, as Somalia has sick-minded ppl also the arabs have Sick-minded ppl in their societies who call others Nigga, black,African or Asal ma'aha whateva the name is. Its very funny when a muslim try to convince the non-muslims that not all Muslims are terrorists nowadays. How can we convince them if some Somali muslims here are hating Arabs and calling them ALL racists??If one Sick Saudi hurted or offended Darman, it doesn't mean that all Saudis are racists. If one hopeless morrocan annoyed Dawaco or her friends, it doesn't mean that all Morrocans are racists. Understood Dear Nomads!! Peace

Iraq now is insecure place for living or working. But if you have a chance for working there, and you think its a good job wiz good Salary & allowances (Greedy Em LOOL) then the best think you do is to Pray (Estekharah Prayer) and ask Allah Al Mighty for advice. Who knows, things change so fast n this life, and Iraq may rise again and become the strongest Arab & Islamic Country, everything is possible. Very optimistic, i know i know :rolleyes:

Darman ,what do you mean by "emsek elbab"? :confused: Does it really means "Catch the Door" or as the Egyptians say "Show me your shoulder ya dal3aaadi" :rolleyes:

What is going on? but he is a Muslim. They cant behead a muslim just like that. That's against Islam. Allah yr7m al jamee3