I think some girls follow the new trends or fashions with all the negatives and positivies they have. Whatever is the fashion line they would go for it without thinking of the consequences or bad effects. For instance, earlier the big size of the woman was important for her beauty, if she is chubby or fat means she is healthy and pretty, but nowadays because all the models are tall & slim, many girls kill themselves and go for horrible diets just to fit in. The same apply on the skin color, the white woman means pretty and attractive as Somalis said (Casaan qurux kama qatana) :confused: as if being white or casan means u are the pretties woman on the earth. I think its not a matter of being in a white culture or anything, because this happens in all cultures, we have it even in Somalia as (Buufis). OG, nobody knows what is the Satan's color, but thats what the Westerns spread :The Good White man and the Bad black man. Believe me if the trend is "Be Short" some ladies and girls with no brain would cut their legs or squeeze themselves. IF the the trend is to have one Eye, the would remove the other eye with surgery. They have no problemooo at all. Its just the trend/vogue whateva

Originally posted by OG_Girl: Allah Kareem, enty sho allah 7adej treden 3ala hathelah? tra myastahelon waqtej, 5elha 3alal Allah, hthelah qom beni Israel..loooooooool Salam hala wallah weenech feeh matenchafeen abd :confused: Gelt 7g 3mry OG-Girl etsawy Bronzage o mb metfayjah 7g a7d in this Summer ana a3taqed ga3den yrmson 3n el 3arab bs 3shan yestefezona. But let it be who cares Enjoy the Summer Peace

Originally posted by Qac Qaac: by the way everone knows, KHALEEJ ARE ALL AMERICAN WANNA BEEs. whether it is the life style, or the hip hop culture. or just pure wishing of being white.. everyone knows that. why do we hide it. sorry if i offend some ppl. and if i generize. obviously not all of them, but hey if u r statistic student u would know to do things by average. and yes most of them are american wanna bees. Allah kareem, some ppl are obssessed with the Khaleeji ppl. There are many ppl out there who are imitating the Westerns and the Americans why u always concetrate on the Khaleejis or Arabs. Besides, if you are not generalizing then why are u using the word "ALL Khaleejis" :confused: When you give an info:- 1- Don't lie about it 2- Don't exaggerate 3- Be objective Peace

Originally posted by FARIID: [QB] ok seriously there are distinguishing traits that are inherent in somali's.e.g 1) self pride 2)the hair 3)the nose $) big forehead e.t.c Com'on Fariid, Hair and Nose ???????????????? I do agree totally with our International registered Trademark "BFH" the big forehead but i dont think Somali ppl have problems with their hairs and Noses. On the contrary, they have normal and acceptable hairs and noses, some have even better. What makes you a Somali? The Height :rolleyes: , we can know if it will be raining before others LOL J/K. Somalis should make the biggest Basketball team :rolleyes: FACT : Somali banana is delicious Lie : A scientific Somali research which has done recently show that the Banana is da secret behind the Height of the Somalis. They eat Banana with Bariis, Bananas with Pasto, Bananas with Maraq, Bananas with Sanoona, bananas with Bananans. Bottomline : The Banana make you a Real Slim Somali Peace

FEUDALISM : You have two cows. The lord of the manor takes some of the milk. And all the cream. PURE SOCIALISM : You have two cows. The government takes them and puts them in a barn with everyone else's cows. You have to take care of all the cows. The government gives you as much milk as you need. BUREAUCRATIC SOCIALISM : You have two cows. The government takes them and puts them in a barn with everyone else's cows. They are cared for by ex-chicken farmers. You have to take care of the chickens the government took from the chicken farmers. The government gives you as much milk and as many eggs as the regulations say you should need. FASCISM : You have two cows. The government takes both, hires you to take care of them, and sells you the milk. PURE COMMUNISM : You have two cows. Your neighbours help you take care of them, and you all share the milk. RUSSIAN COMMUNISM : You have two cows. You have to take care of them, but the government takes all the milk. DICTATORSHIP : You have two cows. The government takes both and shoots you. MILITARISM : You have two cows. The government takes both and drafts you. PURE DEMOCRACY : You have two cows. Your neighbours decide who gets the milk. REPRESENTATIVE DEMOCRACY : You have two cows. Your neighbours pick someone to tell you who gets the milk. AMERICAN DEMOCRACY : The government promises to give you two cows if you vote for it. After the election, the president is impeached for speculating in cow futures. The press dubs the affair "Cowgate". The cows are set free. INDIAN DEMOCRACY : You have two cows. You worship them LOOOOL BRITISH DEMOCRACY : You have two cows. You feed them sheep brains and they go mad. The government gives you compensation for your diseased cows, compensation for your lost income, a grant not to use your fields for anything else. And tells the public not to worry. BUREAUCRACY : You have two cows. At first the government regulates what you can feed them and when you can milk them. Then it pays you not to milk them. After that it takes both, shoots one, milks the other and pours the milk down the drain. Then it requires you to fill out forms accounting for the missing cows. ANARCHY : You have two cows. Either you sell the milk at a fair price or your neighbors try to kill you and take the cows. CAPITALISM : You have two cows. You lay one off, force the other to produce the milk of four cows. You are surprised when it drops dead. SINGAPOREAN DEMOCRACY : You have two cows. The government fines you for keeping two unlicensed farm animals in an apartment. HONG KONG CAPITALISM : You have two cows. You sell three of them to your publicly-listed company, using letters of credit opened by your brother-in-law at the bank, then execute an debt/equity swap with associated general offer so that you get all four cows back, with a tax deduction for keeping five cows. The milk rights of six cows are transferred via a Panamanian intermediary to a Cayman Isands company secretly owned by the majority shareholder, who sells the rights to all seven cows' milk back to the listed company. The annual report says that the company owns eight cows, with an option on one more. Meanwhile, you kill the two cows because the Feng Shui is bad. LOOOL ENVIRONMENTALISM : You have two cows. The government bans you from milking or killing them. TOTALITARIANISM : You have two cows. The government takes them and denies they ever existed. Milk is banned. POLITICAL CORRECTNESS : You are associated with (the concept of "ownership" is an outdated symbol of your decadent, warmongering, intolerant past) two differently-aged (but no less valuable to society) bovines of non-specified gender. They get married and adopt a calf. COUNTER CULTURE : Wow, dude, there's like ... these two cows, man. You got to have some of this milk. SURREALISM : You have two giraffes. The government requires you to take harmonica lessons.

So impressive words bro Nur, barak allah feek

Somali ppl in UAE will consider you a Somali if you know who is your Grandpa no. 30. All your ancestors must be known 2 them. The proof of your identity is "Your glorious Family Tree" (Granpdpa no.30, 4 god sake :confused: ) Who cares if you look like an Alien from Mars, or speak chinese, or your mama is a Blonde. As long as you carry a Somali Soul then you are a Somali. Do you feel u are a Somali from your deep inside? Peace

I dont think i will agree ever to be a 2nd wife. Not even talking to a married guy. But since i can't control my destiny and i don't know what life is hiding for me. I wish all married guyz enjoy their marriage life and be happy with their wives

Originally posted by Viking: Em, May Allah (SWT) bless her. I'd probably move to Qom and take up theology :cool: Thanx bro, May Allah bless all Muslims everywhere (Dead or Alive). Curiosity killed the cat (Moi) Why specially Qom? why not Al Madina, Mecca or anywhere else? Are u a Shi'ite Bro

If i only met my Grandma b4 she dies, but "If" never change anything. I remember her telling my father (her last son) "War caruurtada i kin, war ciyalaka i tus". If iam back to 16 i would insist to meet my GM. Its not enough 4 me to see her photo only or to listen to her voice in cassettes Allah yr7mha we yr7m amwatna wa amwat el moslemeen, Ameen. PEACE

but Allah said " Al-rejalo qawamonah 3ala al-nesa" so is clear he have to take care of her but not opposite as many men believe. [/QB] OG, u know exactly how some men explain this verse. They think this "Sweet Creature called WOMAN" is available only for their service and pleasure and thats it. There are many things man should consider not only with his wife, but also with his mother,sisters,daughters..etc. I think if every family raise their boys that the girls or women should be respected,understood and give them care and concetration, this will make the whole story easy for them when they get married. But because some of the families teach the boy that the girls (sisters) are their for his service only, and they as boys dont have to do anything in the house, no cleaning, no taking care of the house holds, nothing, they order his sisters things like:- 1- Go get a glass of water to your brotha (Why cant he get a glass of water 4 himself?) 2- Go clean your brothers' rooms. (Can't he depend on himself and clean his room?) 3- Dont speak when your brother is speaking. 4- Some parents go to the side of their sons against their daughter without knowing the story or what happened....etc So i think what makes the man a real gentleman who respects his wife, care for her, support and understand her is related somehow to what he was taught about women and girls in his childhood. Families should teach their sons to :- 1- Not call their sisters with provocative names that she hates or doesnt like. 2- Respect their sisters wishes, interests, concerns. 3- Try to understand their sisters. 4- Don't shout on her sister in front of others, don't embarrase her. If there is any problem between you and her, try to make it private and take her somewhere, discuss things and solve problems 5- Take care of your sister when she is sick, bothered, bored, feel lonely, scared, needs help, needs encourgment or advice. In brief, b your sister's first friend. That will help you be your wife's friend. Believe me when the boy is taught how to respect women, appreciate them and how to deal with them from his childhood, things will be easier in his marriage life. Why?? Bcz he get used to it in his childhood, so its not weird or difficult at all to help his wife in house or any thing else. So i hope the parents and families in addition to the beautiful values they are teaching their sons, i hope they add something called "How to deal with the women". Personally, i love to be the Queen in my house. I don't like the assistance of any maid/servants. I don't think its a matter of maids or cleaners, but a matter of co-operation between the married couples. If we just imitate the Prophet (PPUH) in everything, life will be a great thing. PEACE

LOOL Ngongy, enta bethat, it seems to me u are one of those. A cup of tea in one hand and the Dacas with the other hand, "Na ciyalka naga amuse, shhhidh" Dunno what makes me remember Qabyo-1 and "The Pasta Plate" in Maxamood's hands :confused:

Nice topic Thanx. The topic title is "Dear Muslim Husbands" so where are the muslim husbands & bros here? I see two girls replied only :confused: I know i know dont tell me , they are so busy in their jobs,schools,univs. and rooms.

Em = Vivante

masal ful wel yasmin lenas el7elween

Its an article written by Betina Peters (dunno if iam writing her name correctly) about the Use of Mass Media, Media Corruption and the Freedom of the Press.

Originally posted by Nur: Johnny Boy and EM Wecome gentlemen, it is an honour to have guys like you in our party visit, your attendance is appreciated. Nur Bro Nur, actually Iam not a Gentleman, Iam a Marwo and Johny Boy is a Mudane Do you need any assistance for dis party? *aweny gemt asa3ed*

LOOOOOL he3he3he3 5af Allah ya Darman, is this a Python or a Rattle Snake??!! :eek: PEACE between the وريات

Originally posted by SHOOBARO: [QB] ciisa mu diin wa muusa bu diin (with ur business) brah no affence sho ha elamthaal? Mr. Shobaro i know Patience is a Virtue ( I dont know why ppl cant practice what they preach), but i hope the Website move to the new servers in less time than this. I mean this is our virtual community and we wish da best for it Are u an Admin Shaboro?

Originally posted by maansoor: correct me if I'm worng Em, but isn't Farax and Afrax not just Somali names but also male names? Thanx SisShade appreciate it. I forgot to add:- 1- Amran 2- Xalan Mansoor, Farax/Afrax/Ifrax is an Arabic name from the word Farax (Happiness or Joy) these names are for females. Now for Farax (da female) u have to say it fast dont pronounce it like Faaaaraaaax. Farax for the males is diffenet, its a pure Somali name i think it means : Baraka or Bless, not sure. Merci

Haih OG u are right, Dahabo is from the Gold. U know what, i advice u to wear "badla mo'9ada lel ra9a9" for safety and security ya3ni. N case some ppl shoot you with their HEAVY words. waboooyeh, et3aqdty wenty fe 3ezy shababek, meno lelah ele kany elsabab

We are moving to new servers. Please bare with us. How long does it take to move to new servers?? Special prize for the right answer Whats going on, its been more than a month now?? -------> passing the MIC to the Admin. Peace

Originally posted by OG_Girl: quote: mn 9ejech,lesh?? bey'3taloch? LOOOOOL yaqool ana mo somaliya walla ma a7eb ahaly. o ana sa'3eerah, howa shaf shahadat melady ..LoooL LOOOL, 7a6ech fe balah 3del kana allah fel 3oon OG-Girl.

allaw na astor. no more to say LOL @ beroo7 bedam nafdeek Ya Saddam. and next day belgazma eladeema

Originally posted by OG_Girl: LoooooL@ Em. * Don't suprise girl, masa7tah , 5oft 3ala 3omry * Salam mn 9ejech,lesh?? bey'3taloch? LOOOOOL