Saalixa

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  1. lucky, maybe u and i is all we need? mybe if we start from here we could really make a big difference?(ok maybe i am dreamin and need to cum back to earth)but really our community is really into trouble these days and we need to stop and think........then do the turnover. And lucky most of the time even if ur parents/ guardian are there for u every min every step, it doesnt help. It really depends on the individual. salamz.
  2. lucky, maybe u and i is all we need? mybe if we start from here we could really make a big difference?(ok maybe i am dreamin and need to cum back to earth)but really our community is really into trouble these days and we need to stop and think........then do the turnover. And lucky most of the time even if ur parents/ guardian are there for u every min every step, it doesnt help. It really depends on the individual. salamz.
  3. lucky, maybe u and i is all we need? mybe if we start from here we could really make a big difference?(ok maybe i am dreamin and need to cum back to earth)but really our community is really into trouble these days and we need to stop and think........then do the turnover. And lucky most of the time even if ur parents/ guardian are there for u every min every step, it doesnt help. It really depends on the individual. salamz.
  4. lucky, maybe u and i is all we need? mybe if we start from here we could really make a big difference?(ok maybe i am dreamin and need to cum back to earth)but really our community is really into trouble these days and we need to stop and think........then do the turnover. And lucky most of the time even if ur parents/ guardian are there for u every min every step, it doesnt help. It really depends on the individual. salamz.
  5. Saalixa

    Hijaabed Hair

    ilhaam how about plaitening it. not the type that requires alot of work but the simple ponytail style. i know you'll be like thats gonna make me look like a kid but its betters than the bun. I hate the bun style, it gives me a headach and my hairs alwayz in plaits. but Doesnt the hijab look much better when u have ur hair in a bun? kind of more posh posh? na'mean? :confused: well thats the only suggestion i came up wit which i know isnt much of a help.
  6. mizz unique these are the women warriors i look up to: 1. My mother as i believe she was a very strong and loving person. She has raised by herself me and my bros-sisters without a father after our daddy died 2.All the women that lived in the prophets time esp AISHA. 3.Edna Aden courageous and has done alot for somali's in Hargeysa esp protecting women's rights. and many more pious and religious women who have taught me how to grow up to be a strong, respected and practicing muslim.
  7. LS dont like flirts :mad: never liked flirts dont trust flirts byyyyyyyyyyye
  8. muraad firstly thank u for that beneficial story. all that is true and will happen. the richest man on earth will inevitably die and end up sleeping next to the poorest man. Infact i think it being unlucky if ur rich, because those that have wealth, their judgement will be longer and worse than that of the poor.thats why everyday we should remind ourselves of prayer and death and do as our prophet ASW said: think this life as a journey, he said and look at the world today. People work like they're going to live forever trying to maximise their wages by maximising worktime and in the end they leave with nothing. Subhan Allah!
  9. silent sistah i agree that not everybody should be catergorised as hypocrites, i admit taht there are some somali's that dont take notice of qabils and clans but majority rules and the majority of the somali community are bloody all racist, jelous and all have hatred for one another. Thats what i meant and it shouldnt be the case, especially with the new young generation. If they dont adapt a new way of thinking then there never will be peace. and as u know there isnt peace anywhere somali's live. ITs time we found out what's causing all the corruption with somali's with whereever they live.
  10. salam, as a girl who's grown in the west, iam so disappionted in my ppl. i see so many somali's arriving to australia and mansha allah they are so religious at the beginning and pious. mansha allah. well then a year or two passes and they are like totally transformed from the beautiful sincere noble ppl to bloody so called 'THUGZ', and for the girls starting to love losers like ja rule, p diddy (sometimes they even fight over them and its like akhas)changing the look, the hairstyle, the walk, the talk, forgeting bout their religion n culture. the girls they all first take off the long hijab into a more westernized style, then put the khimar at the back of their necks and in the end are attending endless arosses without their hijab. i seen so many guys on the streets or the bus-trainstation with blond chickz. and some of them half the time he's all over her while she's acting all uncomfortable to be around or seen with this black, thicked accent guy. and as soon as they see me u can imagine the picture, they hit the wheels taking the nearest corner. i feel so sad, so sad to see my ppl this way. instead of making something of ourselves while in a western country so that we could go back and support our country, we abuse the chance we are given. so many are in need of education in somalia and would do anythign to learn and break out of the ignorance world. yet we abuse wat we have, and i would like to know why we are this way. i have indian and chinese friends at college and they are all thinking bout what they are going to do to better thier nations. i....have got nobody to share this conversation wit. i posted this on the teens section to tell all ya teens to remeber ur religion,culture and education are extremely important at that age. know ur priorities before its too late and lets make a beter impression of our community insha allah. salamz [ August 17, 2003, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: Mursal ]
  11. salam, as a girl who's grown in the west, iam so disappionted in my ppl. i see so many somali's arriving to australia and mansha allah they are so religious at the beginning and pious. mansha allah. well then a year or two passes and they are like totally transformed from the beautiful sincere noble ppl to bloody so called 'THUGZ', and for the girls starting to love losers like ja rule, p diddy (sometimes they even fight over them and its like akhas)changing the look, the hairstyle, the walk, the talk, forgeting bout their religion n culture. the girls they all first take off the long hijab into a more westernized style, then put the khimar at the back of their necks and in the end are attending endless arosses without their hijab. i seen so many guys on the streets or the bus-trainstation with blond chickz. and some of them half the time he's all over her while she's acting all uncomfortable to be around or seen with this black, thicked accent guy. and as soon as they see me u can imagine the picture, they hit the wheels taking the nearest corner. i feel so sad, so sad to see my ppl this way. instead of making something of ourselves while in a western country so that we could go back and support our country, we abuse the chance we are given. so many are in need of education in somalia and would do anythign to learn and break out of the ignorance world. yet we abuse wat we have, and i would like to know why we are this way. i have indian and chinese friends at college and they are all thinking bout what they are going to do to better thier nations. i....have got nobody to share this conversation wit. i posted this on the teens section to tell all ya teens to remeber ur religion,culture and education are extremely important at that age. know ur priorities before its too late and lets make a beter impression of our community insha allah. salamz [ August 17, 2003, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: Mursal ]
  12. salam, as a girl who's grown in the west, iam so disappionted in my ppl. i see so many somali's arriving to australia and mansha allah they are so religious at the beginning and pious. mansha allah. well then a year or two passes and they are like totally transformed from the beautiful sincere noble ppl to bloody so called 'THUGZ', and for the girls starting to love losers like ja rule, p diddy (sometimes they even fight over them and its like akhas)changing the look, the hairstyle, the walk, the talk, forgeting bout their religion n culture. the girls they all first take off the long hijab into a more westernized style, then put the khimar at the back of their necks and in the end are attending endless arosses without their hijab. i seen so many guys on the streets or the bus-trainstation with blond chickz. and some of them half the time he's all over her while she's acting all uncomfortable to be around or seen with this black, thicked accent guy. and as soon as they see me u can imagine the picture, they hit the wheels taking the nearest corner. i feel so sad, so sad to see my ppl this way. instead of making something of ourselves while in a western country so that we could go back and support our country, we abuse the chance we are given. so many are in need of education in somalia and would do anythign to learn and break out of the ignorance world. yet we abuse wat we have, and i would like to know why we are this way. i have indian and chinese friends at college and they are all thinking bout what they are going to do to better thier nations. i....have got nobody to share this conversation wit. i posted this on the teens section to tell all ya teens to remeber ur religion,culture and education are extremely important at that age. know ur priorities before its too late and lets make a beter impression of our community insha allah. salamz [ August 17, 2003, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: Mursal ]
  13. salam, as a girl who's grown in the west, iam so disappionted in my ppl. i see so many somali's arriving to australia and mansha allah they are so religious at the beginning and pious. mansha allah. well then a year or two passes and they are like totally transformed from the beautiful sincere noble ppl to bloody so called 'THUGZ', and for the girls starting to love losers like ja rule, p diddy (sometimes they even fight over them and its like akhas)changing the look, the hairstyle, the walk, the talk, forgeting bout their religion n culture. the girls they all first take off the long hijab into a more westernized style, then put the khimar at the back of their necks and in the end are attending endless arosses without their hijab. i seen so many guys on the streets or the bus-trainstation with blond chickz. and some of them half the time he's all over her while she's acting all uncomfortable to be around or seen with this black, thicked accent guy. and as soon as they see me u can imagine the picture, they hit the wheels taking the nearest corner. i feel so sad, so sad to see my ppl this way. instead of making something of ourselves while in a western country so that we could go back and support our country, we abuse the chance we are given. so many are in need of education in somalia and would do anythign to learn and break out of the ignorance world. yet we abuse wat we have, and i would like to know why we are this way. i have indian and chinese friends at college and they are all thinking bout what they are going to do to better thier nations. i....have got nobody to share this conversation wit. i posted this on the teens section to tell all ya teens to remeber ur religion,culture and education are extremely important at that age. know ur priorities before its too late and lets make a beter impression of our community insha allah. salamz [ August 17, 2003, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: Mursal ]
  14. raxmah, i cant belive some of them are actually true but thats so easy to do. mansah allah Allah has made it so easy for us yet we still dont take realise it let alone perform some of the things you've mentioned. ps now i know that we could perform jihad alot easier than men.i still can't believe it! that we perform it just by that little deed.man getting married isnt that bad after all :eek: :eek: :eek: Jazaka Allah Sis
  15. guraad, walahi u make me laugh so hard. i mean to so u so hurt bout the idea of sland breaking away and always posting these kind of topics. u seem to think bout nothingelse but slland. give up brother sand gone forever
  16. lo @ mystery, walahii all u said is true and who is this mina, and does she even have a surname?iam not waisting my energy talking bout this coz its not worth, anything but hargaisa being a clan based region. iam getting sick and tired of ppl bad mouthin s/land. why are ppl so jealous? when would they leave my land alone?theres a democracy in s/land, and any person wit a brain wouldnt believe all the crap u posted gurad. get sumthin realistic or least believable. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
  17. aight i might be obesessed but common theres no name better than RAYANNA which is the name to one of the doors to jannah. Name ur child that and it will open the door to all the bleesings for ur new child. But if u still have doubts this is another suggestion which nobody has mentioned and should have. How about FURQAN ? well good luck and make sure u help out ur wife and dont leave all the housework or diaper changing onn her.
  18. what a story, sure it's ture conspiracy. i mean we sistahs cannot be that cruel. but what a smart hell of a sistah. iam happy she did the dumping before him. i mean lets get real he would have one day did the same anyway coz we know most of the time it doesn't work out so atleast she did it. :cool: men will always be men. Neither religious or not, handsome or ugly, rich or poor. the religious ones have two three wives when they cant afford it and dont even need to. they say the religion allows it but misinterpret the Quran or hadith. the handsome ones think the world revovles sorund them with thier so called ghetto talk, walk and dresscode. plz most of the time they arent even goodlooking. but in conclusion not all mens are cheaters. those that have respect and perserverance. And no again they aren't the reliogious ones rather guys that are descent, downtoearth, and intelligent. and not all women are players too. at the end of the day it's a matter of jugding everyone as an individual.
  19. AMENA, SIS thank u very much for sharing with us the article, its a good reminder or perhaps implications to all those SOMALI SISTAS WHO ARE ASHAMED of their hijab. they dont know the gift they have. i an idividual love and die for my hijab because i know the value it has. it wont attract guys of course but it will keep me covered from the evil eyes. girls that wear the hijab are less likely to be abused threatened in public or even raped. So why risk ur life. and thats only on earth what bout the Aakhira? most girls dont look at that or dont take it seriously, and its them that will get the punishments. they say " i will wear it when i get married, first let me enjoy my life a little while" crap!! theres no enjoyment or happiness in life. people just see u wit out the hijab everyday and ur like a piece of tomatoe, open to the public. ps. i dont want pple (girls) eating me alive after reading my comment. thats just my opinnion.i have many friends who dont wear the hijab but are good muslim and man they are better than the ones that do.on the contarery u all can think different have ur voice,providing i wont be accountable on day of jugde infront of allah for covering the truth!!!
  20. paltalk, ok so u want s/land to comply, u want them dont u? u need them, so just admit it. the fact that they have peaceful land with no warlords, ppl livin together side by side wit respect and equality, doesnt mean that u have to be jealous of them. so don't be jealous rather try to promote peace instead of badmouthing and commenting on other nation. infact is there first of all a goevernment in Somalia now, so why would s/land even think about joining it? fix ur problems then cum assult s/land. paltalk how old r u anyway? u must be a child talking such way! use ur mind when u talk bout politics. (if u know what that is).
  21. nuune, sorry to comment since u said that tis topic's only for the "fellas" but i couldnt leave before giving u a comment. first i thought u were 1 of the religious fellas, second all the things u said bout us arent purely true, cummon u know it, and like were gonna buy it? thirdly i dont think u know how to write a report after u ve performed that experiment ur conclusion was out of place. Brother if u want us to belive u on your findings and arguements for god's sake be a bit realistic. u performed the experiment on UR lover! 12 times! poor girl!
  22. Xalimo, i love somaliland too infact iam gonna visit beautiful HARGEYSA in year time and i so cannot wait. the last time i visited was back in 1995 but i have being seeing sum pics and wedding videos and i tell ya alot has changed so i need to get updated. And to mention i love and respect every part of Somalia either north sout east or west. Every place of it is my homeland, including Beautiful Kismaayo, were the best beaches are. So may Allah bless our Land not just S/land. We have the land but we dont have the right people. salams!
  23. oh iam offended thats an insult to every woman.........but i cant deny it, that was funny........but i hope sum guys dont fall for it
  24. suban, i wished i lived londan, but now i praising Allah that i live in Australia. lol funny story though
  25. SALAM i myself a somali have seen so many of my people talking so much of their qabils while mocking bout other qabils. Its strange since somalis think themselves as very religious ppl but still practice such sinfull acts. Its become so common that Somali women dont make friends wit any other women than the ones in her Qabiil and Somali men dont sit at barjaha or maqaxiyadaha wit other men that arent of his qabil. So many parents also dont give their daughters to any man other than that of their tribe. so iam wondering........ are we hypocrites after all since we catagorise ourselves into clans and think reer hebel are better than reer hebel. my friend was in her school in which she learns quraan and taafsir when her very religious teacher asked her what qabil she is. the girl replied iam a muslim shiekh he wouldn't stop and asked her agian she replied iam somali hell dont u get it(as she was gettin frustrated) and he laghed and asked her Atheer why are u shamed of ur Qabiil, ur Qansax arent u? my friend was so angry at this stage thinkin that now she should think it a shame if u dont know bout clans. never hearing of tribes she thought the man said @$%^@# (derogatory) she decided to walk out of the Madrasada. so when will somalis grow out of this qabil thing? :confused: :confused: :confused: [ November 11, 2006, 04:11 AM: Message edited by: Nur ]