loool..war hedhee caruurtaa ha naga waalin...i think some impressionable youths will actually take u SERIOUSLY..i wouldn't want to know where the aftermath of that situation will get them :rolleyes:

Originally posted by hoda: HI THERE PPL JUST WANTED TO SAY WHY OUR 80% OF OUR SOMALI GIRLS ARE SCARED TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. *Reaction*= :eek: :eek: :eek: ..maybe this is some boisterous xalimo humour i wasn't informed about! my sister...think twice before u post a topic..am sure people before me have given u a grilling u deserve..but it aint OVER TILL THE FAT LADY SINGS (aniga in this case )...i think ama keep it short for u PREMARITAL SEX = XARAM = PROHIBITED= MA DHICI KARTOO = NARTAA V.I.P TICKET BA U HEYSTAA (UNLESS u sincerely repent and the almighty forgives u...then again u can never know...so dont risk it...correct me if am wrong guys) its a simple guideline...u either follow it or u don't...but don't think of it as something light or casual...there are serious consequences in the hereafter...MAY ALLAH SHOW U THE ST8 PATH MY LOST SISTER

Originally posted by hoda: HI THERE PPL JUST WANTED TO SAY WHY OUR 80% OF OUR SOMALI GIRLS ARE SCARED TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. *Reaction*= :eek: :eek: :eek: ..maybe this is some boisterous xalimo humour i wasn't informed about! my sister...think twice before u post a topic..am sure people before me have given u a grilling u deserve..but it aint OVER TILL THE FAT LADY SINGS (aniga in this case )...i think ama keep it short for u PREMARITAL SEX = XARAM = PROHIBITED= MA DHICI KARTOO = NARTAA V.I.P TICKET BA U HEYSTAA (UNLESS u sincerely repent and the almighty forgives u...then again u can never know...so dont risk it...correct me if am wrong guys) its a simple guideline...u either follow it or u don't...but don't think of it as something light or casual...there are serious consequences in the hereafter...MAY ALLAH SHOW U THE ST8 PATH MY LOST SISTER

Originally posted by hoda: HI THERE PPL JUST WANTED TO SAY WHY OUR 80% OF OUR SOMALI GIRLS ARE SCARED TO HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE. *Reaction*= :eek: :eek: :eek: ..maybe this is some boisterous xalimo humour i wasn't informed about! my sister...think twice before u post a topic..am sure people before me have given u a grilling u deserve..but it aint OVER TILL THE FAT LADY SINGS (aniga in this case )...i think ama keep it short for u PREMARITAL SEX = XARAM = PROHIBITED= MA DHICI KARTOO = NARTAA V.I.P TICKET BA U HEYSTAA (UNLESS u sincerely repent and the almighty forgives u...then again u can never know...so dont risk it...correct me if am wrong guys) its a simple guideline...u either follow it or u don't...but don't think of it as something light or casual...there are serious consequences in the hereafter...MAY ALLAH SHOW U THE ST8 PATH MY LOST SISTER

Originally posted by OG_Girl: lol@Moti and his chicken . all i know r my father and my brothers. My father is the best husband and best father.Also my brothers r nice and funny like Moti . (they r somali males too ) So sis/bro no need to generize i am so sure ur father is great father too. salam OG...ur brothers are LIKE Moti miyaa??? Sheekaa heysaa!! i think i know otherwise (remember that place where PAL s TALK ... sorry didn't mean to lose track of the topic...You3...sista i think Men will only do WHAT U ALLOW..and relationships are a two way street..u both have to be dedicated..it shouldn't be a burden on 1 party.. be careful who u marry or befriend...there are twisted people out there

First person that springs to mind is my DAD...he's one of the coolest folks around...there's nothing i can't talk to him about (ooh except boyfriends...it would feel hella awkward :eek: )he'll do everything in his power to get me outta trouble(not that i ever get in any)...then there's my MOM....she just has a tendency to blow everything out of proportion , nevertheless I LUV HER 2 BITS and i know i can count on her to keep my affairs on the LOW

Mashallah...congrats to u all for doing urself justice and for making the family proud..i feel so much *luv* in the atmosphere...am overwhelmed by how u guys treat eachother..very refreshing..it is really pleasant(for the eyes) to see encouraging folks Shout out 2 all those in L.S.E...U.C.L...and S.A.O.S......how could i forget the Queen Mary STARS and the university of hertforshire Heads...my peoples still struggling with A levels ...STAY FOCUSED [ June 10, 2003, 08:20 PM: Message edited by: Infatua.5an ]

Originally posted by pearl_shyte: while on the other hand....just a nice smile will do...unless ur freaky urself and want to really get his attention...then i suggest..Flaunt ur hair ,..giggle a lot…and sit on his lap the first chance u get….that sure to work but the aftermath could be devastating to ur reputation... rule number 1 (the only rule) NEVER degrade urself in pursuit of attention **word is**...they do like melt over a killer smile...i don't know 'bout u....but it WORKS FOR ME

Getting a black eye for LACK OF communication is NOT justifiable..no woman should have to put up with that sort of behaviour...that’s just plain wrong (even if she did ask for it)...inhale, exhale...and get out of the situation before u commit an act u'll deeply regret

loool@ revenge..u do know its best served cold right?? lol...naa really ur girl should move on with her life...there are plenty more fish in the polluted sea..tell her to keep her chin up and walk with that Somali pride...keep in mind that everything happens for a REASON

Originally posted by Baashi: Infatua.5an, I like jokes too and I do check the Jokes thread quite often. I’ve even become a fan of underdog’s posts. Now! Whether u r stressed, bored, or generally don’t like to engage the rational debates, u wouldn’t, I take it, label a hater the person who disagrees with u when, if by any chance, u do have discussion with some1 with different point of view. U don’t have to be impolite, judgmental, or mean person to make ur point. I’ve made an observation and wondered… That’s where I’m coming from sxb. U don’t have to agree. Baashi I don’t have to agree... However, this time I choose to...disagreement is a bliss in my eyes...it’s what differentiates u from me...all we can do is respect and tolerate our diverse perspectives... Further more who cares if someone classifies u a ‘Hater’??..u shouldn't be living in this world for a mere human being's approval...ilahey le ka baq..words won't kill u

Originally posted by Silent_Guy: I think the exact translation of PLEASE in somali will be ADIGOO RAALIYA, if you say that's too long, not a single word, then look in French PLEASE means s'il vous plait or s'il te plait , which means if it pleases you!. So I think though I'm not a master in Somali, it's ADIGOO RAALIYA ama ADIGOO RAALI AH. Adigo raali ah comes extremely close...lakiin an exact translation of ‘please’ probably doesn’t exist in our vocabulary

Man of Freedom..this topic seems very ambiguous...i think u need to hit me on the head with ur dacas...'cause unfortunately..me no comprende (be gentle though am very fragile)

Actually this is something I’ve always thought of...i don’t see myself giving birth(i know it's not good to say that)...the whole concept scares the living daylights out of me...this is my phobia...I recall once fainting back in school while watching an abortion video :eek: ..u think I can put up with BIRTH???..God bless all the courageous sistas out there..it takes balls! ilahey ha idiin sahlooo ( amiin dhahaa)..back to the topic..and I would definitely consider adopting a child...

Originally posted by Ameenah: Originally posted by Sophist: [qb] However, I hope this doesn't in anyway commit me to a 'nacamle' type of agreement with you (Heaven forbid!!). As much as I respect your peculiare views, I would hate to frequent agreements with you as this might put my life time membership @ the inner city kids anti elitist club *joke* Note to self: be very vigilant of who you agree with Kidding bro. Easy ^^^^^ what a cold sista..ouch back to the topic.....Baashi...my brotha I don’t think all of us come here for the mere intellectual stimulation...I know when I log on am generally tired and in no mood (or fit state) to engage a rational debate with a fellow nomad...lighter weight topics seem to appeal to me...& it doesn’t hurt to crack a joke every now and then...whether it’s frivolous issues or prevalent ones...it’s all healthy

I am Somali...My people are Somalis...I don’t see what’s so mind jerking about it :confused: ...but I presume it’s in our nature to complicate everything!

Somali’s aren’t a complete burden to the system...not everyone is on WELFARE dammit..there are many self-reliant folks who work for many hours (sometimes multiple jobs a day) to support themselves as well as family back home..these damn reporters need to get CHECKED :mad: :mad: ...and honestly some of my people need to fix up... If ur physically and mentally fit I don’t see why u can’t get a job...I guess this is where somali pride gets In the way ...am sayin’ worst come to worst u’ll be cleaning a bathroom (aniga musquul ma hagjinaye)it’s earning a living..others humans do it.. (like anigu )

Originally posted by Miss abuser: where eals ...THERE IS NO PLACE LIKE HOME...I mean our home land..all the way to "GALKACYO" PACE AND LOVE TO ALL HAVE SAFE HOLLDAY What's this i hear?? another head going to the BIG 'G'...a survival tip: watch out for the KANEECO's...i hear its a killer

LoooL@ Ilhaam don’t patronise me dee abaayo...i couldn’t get my creative juices flowing..so I decided to be an ordinary Somaliyad “LAME” Hijabified my nick is pretty self-explanatory once u take out the ‘5an’ and replace it with ‘tion’

HAHAHAH...my fav has to be the R kelly remix...that was mad funny and frighteningly true...i got to HIDE the kids (War Ahmed, Mohamed iyo Mahmoud...guuriga so galaa) 2 Kids and the Daddy..damn i feel like am raising 10 children

hahahaha..how did i know the poor clintons

** looks around, ok.. the coast is clear** *Whispers* am trying to be as inconspicuous as possible...my name says it all..and NO am not willing to reveal the first letter...they be stalkers out there...and frankly am SCRUURED

W.salaam.Wr.wb Buuto Mashallah..all the sister’s here have already taken the words right out of my mouth (and maybe added a few things I didn’t know myself :cool: ) ...good topic though sis...I can proudly say a learnt a thing or two...Jazaka allaha Kheyr

QUOTE]Originally posted by 2real: Exactly 120 miles max. hehehe ...Blackplanet members know what I'm talking about. ahahahahaahha....not even that far...how does the boy next door sound???..Hell no... on the real...i don't associate with Locals...so to find a mate...i would look in the opposite direction..perhaps somewhere deep in the AMAZON...and rumour has it there are men on MARS :eek: , bal aan so firiiyo JOKE... I don’t know about u guys...but I’ll sit here and wait for the guy that has the right keys for all my locked compartments (wonder how long that will take though..hmm)..if he’s the one...distance would certainly not be an issue...

Loving someone is pretty innocent voluntary act (innocent but VERY REAL)..i mean u love ur parents..ur siblings...ur friends and etc. But when ur “In Love” with someone...ur judgements are usually clouded due to the intoxicating state u got urself in (love makes u lose control of ur faculties)...or atleast that’s how I perceive it from the distance I stand (by choice)...now could an expert further elaborate on this TOPIC...plse dee ....