Sincere Posted August 19, 2004 The older the berry the sweeter the juice....mase was it the blacker the berry... 7 walaal if he's "insensitive", being vindictive will not resolve anything.If anything it will result in long lasting emotional scars. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GlassEyeGirl Posted August 19, 2004 Originally posted by Baashi: Let's hear from the ladies, in unison chant , that polygamy is valid and there is nothing foolxumo about it at all. Some of the qallanjooyinka find it very difficult to concede that point. Salaamu Aleykum wr wb, I think it all comes down to personal preference, and what your parents and the enviroment you live in have taught you about polgamy. Althought polgamy is allow in Islam, I personally think it's foul act. It's cruel to many loving women who are left alone to raise x# of kids while their beloved husbands are having good time with their new prides. What is good for the gander isn't necessarily good for the goose in this day in age. I know a lots of kids who resent their fathers for abandoning their mothers to marry another woman, and wives who stay in an unhappy unions to avoid "breaking up" the family iyo sidaysan magac xumo isugu soo jidin as if it's their fault inuu ninkaadii imaan laawe noqday. It takes strong woman with strong Imam to accept polgamy the way Allah (swt) intended. But it's not something maseerley/selfish Xalimo like myself can accept as personal choice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gediid Posted August 19, 2004 7 of 9 said Q for the guys . *Trying to add fuel to fire*. Which one would you rather have - a 2002 model Toyota Corrolla or a late 80ties Mercedes Benz? .... yeah... I thought so too. Any answers??? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rahima Posted August 20, 2004 I personally think it's foul Sister, Allah does not sanction/make halaal anything which is foul. Say that you would not like to be part of a polygamous marriage, but keep in mind that Allah in his infinite wisdom has allowed it for a purpose. To say otherwise would be to question the word of Allah, and as you might know we are merely human beings who have no business doing that (if we know what is good for us). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khayr Posted August 20, 2004 Originally posted by Discreet1: The older the berry the sweeter the juice.... Bisinkaaa, :eek: :eek: :eek: WHERE DID YOU GET THIS FROM cause if thats the case then, we should leave your 'young, university student, independent women chanting Xalimoos' ALONNNNNNE and go after SINGLE MADDDDA'S! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Serenity- Posted August 20, 2004 ^^ Precisely my point.... double standards :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Odd Posted August 23, 2004 Why doesn’t he have his wife as a best friend? What will he talk about with another woman that he can’t talk about with his wife? :confused: I dont see the point in having a female best friend while being married! :rolleyes: In my dictionary there IS nothing called best friend with the opposite gender, period! FINITO! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted August 24, 2004 Odd, wlc reer kaso balbalare aan is la aheen baan umaleen. shaleemo kaaso bal balaare. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
OG_Girl Posted August 27, 2004 Where is my Twin CUTE LIL GIRL . Place so cold without you girl. Salam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
