soo dhawow.

Originally posted by Kulmiye: Any man who is afraid or fears an educated woman is imprudent, arrogant, and insecure. because he feels that his manhood has been challenged when the woman have the superior knowledge. sorry for my language,but i actually hate this kind of attitude.that men are intimidated by successful women huhaa. education is available for all so why not go to uni and get your degree.why limit your chance of success? Any farah who is able to pay for uni but doesnt go to uni out of caajisnimo is a damn loser. all in all,if a woman reaches 30 either by choice(she chose not to marry until certain age) or by circumstance(she isnt enough attractive to attract a male) then you hear someone say she is indepedent and strong and that men are intimated by her? wtf,on the other hand,if she has a university degree and is educated she is also threating,give me a break!! Do you know what would be more disastrous? if some of us hear actually believe such thing and try to act on it on real life! Any how,where are all those successful ,liberated and indepedent women? i definitely would like to meet them.lol

Originally posted by Jacaylbaro: Born, raised and bred in the beautiful Hargeisa, the capital city of the Republic of Somaliland. There is no such thing as republic of northern land,it is a figment of your imagination.I cant help but laugh at those who call it a republic.

The amount of man-bashing in this thread is pathetic.How do we even get here? soo yaab maahan. The woman in question has done many mistakes like allowing him to keep his money,keeping his children from an EX-Wife etc.then it is likely that she couldnt live up to his expectations as wife and he married another one(We arent told any reason which forced him to marry another). Anyway,She has the right to divorce him and divorce is intended to lessen the suffering of ones live. It is ironic how some of of the ladies take this particular incident as a perfect example of MEN should be treated! Do you think i will be happy with a woman that treats me mean or badly.If you think yes,You are actually mistaken! Actually,Treat me cruelly and i am packing my stuff the following day. Anyway,maxaa ball busting keenay lol,mise some of the ladies have some kind of castration fetish?

Originally posted by Fu-Fu: Polygamy? If it works for woman as well as men, it sounds good Only Insecure women who feel inadequate and that their men will leave them for better grass have a problem with having multiple wives.If you are strong women who knows her self you wouldnt have a problem if your man wants to have another wife! but seriously farahs should stop obsessing themselves with this kind of malayacni. Get your self a professional degree and start earning big bucks,walahi baan ku dhaartaye,you will have what ever you want at the tips of your finger.all the things you crave,beautiful house,nice car ,naag quruxleey ah etc.Nin aan shaqeysan shaah waa ka xaaran. aaaaaah,cant wait to finish my degree.

If you have the money and what it takes to satisfy a woman then i see no problem in polygamy. Polygamy is not for every faarah you gotta be a real alpha male.lol

Originally posted by Tuujiye: Kheyr Duqa aniga nin yahoo god kaste waan kula qoday oo waan ku garab istaagy, laakiin hadaa bajaq aruusadoo gashay, aniga mudoo waan kaa haray duqa.... warkaas gaal iyo muslim ma galo lool... Kaalay horta, wadaada maxee ku jeclaadeen in ee more than woman? walaahi yaab waaye..is like in ee ka xafaarow badan yihiin raga kale lool Naden, I think you watch too much porn yarta...is not good for your health.... Wareer Badanaa!!! I agree with you,too much viewing of such things can make you see things differently e.g twist your mind lol Why do we think a single 30 plus lady is miserable,lol,a strong indepedent woman embraces spinsterhood and considers a blessing to be free from the evil of men.why do you have to sacrifice your free life only to be bossed around of a male?

Furthemore,your claim that some men find indepedent women as a problem may be flawed,why would any man have a problem with an indepedent women? you can be strong as long as you are happy with it and i am sure there many guys out there who would go for these women after all,they are a potential catch and a darn good way to have fun .

EEDO Kool Qodqodoowga maad naga dhaaftid,lol,halihii hore ayaaba danbi noogu filan.

Marriage is a personal choice that one makes in the course of his/her life time.No one should be forced into marriage because that is what they supposed to do and is expected of. Sadly though,society puts more pressure on girls to get married and start families.you would be surprised how many girls end up being garoobo due to that terrible pressure. Most of the problem stems from the family,my younger beloved sis wanted to go to college and become a pediatric nurse practitioner before marriage,my mother was reluctant to do so simply due to the fact that her expectations were different from my sisters ambitions.but after many relentless effort to convince her ,she agreed and now she is happily married with a career.while,i am allowed to remain free into my late thirties.lol So,you can clearly see the above societal double standards. Another interesting example is how these double standards effect women in different parts of the world. In America,hair on a womens armpits is considered revorving and disgusting thus due to that societal expectations women go to the extreme and spend much time to remove/shave them while back home and in some asia countries they are found to be sexy.lol I dont think marriage is on the wane because somalis are mostly family oriented soceity but i find the idea of co-habitation very interesting.may be i would try it my self.lol

I dont think the issue of being "picky" does confine to women only,Some men are extremely picky when it comes to mate selection,marriage and commitment. No one should settle for less than they deserve.life is too short for regrets and calaacaling about marrying the wrong Guy/girl. Just live your life to the fullest but when the right opportunity knocks at the door grab it and avail it to the maximum. One of the reasons i think women go for less is the false hope that they would somehow change their partners but that doesnt work most of the time. If she can not accept for who is he then she will ultimately be disappointed when she finds out that she wont change his ways.lol

is it me or CL posts relate mainly to "womens rights stuff and nonsense" spewed these days.

Originally posted by cynical lady: And when was the last time you set down and asked a Somali woman whether her husband fulfilled her sexual needs? Because it is assumed that the average somali guy is well endowed in that department,and incase a man can not satisfy his wife then he has issues and shouldnt have married markii horaba. marriage is a two way street,a woman must work hard to satisfy her mans physcial needs and vice verse.if she fails to make him happy then his mistress will take her place.simple

Chocolate Lool,that was a bit funny.for the record,I dont consume alcohol nor do i know anyone who uses it.the thing is that and with out sounding boastful some girls feel helpless when i am around and let me have my way.but again,i dont have to prove anything right? unless you challange me. oz i think you are confusing me with someone else.

caadi maaha ninka.lol

AUN saqiirka dhintay,Crazy things do happen in this world walahi.if she found guilty then she has no sympathy from me.

Originally posted by 2+2=5: Worst. Thread. Ever. Don't you have jerk friends to discuss jerk topics like these, mr. jerk? God I feel sorry for you. You're leading a very sad life. Bal ilaahey jidka toosan ha ku soo galiyo. Your prayer is not needed here.I didnt open this thread to pray for me,and again,NO thanks i am happy with my life and enjoying it to the fullest. This is all i can say to all those "judgemental folks" out there like you.

You want us to symphasize with a NEO-NAZI who called the koran "A fascist Book".mmmm interesting.

A Girl/Guy you had one-night stand with?,Lets be honest folks,I had one such experience and Didnt want to see her again.!

Originally posted by Malika: ^Maxaad ledahay? Politic Islam and the Islamic way of life is a new phenomenal with Somalis? If I can call a Muslim a brother or a sister why cant I marry him or her? If I can stand shoulder to shoulder with them in prayers,why cant I marry them? If my declaration of One true God,is shared and believed with others,why cant I marry them? There is only one nation for a muslim and that is the nation of Islam - One Ummah... Anywho,to each and his/her own. No one is saying you cant marry him,but why specifically fish for a white person? why not zimbabwi or just say kenyan muslim?

Originally posted by NGONGE: ^^ Maybe in other parts of the world, saaxib. Somali prostitutes are some of the most deprived and ignorant people you will ever meet. Dont forget that STDs such as HIV is high amongst individuals who sell sex in every part of the globe.

Some interesting things happen to these girls who rush into this kind of marriage. My elder sister who is married and lives in london was telling me of this girl who married to a white revert,she had two kids and was doing fine till he reverted back to kufri iyo gaalnimo!what a wasted life!lol at least,the pakistanis are hardcore radicals when it comes to giving thier daughters to whites but gabdhaheena are seen as to easy.ceeb badanaa!!

Originally posted by ailamos: quote:Originally posted by Khayr: Sheerbeen, and why was this news worthy enough to post on SOL? Let me see the catch phrases here: - Turkish aka muslim - Honor Killing - Beaten for having relations with the opposite sex. hmmm, what are some other catch phrases in this article, that perpetuate the ever on going anti-islam biase? It's really difficult for you to admit that these practices exist in Muslim communities, isn't it? When will you stop sweeping things under the rug and lying to yourself that Islam, judging by its adherents, is NOT a perfect religion. It's a hopeless situation, every attempt at criticism is considered anti-Islamic. Well,you seem to enjoy bashing islam and muslims dont you? i mean come on admit it,islam is a perfect religion and no amount of calaacal and blah blah from you can change that fact. Honor killing is evil,anti-islamic and predates islam.It is strictly forbidden yet it happens because of misguidance and cultural issues. It also happens in hindu society and i dont see you condemning them i wonder why. Listen buddy,it is becoming repetitive and quite pathetic you need to take a rest and enjoy some other activities like sport. http://www.latimes.com/news/nationworld/world/la-fg-india-honor26-2009sep26,0,1198207.story?track=rs s

I would call him a proffessor.ninka wax baa ka qaldan,i think he had too much red win.

adam you dont have to respond to me,i dont know you and even dont care! aniga iyo adiga barxadda na gee and we will see who is tougher!