Ameenah..yea sis...nuff much gowning ere.. bare manz chatting breeze.. am in t.o now but missing my manor bakc in london like mad...dont leave there sis..coz bare tingz hype there compared to here..its dry.. qoxoti...lol..ofcourse..best friends fo eva...u get me..i miss u n family like shaah wivout sugar..u get me..raas clat..am about to apck up n ran back, faster than tha garage bit...in 21 secondz... tik tik tik...lol

All somali men need a crash course on how to treat a somali lady..shyhem u jus scratched the surface...i say understand your woman's likes and dislikes then treat her the way u would like to b treated, thus bringin out the best in her...which is a bonus to y'all.. Secondly, plz refrain from using tha 'xaliimo' name like its some disease ....classy, intelligent and decent somali women are xalimo's too...me included.. ..it separates us from wat u call the 'norm' ....oh and someone mentioned 'white women'?? bisinka...i say men dont have to try hard to get with them..'they r 'open ports' with no culture, diin and integrity....ima stop there before i offend those of u who are 'white infested'..( dam am bad today)..lol Last but no least..shyhem shippin xalimo's to clown??? cajaaib... goes to sho how minute somali men brains are ..( dont mean to generalize)....a lill wake up call fo yo.. maca salama..

words is elevated... splitting the barries elongated.. draining az this world crumbles... middle east, heartbeat fumbles.... amidst fuctures.... close, frozen at each juncture.... seam rips open, tight , suffocating all creeds bearing instincts rhymes miming visions yet moulded into one friction globe trotting, throwing mouse traps,so we tumble,no light glowing achudhu bilaahi mina sheydhaani rajiim~~` bismi lahi rahman rahiim~~~ verses crowding the bad seed making me thro this like its needless.. hypocrisy dropping concentration survival kit thrown in tha jungle wound gaping open audacity of animals, like ice frozen "douse this emitional tide" "hotter than the black sun fried" "deepest core shutter" "dam.....tipping....wat a blunder" silent words emanating sharp like spear stuck on a hide of a passive cow..life milked out.. udder frozen..gone are tha days of spring...now do we break ?? halt??? plz dont classify//break//no ones fault.. sheer willpower modifies//like bait//jolts free spirit shining by starz noon lingering by far relaxing up a notch finger tips slowz one , two.. one,two.. checking mike' no grime' jump tha loop slum dunk the funk... they drool this seriousness..creeping like a menace.. ... vibe flowing body moving medulla oblangata fed creating endorphines and it aint lame feeding the soul and y'all know how.....

Lol...simple woman...guest list is a good idea fo sho...and gurl dont talk about bariis...ma fav food...shame 'cant cook wont cook' : Ex-dane..thanx sis...and mashallah tru wat u said, iz all dhambi.... and i miss that london accent ' u get ma blad, nuff craziness around me, ya understand?..wats guwaning wiv u sis.. ...skeeen...trying to rejuvinate ma London accent..'bare tingzz gowaning ere..

Its true that most somalis were heartless, and yea they did treat them like they are nothing ...what i dont understand is why we az somalis never rise above the notion that we are somehow better than all the rest, hence talking down to them, having derogatory nicknames for others ( san weyn, dega caas,etc etc)..just to belittle other people....cajaaib....gets me :mad:

Lool qoxoti... i hear you, i still dont think its necessary to spend alotta pounds on one night regardless if the money comes from both sides or if he can afford it...am more for saving what you have for your kids and home and both your pleasures in future.. The monotony of a typical somali wedding drops my concetration level to a minus,am sure y'all too... i think its about time we somaliz did it a different way, let us tip the pivot for once and unbalance the equillibrium to put an end to this farce .. ( lol.. dont mean to sound harsh, i feel like abunsen burner , heating up jus to get ma point across )..shax somali yaa isiyaa Az for u being invited to a wedding u dont even kno... cajaaib ..war nimanyohoo somalidhaa shekadhodhaa yaa naa gachochiyaa... ( ma somali a bit ruff on tha edges..sorry for the outburst pple.) qoxooti u kno wha i mean dhee.. leaches??..lol..now u hit tha nail on the head....but am trying to see if we somali women can b the host too....wat do u think? coz i think we have been in a cacoon for 'donkey' years...its time to come out n smell tha shax

LoL Idil, well said sis....and no i aint imposing my ideas on anyone, am merely expressing ma point of view.. Abdinuur.... somali women Are mostly the ones who demand a big wedding, most women of other culture try to negotiate something with there men and come up with with something in between..( lol ..am making it sound like a bizness contract..sorry ) oh and dont ever b under the premenitoin that the bigger the wedding the more its going to last in people's mind..not in our community bro, i have been in big wedding where the bride n groom had a helicopter ride all around london and to this day people talk about it in a negative manner... so u are kinda right in a way az in it does stick in people's mind longer...but its all negative!!!..so which one would u prefer?? Raxeeyee.....well said bro... Layzie...Loool gurl u cracked me up....tru what u said....( dont kno if i would wonna toture anyone tho..lol)..hope that woz a figure of speech sis... King....mmhh...wise az an owl...didnt kno there are somali men out there like that mashallah.. Og-gurl...lol..am shy too sis...could never imagine sitting in front of all those prying eyez... Legend of Zu..lol...thnx for the compliment...dont u think its kinda funny that somali women never think there are any somali out there(me being one) and vise versa..

heheh..loooooooool...thaz funny yo.. u killing me....LoL

This question always baffles me.. What i dont grasp is how a woman can say she is inlove and then demand the man to give her a big fancy wedding knowing that he cannot afford it...i mean why would any woman in her right mind want 10,o 00 pounds or dollars to be splashed on ONE night??? if its just fo show off purposes it would never pull it off coz as we all know most somali women would not have a positive thing to say about your big day other than belittle the whole ceremony , crushing the spotlight u craved for on your wedding day to dust not forgetting after the wedding the marriage life starts with bills bills bills and life of 'rafaadh' I mean this is supposed to be the best years of our lives but with a debt like that , the poor man would be struggling for year or more to pay it off not forgettting the woman would feel the repercussions of her demands too.... I have heard from our somali brothers that they are forced to go back home to marry a woman they hardly know just because they cannot afford to have the woman they luv because of her ridiculous demands often generated by her family members....i mean aint we all supposed to be mature enough to make up our own minds :confused: I beg to differ, coz if i woz inlove i would neva dream of putting my man in this predicament.I would prefer to go somewhere exotic for our honeymoon instead Lemmie here from y'all to see wat you think of this and if u r one of those women who demand to have a big wedding give us your reasons, because i cannot grasp the whole concept behind it... ps:..and please dont give me the 'pride' excuse bull**** coz it dont mean that my pride is any less jus coz i disagree with this issue..

Loool qoxooti...hahah...thaz tru to tha tea .. gurl u hit tha nail on tha head .. Dont forget to add that after the big fancy wedding (fo show off ofcourse) they start married life with bills bills bills coz the poor man is still paying off for the wedding, her friends would be still talking about that tacky wedding dress she wore wid the messed up makeup n bad lay out..( coz as we all know most somali women dont have nothing good to say about there friend's wedding) ....and so on and so forth neva understand some of ma sistaz...wonder why am so different... mr millenium, thnx fo starting the topic, like the analogy and wise words u thru at us...wonder how u kno so much about women...huh? care to fill us in? or not

lol nino...stratford? u kiddin me?..that place iz wack.... I think the best place to live is malindi beach in kenya(exquisite for lovers), followed by statten island in N.Y and mississauga ON( calm n green n peaceful) then high street kensington and camden town in London (funky, outrageous and fresh)

assalam aleikum pple.. I do think knowledge is an inbuilt skill that cannot be taught but gained as we all go through life...i say this because ma dad and mum never went to school but the knowledge and willingess to learn that is engraved in them made them able to reach higher goals and achieve what they wanted in life... On the other hand education is a set curriculum that we all go thru depending on what course we take, so that we are able to get good jobs in future to support our families.. Education without knowledge can never outweigh the two put together..

lol..hamorny...af italian? since when?..bisinka...i gotta come back before i hear u speaking aboriginal or some... ..big props tho.....ima go learn some from my af hindi encyclopedia and drop some hindi shyt like i am mrs kapoor...lol wat does it mean when thoughts wonder to unhidden places loud like thunder az a lay in his arms the aftermath shook me like water in a dam calm feeling tearing thru me his breath soft on ma cheeks az a tear drop caresses ma heart its been too long now ma baby iz in ma arms... the trees swishing amidst the nite needin morning dews sunshine warmth and i feel like its noon he opens his eyez ma heart skips a beat coz i kno am about to fly soft kisses, soft touches his hand brushes feeling ma heart beat our bodies moulding again this time pleasure overiding tha pain volcano erupting his lava flowing am breathless az i feel him shake ooooh mammi, he cradles me coz am baked ooooh pappi, i sigh"if only u knew " i whisper he smilez , nods and mutterz "you are in ma heart" i answer "you are in ma heart" then we close our eyes making sure tha feeling neva subsides... dam suddenly am thinking of marriage...dam harmony u shudn't have started this topic.... now i have to run look fo farax ...

harmony ..great topic sis now here iz a lill bariis iyo hilib for our faraxs.. mmmh i think looking at ma mink dimming ma lights grabbing ma candles, dont want bright lighting the room up magical scents,thinkin of his abs crazy base in tha background setting the mood before he pounds Dipping ma velvet skin in a scented bath smiling coz i kno hiz heart wud want to marge i close ma eyes i picture hiz eyes pearcing ma heart az i wrap tha towel slip into victoria secrets,counting the vowels heart stopping coz i hear tha knock thats gonna knock ma pink socks off opening the door his eyes flows down ma creamy, "curves looking dreamy" he sayz hugs me tight and lay his heart beating mine coyping rhythm clothes on tha floor by layerz his touch, careses, kisses wakening ma senses cry slips thru luscious lips az our bodies entertwine with need his tongue erupting ma juices hands cruises ma nips harden hiz need matching all of a sudden moaning groaning Joe's CD blaring fire raging climax breaking shattering Blood racing az we gasp for air pappi carez craddling breathing amidst nite sighin' mmmh.. mmmmmmmhh....

harmony....am feeling your words sis...now here is mine tryin to imitate yourz.. Liquid sun Liquid me,let me fly like a dove ma hopes dashed like tha seven seas flowing and blue with ocean breeze wet on ma feet yet i cant reach bending,cracking ma back with need the sun bright but half is eclipsed matching feelings like two stones grinding sparks flying dazzling yet hot to touch negative lust burning ma eyes like dust crashed nudged feeling light gonna b aaight :cool:

deadly vision..mmh..'lingering wordz'...luvely jubbly..lol tha heat of the words the rhythm is it a farce? the word luv shines like light leaning on ma thighz chilling blood heavy keys u type big caps matches your big heart am smiling am crying am dying am naturing milk in ma breast warm fo him like he iz in ma nest feeding his heart coz he brings out tha best in me when am in need he iz my 'somalian seed' quenching ma thirst wid hiz 'top breed' pappi stay on a high coz mammi wud alwayz wonna keep u in her arms hugs~ luvs~ kisses~ caresses~ massage~ like u r ma fudge~ like u r ma knight~ in shining armour~ lemmie mummer~ sweet soft words in your earz~ coz baby u got me locked on your a gear~

Saddened by tha loss of a brother my heart wonders reading through lines coz he woz known his heart woz pure and rich like Gold these prayers emanating from coast to coast his life woz worth for the whole world to know brothers and sisterz lets join in prayers and pray for a young soul in layerz thick like those hearts that have been shattered hard. MAY ALLAH GRANT HIM JANAA ............AAMIIN

propz to y'all..feeling the Flows deep...now here is a lill some some Like a Bird flying with a seed sexxy mammi with beads hair flowing like tha sea skin tone glowing with need like tha howling of tha fox``` a midst the nite caged in a box`` culture engraved like 'laxoox'``` thoughts pounding like dough``` Deadly and instinct standin tall~ women mesmerized by there poetic flo~ rushes them coz these bees know~ bros capturing there inner most thoughts~ Breezing thru tha lines dropped surging past tha pack -hold number uno and they kno no contest case closed " my subjects rip this to shreads let me see if u lost..or not"

INAA LILAH WA INAA ILAYHI RAJICUUN From what i have read from people who knew him all i have to say is mashallah to him coz he made y'all happy in your lives with watever little or big he offered...just pray for him ..may allah grant him JANA ..AMIIN

Wether the kids are too wild or not i would still advice parents to take there kids back home for summer holidays to re-install there somali culture and values, not forgetting Diinta as this would inturn make them appreciate what they are and grow into confident men and women.

Qaxoti mammi...bravo fo bringin tha 'obviuos' topic on...lol..i knew u gonna come up wid some like that... ansar keyga waxa weyaan... i dont know why y'all kidding yourselves bout tha brain outweighing tha beauty.... In an ideal world we wud luv brains...but c'mon aint no way ima b wid mr farax a.k.a ilka dheer, wid some fashion issues..(fashion challenged, ilko dheer challenged, ugly challenged)he cud b smart and stimulate me mentally but wat about ma physical needs??? lol.. coz i aint gonna b jumping all over him when i see his face..bisinka...i be pickin ma number '10 dacas and flee like a qoxoti not mentioning me being turned off like a 'bulb xuun' which will then kill the relationship. then i will b looking and looking till i find someone that has both and inshallah net him in ma web of 'chaceyl'...

Biggest, widest,longest,heaviest propz 'deadly vision'..mashallah to tha rest of tha poets 'bringin tha sun out of tha moon' ..its about time Lingerin back to tha stoneage where life woz pure like tha sky faith woz deeper than tha coming of age our foreheads darker than light prayin five times a day islam stronger than all tha lies dropped on our laps like hails of heavy stones thrown like dice ~.`.~. u say shed a tear drop i say shed tear drops like tha full moon rounded filled wid tha pain all our muslim broz and sis, moms,kids sad and blue have shed, heart burning as they are led to dispair and anguish leading them to tha dark road filled with bait ... those cries wud soon turn to victory craved fo by all muslims inshallah tha shining light like berry sweet like necter n deep like hyms that wud b tha day that we wud stay.....

this is 4 all tha women who thought he woz one thing and turned out to b somethin else... Dipped in honesty ma heart needy i talked to him and dropped mirror shattered excitement overpowering talked to him crying evrynite coz he woz too far he woz so sweet like mars bar each nite ma heart ached blood boiled waiting fo tha day in tha morning dews of may knew am gonna hug him tight till i felt him squeezing like he woz running out of breath so tight till tha day of ma death.. i sacrificed everything so i can b with him when i came excuses flowing like i woznt hiz misus fon call after fon call waiting patiently all alone jus to see, be,feel,hug him overflowing with need upto now i wonder why he's denied on a high i woz supposed to b his heart when i woz million of miles from his arms now i cry maself to sleep dont kno why me tha strength in me iz like agrudge a tear i shed iz like am on a sludge that chapter of my life is closed wid no answers az to who knowz thank god mammi tough non breakable like a dough each day i pray each day i rearrange this heart that led me to dispair wud neva let a man dare to rip it to shreads standing hard like lead forever till Allah tha great wud drop him in ma heart n treat me like a dime in hiz palm...

dayumn deadly vision..high scorez instinct..mmh.. u both makin ma head woozy... ima drop like it like its a Zee listenig to cuban music n its deep drinkin for ma baby's milk tonite tha linez makin it neat bugs me coz this 'mali women feed there brains clutter like they on speed embracin otha nation's needs dam wat happened to cambaro flex unique like tha colour violet am like shhhhhh like they r potato mush loosin culture needless vultures :mad: dam..... ima say again damn.

dayumn deadly vision..high scorez instinct..mmh.. u both makin ma head woozy...lol ima drop like it like its a Zee listenig to cuban music n its deep drinkin for ma baby's milk tonign tha linez makin it neat bugs mecoz this 'mali women feed there brains clutter like they on speed embracin oth nation's needs dam wat happened tp cambaro flex unique like tha colour violet am like shhhhhh like they r potato mush loosin culture needless vultures. dam i say again damn