Ibtisam
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^^^says JB, personal experience I agree with Paragon, don't have kids if you can avoide it, which you can!. Just adopt from Africa, everyone else is
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^^^that is more than mad." When you think you are mad, you normally are. If you are unsure and you make a post about it, then still some hope, get some help girl. And don't worry, you'll be fine. My roommate at uni went mad, You can always tell, but too afarid to say untill they do something really radical.
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hmm. it looks like a good place. My family is deporting one of my nephew's, I’ll suggest they send him there. It looks amazing!
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loool. This thread made me laugh.
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Take it off? You sound very weak in character by willing to compromise your religion in order to attain some sense of place or understanding from the society. Compromise is a sign of weakness! The strong have conviction in what they do, and she sure is a strong woman, just as Azmi is! ^^she is a foolish women! Your religion told you not to harm others and not to make religion difficult or impossible. Women who wear their niqab at work currently, with no problems will not be so grateful to her if a law is passed banning Muslim women from dressing Islamic in the work place. The same goes for the School teacher who was also in the news. As i said they can choose to perfect themselves in other ways, which does not harm or marginalize the Muslim community even more.
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SB: your skin is not a valid option, as I don't have the choice of not wearing it! Dev: thanks : Style you say, I a smart dresser most for the time because of work, but i hate suits. hhm.. I like bright colours, but overall i never wear more than three colours a time. I love shoes and bags (half of your outfit) Currently i'm in love with Dark brown, or goldish yellow. hhm what else. I have no restriction to the design, i hate flower tops, i like stylish cuts. I hate skinny trousseaus. lool thats it.
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That is the same old shid I here every day "when you are in Rome, act like Romans". The fact that there is no exact definition of what British women should look/ act/ wear/ eat, which opens up a lot of doors, what about white women who choose to cover. Recently in a dialogue between India Nights and Julie Burchill the later stated that "what pissed her off was White Bitc*h who choice the path of oppression, not those who were born in oppression" In any case, same way a women can walk in her underwear on road if she wants, the other extreme should not be a problem, and she should not be bullied for it. In saying that a women lawyer could not stand naked in front of a judge and say I am nudist, so the niqabi should consider her options, and not make life difficult for herself and others
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^^Who cares what you think you old fart, Pluz that was not an option. Suggest an alternative, or get the hell out of here
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Hi everyone, I have my graduation to go to and I am clueless as what to wear :mad: for those of you that have been to one, advise, and if you have not been to one then, still what is your opinion. Only condition: London is cold and i am taking my Coat regardless, and tights, Thermal underwear (lol) just kidding, not that cold, but you get the picture. Thanks in advance people
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After Just finishing Uni, I though about going back into uni to do nursing, but then the top up fees is why above my savings, so i applied for my MA next year instead. I think everyone should have the basic skills, first aid and what ever else they could do, it is good and comes in handy, especially if you are interested in 3rd world development etc
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"You are clearly aware of my position on the grounds of my religious beliefs. I won't," Mughal told the judge, ^clearly he heard this or someone did" I don't like the fact that she is supposedly representing someone, yet jeopardizing his case, this is not a trail about her niqab, so why make an issue about it, she needs to speak up or get a microphone or take it off, it is not farad and she is making life for Muslims difficult by insisting on something, while the media reports like she is a lunatic. On a side note, I don't get these people who wear tiny little scarf and then insist on wearing a Niqab, with their feet showing. You should learn to walk before running, surely wearing a fully hijab (a scarf does not qualify as a fully Hijab) is the next logical thing to do if you want to improve, as well as covering you feet!
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he is an as*s. Read his policies on his web page, which are almost the same as BUSH. His views on Palestine makes him as far removed from the Muslims in general as BUSH and every other jack A*SS Americans select.
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^^^loool SB: are you taking yourself bit too seriously love, This kind of obsessive behavior is getting a bit worrying. What is the big deal of where it goes? And do you object to every other thread that in your opinion should be else where :confused: or is the case that your emotion just happened to reacted to this one. Almost everything with the exception of few, tells you anything factually meaningful, other than to let us know how an individual sees the world. There is very little that could be excluded, or does the fact that the sayer is more acceptable or creditable make it suddenly meaningful?
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No khalaf, that is stalking and being annoying! call it romance or whatever else you want. :cool: ^^^^your theories prove you don’t trust the brothers, your too suspicious, not every brother is player or has ulterior motives . Of course they have ulterior motives, what the hell are they stalking you for, if not for their own gains, clearly it is not beacuse they are helping me out!! Only a dummy gives a girl he doesn’t know a rose out of the blank n only special girl is wroth dat trouble.........nah the smart brother watched u studied u, and u see him around, maybe got a smile from u, he received a good vibe from u, then one day he comes up to u asks your name, talks to you, then gives u a flower before u leave and says your very beautiful can I get to know you more? whats wrong with dat IB. (is that against Islam?) I don’t think! Yes it is against Islam, who gave him permission to follow me about and then come and talk to me, and give me a *S*T*U*P*I*D rose! what kind of Islam have they been teaching you dear?
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^^^^If the stranger girl is beautiful yes u will notice how is that not normal. It is normal to notice but that is different to following them around. IB dont play if u think the brother looks good u will talk to him.....strangers can turn into friends or something more. I don't talk to people based on their beauty. In fact it would annoy me more if he was good looking and he was chatting to people on road. I mean why would you do that to yourself IB would u think this as romantic or freaky: what if u ryde in the tube .... and brother comes up to u says asslaamu alaykum, you are the most beautiful girl i have ever seen mashallah, i cant leave without giving u this and gives u a rose ? What u think about dat I would think you freak, what the hell was he doing on the tube with a rose, must have been for his wife, his girl or he does it everyday, or someone gave it to him and he can't take it home I would just blank him and walk on. :rolleyes:
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I met him at a bus stop :eek: I thinking that is freaky (not the fact you met him at a bus stop) but when strangers talk to you on the street, or while you try to fight for a space on the tube, running late for work or they follow you about while you shop. I always thing Freak :rolleyes: don't you have something better to do. A normal man will not have that much time on his hands to follow someone around or even notice the stranger that rushed passed him.
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^^^loool. I assume you use to do this with him back in the days, he just forgot to grow out of it:D
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hhhm, even in here it is dead today..... monday!!!
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my habo is not old you rude old man, you wanna take that back before i find my high heels and aim for you funny shaped head
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^^^^looool I don't really go to somali do's/ weddings or parties unless family (which is hardly ever, no one in my family likes to get married ) I sit next to my habo and she gives them evils, so one will come near you. I think parties bring the worse out in everyone, so meeting anyone there is just strange. You would not make friends with someone you met at a party so how could you pick anything else from there. :confused:
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Modesty: Don’t take this the wrong way, but I don't think you grasp the seriousness of you accusations. "Africans are brainwashed to the max" Really, how odd, most Africans I come across are not, and nor I'm. Also you spoke about "Somalis" who do not speak for the whole of Africa. Further more, historically civilization started in Africa, if you understood the roots of African history, you would not hold such racist views your self. I suggest you read "Roots of Black History" by Robin Walker. Anyone who argues that Somalis are descendents of Arabs should also read that book (you will have the shock of your life ) Janna: Having recently read a thread, in which you argue that Light skin girls are better looking than dark skin girls, hence why many dark skin girls use Diana, I find your comments above hypocritical!
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^^^I agree. But i think that your job, must be more than just making money (this does not include Part time job, while at uni ) But the slave labour we all do after we finish uni. on average most of us work long hours, there must be (or at least should be) another motivator as well as money,.. Can’t for get the money I work more than 40hrs a week, I could not do this if I did not enjoy my work, regardless of the pay. Giving the choice I would rather do a job I enjoy for less money, than doing a job which I don't like for more money. I spend 90% or even more of my time doing work, that is a lot of miserable hrs if I did not like it:(
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^^^he needs "HOW to give dacwa" classes, what to say and what not to say, How and when to say it, and most of all who to say it to. He will do you guys no good, if he sounds like a mad man on a rant. :rolleyes: A non muslim will not get his message and it will push non-practice away from the general muslim community. I for one will not communicate with people who say such thing. How dare he!
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May you see many more in good health, imaan.......how old does that make you just kidding
