Alpha Blondy;905494 wrote: the strangest twist, has suddenly taken what was a blossoming friendship to take a turn for the worst. we meet recently and i cannot seem to recall the exact date but it's about one month and half now. we meet, we clicked, we exchanged contact details. she became a friend and i became a friend but within a wider circle of friends. i've recently left the group to pursue other interests but occasionally meet up with them. that was then, but it seems i'm now a permanent fixture, once more. she was over-friendly from the get-go and that didn't seem to sit very comfortably with me. i was wry and held back to further study this fascinating character. i concluded from these observations that she was harmless and maybe it was just her personality. she's different, you see and has something alluring about her person. i'm often greeting with a wanting peck on the check and another random peck about 59 mins later. it's witnessed by all and yet she seems to care very little. i don't like this. i don't like my private space being invaded like that, especially in front of friends, who look on with indifference. what's more concerning are the intensity of the phone calls, text messages and demands to be added to facebook. i've become reluctant to see my long term friends because she she's now the social glue that binds them together. her constant shouts of ''where are you baby?'' and ''why are you avoiding me?'' are worrisome. she's even given me a pet name but imagine it to be 'Alpha-lino'' she's nice and i've already done the SWOT analysis of dating her but these have already concluded a big fat ''NO'' . i'm concerned by her dominatrix-like possessiveness and over-obsessions with me. she knows where i live and since banning all my friends from visits to my house, i'm worried she'll just decide to turn up without notice. she has no qualms with me visiting her and meeting her mother and friends, as they're ''liberal'' . in fact, she's insisted they are very keen to meet me. the real worrying started when she recently revealed a bombshell - she dreamt about me . i inquired about these seemingly ever more frequent dreams with a serious face but with a sarcastic inquest. she hasn't relented in further exploring these visions and what they could mean for 'us' . she continues to speak of 'us' as opposed to individual entities who are just friends and nothing more. i never interject in her long soliloquies. earlier today, i found we were all of a sudden alone together - no doubt because of her crafty intervention, when she made a major scoop for me LOL. the talk was no longer trivial but turned serious, the tone tense, the atmosphere could have been cut with a knife and the focus solely on me. she started talking of relationships and getting to know each other and stuff. i told her that she's cool and that we're good friends, albeit still getting to know each other, without wanting to disappoint. i left abruptly to leave the friends about an hour later and as i got ready to leave, she followed me with such stealth-like tenacity, before insisting that i pick up the phone later on tonight as she had a burning desire to tell me something important. this is madness! i don't like it and i'm not in the least bit concerned about hurting feelings and interrupting the social harmony of the group dynamic. i've blocked her number and have ceased all communicable contact since 6pm. i barely left the coffee shop when she called to say 'what are you doing tomorrow?' LOL. Waar give the poor servant her wages. She does not have much phone credit to call you everyday. Miyaanaad Alle kacabsanahayn?

oba hiloowlow;869039 wrote: Reminds me of malcaamad.:mad:

^^ Acuudu Billah!! This is one of the biggest problems of Atheism.

^^ It is a pocket sized metropolis.

The Very United Somalia is correct to say Hargeisa is a piece of sh!t when it comes to beauty. Nowhere in God's world is more chaotic, dusty, dirty, and without greenery than that oversized getto. And for the record, I go to Hargeisa every year.

Part of me is saddened by the plight of Somalis being uprooted yet again and facing uncertain future. I am also quite optimistic about the future of these returning refugees in a more stable and secure Somalia. It will be tough for most people to resettle in a devastated towns and cities, but at least they will be truly free and will never again face the humiliation of bribing a greedy Bantu government thief. Ilaahay ummada Soomaaliyeed haka nasiyo dhibta haysata.

Daqane;905359 wrote: Waar its recorded and CCTV africa comes on at 11:00 pm EAT What he asked for is the exact time in the clip in which the news we are interested in appears eg 2:40 sec hebel and hebel appear.

Haatu;905222 wrote: Isn't anyone worried about this? Send the Oromos back to Oromia I say. They have no place in Somali lands. Waar dadka masaakiinta ah maxaa lagaa siiyaa? You are one hell of a black KKK.

Haatu;904918 wrote: Coofle and Xaajiga are right. Proper Somali is spoken in Soomaali Galbeed. The sijuis come next Sijuis kulahaa. Waar waxaanu rabnaa in aanu macalimiin si degdeg ah idiinku soo dirno.

Alpha Blondy;904893 wrote: correction, noted. thanks. reer bari from hargeisa, ma beesha haraadan aya tahay ? Lol. Who are those hordes?

Haatu;904890 wrote: Tallaabo, because I believe in Soomaaliweyn but I'm also a realist. There'll be day Garissa iyo Berbera la isku furi doono, taa aniga igu ogow. I agree with you and indeed most people in Somaliland want Soomaaliwayn but are being realist too.

Alpha Blondy;904343 wrote: thanks for uncomplicating that, complicated. Tal, you pathetic dhaqan beast! its dhaqan not dhagan. look at this village hunno type! you're teeth must be an extra 20% large than an inch because you use them to plow the fields. LOL Firstly, its huuno and not hunno. Secondly, I am reer bari saaxiib. Correction: Dad is reer bari and I am from Hargeisabad.

Haatu;904866 wrote: Dhaqane, Apophis isn't a sijui, he doesn't represent us or our way of thinking. Tutu, waa jaajuus xun oo CID ah, weligiina d.abadh.ilifkood ahaa. He has severe inferiority complex. The real sujuu hadaad rabto inaad aragtid, go to the baadiyaha of NEP ama the cities there. The people there are 100% Somali and no amount of propaganda can change that. We know our heritage and we're proud of it. As for whether or not we want to join Somalia, it pains me to say no sane person wishes that today, no matter how bad our lot currently is, it's much better than what Somalia can offer us. As for our economic misfortunes, we were and still are a marginalized community for no other reason than our race and the fact that we didn't want, nor do we want to be Kenyans. Our forefathers said no to Jomo Kenyatta and we are still paying the price for that till today. As for reer Somalia coming in, they did what they had to do to survive and so did we. If many of us went to the West on the backs of burburka Soomaaliya, so what? We've been paying the price for Soomaali gobonimadoon all these decades and we've deserved since in fact we've been living in calculated underdevelopment since 1963 and way before since Xaaji Mikaahiil uu Xajka tagey (a little joke for those who understand ). And today if reer Somalia are returning home, they have no reason to say thank you to us. What exactly have we done for them? The UN was the ones that housed them and it was the Western governments that gave them passports. As for Islii benefiting, how exactly does that benefit the average Soomaali in Habasweyne, Sabuuli, Diif, Wajeer ama Balambala other than the bus owners and the hawkers that sell their wares? It has been a mutualistic relationship, we have both benefited in some ways and we have both suffered in some ways. So why do you oppose Somaliland which left the union for the same reasons?

^^ All the prying eyes:)

I already had one:o

STOIC;903147 wrote: I agree with Haatu here.There are more holes in Somaliland politics than in that proverbial Swiss cheese.Somaliland is today poisoned by irattionality of sub-clan politics in the service of narrow self-interest of few powerful men.. What we have witnessed over the last few months , which showed a dramatic display of sub-clan politics, suggest that Somaliland is NOT ready to part ways with Somalia permanently yet and if they do at this time they are in for a big chilling shock! In this respect the question of secession is entirely irrelevant until the public educates themselves on the downfall of sub-clan politics and a strong civic institutions separate from the clasp of any president is put in place.. Though it was in the offing long before this past election, but this sham election brought the weakness of Somaliland to the open and I will argue Somaliland is NOT ready yet.I hate to admit it, but the truth never kills anyone! I echo your sentiments. Somaliland should fix its internal problems first before it can ask for a divorce.

A diplomat for 20 years!! If this is the kind of people sent abroad to represent the Somali people, God help us.

^^ Two equally valid arguments:D

The Somali people should protect their language from corruption like the French do. We should expunge the invading English, Arabic, Dutch, Swedish, Amharic, and Sujui words and keep our language in its pure natural form. We should not let the dhagan celis and the qurbomeer ruin our beautiful mother tongue.

^^ I agree with you.

Alpha Blondy;904163 wrote: Tal, dharar iyo dilo aya caad. why tell only half the story? Waar dumarka ha inaga caayin.

Somali women who use these toxic products should be educated about them and also told its haraam to change one's natural colour.

^^ Why are you using Puntland air force footage for a Somaliland poem? Stop mocking us waaryaa.

The Somali embassy should be fire bombed if they do the bidding of the Kenyans. Where are the Superpower boys?

Chimera;904269 wrote: Xabad might have an IQ lower than a baby kangaroo, he's spot on in this topic. Why are we salivating about other cities when we have Mogadishu, Zeila, Merka, Barawa, Taleh etc, maybe if we had the same respect for our own heritage as we have others, it wouldn't be in the state it is today? Mogadishu by far fascinates me the most of any city in the world, its rebirth must usher in permanent peace; Xamar was beautiful indeed.