*Come up with your own title for this thread*

[Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar]

I kinda don't like to post threads like this since they are too many Islamophobics out there that like to take a shot at diinteena suuban of every given chance, laakiinse this has to be on SOL for the record.

 

This issue has so many wrongs you would be confused to know who is not wrong.

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Many wives' tales

 

WHEN police stopped a woman driving with a full face-covering Islamic veil, little did they know what they would uncover. It turned out that her husband, a halal butcher, practised polygamy, which is illegal in France—or, rather, he was living with four women, one of whom he was married to. Brice Hortefeux, the interior minister, wildly overreacted, demanding that he be stripped of his French nationality. The affair has exposed both the reality of polygamy and the difficulty of doing anything about it.

 

France considers polygamy “a grave infringement of the principle of equality between men and women”. The practice was forbidden in 1993, when immigration laws were tightened to stop husbands bringing extra wives into the country. Yet there are an estimated 200,000 people, including children, living in 16,000-20,000 polygamous families in France. Most are of African origin, particularly from Muslim parts of the Maghreb and Sahel, where polygamy is accepted.

 

Over the years, notes Sonia Imloul in a study for the Institut Montaigne, a think-tank, the authorities have turned a blind eye to what she calls life “like a prison for the wives”, many of them forced into marriage. Polygamy is widely blamed for social ills ranging from school absenteeism to street violence. Politicians say it is exploited to maximise welfare and housing benefits. Such fraud is hard to detect, since polygamists “marry” various wives under Islam, all of them claiming single-parent payments, while officially being married to just one.

 

In a comic twist, Lies Hebbadj, the husband who came under attack from Mr Hortefeux, tried to turn his case against his accusers by declaring that “if one is stripped of French nationality because one has mistresses, then many Frenchmen could be.” The French official organisation representing Muslims this week denounced Mr Hebbadj’s comments as “offensive and insulting” to Islam, stressing that it recognises only official marriages. Even so Eric Besson, the immigration minister, concedes that there are unlikely to be any grounds for stripping Mr Hebbadj of his French nationality without changing the law.

 

Women’s-rights lobbies have welcomed this debate. Chantal Brunel, a deputy from Nicolas Sarkozy’s ruling UMP party, and a campaigner against domestic violence, describes wives in polygamous marriages as living in “semi-slavery”, subject to violence, and their daughters to female circumcision. France is keen on classic women’s issues, she observes, such as equal pay and promotion at work, or women on corporate boards, but less interested in the grim reality of polygamy on French soil.

 

Economist

[Tuujiye]

^^^ MMA, Tim Hortan aan ku balami laheen oo arintaan ka sheekeysan laheen saaxiiboo... waa ogtahay abkee gaal oodhan aa hada soo shirdoonanaayo yaaqee....

 

Waxaan diinta ee wataan iyo kitaabadaan cusub ee wataan, saaxiiboo yaa qorooyo?... Sidee buu naag kale u guursan karaa asagoo og in uusan kumi heysan oo naagtaas ceer ku noolaaneyso? shiiidh fooqul shiidh....

 

In our community ayee qurunkaan oo kale ka buuxaan sxb.. Here in Canada wili wee ku badan yihiin...

 

Habeen hore yar aan saaxiibo nahay ayaa gacan kala baxday anagoo banooni ciyaareyno. markaan isbitaalkii ula cararnay aniga iyo dhoor wiil oo kale ayaa waxaa naga daba yimid oo gadaal ka imaaday yar kale oo aan naqaano markaana kubada nala ciyaaraye at the time... War maxaa adigana ku keenay markaan dhahnay buu yiri, raali noqda aqyaarta laakiin xaaska ayaa ayadana meeshaan la keenay.... Waa nin aan og nahay in xaaskiisa UK ku maqantahay loool... Markaasuu dhahay "bahda yar" loooool.... 3 cunug buu leeyahay busna wuu wadaa kaalay sheeg adiga sida uu ku haayo gabar kale lool...oo xaamilo eh dooladana masruufato!

 

Ani mugoo nimankaas gacan aan utaagay..danbigooda ma yara..

 

 

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[nuune]

^^ saan maa kuu danbeesay, adiga kaalay, xariifkaan danbe ee saaxiibkaa ah rageedi waaye, saas aa wax la yeelaa camal, ama waa la iska dhaafaa, Somalis do it in style, while Arabs do it in fashion, so waxan waa khibro, qofkii yaqaano unbaa dhax gali karo, sidee buu laba naag u qabaa wax weyn ma ahan, lix iyo sagaal baa la isku qabaa, kan sxbkaa ee Soomaaliga ayaan ula jeedaa, waa normaalito waxaas.

 

kan kalee Arabka ah ee afarta naag ugu xiran guriga siyaasi ma ahan, waa iska yara khafiifsanyahay, jiirgaamaha uu biyaha ku dhaansado oo dhan ayaa ka buuxsamey, marka wuxuu u baahanyahay taakuleyn, taas oo ah in afartaba laga wada furo.

[Jacaylbaro]

Aar nin rag ka tegey uun baa laba iyo wax ka badan qabi kara ,,,,,

[Tuujiye]

Nuune, bootaale aa tahay adiga horta ma ogtahay... saa u socotid gacanta waxaa u gali doontaa bajaqdoo adiga labajabaarkaada ah oo weyn..qol ee kugu soo xiran doontaa oo maalinkaste ku kudi doontaa ogoow! labo iyo sedex adaaba sheegaayo loool..dhexdaa dhuuqso mugoow...

 

 

JB, meeqo ayaad adiga horta mareysaa? nin SL joogo oo gaalo la shaqeeyo oo wili englishka yaqaan!!! Somaliland woman waxee kuu arkaan dream man ee warka hoos hoosee iigu dhig abti! Basaboor kanadees aan la imaanaa hadaa war fiican ii sheegtidee loooool...

 

 

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[Chocolate and Honey]

It is not wrong to marry four wives Islamically but whats wrong is defrauding the welfare system. If a man has four wives and dozens of children and he is taking care of his family and the women are okey with it, FINE! But problem comes when they marry four wives and they claim benefits because he simply cannot pay all the bills.

Personally I dont know how women do it!

[Tuujiye]

Ciyaalka Somalida maanta xabsiyada kuwada jira waa ciyaal ku dhashay xaaraantaas!... nin haduusan qoyskiisa masruufan karin waaba mabnuuc in uu guursado gabar kale....

 

Laakiin C&H adiga run aa sheeg oo you admit in ee okey tahay in ninanka loo ogolyahay in ee guursadaan 4.... goodh foodh yuuu!!!

 

 

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[Polanyi]

Polygamy is widely blamed for social ills ranging from school absenteeism to street violence.

 

[Kool_Kat]

A woman with children claiming to be a single mother on walfare isn't nearly as bad as a grown, capable, single, still living at home man/woman when it comes to defrauding the walfare systm! I used to judge those who claim the 'single-mother' status, when I'd seen just how hard it is to make ends meet with one or dual income...War milk the bastar.dooyinka dheh!

 

BTW, how does one uncover one's marital/living status for just being pulled over for traffic violation? Sheeko dheer aaba la'isla yeeshee...

[Chocolate and Honey]

LOL@ Tuujiye. Ma waxaad sugeeysay inaan beeniyo wax kitaabka ku qoran?

 

KK,

Hence Birth control. If one cannot afford raising kids in this society, then one should take precautions. Nothing is uglier than nin iyo naag is qabo waiting for ceeyr money to arrive so they can buy milk for their babies.

[Tuujiye]

C&H wili adiga dhaqan aa kugujiro iyo diintii rasmiga la yaqaanay ee somalida...

 

maanta waxa baladyaasha socda oo wada xijaabka isku duubay oo diinta sheeganaayaan, midkood ma aaminsana in ninka loo ogol yahay 4 gabdhood... Yes shuruudo ayaa jira, laakiin waa loo ogol yahay... Bax adiga ka dhaadhici waxaan bajaq yaasha feministiga ah oo xijaabka sidii tuutaha isoo xirtay...

 

 

KK, Ninka u ogol in xaaskiisa ee ceyr qaadato waa nin meed ah..... Haduu ninka aboodo in uu shaqeysto, waa in uu asaga korsadaa caruurtiisa.... Somalideena sidee mukulaashii camal intaan iskaga dhaldhalno ayaan rabnaa in ee doolada noo koriso caruurteena....

maalin kaste ayee doolada hortagaan islaamahaan ayagoo cunug cusub jiidaayan.."yaa dhalay" markii la dhahona waxee dhahaan "maay booy fareeeeend!" iyadoo shuko weyn..ileen ninkeeda ma sheegan kartee!

 

 

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[nuune]

C&H wili adiga dhaqan aa kugujiro iyo ?

diintii rasmiga la yaqaanay ee somalida

so many things wrong with that bolded sentence :cool:

[LayZie G.]

^lol, so hadda soo u socday wuxuu keenay inuu dhaho Somalida waa diini, hahaha, inaa lillaah inaa raajicuun. I wonder if he thinks Islam is diin rasmi ah, since he thinks somalida is diin rasmi...

 

Too much buufis aa ku haayo ee maad is dajisid, teeda kale, waxaan qashinka eh mar hore aa laga hadle why aa loogu soo noqnoqonaa, atleast xayawaanka oo article-ka kusaabsan waa fuley diin laheyn oo banaanka iskeenay, waayo, nin naagihiisa inkiraayo asaga aa inkaarin but what's worse is tani oo ticket lasiiyo from Italy (for refusing to lift her veil) oo ninkeeda banaanka ka mamnuucay oo yiri hadey veil gashanin bananaan ma ubexeeso, waayo, "nimanka iney iga arkaan ma rabi", aqli fooqul aqli, waxan aqli daanyeeeerka xataa wey ka daciifsan yihiin markaas ay muslimnimo sheeganaayaan.

[Somalina]

maalina cunto ii kari, maalina kuma aqaano waa sheeko aan fahmin...islaanta waxaas ku jirta aan la sii yaabey. Ma ninba aduunka laga waayey. Low self esteem iga dheh. qashin fooqal qashin. Yaa saliid macsaro kulul madaha uga shubo...sheemoyiinkaas...uf

[Tuujiye]

Layzie adiga bax orod gaal guurso... doqon waaye nin Muslim ah haduu kugu guursado caqligaada....

 

Bajaq adiga ookale jidka gaalada saaran xarig intaan lugta ugaga xiro ayaan maalin kaste washamsi ku aqrin lahaa....

 

Layzie adiga shuruucda islamka horta soo baro oo bax diintaada ka adkoo oo ka bax kaniisada aad wili ku mashquul santahay oo naceebka diintaada kugu abuurtay....

 

waxaa tahay kuwa ku fiican in aan laga jeesan...waad is celin weysay oo waxaa lasoo laabatay hunqaacadi gaalo jaceelka lagugu soo afuufay sidii doqomadii.......Don't run to Admin from now on because Tuujiye attentionkiisa hada heshay.

 

 

nuune I see you man..lol..

 

diintii rasmiga aheed waxaan ka wadaa tii runta aheed oo aan naqaanay before Al-shabaab.."tusbax "mabnuuc waaye lool... waxaan somali dhaqan uma laheyn diin ahaana markii loo fiiriyo anaga dhinaca saxda ah ayaan ka heysanay.... Thats what the sentence means waraa.... Bajaqdaan cheap shot ee sugeysay oo suulasha la heysatay laakiin caqli yaro ee lasoo booday lool...

 

NNC loool@saliid macsaro...looool ar xasad sanidaa beynaka cuudu bilaahiyoo....

 

 

Wareer Badanaa!!!