Originally posted by Jamilah: NP and Alexus (or should I say dumb and dumber) :rolleyes: LOL

Very disappointed with ALL the African teams. They have so much wasted skills I say. Now the next best thing for me AUSSIES AUSSIES AUSSIES IO IO IO.

Woow MC XAMAR marshallah brother that was excellent and coming from someone that is not a somali. You know more than alot whats good for somalis at the current situation. My opinion is NEVER trust the media and stuff. Stick to our brothers and sisters back home that are trying to re-build the country. Hopefully we can return there and live there peacefully. Amin.

Assalamu Calyakum sister I don't know what part of parenting you are talking about, but I think the Somali women do everything for their kids to try to improve their chances of success in life as much as possible. I mean some work acting as the father figure and at the same time mothers for their children. If you are talking about the education part where the parents try and help their children studying and homework, most it's impossible due to them not knowing the homework themself. Even those that have been educated back home it's still difficult to help their children, one because the work is different and two there is no time to help them. Especially the Somali women as they are acting as father and mother figure. Our Somali women are one of the hardest working women I know. When do you ever see white women "Australians or non-Australian" rising 5 or more children all by them self’s and still make it work. Take their kids to school and still put food on the table. Even worst to a new country half way the world and speaking different language. You never see that and impossible for most. Some even still straggle in the comfort of their own countries. If anything the fathers are the ones who are lacking parenting because I see all the time the women seem to be doing ALL the work or MOST of the work, even those that are around. I also think the children them self’s need to plan more into their studies/future. If they want help and finding their studies difficult there is always help from fellow students, teachers and even tutors. It’s really sad to see some mothers work so hard and at the same time their kids are failing in their studies, what does a mother got do in that situation. When I say the Somali fathers are failing to parent their kids I don’t mean ALL but however most are. I don't know if it's the “I am a man†and that's for the women or wife to take care but there is surely something wrong with the Somali men and their parenting. PS Allah help our brave and strong women and make them happy. They need a break. Amiin.

Originally posted by Modesty: I don't think i want to get married, I'll probably adopt kids. What sis, is it that you don't want to go through all the pregnant process or just the marriage process? Am curious.

Originally posted by ScarFace: quote:I would rather have a guy that went for a lot of xalimo's than a guy went with few white chicks. As they are more likely to be religist and good mannered. ^^^^ come on now you kno that statement aint true...halimo's get upto a lot of things nowadays even if its behind closed dooors...... At lest he is still within the Somali community am kinda old fashion, culture really counts for me. How the hell did this topic change to scrarface's avator? Last time I was here the author wanted some advice. Other than that I think scarface's avator is different and should keep it.

Assalamu Calaykum Mashallah Brother/sister that was great and interesting read. Hope our duca's are granted. Amiin.

pushing it aren't u? [ May 26, 2006, 07:10: Message edited by: sheherazade ]

Originally posted by rudy: i do advice homies to start with dating american gals! then try the xalimoos! cuz then u can hang with de xalimoos! I would NEVER go for a guy that went with white girls. Yuck. I mean a lot of haram involved because she is not going to stop as that's what they are custom to. I would rather have a guy that went for a lot of xalimo's than a guy went with few white chicks. As they are more likely to be religist and good mannered. What 3D said is perfect, something that most teens are missing specially guys. This is how we should be going about it not dating. Wonder why these days’ people get married young and divorce right after, could be because the way they met was haram and no no.

Assalamu Calaykum This is wisdom words of the prophet peace and blessings upon him. Inshallah I will add bits as time goes but until than feel free to add great quotes of the prophet as we can all benefit. Inahallah. Adam 1. If it were not for the devils roaming around, surrounding the heart of the son of Adam, he would have seen the world of the unseen. Arabs and non-Arabs 2. Arabs have no superiority over non-Arabs or non-Arabs over Arabs. Backbiting 3. He who backbites and he who listens are partners in sin. Believer 4. The Almighty says, “If the believer comes to Me walking, I go to him runningâ€. 5. A believer wishes for others what he wishes for himself. 6. When your good pleases you and your evil deed grieves you, you are a believer. When a thing disturbs (the peace of) your heart, give it up. 7. The believers are to one another like (part of) a building each part strengthening the other. Blessing 8. Look to those less fortunate than you, it is better for you so that you do not deny what Allah has blessed you with. Blindness 9. The worst blindness is straying from the straight path after receiving true guidance. Body 10. Do not fast every day and stand in prayer all night. Fast, as well as eat and drink. Stand in prayer, as well as sleep, for your body has a right upon you. 11. The believers are like a body: When one part suffers from illness, the rest of the body shares the suffering. Charity 12. Give charity while you are healthy. Do not wait until (the soul) reaches the throat. 13. It is better for you to gather wood and sell it than ask for charity. 14. Charity given in secret extinguishes the anger of the Lord. 15. If one gives charity as little as one date from honest earnings and Allah accepts only honest earnings, He makes it grow for the benefit of the charity-giver. Children 16. Kiss your children and The Almighty will record god action for each time that you have done so. The one who makes his children happy will be made happy on The Day of Resurrection. 17. When Allah blesses someone with children, and they give their children their love and meet their parental obligation, Allah saves them from the Fire of Hell. Clothes 18. Whoever wears clothes of fame (in this world), The Almighty will clothe him in clothes of disgrace on The Day of Judgment. Death 19. When you see a coffin passing by, stand up, whether it is of a Muslim or non-Muslim. 20. Do not speak ill of the dead. 21. The most detestable thing for me and in my religion is divorce. Dream 22. Whoever sees me in a dream, indeed he sees me. Satan has no power to appear in my form. 23. There are three types of dreams: a righteous dream, which is glad tidings from The Almighty; a satanic dream, which causes sadness; and a dream from the ramblings of the mind.

Alxamdhuallah to see a Muslim man to win. I actually thought that he was going to lose because the other guy green is much taller and punishes harder. It was his hard hit verses man's pace. I went to school with a smile on my face that day. Plus Barcelona won Arsenal.

Originally posted by sheherazade: Naga daaya, please. Indeed agree because am so tired of replying to the same topic everytime. Getting a bit old and childish. :mad:

Oh that gotta hurt. Not really I would have been happier if I did not know anything about SL’s or qabiil for that matter as I believe some of these SOL members have taken my innocents away. Because they have polluted me of their repulsive philosophy that I distance myself from anyone that talks about qabiil. It should not be like that but it is. This is all thanks to people that are swollen with pride and don’t fear the Almighty Allah because as Allah said proud is a no no. It makes you look like a clueless headless chicken Wtf? Isn’t this the most over used and abusive comment? Now I’m a chicken with no head. Good one still don’t see the humour in that one so apology if I don’t laugh. :rolleyes: nameless; you think so low of “all of them†anyway why would you want to lump them with Somalia. I don’t think anyone so low unless they are Jahaliin who basically worship clan and that’s what I’m seeing here. It’s an dream Of mine to see my fellow Somalis unite and be a one country but then again I can dream or is there something wrong with that too, because I’m dreaming of SL’ers? :confused:

Originally posted by Khalaf: ^^^^um happy for u sis....Allah grant u happiness and all Muslims(amiin) ps: dig our flag Thanks Khalaf for your kind words. But am talking about Allah and his good book. Just got a bit more religist these days and wanted to express my self.

Originally posted by Nur: Nomads If you have signed up for the Quraan Reading Club, please report your progress, in terms of success and failure, remember walaal, by documenting your failure, you are actually heloing others, getting a reward for it, technically, you have changed failure to success. Assalamu Calaykum Nur I for one have been a bit busy with this world that I forgot about the hereafter. Indeed I will admit that I have not read any quaraan this whole week and dhugzi is tomorrow. :mad: Allah help me to learn the quaraan easily and quick. But from now on I will be up-to-date with it. Inshallah. To make up for my failure I will inshallah today read three hours of quraan or more until I learn my cashar. Inahallah.

I am in love

good one

Damn you all put in a little bit more than me, I only have time to do my hair at weddings and stuff. Which is like never and when I'm in a good mode. No homework. Other than that i'm too busy with life that I forget I even have hair, I mean no one can see it thanks to the scarf. Duubdub everyday will kill me and in the morning put it all out, that's cruel when you have long hair. Now all this hair talk makes me want to do my hair so laters. Originally posted by Modesty: I never really have bad hair days, I'm always doing my hair...I love my hair. Me everyday is a bad hair day. Girl come and do mine.

Originally posted by sheherazade: ^Not sure u'll get ajar out of a deliberate weight-loss campaign. Wait a minute, it'd make a good diet book for gullible Muslim women. Who wants the idea? It's yours, u benefit the non-ajar from it. LOL well not me.

Originally posted by ibtisam: Obviously there is an issue that needs to be resolved as this topic keeps popping up. I’ll write my response after my exams. Till then you can carry on with your sweet nothing expressions and over used and abused comments. cheers IB I see all this qabiil talk is getting to you and all this time I thought you really didn’t care. :confused: But as what I can gather you are concerned with it as all the rest of the SL’s. From you replying to these topics while you have an exam coming up really shows it.

Originally posted by shankaroon: Jesses Allah help us. Amiin [/quote-Nameless_girl HUH?? :confused: Just an expression sweety nothing more.

BLA BLA BLA BLA am sooo sick of topics like these always talking about qabiils. Whether it is to put down one or brag about one. Especially SL's get a life. SL this SL that. Damn I never knew what they were and now I feel like I know every thing there is to know about SL's. They all have big heads and think they are top of the world which in fact they are like the rest of Somalis all starving and dying. Jesses Allah help us. Amiin.

Woow I say. Somali does indeed have beautiful places.

Khalaf why do you like preaching so much? What is so kufarish about going to your graduation. :confused: I say preach brother, if they don't listen, at least you tried and did your bit.

Originally posted by Afro: *Raciests who look down on other minorities. I got to say that this one is true and if other people think that it isn't then you all living in LALA LAND. Other than that what makes me smile being Somalian is we are 99% Muslims alxamdhuallah. Wonder what happened to the 1%? :confused: