REALLY, woow we need muslims to be pro-active these days and when? I haven't been listening to the news these days cos was kinda busy... inshalla we (muslims) oneday will unite as ONE.

Under NO attenuating circumstances is it ok!!!! I can't over stress this point. A girl/woman must know how to cook. If not, then that girl/woman is a failure... Listen Homer simpson, Im a failure says WHO? As long as I have my religion, education and xishood....and of couse respect for my parents...I am the most successful girl in my eyes. So a little cartoon guy is not going to put me down. You're what's called cilmi bacaac, seduced by Western lies about gender equality and all the crap... With this much hatred against the west I guess you have had Bad experience in Canada..did little sister went out of control..I hear that Canda somalis are out of control.. yes I feel you're pain (don't worry I will pray for her and you're family) Get the hell outta here... go on walk You must have been dreaming when you wrote this!!! ok I will leave :rolleyes: NOT You will be seeing me alot around cheers mate

HATE guys that can dress...its a turn off :mad:

their existence mantra....when I read that, I was a bit scared are you gay? :confused: I can't stand sisters that prefer the ways of the kafir instead of their deen and culture, those that lost their xishood and manners. khalaf, brother agree with you 100% I am girl and still can't stand that :mad: Those that talk english instead of somali. I do that because not that I dont like that language but its not up to shape you can say, espcailly when talking to siblings and cousins. sadly I have hard time communicating with my grandma but my mum she can speak english so its good (even though she replies in somalia) I can understand it but sometime the words I want dont come out easily. Inshallah one day I will speak complete somalia for more than 1 minute

ibtisam, man I have hard time writing that name I always have to double check it :mad: I will get there dont worry ....anywaz sis thanks for that I am one of the blessed ones really..I know that when I look at people back at Africa but its good to remind each other...mashallah

ibtisam, sis thanks feel much better now....I laughed when I read you're comment

errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Why on God's earth are you obsessed with women!! Did you just come out of prison or something? Every time I open the women section I see another thread from you. Ibtisam, why be hash on the brother I think its cute what he has posted. The way I see it is that this brother has much respect for women and we shouldn't put him down for that...what's wrong with that :confused: Rendezvous, brother thanks for the quotes its great...women are indeed precious...and it takes I man to see that (not that im putting anyone else down). I say keep them

Is it ok for a chick not to know how to cook? Its more than okay, chicks are suppose to grow into chickens and lay eggs, there's never any need for them to know how to cook. Pucca, come on you know what I mean...what's with the childish jokes? And I thought I was done with immuture people since I just finished high school :confused:

looooooooool Jamilah sis, I made a mistake with this one was meant to reply to a post instead I made a new post.....ooops my mistake Im new and already made a fool out of myself. ooh well things happen

Blessed apology acctepted sis p.s did you just edit your original post because I didn't read anything about cleanning before? LOOL walahi I didnt maybe you just missed it sis. And yes I can see where you are coming from but just wanted to clear that I do HELP my mummy. Besides I am the eldest after all and who else would give a good example cheers

If these girls can't be bothered to cook for their family and help their mothers out why are they so concerned with Farax. Blessed, In no way did I say that I dont help my beloved mummy..I said that I cant cook there are differences sis..I do other things like clean and look after the kids (now they dont need looking after though) and I am not that concerned with the Farax's I only wanted to know if its ok for somalia girls not know how to cook and if there are other people like me.. And I agree with you're earlier statment Walaal, you should know how to cook (and keep your home clean) for your survival Cheers sis

scarlet, thanks sis so there are others like me...how came when I ask girls I know they all seem to know like they were born to cook...but am feelng better now. xoogsade, I do understand what you saying and I don't expect my future husband to work and cook for me aint that lazy...but for the time being I will leave with my mum and brother the cooking and me clearning

But as the girl leaves the comfort of her own family and becomes a wife, and eventually a mother, knowing how to cook is not only important but a must. For the sake of her own kids if not for anyone else. xoogsade, a Must what about the father in that equation......what about him, he can cook for the family while me I do what I do best CLEANING its called sharing. And are you saying you would never marry a chick that can't cook? Is cooking the first qualities you look for in a chick?

Thanks sis, I feel so much better now to know that im not alone. South asia you used to live woow is that autralia by in chance? cheers

Salam everyone I was wondering if it’s ok for a Somalia girl not to know how to cook? I am the eldest in the family and I am not the best cook in the world I have to admit but does that matter or not? My younger brother is a better cook than me and cooks way more than me. But I still do contribute around the house The reason why I can’t cook well is that I absolutely hate cooking and would do anything to get away with it eg. Clean the house (I prefer to clean the whole house than cook one meal). I would like to know if any of you brothers would ever marry a chick that can't cook (not that im looking for one right now) and is there any other sister here that can't cook? Confess sisters I can’t be the only Somalia girl that doesn’t know how to cook!! Could I be? :confused:

Cyber world isn't reality, you are right. I'm not ALexus during outside vitual world. ALexus is a petrol-head car junkie, who I have created via cyber world. With some outrageous views on women and Somali's. Also a rebel while in Somaliaonline. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL indeed you are ALexus..

Can anything be done to stop these mad women? Sadly no and never. Yes, take them back to somalia and we will see the so call system they cry out to. hehehe.....

this brother of mine was married to a close cousin of us, and they were happy with three children. however, lately they were having some issues wich let to divorce. i don't wanna take sides, by the wife was the one created the whole problem. ummm sister it friskily sounds that you are taking sides, I mean he is your brother after all. I am not defending this lady or your cousin but I don't beleive for one second that it was only her who created the WHOLE problems all my her self, which led to the divorce. He didn't even contributed to one little thing wrong.....I mean we are not perfect after all. And yes women are abusing the system and its sad when it is family aswell.

well i looked at the links that Khaalid give and there is nothing wrong with it. Other than it seems extra-ordinary that jews out of every1 is helping muslims/somalis. But i bet you that some how that it beefits the jews some way. Maybe to get better name or what ever the reason is, dont think somalis should worry about anything...As they are not there to convert us because you can not convert to jewdism...... but personally dont think that i would actaully like to be around jews and talk to them PS

heey, first I didnt read it all but that is soo funny and abnormal I should add. But whats really wrong with it? I mean I dont personally wear it and dont see my self in one but its in your home right? ...its like wearing a guys shirts and shorts at home cos I do that..lool its really confortable why espcially in hot days.