OG_Girl

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  1. Wow! don't you wish to be offended, so you tell us your family members! Or may I say you have a tendency to get confused easily? Sister, it is never my intention to attack Arabs because they are Arabs, I just stated a problem of lack of self-respect that exist among Arabs. And as pointed out by many people, it isn't only Arabs, but it's almost an accepted reality in the third world for a White man to get the free ride. And even if you're Arab or want-to-be Arab yourself, it's worth the thought of why is that the case? you might have totally different view on that, but don't get used to counting your family when we speak of a "problem". Ooh rubbish! What you still can't differ is between "Some Arab may do or my not" and "Arab as a nation"! First stop generizing. There is more good Arabs than bad, just like any other nation on the Earth.You just find my reply offensive because you want to believe that the Arab are "bad and racists". I'm sorry you have such trouble distinguishing between actors and actions.....If white people you live with better than Arabs why don't stay there .....Ooh never mind I already said what I want in Arabic... find translator, I wont translate it for you. I really just don't have the patience to do it for some one so hateful. Salam
  2. To: Mr Mafia, I wish if you could speak Arabic However,hope Hadaad or other Arabic speakers could help you too.For me an Arab person is who speaks arabic (as mother tangue) share the culture,principles, present and the future also our enemies are ONE. But my case I share also the blood. When you generize and say " Those Arabs" you including my mom, my grandfather, grandmother and all my family including me. العرب اهلي وشعبي ....ولا ارضى عليهم هذا الكلام واذا مو عاجبينك روح للي تشوÙهم اÙضل منهم اريح لك ولسلالتك من بعدك Salam
  3. I heard if you have a degree from a reputable American University like MBA, those Arabs will fight over cleaning your shoes? I do know that is true for a Whitey, but is it realistic for Somalis? Heard huh?From who? what's your sources?Ajeeb :rolleyes: No one will clean your shoes whatever you are white,yellow,red or black!!! Simply if you are qualified the jobs needed you'll be "hired" Note: "hire" you because you work for them not otherway around! This Somali mentality pisses me off. Salam
  4. first of all nobody is making Islam look bad, Islam is higher and very far from the enemies’ blames. And we all know well that there is a BIG difference between what Islam is calling for and what its followers are doing. Exactly my point. I always say there is a different between Islam and Muslims. But when we make those of us whom abuse and misuse Islam as heros or/and victims of Islam here where others connect between Islam teaching and these individuals(as you put it).So the problem isn't Oprah but my own people. We still denial enternal critism. She could have shown simple things if she doesn’t have any feedback or choose Israel as they believe it’s a Middle Eastern country and talked greatly about them. Nope,that's not her job to back to my " history" This is our Job to show them.To present to others how we feel and what the truth is.Besides, this woman and others likes her are fighting with words that reach out to people. If you want fight them back on equal ground with words and ideas. That seems logical to me. I don't give her that much credit about her being famous or rich! We are richer(here I'm not talking about East African Muslims or Asians but "us" Arabs)What we did the money we got, to face the challenges? Nothing! Common OG, as if you are telling me that you approve what they done in Abu Ghuraib Jails just because Saddam used to do worse than that or some Arab Jails do the same. Its like ignoring the current problem by pointing fingers on the old one. The Western's mistake shouldn't be justified by the Arabs' mistake. No,I disagree what happened at Abu Ghuraib and I disagree with My people , we want to use Western Media as a scapegoat and forget there is a problem with us.Change comes with "In" not outsiders. No one will come and point out our goods and expect from them to shake their heads and say"Bravo".I don't expect that! There is definately a problem with us.I think the real difference here between you and me is that I don't see the work of God being done by either side. For others: I'm my self an Arab and I really believe we are much better when it comes to negative sides of society than west because of Islam even though we don't follow it as we should. So please don't make it Arab bashing session. Time to back to work Salam
  5. Salam Zulfa, I like your new nick . What you just said would have either shocked me or offended me a month ago.Wallalo there is a problems a big ones!Muslims don't need Oprah,Theo Van Gogh,Ayan Hirsi and others to make them look bad. They are doing a fine job by acting bad and making Islam look bad.You know where I work now and I swear makes me so sad when forigners I work with show me the reports we do. And My only excuse is "Hmm I live all my life here and never seen such..This is not common thing in our society ". It's happens and goverment does nothing at all. These poor ladies whom abused where they seek a justice?If they come to us people will accuse them sold out or making Islam bad or siding with Kuffars!! The problems is "the system" and Muslims themselvies. Others just pointing out our bad sides and ignoring our religion teaching. But the questions here; are we really following Islam teaching or culture , are we defending Islam or defending our pre-Islamic cultures? Another thing ,if this problem exists and is ignored because the blame is placed on Western media, then the problem will persist and the West will have solid evidence and accurate evidence that Islam mistreats women and violates human rights in general. But reality we are not defending our religion but defending Muslims whom can be as bad as anemies. Salam
  6. My self I'm concerned more with rapists than killers unless they've done both I heard with my own ears that some guy was telling front of every one that he rapped somali women in civil war. And what shocked me more was how he was describing with very details the crime he commited and funny thing some girls were laughing and enjoying his shamefull talk Salam
  7. Mela, Thanks... check your PM Edit:Dawaco wallalo,not only learning but without doing extra research and reading for yourself, that is a very dangerous way of learning religion because without adding our own research we dont know if what we are learning and passing onto others is true or not, all we're doing is breeding more ignorance.And exactly that what I see from none native Arabs as well some Arabs.Before you read interpret you have to know that Arabic language is different than any other language no wonder Allah chose it for last message to all humanbeen.was revealed and challenged to a nation (Arabs) whom were mastered in their language and Art of the language.I am really suprised how some of us so ignoring the fact of when we want to know some thing about health we go to the doctor who is especilized that specific field and so on.. But when it cames to religion every one wants to copy and past from book they know nothing about it!! See Muslims!!... Well... let me zip my mouth before some one eat me alive Originally posted by Mutakalem: Oh, how want of islamic erudtion is the hadith brigade. Exactly my point. But people don't like the truth . So I let them have it. What to say we are defferent I wish if I was that simple
  8. I can't believe this!Sister Rahima,I don't think any one here questioning what Allah can do or can't.But simply this story is fake and fabricated. No need to go and search and quote hadeths you can't even go back to the original sources (Arabic ofcourse) and throw people's face in order to win an arguement!! If was that simple I wouldn't waste four years majoring Fiqh and Tafseer.Even now I'm more careful than before,I read the Qur'an more carefully (with two different Arabic-Arabic dictionaries by my side to tell me the meanings of the ORIGINAL words instead of the interpreter's understanding and beliefs).Most people learn religion from word of mouth, by trusting other people like heads of religious whatever you call sheikh, imams, scholers!Investigate anything and everything you come in contact with,blind faith is rather useless and downright dangerous. PS:Hope you wont take it in bad way. I am just saving you time and energy.People have all rights to ask for explanations, this is their faith they can't gamble and just take it from you or any one else for that matter. Salam
  9. Your honor, Sorry for the delay. As a muslim woman I have family and community resposibilities unlike Mr media who is full time propaganda breeder. Your honor, There is no doubt the media play a big role in demonising the Islam/Muslims in the West and this happens because few handful people control the media. Take in the USA for instance, there are only five corporations that control the mass media (be it in printing, TV or radio). If this isn’t scary, I don’t know what is! The big five in this country, in order of their sizes are as follows, General Electric, Time Warner, The Walt Disney Co, Viacom, News Corporation A simple question is who controls these big five? In addition, what is their core belief (ofcouse after making as much money as possible!)? Such a system where few powerful control the media, it produces biases as these individuals each have their own political agenda! The bias even gets worse when most of these have the same political opinion and whomever they turn against, they don’t stand a chance of survival at all! This is what is happening today! The control of the media by the few isn’t just a concern for the Muslims only but for everyone else too. Having said that the Muslims are the ones who are facing this problem today. For all the others it should be a warning to them! I will end with this As Lilienthal put it: "One-sided reportage on terrorism, in which cause is never related to effect, was assured because the most effective component of the Jewish connection is probably that of media control."* I hope Your Honor you will make your mind and make the right decision. The truth is truth and it's out there for who ever is sincere and free from prejudicial. Peace *. A. Lilienthal, The Zionist Connection (New York: Dodd, Mead, 1978), pp. 206, 218, 219, 229.
  10. Peace be upon you, your honor, ladies and gentleman of the jury and the distinguished audience. Your Honour, my name is OG_Girl and I will be representing Islam against the malicious accusations read out in this courtroom. I am part of the defence team who will be tackling the linguistic and legal side of this case. After me, my colleagues Sue who is an expert on Islam, technology, science, and OG_Moti and Hibo whom are a human and women’s rights experts from Islamic point of view as well western point of view, will take the case forward. Before I start, let me explain some basics about the Arabic language, the language of the Qura'an. As you are aware whenever people disagree on any issue, it is logical to go back to the "Original source" of the topic on hand and in this case the Qura’an. First of all let me mention your honor, I'm a native Arabic speaker. In Arabic, each word must be derived from its root. The root usually consists of three letters that can be manipulated, by adding vowels, prefixes and suffixes in order to produce different words with different meanings. For example, "ka-ta-ba" (to write) is the root for many words such as kitab (book), maktaba (library), katib (author), maktoob (written), kitabat (writings) etc... Thus, the root of the word Islam is sa-la-ma (seen-laam-meem), is the root for many words with different meaning. The word has a much wider meaning than mere peace and involves prosperity, good health, wholeness and completeness in every way. But simply we can safely say here it means submission and obedience (to Allah). Second, since it is logical to always go back to the original source, which is the Qur’an in this case, let me start with a verse of holy Qur'an "And do not follow (blindly) any information of which you have no (direct) knowledge. (Using your faculties of perception and conception, you must verify it for yourself. (In the Court of your Lord,) you will be held accountable for your hearing, sight, and the faculty of reasoning."[17:36]. Having said that, Your Honour I would therefore ask each one of you, to stop taking someone else's opinion portrayed as facts and beg of you to do your own research and use the brains God has given you to find the truth. The truth is the truth and once a person goes to the original source they can make an informed decision on what they think- otherwise they are just parroting someone else's opinion. Third, it seems to me, the majority of the public are mistaken between Muslims and Islam. If some Muslims are evil, then remember that Muslims are not perfect and they are not the same thing as Islam. Muslim are just like any other group of people and in this group, there can be good or/and bad people. The Lord has perfected Islam more than 1400 years ago, but Muslims being human beings they remain with human faults. So, how is it logical for others to judge fifth of the world’s population as terrorists, just because of some organization claiming to represent Muslims! It's like saying since Hitler and Nazis were Christians, then every Christian is a murders and have innocent blood on their hand. We can further say, Christianity is a violence religion, which promotes the killing of innocent Jews, since Nazi’s were Christians. What about the Crusaders, were they good or bad Christians? Did they represent and speak of Christianity? Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury, the biggest culprit in demonising Islam and Muslims are the media. Few powerful groups with self-serving interest control the media. Your Honor, I am not saying we don’t need a media, we do and a very active one for our free society to function. But what have today is media controlled by very few rich people and these people are the ones who decide what you get to read, hear or see at the end of the day. There is no a measure, the bias the media have against Muslims. Remember, the bombing of Oklahoma. Within minutes of that bombing the media started blaming it on Muslims, even though it later turned out Muslims had nothing to do with that. A great damage was done there and the media never even apologised for it. I am wondering as some one asked before,what would happen if the FBI had not found Timothy McVeigh to be responsible for the Oklahoma City bombing, would you have always believed it was the work of Islamic groups as the media reported? If the media were fair and honest in their news reporting, they would have presented all the evidence that shows Muslims are guilty. Instead, all they do is throw accusations around and let you fill the holes how you see them fit! “The advertisements are the most truthful part of a newspaper,†said Thomas Jefferson. "The media's the most powerful entity on earth. They have the power to make the innocent guilty and to make the guilty innocent, and that's power. Because they control the minds of the masses.†Malcolm X and that sums up the media for me! Finally, it is beyond our capacity to know fully the Will of Allah in all things but it is my sincere belief that this trial if we overcome will bring greater peace and understanding to all and bring us (As human race) all closer to God, Insha Allah. Peace be upon you all and Thank you.
  11. ^^ Ameen ya Rab.من بؤك للباب السما Salam
  12. ^^Lol Juma..I remember A/qasim..his Arabic was so funny but anyways..who cares as long he understands... On ther hand being " Arab league " member doesn't mean to be an Arab by race.. hmm I don't even know if there is an Arab race!!. It's geographicaly and policaly issues. When the Prophet Muhammed was asked about Arabism, he said "Innama al Arabiyatu al-lisan," meaning "an Arab is one that speaks Arabic." So if you speak Arabic fluency then you are an Arab. :cool: Salam
  13. The President who does not Does not what?care to finish your sentence! Salam
  14. أعتقد التÙجيرات التي حصلت ÙÙ‰ المملكة أجبرتهم الأعترا٠بالأخر! الزمن تغير.الناس ما عادو يخاÙون About Somali,they will keep changing as long the money comes from the Kingdom Seriously, Finally they will let women drive right..lol I really fed up I drive car in Kuwait till we get to the border then my brother drives !I don't know but these Sheikhs never thought about other millions and millions Muslim women who drive every day. Are they all sinners and their women only real muslims!!! Salam
  15. ^^It's about time. We need changes.I wanted the changes come from with inside but changes comming whatever we like it or not. But the big question is: Did we prepare for the change or we will act like blind old man who opened his eyes suddenly! Today was municipal elections in Saudi Arabia maybe tomorrow we can elect our leader ... Who knows! Salam
  16. Nasir al-Husaini, Aljazeera's correspondent in New York reported around 90 male and female non-Arab Muslims attended the prayers. I am wondering what stopped Arab-Muslims to pray behind her . It's culture or they have another opinion regarding of the issue!! Salam
  17. Naah, Somalis got that culture from monkeys Salam
  18. OG_Girl

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    To me home is where I was born and raised. Where I speak same language-dialog- every one speaks.Where I went school all my life. Where I have childhood memories.Where every one in my area knows me.That is Kuwait. Being Somali to me doesn't mean you are from Somalia rather is ethnic. Salam
  19. ^^ Jumatatu,the onces in Nairobi are scared to go Mogadisho dee. Your uncles still saying " wa ko eyreyey"...lol Still some Eedos in Kuwait , when ever they want to say when civil war started they say " marke dolkeina horeysanay".. Horeysay from who bal .. My self I am not even going close to South leave Mogadisho alone.. Let Adero A/Y go there . He will die there Salam
  20. I always feel embarrassment when I talk to my girlfriends. When they say that my mom is closer than my father to me or I love my mother more! I been raised and still live with both of them but I love my dad and he is so close to me and some time I feel that he feels me with out even I open my mouth. I feel bad to admit that but I can't imagine without my father, mom comes second to me Don't get me wrong, I do love,respect my mom and I know Jannah under mother's feets... But I can't help with my feeling toward my dad... ! Salam
  21. FF,wallalo, without giving you a headache, I would like to tell you there is NO agreement among the Muslim scholers about handshaking(Touching opposite sex).However, the general rule is "it's Haraam if there is fear or kind of sexual desire,enjoyment or fear of temptation"... this based closing or blocking any thing leads to Haraam or means to evil. Just use your commensense and sure Allah knows your intentions. Allah knows best. Salam
  22. ^^ Funny! But if I drive him crazy he will make me unhappy. So what is the point :confused: Salam
  23. ^^I am cool dear... I am just learning Somali...lol. Just practising so stop making fun of me Juxa why Amiin? I wasn't saying Du'a dee.. that was Somali language Salam