Khayr

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  1. Salams, 'ALLAH IS THE SECRET OF SECRETS-SIRR AL ASRAR' No mathematical or scientific rational arguement can or should be made to Prove Allah's existance and those who try to do so are in error. ISLAM is Super-rational and not rational. This is why the Ulama looked down open the philosphers and their rational explaination of the deen. Every explanation of Islam and Allah are based upon someone's level of Understanding and comprehension. We each have a different level of understanding of Allah and the deen and its limited because we are not GOD. No INSAN (Human) is capable of completely understanding the Being of All Beings, subhanhauwatacallah.
  2. Salams, Do you ever think of why something happens to a people/a nation? In the quran Allah destroyed a people and easliy replaced them with another because they did not take his warning seriously and became deviant. I.e. The people of Noah, Yusuf, Lut and etc. Why are the natives today nearly non existent in the western world? Why are Somalians becoming the people without a country? Forget about Somali land, cause no one recognizes it around the world too. Surely, Somalis must have deviated from the Quran and Sunnah or else this would not have happend to them. Triblism in Somalia is tantamount to that of the Qureysh and the tribes that existed pre-islam in arabia. It was a big source of Jahil back then and it is what destroyed the somali people. Tribilism was their Deen and not Islam. I am asking myself some of these question too? The answers are always in the Metaphysical and not in the 'blame who' arguments.
  3. Salams, Allah shakes you up because you are not taking his ayats (signs) too seriously some times. He did this to the people of Nuh, Lut and many of the other anbiyah and their people. For the sister that that said that this event has shattered her 'dream' of Islam and muslims living in Unison with the West, ARE YOU AWAKE NOW! Alhamdullilah this has shown us that most muslims are weak and there are many ulama who are munafiqoon. As a muslim, if you are getting too comfortable with your deen, then there is something wrong with it because if you live in the qurba, then expect your deen to be tested over and over again. If it isn't being tested, then that means you are selling your deen and soul for the dunya. If you want the Akheera, you have to sacrfice the dunya.
  4. Salams, The thought of writing an essay just to impress others and show off my writing and persuasion skills isn't my style and probably others too. These forums are made for disussions and not for essay writings. I come in here because there is no pressure and no one is scrutnizing my every response. These forums have so far given if that 'sense of comfort' that u don't find in the real world or on most websites. If u want to spark debates on an issue, just start the thread and inshallah, u will get a healthy discussion flowing.
  5. Salams, I agree, You are PARANOID!!! THE WORLD IS RUN BY A SMALL GROUP OF PEOPLE WHO WANT TO DESTROY MUSLIMS AND ERECT THE CHRISTIAN FLAG. Right? lol MONEY IS WHAT MOST PEOPLE WORSHIP TODAY, AND IT IS MONEY AND PARANOIA THAT INSPIRES THEM TO BUILD NUCLEAR WEAPONS AND CREATE THE MOST AMOUNT OF BLOOD SHED IN HISTORY.
  6. Salams, For all you studying for your finals or midterms Remember, it's Not What You Know but WHO YOU KNOW!!!! So starting making those friends if u haven't already that have copies of previous exams and butter up your professors and tutors. GET TO WORK!!! THE HONEST STUDENT SOMETIMES DOESN'T FINISH AT ALL BUT THE CLEVER AND WITTY STUDENT ALWAYS FINDS A WAY TO FINISH!!! :rolleyes:
  7. 'LET'S BE FRIENDS' The worst words that can come out of the opposite sex's lips because that is soooo insulting to the other person's intelligence. If you don't like them, just tell them and tomorrow they will heal. Women and Men can't be Friends POINT BLANK! I have some female acquantinces whom I talk to and thats all they are. The more time you spend with the opposite sex and if alone too, then you start to think 'Why isn't that person attracted to me physically, since we are so combatible mentally? It's the Shaytan playing these tunes to you and either you end up getting 'between the sheets' with them or you brake away.
  8. Salams, Waryadha! Anyone seen this movie. I watched this movie last night. Xasoostee dhalkanee ba eesoogalay. The theater was huge and the crowd was large. I went to the early show last night and the crowd was Lively!!! Let me tell you this, Ain't No Crowd like a Somalian Crowd. We are ghettttto to the last letter and were not afraid to bum rush the floor and stampede over others. LOL The movie as usual started late. Let's say 1hr later than it was suppose to start. Islammahana they were Wildin' Out. Hustling to get to the front of the crowd by Any Means Necessary. So as the door opened up, the stampede began and every one was for themselves to catch a seat. I'm loving it cause I haven't seen so many somalis at one place feeling so good before 12am The lights become dim and the movie credits come on. The somali music is turned on and starts to blast in into your earns, entering into every ones veins. The crowd is singing and clapping right along. $10 for all this and I've already got my money's worth and the movie hasn't begun yet. The movie beguns and its constant laughs from start to finish. Not because the movie is funny but because of everyones reactions and comments. Everyone is a director in the theater and yelling at the screen telling the actor what to do 'Dhogkun ya hoo, Run for your life' one girl beside me yells loudly. When there is an action seen or a song and dance routine in the movie the crowd gets up and is clubbing and licking shots in the air. LOL!!! Money paid for movie $10 Money spent for popcans that were smuggled into the movie $3-$4 The atompshere- A++. The Memory and Nostaligic feeling- PRICELESS!!! COMING TO A THEATER NEAR YOU!
  9. LOL!!!!! SO TRUE, SO TRUE! YOU'RE JOKES ARE SOMETHING THAT ALMOST ANY MAN WHO HAS COME ACROSS A FEMALE COULD RELATE TO. FINALLY!!!! SOMEONE TO SPEAK UP AND TALK ABOUT THE PAIN AND SUFFERING THE GUY'S GO THROUGH. WE ARE TRUELY,THE MENTALLY ABUSED GENDER. :cool:
  10. BEING TWENTY - SOMETHING They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you. You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try to realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an ***** starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.
  11. Salams, Here's my two cents of Venting!!! - Don't like the fact that some how I ended up growing in the west where I can't feel 'free' to be muslim without getting cut off from society. My parents migrated to the West not for Allah but for Dunya and now I have to suffer for it. -Hate the fact that I'm in my mid 20's and I'm struggling with my deen more than I did when I was in my teens. -Don't like the fact that I have been living in a single family since I was a child. -Don't like the fact that my mom's husband just took off and they got a divorce when they just bought a new home. Now, I can't move out to get married and the longer I live under my mother's roof, my deen is in jeopardy cause I don't have control over my house (even though I pay most of the bills!) -Can't stand the fact that Most Black men seem to run away from their families. Irresponsible!!! -Ramadan is almost done and I have to wait another yr. just to see that there is a muslim community out here. The Masjids are packed but the day after, they're empty and we all return to the same pre-ramadan condition that we were in. -Can't stand the fact that I can't seem to trust the next muslim or somali to help you out when you are in real need of help and advice. Most people don't care about you and when it comes time to test your relationship with them, they usually end up failing and cutting you off short. -Can't stand the fact that I got a younger sister who's in here 20's and she makes life miserable for everyone in the family. No matter how much you try to reach out to here, she still breaths fire!!! She's like a dragon and she feels any feather that comes down on here as if it were a Brick! On a lighter note, -Can't stand senior citizen or chinese drivers. -People with sausage breathers on the train or bus. There is nothing worse thatn Sausage Breath. To add, why don't people check there breathes before they get on Public Transit with people! -Every women that you look at seems to think that you are trying to hit on her especially Somali Sisters. Please, God gave me eyes and just cause I'm looking at your direction women, don't mean I'm checking you out. -Why are there so many pop ups on the net. Can't stand those Ads. -Why do we have to work from 9-5. Why can't we just be paid for the amount of work we do and just come in whenever we want to. I'm not a morning person, as you can see! BUT ALHAMIDULILLAH, I'M STILL ALIVE AND HAVE INSHALLAH MY IMAN. So I can't stay mad at the world too long. Need to get up and change things around me.
  12. 'After this it is ye, the same people, Who slay among yourselves, And banish a party of you From their homes; assist (their enemies against them), in guilt and rancour; And if they come to you As captives, ye ransom them. Tough it was not lawful For you to banish them. Then is it only a part of the book that you believe in. And do you reject the rest? ...' Salams, you know this one is for you Latifa and any other person that suddenly becomes outspoken and has double standard. You hate the Israelis and Serbians and Russians but tolerate all others. I had a quote from the quran before where in the Kuffar tried to wage war against the muslims during on of the sacred months that fighting was prohibited for muslims. The kuffar wanted to use this agains the rasul (sallallahu caliyhe wasilm) and his sahaba. They wanted to use their deen against them to defeat the muslims. In this day and age this is the exact thing that is going on. The kuffar erect a societies based on interest and loan muslim nations money with interest knowing well they can't pay it back. They have a anvy ship stationed at every harbour in the muslim world knowing that muslims can't object to it because we dont' have money to defend ourselves and the only weapon we could use against them they bring Ulama to tell the Muslims Ummah that its Haram. It's the 21st century, do you want to just give up and set in some cave or just assimiliate with them and lose your deen. I want non of that. The only ulama who help the ummah combat the kuffar through their ijtihad (their advice to the muslim community based on their knowledge on how to combat daily issues thru the Islamic culture (quran, sunnah, seerah, sayings of ulama etc.)usually get shut down quick and labelled. In 2:217 when the Kuffar decided to attack the muslims during the sacred month, Allah sent down an ayat saying Fighting during the sacred months is allowable and is the most during those months. FITNAH IS WORSE THAN KILLING (Causing corruption in the land). Why was this ayat sent? P.S. We are participating in a healthy discussion here and that is what it is. I'm here to show that there are many views in the deen. You can agree with the one and disagree with another one. But islam is not One Narrow way of thinking.
  13. Salams, The above verses of the quran that I posted dont' mean that I am looking to go postal on anyone!!! I just wanted to post them because I read them the another night and thought would be good for this thread. ON ANOTHER NOTE.... From reading all that has been said on here and trying to review why the muslim ummah has been dupped and conquered, here is what some ulama say. Some Ulama are of the view that all these things happen (meaning the lack of Islamic states and weakened Islamic power) because plain and simple, MOST MUSLIMS DON'T CARE FOR ISLAM. THEY DON'T GIVE A DAMNNN CAUSE THEIR PRIORITY IS NOT ALLAH AND HIS RASUL (SALALLAHU CALIYAHE WASALIM) :eek: They prefer the dunya and would more than likely surrender in other muslims for the dunya. This is the case all over the muslim world. How do you think that the Taliban where crushed? Reason is the other side had help from other muslim nations and the majority of muslims sided with the nonmuslims. You can't win a game if your team mates are not with you. So in this day and age, you gotta pick your team mates REAL CAREFULLY!!!
  14. 'AND SLAY THEM WHEREVER YE CATCH THEM, AND TURN THEM OUT FROM THEY HAVE TURNED YOU OUT. FOR FITNAH IS WORSE THAN KILLING' 2:191 ' THEY ASK THEE CONCERNING FIGHTING IN THE PROHIBITED MONTH, SAY: FIGHTING THEREIN IS A GRAVE OFFENCE BUT GRAVER IS IT IN THE SIGHT OF GOD, TO DENY HIM,TO PREVEENT ACCESS TO THE SACRED MOSQUE AND DRIVE OUT IT'S MEMBERS, FITNAH IS WORSE THAN KILLING...' 2:217
  15. Listen we got to stop changing our ways for what people outside of Islam think. Lets move away from Suicide Bombings for the sake of the Ummah and Islam. KAMAL: How on earth is three guys, not one, but three guys jumping in a jeep killing themselves and a bunch of poor africans helping Islam. let me give you a hint, IT isn't helping. ........... Salams, you really have me disgusted at how SELFISH and SENTIMENTAL you think. Your care in this instance because they were kenyan and some of them might have been muslims (Dancers for the Tourists). You wouldn't have given a two cents damn if they were nigerian or jamiacan or from Sweden etc. Why? Cause your thinking selfish. You might have family and friends in Kenya or nearby, therefore things suddenly change and if someone commits a suicide bombing there, well its wrong! Any other place that you might hate or feel indifferent about, you wouldn't have condmened a 'suicide bombing' so strongly. Don't try to justify and give me a response Mr. Somali cause I don't need a verbal response to change my mind set. Stop hating something because of personal reasons and hate it because its for the sake of Allah. Allah is the HAKEEM AND ADL (ALL WISE AND JUST) and we don't understand sometimes what happends in this world but that doesn't make it wrong or right. I don't like your comments not because I don't like you but because I felt that you were insulting every muslim out there who has given up their dunya for Allah and have tried to do something for the greater muslim community (and by this I don't just mean Mujahideen) What are you doing to help? Criticizing and following the sentiments of the weak hearted. Please don't give me some answer stating that you do this and that. I'll give you my response to the question. I look at myself as a muslim and am ashamed that I don't do enough, that life is sometimes too comfortable because I don't want to challenge myself and grown in Deen and Iman. When I hear how much other muslims around the world go through for their deen, I become ashamed and wondering- Ya Rab, how I'm I ever going to get into Jannah when there are people in the Ummah in my time who are giving their every drop of money and blood to Allah and his rasul (sallallahu caliyehe wasalem). Do you brother ask yourself these questions too???
  16. Where does your opinion which is based on your own personal feelings and misguided delusions stand compared to what the ulama say? So you don't agree because you can't fathom something. However, that doesn't make it wrong. If this bombing occured in Israel only, you would not have shed a tear. Why? Is your hate for something for the Sake of Allah or for personal and sentimental reasons? Allah is the All Wise and he does things that we don't understand but inshallah we make dua that we might one day in our life time appreciate to understand, inshallah! PLEASE, DON'T LET YOUR OWN PERSONAL SENTIMENTS CLOUD YOUR JUDGEMENT AND OVERRIDE YOUR THOUGHTS. :rolleyes: Oh, by the way, the definition of Suicide and the reason why its haram have to do with the fact that in Suicide, a person takes their lives for personal and selfish reasons. Allah gives lives and takes when he wants too. So if a muslim or any religious person decided to sacrfice their live and put themselves in a 'sure death' situation for a 'higher cause' and their niyah is for Allah, then they are not committing suicide.
  17. Salams, The question then is How do you chose what to follow if you don't have enough knowledge? Are you your own shiekh/Imam? If you said Yes to the latter, then this is what many of the agnostics and kuffars say too. They say that they follow their own spirituality and take a little bit of what they like from every religion aka A deluxe pizza. Truth is this means that they would be committing Shirk because they are so engulfed in their hawa (their ego's) so much so that they think that they are better then all the religious traditions, subhanallah!!! This goes for many muslims too. You can not choose your way in the deen. You need a guide. You need to follow inshallah a shiekh/Imam and adhere to their advice 'He who has no Shiekh, the Shatan becomes his Shiekh' and I'm not talking about a dead sheikh but a Living Shiekh/Imam. You can not pick and choose Shiekhs according to what you agree or disagree with them (as many muslims do). Schools of Fiqh and Schools of Thought (Aqeeda) are different. Schools of thought are a way of thinking .The two main schools of thought in Islam are the Sunni adn Shia and within are many subschools such as the Ashari's, Mutuzalayites, Salafis,Ithanashari (12 Imams), Ghazzalis (I think!) and so on. Then there are the tariqa's that look at things from a 'Bigger Picture', a more metaphysical and intellectual outlook towards the deen and life. Since we live in the West now, its difficult to follow one school of fiqh. Inshallah, an Imam/Spiritual guide/Shiekh would be able to discern whats best for his followers. This inshallah is a great topic and when that requires more indepth discussion which I hope we can continue with time, inshallah. People always ask since there are sooo many views in Islam, which one is right and which one should I follow? Remember this, Islam is not an Individual religion but a religion based Community (Jammat).
  18. Salams, If I'm not mistaken, the Canadian Miss World Contestant made a statement in supoort of the muslims saying that 'ofcourse, its disrespectful to muslims to have this pageant during Ramadan'. This is why she was not sure if she would be allowed back into the pageant. Did you know that a Deputy Governor (Senior Muslim Judge)in Nigeria issued a fatwa asking for that female writer's 'you know what' to be served (preferably with some coscus on Eid!)
  19. Salams, I'm sure u must have heard of the situation in Nigeria by now. Alhamdulillah, there are some people of the ummah that would defend the honour of the rasul (salalallahu caliyhe wasalam). This incident inshallah, should remind the kufar and the munafiqoon to be more respectful of Islam and islamic personalities. The nerve of them to hold it in a muslim nation and on ramadan. I'm glad that those whores were rushed out of there so that there pedicures and hair wouldn't get messed. Although, there are things that the usual critic can pin point about the situation, the job was done. Allah has used this situation to protect the diginity fo the rasul (salalallahu caliyhe wasalam).
  20. Salams, You know comparing Somali kids who have grown up in the west with single parents vs. a holistic family (both parents being present) and this also extends to the larger muslim community, parents play a HUGE ROLE in shaping the character of their children. Single mothers just can't do the job and are often too lax on their children interms of disciplining them. Were as in the holistic family, the father always reinforces that role of being strict and adhering to principles. No matter what the environment, the parents play a bigger role in shaping the character of their children because they are the ones that censor much of the negativities that come around their children. But both parents stand losing their children if Deen is not the primary player in the families life. 'A good tree often bears pleasant fruits'
  21. You sure u're not really 'Humble Sista' instead of a brother. Undercover, you're busted!!!! and why u trying to blow up everyman's cover How much are they paying ha!!! I'll double that for your by giving u better credit rating You are somali right
  22. Khayr

    MONEY

    MONEY It can buy a House...............But not a Home It can buy a Bed..................But not Sleep It can buy a Clock................But not Time It can buy you a Book..........But not knowledge It can buy you a Position......But not Respect It can buy you Medicine.......But not Health It can buy you Blood............But not Life It can buy you Sex..............But not Love So you see money isn't everything. And it often causes pain and suffering. I tell you all this because........... I am your Friend, and as your Friend I want to take away your pain and suffering.............. So send me all your money.......... And I will suffer for you. CASH ONLY PLEASE. Thought this was gonna be one of those "inspirational" ones, didn't You???
  23. Salams, Since now can has been able to answer the last question, I'll ask this question Why was the Quran put into a Book and during what period (who was the amir al mumineen during that time?
  24. Salams, My examples are very common and occur every day! The reactions that I have gotten so far from the males, have been predictable. Let me ask this question the men who replied back, after the Sept.11th incident when muslims where being targeted and being harassed in the North American and in Europrean streets and subways, did u think to yourself this-The muslim men are safe because they can easily assimilate into the culture but the muslim sisters are not and therefore a very visible target. Reason being their Hijab is very visibile. During those days, did any one of you muslim men who disagree with me decide to share the pain of the sisters and look visibily muslim ('He who imitates a people, is from them' and this is a hadith read bukhari or muslim!). This is a rhetorical question because I know the answer to it already. Most muslim men in the west are oppressive towards women. Double Standard big time! Oh its WAJIB for them, but everything is Sunnah for us men, therefore, we don't really have to follow. Translation-We are really a bunch of *******'s that have weak Iman. Therefore, we forget and forgive our shortcomings and concentrate on the muslim women!