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Aaliyyah

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Kool_Kat   

*Blessed;731055 wrote:
Dhaqankeena places strong emphasis on family and to me a guy who chooses to live with his parents is a family orientated sort of man which is what you want. I don't know how living on your own prepares you for life with another?
Living with my family has taught me a lot about tolerance, sabr and balancing life, work and family.

While I agree with you on so many levels, laakiin there has to come a time when it is time to try to make it on our own! Specially if you're in your mid-late 30s...There's something very puzzling about a mid-late 30s male who still lives at home oo hooyadiis wili digsi u walaaqeysa...At the very least one of his accomplishments should be making it on his own in his own home...

 

When one moves away from home, they become responsible for everything in their life, be it something as little as the grocery list...Living at home, many of us don't worry about bills/food/shelter/etc...Kuweena ugu fiican will contribute in taking part of the chores and financially, if working...It is a whole new world trying to make it on your own, specially with a roommate...Marka living on your own before marriage teaches one a new level of compromise/dulqaad/etc., because you're no longer in the comfort of those whom you've been around all of your life...Living with a stranger (someone you haven't lived with before) can be very challenging, what better way than experiencing it before guur?

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Blessed   

Lol. Heedhe kaas beri hore ayaa lala booday. You should,ve seen the hurruf and cay his wife got, miskiina. Taleexi, aniga facayga muu ahayn and guur seemed yucky to me waaga but alhamdulilah mid sidiisa u waalid jecel, though demostically challenged ayaan helay. :D:D

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Taleexi   

Blessed: Ma'ansha Allah - Alle ha kuu barakeeyo bal adna sidaada mid u iimaan qabta inimada ugu ducee. lol @ "Domestically challenged"!

 

KK: Warkaasaa igu socda -- lecture-ska halkaa ka wad - May Allah increase your knowledge and wisdom. Guryaha waxa laysugu dhedhejinayo waaba la yaabay -- Ardu Llaah waasic yaakhay!

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Somalina   

*Blessed;731097 wrote:
Lol. Heedhe kaas beri hore ayaa lala booday. You should,ve seen the hurruf and cay his wife got, miskiina. Taleexi, aniga facayga muu ahayn and guur seemed yucky to me waaga but alhamdulilah mid sidiisa u waalid jecel, though demostically challenged ayaan helay.
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:D:D:D

 

I don't know about other ladies but nin ciyaal maamo ah wax ka fiican ma leh. Waa la gumeysan karaa. :D

Viva nin ciyaal maamo ah oo hooyadiis weli la degan! lol

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Blessed   

KK, I agree with your sentiments, I guess the authors ****** logic ayaan ka booday.

 

Somalina. Lol. Gumaysi is such a harsh term, dear. Lol. However, they are more receptive to female charm.. :):D. Ciyaal maamoniadu has levels laakin, Ikm not talking about kuwa ciyaalnimada dhaafin..

 

 

Taleexi. Illaahay kuligeenba qof ina anfaca hanagu simo.

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Somalina   

Blessed you are right, gumeysi is a harsh term. Waxaan ka wadey waad fahamtey laakiin.

Nin keligiis degan oo sanka taagaaya intee la geynaa? lol. Ciyaal maamo hooyadiis ayaa su'aalo la weydiinaa, i.e meeqa saac soo kacaa sabtida iyo axada? kushiinka ma yaqaanaa meesha guriga ugu taalo? suuqa ma kasoo adeegaa? markaad questionaire ka complete kuu noqdo ayaad notes ka sameyn kartaa oo meeshaad doonto ka hagaajin kartaa alaabta. :D

 

Kan keligiis degan ma ogaan kartid waxuu soo wado? lol

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Aaliyyah   

Koolkat well put. I can also understand where blessed is coming from, laakin blessed ciyaal maminimado levelska kala duwan bal xoga noga sheeg aan kala baranee ..ta caadiga ah iyo ta ka badbadan lol

 

Somalina, lool waliga ma aragtay hooyo magasa ilmaheeda. inta badan shekada way buubuuniyaan hadaad dhahdid gormu so kaca waxay dhahasa salada fajar ka hor ayuu kaca oo anagana no kicya mashallah lama arag lamana maqal loool...waliga miya maqal even a gorilla is cute front of his mother's eye (just to make a point! lol)..marka iska jir waxay hoyadii ku sheegto, wareeso at least cidkale jararka etc

 

Blessed, ouch@ domestically challenged (now that's my nightmare lol) but at least waxa tidhi walid wuu jecelyahay mashallah alle ha ku sakhiro insha'Allah..

 

 

salaam

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Somalina   

Aaliyah, duqda waa lala sheekeystaa, sidey rabto ha u buun buuniso waa inaad ka dhex baxdaa islaanta ayadoo ku fiirineysa. lol.

Shaah la cab oo ka dhur hadalkeeda si sarbeeb ahna u weydii su'aalaha waad helaysaa jawaabtaad raadineyso. :)

 

Aniga waan test gareeyey already, A++ mashaAllah mission is complete now. :P

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Aaliyyah   

loool somalina...naa heedhe bal warka cadee, islaanta ma shaaha wax ugu dartaa haha kaftan. I got your point ma marba isla suaashi aya si kale u dhigta like askari...hmm! I will keep that in mind n if I try it will let u know the results..hadhow uun ya hooyo la isoo sheegin na tan walan aad dhashay oo isla suashi kun jeer i waydiina maxa ka qaldan hehe..

 

salaam

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there are days i wonder who gave naagaha the right to think for themselves, because the consequences of that has been disastrous. why cant they just shut up and look pretty.

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Somalina   

Aaliyyah;731129 wrote:
loool somalina...naa heedhe bal warka cadee, islaanta ma shaaha wax ugu dartaa haha kaftan. I got your point ma marba isla suaashi aya si kale u dhigta like askari...hmm! I will keep that in mind n if I try it will let u know the results..hadhow uun ya hooyo la isoo sheegin na tan walan aad dhashay oo isla suashi kun jeer i waydiina maxa ka qaldan hehe..

 

salaam

Aaliyyah, su'aalaha laguma soo celceliyo. Islaanta markey gabadh yar ahayd xaalada nolosha sidey ahayd ayaa laga wareystaa, waa inaad diplomacy isticmaashaa. Weydii dhalinyarada sida ay yihiin maanta sida ay u aragto IWM. Waxay ka tiraahdaba wiilkeeda ayey ka hadloysaa ogoow. :)

 

Waa inaad 5 talaabo ka horeysaa islaanta, yeysana ku ogaan, waxaan waxba ogeyn iska dhig. lol

Bullet proof formula you got right there. Use it don't abuse it. :P

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Aaliyyah   

loool Somalina. Too bad that I am too honest and I will probably brust out laughing somewhere half the conversation knowing that I am trynna outsmart the lady..

 

Anyways, wll keep ur tips in mind. They might come handy with the mama's boi my mom has in mind for me :P

 

salaam

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