Malika Posted August 15, 2008 ^And here I was ready to send the African drum telegraph back home so they can welcome you if you were to venture as fas as East Africa coastlines.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted August 15, 2008 ^^^Aaah you are so evil, don't rub it my face please. I'm waiting for you to move there! then I'm there 3times a year. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted August 15, 2008 ^You can send one for me, my best friend just got back from TZ and I'm so dreaming about it. Time to explor the motherland.. Ibti. Are you going back to work.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted August 15, 2008 ^^^I will be going back to work, girl's got to make a living, but I will be doing some madness on the side. I only agreed to do yesterday and I'm already thinking shiid, what did I get myself into! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Blessed Posted August 15, 2008 ^Hehehe. We all need a little Somali madness in our lives, it'll be fun and might come in handy for the future. I'm get me some Somali madness from the souq now. Take care. xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted August 15, 2008 Hello Ladies How are doing on this blessed day? Blessed, Woow I didnt know. Alle ha kuu fududeeyo, aameen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted August 15, 2008 ^^^Lool your a bit late dear! here is a cuppa! alhumdulilah, how are you doing?? We are good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted August 15, 2008 I am good too ibti. I am trying to pick the girls' brain here.. What are the characteristics that one should choose for a man/husband? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted August 15, 2008 aah, now that I cannot help you with...But I guess what your intentions are, what do you want from them? then chose characteristics that will be good inline with your intentions. For example if you want to take the pis*s, then patience would have to be high priority. If you want someone who inspires you then smart, confidences, resourceful, would be good qualities. If you wan companionship, then understanding, easy to talk to etc will be the way to go. If you want someone who will help with your deen, then religious, strict/disciplined, high self control, focused will be helpful... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted August 15, 2008 I forgot to add, if you want to rip them off then *rich, stupi*d, and easy to please* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted August 15, 2008 You forgot one serious bit but I understand your point. Will let you know of the result. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ibtisam Posted August 15, 2008 ^^^What is the serious point? I already told you I was hopeless Just pick a nice guy, how hard can it be. They are all the same in the long run, just takes some longer to reveal their true colours. Ms DD, anything I should know?? should I be shopping? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted August 15, 2008 Ms DD,a tough question indeed! I am getting to the stage,where I am resigning to very negative conclusion about women's role.. ,but aside with me and my world.. What is important to you? Keeping in mind no one is perfect,we are only human after all.So he might have this characteristics but not that..how you compromise and accept him and his faults will all depend on You and where you are as a grown person[mentally and spiritually]..Was that helpful..Lol I second Ibti's question should we be shopping for that dirac? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara. Posted August 15, 2008 Psst @ Ibti. She means the MOST serious bit Otherwise you could be describing a pet cat or dog... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Posted August 15, 2008 ^Aha!..I need to cleanse my mind it has just wondered on a dirty road,is that what she is asking really Cara? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
