Abdinuur Posted January 24, 2004 Please read this and take it seriously! Thanks. I hope the ADMINS wont move this into Islamic Forum even though it has some Islamic emphasis. My best, best friend is considering for marriage. He came to a point in his life where he wants to get settle and start a family. He's looking for a nice, genuine sista, who at least knows the basic concepts of Islam. She doesnt have to be religious, even though he prefers that (actually if I stop exaggerating, he DESERVES the most religious Muslimah b/c of his legitimate and genuine lifestyle). Here is the situation: Where we live, there arent a lot of Muslim population. The nearest Muslim populated city is about three hours drive from us. BUT... I don't even know anyone in that city...for me to even have connections with people in that area. Plus, I'm fulltime college students. You what's going on? So, SOL members are my only connections. SO PLEASE, HELP ME HELP MY FRIEND & MY BROTHER IN ISLAM. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. Please try your best, and let me know personally. Insha Allah, if everything goes well, Allah will appoint him one....but do your part, too. Thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bilan Posted January 24, 2004 salaam well kaafi i do not really understand how you want us to help him exactly,i know it is difficult for a lot young muslims to find potential spouse, but my solution is go to your nearest mosque and ask the imaam to help him find a wife,also if he is religious he should try to find someone like him otherwise he is going to have a lot of problems, or someone who wants to be religious like him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
-Serenity- Posted January 24, 2004 U know Kaafi, a Picture would fit in perfectly with that description *Just a Suggestion* On a serious note - I'll let a few looking people in ma nect of the woods know . Anything 4 Kaafi's good looking pal *hint* *hint* Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted January 24, 2004 Bulo, good point. But really, the Imaam cant really help him because like I said, we live in a less populated Muslim place. I havent seen any sista yet since I came here...and I was here for four years now. The Imaam would be necessay when the maher comes. But you can help by going to nearest Mosque and asking around interested sista. LOCATION IS NOT AN ISSUE AT ALL Please ask around people you know (mothers, sisters, girl friends, boyfriends, anyone, anybody, someone, somebody) Thanks! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaabir Posted January 24, 2004 Kaafi.. u sure that brother isnt.......YOU!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted January 24, 2004 Darman, it aint me but your help is welcome. Like I said in the beginning, take this seriously. If you can help, help. Thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qac Qaac Posted January 25, 2004 Tell him, to take a tour out one day, go to euruope or those populated countries, or even back home, and he'll find a woman... this is not something to be worried about man.... so easy.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted January 25, 2004 come on bro! there r some many single xaliimos in here, they should be jumping on this like a fly u know what!lol... okey, here is a partial!! lucky, ck, stpaul, valarie(not recommended lol) rahma, og-gal, magnoona,assra(highly recommended) shankroon, missword( she comes with password access!lol.,) modesty, athena,bulo, all the maliaks, etc, etc,... u see everyone has her minuses and pluses, so have you friend narrow it down, like does he like a good listner wife or an out going one etc., i believe, we can hooked your friend from heya SOL!!! we have all this pretty sista, so i am sure we will find a perfect fit!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nadia Posted January 25, 2004 assalaamu caleykum, i totally agree with qac qaac he should definetly take a tour. I'd really love to help as i know a lot of sisters looking for husbands in london. But you have to admit this is not the best way to introduce 2 ppl to each other (looking for marriage). if he can afford to come to london i'd be more than happy to hook him with some1 (mind you most of my friends are very religious). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted January 25, 2004 Rudy, I think you're pullin my leg. Qac Qaac & Nadia, Good points. But because of his current research and the stuff he is currently involved, I dont think he can manage to travel. He would definitely travel if there were something to look forward to. For instance, if he meets a lady and they talk and get to know each other, there would an opportunity for him to travel and meet that woman in person. Traveling is not an issue for him but who's gonna be there to show him around places and introduce him to others. Just imagine if you traveled to Hong Kong, see what I'm saying? How would you feel? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A7LA-SHU Posted January 25, 2004 Rudy i can't believe u put me in that list? i thought we had something lol.. or i guess not Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted January 26, 2004 kaafi, homie no mo excuses aigt. research faciis! whatever...! just do it!! magnoona, aigt u made it to the 10 top! aint that enough sista + no brackets following your name! :cool: what else do u want from me!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Som@li Posted January 26, 2004 Asalaamu Alaykum IT is nice when a persons intends and and gets ready for mariage but the problem is when u can't find anyone to marry.. i would recommend our brother in need to go to a muslim populated area,He MUST take his chances,,,SOmalia?,Kashmir,Islamabad,KaraChi ,Kuala Lumpur,,would be good places to start... bye Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sophist Posted January 26, 2004 okay, this is how you do it man! see someone you "fancy" send her a private msg exhibiting your intention (or on behalf of your freind) and see how it goes from there man----- I must warn you that this is something that has not been done (or to be precise i am aware of its occurence) Or alternatively you just have to wair when the Community section is relaunched--- Libaax what is happening with that anyway? Thus Spake I Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abdinuur Posted January 26, 2004 I received an excellent suggestion that I should have a description of him of some sort: Here it goes: Name: Abdiqani Age: 22 years old Email: omotoye_o@yahoo.com Birthplace: United States but raised in Nigeria since his parents are originally from Nigeria. (Consequences of his birth and choice of the Al-Mighty) Attended schools in the U.S. Earned his Ph.D. in Chemistry Also has a Bachelors Degree in Engineering You can see his hardwork and patience. You can sense how dedicated he is. He earned his Ph.D. at the age of 22! This means a lot!!! He's seeking for a serious-minded sista who's willing to start a family. This is a beautiful and pleasant thing to consider since life is too short and all of these strange things are happening in the world. Please email him directly and get to know him. The least thing you can do is become a friend with him and Insha-Allah you can still help him by doing your part. I did not post his picture but you can directly email him and ask him for it. Thanks a lot!!! Also, if you have further questions, dont hesitate to email! Salaamu Alaykum! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
