I really don't want to use the word hate since it's negative and strong! So I'ma use the word despise instead. I strongly despise people who think that the Somali culture is above all! Don't they realise every culture has its flaws?? I despise racist people I despise drinking Milk I despise the TRUTH commercials. I wish they would do the same for alcohol instead belittling smokers! :rolleyes: I despise men who don't realise the strengths of women. I despise the fact that somali men would rather sit in coffee shops, watch bbc or discuss about "shiirs" for hours instead of sitting down with their children to help with their homework. uhmm...that's all I can think of now

^ I know, eh! :confused: :confused:

Hey Moti, Can you make me a poster ..and put me as the Tomb raider?!!!! Thanks in advance

Happy belated birthday OG_Girl..

It's prolly just some neighbor's cat that creeped in from the window. Just in case, Grab a bat or a butcher knife and investigate the scene of the crime! Why get worked up about "some" noise??

Sorry about your friend, ayanick!!

If people want to have big weddings, then why NOT? It's supposed to be the happiest night of their lives, so spend away!! (thats my philosophy on weddings) Wearing a white dress is cultural in the west..and there is no haram in it..and to be honest, it's quite nice!! Personally, if my husband-to-be offered me a Jaguar instead of a big wedding...well you know the answer to that

That must be the wackest pickup line i've ever heard! :eek: OG, one advice: DON'T!!! :eek:

Couldn't have said it better, Kool Kat!

No work!!

There is no such thing as a "gene" for cheating! (Unless there has been new scientific findings I haven't heard about) In that case, I believe anyone is capable of cheating. It's all depends on your morals and ethics. If you are around people who cheat on their mates, and are used to that type of behaviour, You just might be tempted. That goes for any human being. But ........ Since women are more conservative and caring in nature, it is likely for her to cheat UNLESS there is a reason for her to. I.e. her man ain't giving her what she needs (emotionally or physically), she is doing it out of spite, e.t.c. Whereas a man will cheat because he is horny and its all in the moment. That's just my opinion, Bachelor!

OOOOPS

1-WHY WOULD YOU EVER MARRY OTHER NATIONALITIES "JAMACIAN,AFRICAN AMERICANS...." because Allah didn't say you can only marry Somalis! Besides, Somali men really need to learn their manners..otherwise they will not find a decent somali wife! I don't know why older Somalis have a phobia about jamaicans and african-americans. If they are muslims and what I'm looking for in a husband, I don't see why not? If we had been Somalia, it would've been a different story. 2-DO YOU THINK THAT THE SOMALI CULTURE IS A HARRASMENT TO YOU GIRLS? Some parts are. I don't really think about it since I don't live in an all-out Somali cultured place. Besides, I can pick and choose what parts of my culture I want to practice! 3-WHY TALKING ABOUT SEX IN PUBLIC IS BECOMING NORMAL TO YOU GIRLS WHEN YOU SHOULD ONLY TALK ABOUT THIS WITH YOU HUSBAND? Uhmmmm...did you have an experience where you ran into some girls talking about sex in public? Don't you know ease-dropping is haram ! Anyway, what made you think its "becoming" normal? I'm sure it had been like this for ages..and not a new phenomenon. 4-HOW IMPORTANT IS YOUR RELIGION WHEN DOING SOMETHING OR TALKING ABOUT SOMETHING? Religion is very important...in all aspects of life.. 5-WHY WOULD YOU DELAY MARRIEGE? 30+ To get education. To sift through men to find the right one. Whatever the reason, marriage does not have an age limitation, na'mean. 6-WHEN DID DIVORCING BECOME YOUR AUTHORITY? Because now men know that if they mistreat their wives, there's a better option 7-HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT CIRCUMCISION, EVENTHOUGH IT HAS NO BASE IN OUR RELIGION? Circumsion is a sad part of our culture...I think it should be exterminated from our country A.S.A.P. I just feel sorry that 7 year old girls had to go through this ordeal! Hope this helped !! **shrug** PS: Nin yaban, if you miss Somalia so much and are intimidated by educated and outspoken women, why don't you just go back there bruh?

Earth to Ninyaban, we are not in KISMAYO!!! Shaka zulu, maybe girls just don't ask you out..but where I'm from it goes both ways. Women ask men out if they are truly interested! Don't get me wrong, we don't be asking out every single good-looking males that pass us by, cuz we aint dudes na'mean?

Amazing, isn't it? :eek: :eek:

Nin yaban, Question is : what planet are YOU in? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: QueenSoccer, Why don't you start one sistah? We need a kick-a$$ Somali girls team! --don't ask if I can play , cuz I can't kick for ish--

I think Angie stone said best when she did that song Brotha : "He's misunderstood, some say that He's up to no good around the neighborhood Well, for your information Alot of my brotha's got education Now check it You got your Wall Street brotha Your blue collar brotha Your down-for-whatever-chillin'-on-the-corner brotha Your talented brotha, and to everyone of ya'll behind bars You know that Angie loves ya, my my" That's all I got to say about this nonsense of an article!

I see some Landers here who are quite upset about the late '80s ..and for that they still harbour ill feelings towards the other somalis in the south. With all due respect, don't you think that Somalis elsewhere suffered the same misfortune? Did they not become uprooted, victims of diaspora as well? weren't families also executed? What if every region and tribes decided to separate because their families and friends were victims of the war? Don't think there would be much left of Somalia (both south and north). I thought we had learned our lesson about tribalism ?! correct me if I'm wrong...but this does not make sense to me!

Since they are muslims, I guess this applies : ina ilaha wa ina ila rajicun Ilahi ha una xaristo!

Sorry shaka zulu, but I believe a cross-eyed left-handed girl just bailed me out!!! Thank you harmony angel for getting me out of a tought situation ***reeling at the thought of being stuck with Darman and Clown*** Thanx luv! I'm freeeeee yipppiiiiiii!

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lmao Are you serious?

lol ^^ You go and tell him girl! :cool:

lol ^^ You go and tell him girl! :cool:

lol ^^ You go and tell him girl! :cool: