i actually have many names, so which name would you like to know (as in which circles) business, family, school

be nice, salaam 3leykum to all. im bored, its exam time and i feel discouraged... so im going to waste some studying time. so this is how it will work, ask me a question, i will than answer and in turn ask you a question, which you have the choice to answer or not. whatever you ask though, i have to answer. shoot.

all human beings share the same genetic makeup, 98% if im not mistaken. were all related. why do we need a racial type? anything to get away from being called black, eh?

this is the funniest to me.

i think i look 8years older than my age, but im cool with it. i know guys who lie about their age, it ranges from the perverts who like the youngins (13-15), to just losers who cant accept they have wasted and are continually wasting their lives with parties, drugs and alcohol. denial isnt just a river in egypt.

not defending rudy but... were inadvertingly insulting his wife (or ex) by saying such things and she definitely doesnt fall into the equation either. lets watch what we say.

i want to hurt myself... i hate my guts

notice the mans expression. they wear white dresses in hargeysa too? this just in: it is reported that after the second ceremony took place the groom began to run up and down the aisle yelling, what sounded like "IWINWIWINWINWINWIWNIWNWINWINWINWINHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA" and than proceeded to roll around the floor in, what appeared to be, joy.

Originally posted by mantra: quote:Originally posted by illegal some-alien: i think asexuality may be a probability, i mean the term may be wrong, but there are definitely people who just arent attracted in sexual manner to the opposite sex (or to their own sex, im not at all suggesting your gay, just clarifying what i mean by asexual). it can be attributed to a number of things, it may be psychological, hormonal or whatever (the qadr of allah). its okay, you can still marry insha allah but it will just be harder cause this may be something you want to bring up to your partner before you marry (insha allah you will). your best bet for a good marriage would be someone you like as a person, and who has a considerably low sex drive, otherwise one half of that marriage will be very unsatisfied, depending on who compromises of course. I dislike the idea of getting married, I do not wish to be in a relationship, in fact i'm quite content and i've always been so, that does not make me lacking in normal human emotions and it sure as hell doesnt mean i'm asexual.. I don't see why you have to equate my dislike of men to frigidity.. geez, maybe im not expressing myself clearly. i wasnt implying youre frigid. i also dont think youre lacking in human emotions, but perhaps some of the urges. listen, im no shrink and i dont know you from adam, so really there is no reason to be offended and in all probability i will be wrong, so just shrug it off. but you asked for our opinions and here they are. im also not pushing you to marry (i think only married people join that bandwagon) but considering its one of our obligations as muslims (correct me if im wrong) i dont think you should just toss it out, especially since you said youre issue isnt an aversion for them. im saying, if you can be friends with a man, you can definitely marry a man (of course my idea of marriage is completely theoretical). also, id like to add (cause i sense a misunderstanding), i dont think a person is unfulfilled if they remain single. rudy, you have issues, seriously. you sound like these 3ayal suukh.

i think asexuality may be a probability, i mean the term may be wrong, but there are definitely people who just arent attracted in sexual manner to the opposite sex (or to their own sex, im not at all suggesting your gay, just clarifying what i mean by asexual). it can be attributed to a number of things, it may be psychological, hormonal or whatever (the qadr of allah). its okay, you can still marry insha allah but it will just be harder cause this may be something you want to bring up to your partner before you marry (insha allah you will). your best bet for a good marriage would be someone you like as a person, and who has a considerably low sex drive, otherwise one half of that marriage will be very unsatisfied, depending on who compromises of course. khalaf, what are you laughing at? worms and bacteria i think are asexual, because they can reproduce without the opposite sex. are you laughing at me using this term for humans? or because people have actually put a title on self appointed celibacy? it is kinda funny, why do we always have to categorize one another? or maybe youre laughing cause i used wikipedia as a source.

do they actually physically repulse you, or is it some of their "male" traits that just tick you off? are you repulsed, or just not attracted? maybe your asexual? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality

i wouldnt call it a crime, more like a disease. if i cry in front of you, you might catch it.

i like these girls better

i saw butt crack, ewwwww. telephonkada aan siiniiiiin merceedis baan wat-ta cor u qad HAHAHAHAHAHaha, from now on whenever i speak somali, the words will be from this song.

can we ease up on the whole "nigger" thing... it makes me cringe. i cant be the only one who feels this way.

ewwww

why would muslims/somalis believe anything a nonmuslim says about islam? in terms of teaching them a ritual? and to top it off an intruder (colonial power)? im more inclined to believe the colonialist helped promote this practice, i doubt they invented it.

i thought you needed 4 witnesses to PROVE adultery, a rape victims word is all that is necesary. i think the problem is that the concept of rape as a crime isnt fully appreciated here, its somehow translated into an illicit sexual relation.

for some reason i think this is a guy.

^^^that wouldnt be any fun, we want drama.

ideally, i would know everything about him and hed know everything about me. we'd be partners in crime and our mutual diaries. i look forward to that level of intimacy where we can trust each other with anything, and we'd want one another to know everything, from the trivial to the jaw dropping. basically, neither of us should feel like we need to keep secrets in fact im hoping marriage will be the opposite, where well spill our guts out.

im not sure what to think. i dont think convenience is a bad justification, it will in the short temr be in the child's interest. what would physically aging offer her? on the other hand, is this halal?

^^^the thing is, most of us are "broad minded" cause we live in the diaspora, and the qabil rules are watered down. we can afford to be brave cause we're oblivious to the real prejudice that occurs. over here, youll just have the nagging edo's and habaryaar's placing their disapproval , which im sure most of us have learned to disregard anyhow. the other somalis of our generation who grew up here in the "outside" world wont care if you marry a somali midgaan oryahyaar, or whatever.

they really are pretty.

im am now a fan