Salaamz, So let me get this right Nur-I'm sunni and do not accept the shia Mutakalim-I'm shia and the differences btwn sunnia and shia are too 'fundmental', therefor what? Both Aqida's can't be right? Can't be Islam? Kowneyen-You're posts against the Salaf are more gentle this time around (see 2002 posts) Alhamdulillah. So you advocate that we COOPERATE with each other and Hold on to the Rope of Allah (Sabiru wa Rabuti) but yet still be Different/have difference of opinion right? Question to Nur and Philo-King AT WHAT POINT DID YOU XAWA'S/EGO'S TAKE OVER YOUR ARGUMENTS? Cause that is All I see at PLAY! Fi Amanillah

You ladies just proved why the 'B' word fits SOME women so well. :rolleyes: Vicious and Vindictive!!!

Salaamz, Cute_lilgirl the fact that you even pose such a question and are a muslim just DON'T MIX too well. Allah created Male and Female for Intimate Companionship aka SEX and Kids. For if that wasn't the case, then Nabi Adam would have had another Male as his companion instead of Cawa/Eve as his companion-A women. Why? To cohabit with her and enjoy her company. So walaal, I'm not trying to sound cruel or anything but these type of QUESTIONS come from a mind that is ALIEN to DEEN and shouldn't be raised by a MUSLIM. Why? Cause in Islam, Marriage is SACRED and a muslim should not try to do things that might Jeopardize this. I recall in the Seerah (life of the Rasul (salallahu caliyhe wasilm) an incident wherein Aisha (r.a.) was given a ride on a Male Sahabi's Camel. The people saw that Aisha (r.a.) was riding on another man's camel and spread the rumour that she committed ADULTERY with that MAN. How could such a Noble women, a Wife of the Messenger of Allah (salallahu caliyhe wasilm)communicate or ride on another man's camel. Why the rasul (salallahu caliyhe wasilm)thought that this was true and asked Aisha to seek forgiveness. It cause the Messenger of Allah (salallahu caliyhe wasilm)alot of distress. Imagine then the average human being's feelings and emotions when their spouse has close contacts with someone of the opposite gender/sex. :eek: From this incident, its clear that contact btwn a married person and someone other then their SPOUSE can cause FITNAH, Break Up a Marriage, Break Up a Community etc. and if that causes All these EVILS, then what can be HALAL about it. Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Devil's Advocate: Modesty, Yeah, you are short. But you're quite taller than the average where I'm at Kheyr, You must be short as heck. Or you just like to feel that you can dominate over a woman. *smh* What can I say, its either you DOMINATE or GET DOMINATED!!!

Salaamz, Modesty, I don't know about other male nomads but TALL WOMEN are a turn off for most men. If a women is shorter then a man, the man is more than likely to approach her. I think that its the feminine thing for a women to be shorter than a man. The 'HIGH HEEL' age wasn't until recent times. So short women, wereeeeeeeeee alwayyyyys IN! Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Salafi_Online: Innalhamdulillah brother khair if someone believed in all that, and then said The humans can see the Ghayb? are they still muslims! or better yet they visit fortune tellers reguarly? Or yet they ask a human being for help when a calamity strikes them? or Fulan fulan has a highter statues then Noah, or Musa! or to say that Abu Bakr was an apostate! are they muslims? Yet they believe in all that u mentioned above! there are conditions to takfir, and what you mention are some of them but not all of them! This is why the messenger of Allah spend 13 years of his 23 years just teaching the people tawheed! Shirk my friend comes in many forms! If I should take the same line of thinking then, a muslim who commits a sin of any sorts, becomes a Kafir. If you have a relative and they smoke or drink, then that makes them KAFIR automotically. Why even Allah says in the Quran that 'MAN WAS CREATED WEAK (Prone to Temptation)' So engaging in particular acts that might be deemed Haram or Makruh, doesn't necessarily make you a KAFIR. If this was the case, then when you missed Fajr cause you wanted to sleep in that morning (xurdaada aad bee oo macaanade!), then you would be committing Shirk (putting yourself before Allah) and thereby committing TAKFIR. Inshallah, give it time, when you have a family, wife and kids and Allah shows you LIFE'S LESSONS, then inshallah you will understand that Allah is AL-HAKIM, AL-RAHIM and not just AL-MUNTAQIM. I wanted to attend one thing inshallah, these arguments are FRIVILOUS/USELESS, if it comes down to making One MUMIN HATE another MUMIN. Why? Well, its PROVES that the SHAYTAN has done his JOB veryyyyyyyyy wellllll! Fi Amanillah Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Nur: Viking you write: " Why is it you want me to call myself SUNNI ir SHI'A? Can't you see here that you are NOT practising what you preach? " Answer: If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it is probably a duck! The hide and seek game is over, In the coming days, inshAllah I will post more Shia scholars views to show that your beliefs are serious issue, not like Salafi, Ikhwani difference. Because these schools accept the Quraan as complete, and they beleive the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad, they believe and love the Al al beit, they recognize Ali is the fourth Khalif, they never say anything wrong against Al al Beit, nor condone any ruler who did, but they do not believe they humans and infallible, nor do they believe the Rajcajh, the Earthily Qiyaamaha when Sunnis and Shia will be resurrected, before the Qiyamah in which Shia is supposed to take revenge on Sunnis, I am sorry if I failed to practice what I preach, it is an exception this time, but I congratulate you for being a true shia in action as you practice hiding your motives very well to dfened yourself against Naasib Sunni. Nur Salaamz, I don't think that the majority of Shia's (jafari/12 imam school of thought) express these extreme points of view. However, just like the Sunnis have the Salafissssssssss, there tooo exist Extremist Anti-Sunni Shias and I think that you give that group of people TOOO MUCH CREDIT and label a whole Corn Field ROTTEN b/c you don't like the colour of the corn at the side of the lot. Caala Kulee xaal, you ain't saying nothing new. Its the 21st century, 15th century Hijra and you are just rehashing these Differences to Splitttt Hairs from the same HEAD. You don't have to agree with them, but if someone believes in the basic tenents of Islam (Allah is ONE, Muhamed (sallahu caliyhe wasilm) is his final rasul, the Quran is the last revelation (not denying the authority of the quran), 5 pillars of Islam, 6 pillars of Faith; then pronouncing TAKFIIR on them is no LIGHT MATTER cause they are MUSLIM. So if someone says the Shahada,prays their daily salat, fasts/sawm in ramada, pays their zakat, intends/goes to Hajj, then they are a MUSLIM. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it is probably a duck! Fi Amanillah

Salaamz, Conscious Manupilation (Your name is real Looong!) thanx for the Scarrrry article. These are the challenges that are awaiting muslims in the near future in every masjid and home. Ya Allah! :eek: I think that the most of the sisters that have responded in favour of this 'ARTICLE' by NY POST or the issue of Women going to MASJIDS, are welllllllll-SINGLE and NOT MARRIED, DON'T HAVE KIDS!!!! These are HUGGGGGGGGGGGE FACTORSSSSSSSS to considddder from the respondents b/c individual responses are usually affected by a person's SITUATIONAL CIRCUMSTANCES (Daruuf!) So we can't really have an 'OBJECTIVE' debate on this issue if it is btwn MEN v. WOMEN. This is an issue that can best be answered btwn WOMEN V. WOMEN Perhaps, a sister that lives in the Eastern part of the world (OG Girl exempted!) or who grew up in a traditional society or who is married and has kids would give some of you a traditional response. The MALE NOMADS can't get the job done right in this case b/c no mattter what we sayyyyyy we will look SEXIESSSSSSSSSSST!!! Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Nur: Kheyr bro. The topic and your questions have delved into another territory, which needs its own thread, the area is called TAQLIID. Is taqliid of a sheikh mandatory? imaam Sancaani says no, and i agree with him, Nur Salaamz, walaal I am a little confused here, you disagree with Br. Salafi-online but yet you follow the same mujtahids (Ibn Taymiyyah or Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah etc.) in Aqida. These same Shiekhs and their students don't believe in TAQLID (following a particular Shiekh) but yet this is what you are doing and you impose on others in your arguments. Sahal, walaal, the issues are confusing to me b/c this debate btwn to Salafi brothers who agree on most things is wellllll-CONFUSING :confused: I think the problem here is not we listen and respect the ULUMA but rather, do we listen and at least respect all of them or we listen and respect part of them and insult and mock others. Saxib, I agree with you and here is wherein lays the confusion in this debate btwn these brothers. Why? Cause they are both doing the same thing that you speak of 'PICKING ONE SET OF ULAMA AND REJECTING AND INVALIDATING ANY IJTIHADS FROM OTHER ULAMA be they Ahl al Taswuuf, Ithnaacshari, Ashari (most sunni ulama) or even salafi. Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Nur: Salafi Bro. The reason I was alarmed about the issue of the scholars is the fact that Sufi use the same logic, " ASK THE SHEIKH", we the ahlul Sunnah wal jamaacah litsen to our Sheikh and respect them, however, we do not follow them blindly, because it was reported that Omar once asked the companions " what would you do if i get lost" the companions said " we will straighten you with our swords" Qualifying a set of Sheikhs to be the only sheikhs for Ahlul Sunnah is a very touchy issue, today, Islam is at cross roads, and many scholars are looking at our problems from a different perspective, however, every Alim has a Zallah ( mistake) which may not disqualify him to be taken as a scholar in issues he is in line with Ahlul Sunnah wal jamaacah. I am also sensing the same Hizbiyyah from your posts, which you neeed to outgrow if you really believe that we are all Muslims, many groups today are lost because they only liten to a single frequency and topic, Jihadis, only talk Jihaad, Tablighis only talk Jawla and bayaan, Taxriiris talk only Khilaafa, Ikhwan talk about Islamic State, Salafis talk only Ibaadah of Allah, and obediuence of Waliyul Amr. " Wa man yutaa al xikmata fa qad uutiya kheyran katheeraa" Nur Salaamz, So Nur, question to you then, Is the Deen a BUFFET, where anyone who is not a Chef/Nutrionist/Doctor etc. can just PICK AND CHOSE as they WANT??? Hey we live in the age of the Information, so let me type in Google for some Islamic Direction and se what I like-RIGHT? Where do the Ulama stand then? Are they just to be used for the sake of Convienance i.e. If I like that Alim's opinion, I shall take it but if I don't, then he is in the error cause he is a man, so let me do my OWN Interpretation (why? cause I trust myself more than some Alim that I don't know!) Did not the rasul (salallahu caliyhe waslim) always assign Amirs in every campgain (which he could not attend!)? What was the purpose of that Amir then if the Rasul (salallahu caliyhe wasilm was alive, He could have just told/ instructed someone and handed out a sheet or just told the Sahaba what to do? I would say more but I am at work and my state of mind is not Holistic. Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Devil's Advocate: one wonders who the owner of the mosque was trying to accomodate......men first. Hence, it does become an equality issue. -Equality btwn genders are notions and gimmicks Why? You just have to look around the MODERN FAMILY and how kids are turning up into Giant Kids (and not ADULTS) as a result of the gender roles being BLURRED. Question-WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU WENT TO THE MASJID and HOW OFTEN DO YOU GO SO THAT YOUR CRITICISM CAN BE THE LEAST BIT VALIDATED? People who write these articles are coming from a WESTERN LIBERAL BIAS worldview, where if something is not done according to their 'VIEWPOINT' then its NULL/VOID and NEGATIVE. issue is the gender politics and feminists tendencies to bring their polarization venom into the spiritual quarters. Mixing genders is something that so called “progressive†Muslims (I’m in loss what that really means) might find appealing. It is true that Mosque is for all Muslims regardless their gender. It is also equally true that there are rules and guidelines that Muslims should adhere when in the Masjid. These guidelines are not ad hoc rules and they are not open for reform, for instance, who leads the prayer, who delivers the sermon, and who seats where (front vis-à -vis back). I agree with you saxib. We live in an age of SENTIMENT, wherein if something is 'DISLIKED' then it has to be WRONG b/c individual and the collective judgements are deemed SACRED.

Originally posted by Devil's Advocate: When you talk like that, you make your posts less credible! Just keep on yapping.. You know if its SUNNY outside DA/OPI, you would say that its CLOUDY and that a LIGHTING is about to strike any minute. Walaal, you seriously got ISSUES with MEN. :eek: I apologize on behalf of my Domineering Gender, whom sometimes takes WOMEN for granted and mistreatments! Inshallah, you find someone that can turn All your Past Negative Experiences into Bright and Postive ones in the future for you. Now lets get back to the Topic not the Personalities!

Originally posted by Em: 2- Also having your own opinions without bias or prejudice and standing up for what is right no matter what are the pressures you are facing. 3- I think also the Open minded person is the one who convince others without offending, attacking and hurting them. Ppl can disgree with your opinions and beliefs. So the way you deliver your opinions and beliefs is important. PEACE Salaamz, this is one of the best topics that I have come across in a long time. I think that the above nomad defined the concept of being 'OPENMINDED' the best. WHY? OPEN-relates to ACCEPTANCE, TOLERANCE, INDIFFERENCE,PATIENT,GENTLE,KIND,EMBRACING MIND-relates to INTELLECT, INTELLIGENCE, APTITUDE, CLEVER, WIT, CUNNING etc. These are some of the words that come to mind when I hear 'OPEN MINDED' b/c it denotes nothing but POSTIVE THINKING. If you go to any 'OPEN' discussion in any forum i.e. a university class, a muslim convention, a modern day 'family discussion'-you will hear this term 'OPEN MINDED' being referred to over an over again. e.g. Students, note that you should be open minded to this new discussion on stem cell research, if you want to work in medicine. e.g. Brothers, lets be 'OPEN MINDED' and lets treat each other as 'EQUALS' (women and mean, adult and children!) e.g. Mother says to husband 'Please be open minded to what Nimaa wants to do with her life. Now if the phrase 'OPEN MINDED' conjures up postive images, then why does it conflict with the idea of RELIGION??? To answer that first, lets define a few things SENSE - To be Aware COMMON SENSE - A sense of reality that we all have in common. Sensibility - The Psycological interpretation of what is Common Sense SENTIMENT-Personal, subjective emotions. When Sentiment effects your Sensibility , then things go WRONG . PSYCHOSIS - Occurs when someone can't deal with their own Reality, thus becoming Self-Delusional. e.g. I am a healthy person, even though I eat bagels and cream cheese for breakfast and fried rice for lunch every day. Now back to the question at hand: Now if the phrase 'OPEN MINDED' conjures up postive images, then why does it conflict with the idea of RELIGION??? IF you know the REASON/S, then please share with us nomads. Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by CUTE_LILGIRL: always seem to have a problem wit heavy women(are there any guys on here that like heavy women)I have a (THICK) friend, and guys always tellin' her that she is fat and i wanna know why guys act like it's a problem wit dating a fat woman(in which she's not fat she's thick)I just wanna know tha answer to why they act like fat women are tha worst people to go wit)and Hey fat women make tha best wives. She always telling me about her weight and it's just hurt to see her sad because of her weight, and not help her... BUY YOUR FRIEND A GYM MEMBERSHIP, A TREADMILL AND FOR HER OWN HEALTH, STOP TAKING HER OUT FOR MACMACAAN/SAMBUSO AND BAAJI AND THAT MANGO SHAKE Fat women might make good wives but thats cause know one talks about their looks. Its all about their cooking skills or 'Nice personality' :rolleyes: P.S. If a xalimoo can speak her mind on here and bash Farax's, then you can't say 'you know what' about any Farax speaking their Mind too. :cool:

Wa ku salaam bexeenaya, Kaabacdey Its nice to have SOL running back again, Alhamdulillah. It was dead boring in here, when SOL was running through word of mouth. Hey, saxib, shekuu cuusib ma nooxesa Like another Xalimo stopping in traffic, getting out of her car and asking for your number.

Originally posted by OG_Girl: quote: But the money the woman earns is HERS. She can decide whether to contribute to the family budget or not. Now, . Thank You,finally you admit what some were denying for women. I can provide you with countless hadiths, links and list of book to support my stand, what do you have to prove your stand? . What is your stand? Do you have any daliil that says that... Woman's respobsibilities are same as men's responsibilities . Is quick think ..this cames to my mind " kolkom ra3en wa kolokom mas'ool 3an ra3etateh" Means men have respensibilty about kids and wife same as women... so we are deffer? what we were arguing here? If you talking about cooking and cleaning, as Ameenah already said " seems u did not read for her" is " out of love , care, respect" in other word out of " rahmah and mawadah" NOT women's duty to fill your grown up "A$$" tummy. some of us do it some don't. PS: about your daliils in books I just want to say : In identifying what is "Islamic" it is necessary to make a distinction between the primary sources of Islam (the Qur'an and the Sunnah) and legal opinions of scholars on specific issues, which may vary and be influenced by their times, circumstances, and cultures. Such opinions and verdicts do not enjoy the infallibility accorded to the primary and revelatory sources. So don't come to me what you kind of Scholer says . I DON'T THINK THAT THE 'OLD OG GIRL' COULD WRITE LIKE THIS B/C HER ENGLISH IS NOT AS STRONG AS HER ARABIC AND HER MANNERISM WAS MUCH BETTER. NOT AS ARROGANT. SHARIAH GIRL, WHO IS YOUR GHOSTWRITER?????? I think that this TOPIC has been REPLAYED over and over and over and over and over and over and over again like a BROKEN RECORD, always on the same 'CHORUS LINE'.

Salaamz, You know I was thinking to myself the other day as to what type of friends I have now in my life and qadra Allah masha fa'aal I could only count muslim names and most of them are practising muslims. Even at my current job, this pattern follows me. In my old job, there were plenty of female friends that were around me and would invite me to lunch almost every other other day. Now, I have cut ties with all of them and most female friends/acquaintances that I have. All the people from University/High school that I had as friends (non muslims/not practising muslims) I've cut off too. (I'm not snobbish or unfriendly by no means, so stop with the negatives arrows!) I can crack jokes with them and all for a little while but I remember the hadith that implies that a person will be with whom they LOVE and that your companions in this DUNYA will be the same in the Akhira. Anyways, the point is how do you base friendships and do you keep people around for long even though you are CHANGING AS A PERSON and they are still the sammmmmmmme person. Do you think that your friends reflect who you are? Do you have annoying friends that PUSH YOU to be better? e.g. They nag to you about your lifestyle or your job or your family but only b/c they want you to be a better person-Confusing right :confused:

Salaamz, Maybe its just me but has it become the 'IN THING' aka Fashionable thing to do is 'BUSH BASHING' The Hollywood socialities are in on it and the muslims are now feeling a whole lot comfortable to critique 'BUSHE'S MOVES'. I've seen some pictures of Michael Moore and his head has surelllly swellled UP and UP since the Cannes Film Festival showed his film and he won best picture at that festival. As to the question of Voting, did you know that for every vote, political parties generate revenue. Thats right! Why else encourage people to vote, if you don't stand to gain anything. P.Diddy found out about this and has started his own 'VOTER REGISTRATION COMPANY'. Do you think its b/c he cares about the NATION or b/c he stands to gain in on this SCAMMMMM that has been running for some time now? Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by Devil's Advocate: You don't make any sense. But I really do think you are suffering from sexual frustration. It could do that to a person sometimes :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Hey, Starbucks' VIP customer aka Opi/DA, I would use that bit about 'how dare u talk about my sexual frustration and such private things in public, I'll report you to the Admin. next time' line that you have taken accustomed to using people but I'm not MEAN SPIRITED. :cool: So by the way, how's the training of the 'Shariah School girl' coming along. I see that she is a willing student eager to learn and defend her teacher. Have you taught her too how to say 'I'm not SOMALI' in other languages, when a somali guy passes her by. DA, did you tell her that Stiledo shoes don't match well with the jalbaab.

Originally posted by NGONGE: Careful, dear. Anyone not following this topic would think you're implying that I'm some sort of Somali gigalo. :rolleyes: Innocent, your honour. I call for this case to be dismissed. If this ain't flirting, then I'm just a young school boy who's never talked to any women in his life.

Originally posted by Dalmar Hassan Q.: "Let me tell you something, your dirty laundry gets out of school at 2:30 every day, it's cursing and calling each other n------ as they're walking up and down the street," Cosby said during an appearance at the Rainbow/PUSH Coalition & Citizenship Education Fund's annual conference. "I can't even talk the way these people talk, 'Why you ain't,' 'Where you is' ... and I blamed the kid until I heard the mother talk," Cosby said then. "And then I heard the father talk ... Everybody knows it's important to speak English except these knuckleheads. You can't be a doctor with that kind of crap coming out of your mouth." "You've got to stop beating up your women because you can't find a job, because you didn't want to get an education and now you're (earning) minimum wage," Cosby said. "You should have thought more of yourself when you were in high school, when you had an opportunity." Conclusion from Mr. Cosby's statement: -Black Kids are Dirty Laundry (something that is filthy, unclean, unhealth to be around) :confused: -Black people don't have interviewing skills and they talk ebonics and read ebonics at the university level. :confused: -Black men are Wife Beaters. :confused: -Black men are Jobless :confused: hmmmm, interesting Mr. Cosby, what roles were you playing in the 70's blaxpliotation films and the movies you did with Sidney Pointer? Did you forget those roles? What does putting a group of people in PUBLIC ever accomplish??? Upliftment?(Oh, we just got embarassed in PUBLIC, so we feel much better now and we will aim for higher goals Mr. Cosby!)

Salaamz, Ok straight up, the first thoughts that came to my mind when I saw this post was and I'm being honest here-Ngonge sounds faaaaaaaaaaar off from a husband cause he's always in on SOL flirting with the xalimoos. (Stop there, no I ain't jealous!) But qadra Allah Masha Fa'aal, I guess people post your business on SOL and we find out that you are a husband with a child. Man, I'm turning oldddddd fashioned here. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Whenever someone has a child, I remember those ayats in the quran wherein Allah says that you're children will be a test on to you and that you will be tested from what you Love and Cherish the most. Suggestion: a Sunnah in choosing a name for your offspring is reading a page of the quran and selecting the name from the page (i.e. could be about the prophet Yusuf, or a particual companion or a quality/attribute of Allah e.g. Al-Rahman-Abdul Rahman. Fi Amanillah

Originally posted by somalsijui: Oye Niaje, i wouldn't blame it on anybody else but Faaraxs, yes you heard me..it is your bloody fault that today your own women don't respect you. if you think i am lying then tell me when was the last time you did the things i just wrote below. 1-Somali guys need to start respecting the sisters and be kind to them.(if you only respect your Mom and sister then remember even the same girls that you are disrespecting today are some guy like you's sister and future Mom) 2-Faaraxs should Stop spreading lies about the sisters because i have seen somany Faarax's spreading lies about a girl just because she turned him down or maybe she asked him for a direction and all of a sudden Faarax will start bragging that he laid her :rolleyes: .(Grow up for Allah's sake Faarax and act upon your bloody age) 3-Somali guys need to wake up and realize no girl wants a THUG wanna be,trust me every girl wants to be with a Gentleman. :rolleyes: .(nothing is more distasteful than a Faarax acting a Thug when i only know too well you pick on girls because they are supposedly weaker than your skinny and dusty behind and you can't even dare open your filthy mouth to a real man like ME) 4-learn to pay more compliments to the sisters because you and i know they are in a league of their own when it comes to everything and above all your Mom and sister happen to be one too. (trust me any girl will love to be paid a compliment but nothing will give her more pleasure than her own man passing on a compliment to her) 5-Somali guys should learn how to say sweet things to the sisters and they should mean it. (say a one nice line to that Girl you have been fancying all along and see how differently she treats you from your mall rat buddies) 6-Somali guys should learn that LOVE is much deeper than the so-called pride. (when you love someone let that person know how you really feel and please stop believing it is against the rules of God knows what to fall in love with a nice sister) 7-Somali guys should learn to say Please,Excuse Me and Thank You to the sisters more often. (change your bully ways and start with your own sister at home and instead of demanding something try to ask for it after all who you think you are to boss around everybody,you bloody Faarax?) 8-Somali guys should never call the sisters a foul names like certain race seem to glorify in calling their women all sorts of dirty names. (Look this is not a Quentin Tarantino movie or Rap song but a special person who happens to be our most important recourse when it comes to everything...would you be here with your toothpick legs had it not been for your QUEEN Mom?) 9-Somali guys should learn to accept in grace when a sister isn't intrested in him. (forget about what you read in a magazine,trust me nothing that has been written in a book will ever work on a somali girl,if you are smart,that alone should show you how unique our sisters are..whoever said a woman's No means Maybe wasn't talking about Somali Girls..trust me on this one) 10-Somali Guys should learn there is more to love than a physical contact. (Just show a little patience and before you know it you will learn on her how to properly kiss a girl because naturally ladies are better kissers than men..i bet you didn't know that ) 11-Somali guys should learn to be honest with the sisters because nobody wants to see his sister being played like a PS. (if you are not interested in her be a man enough to say so because you wouldn't want me near your sister now,would you?she is another Guy's sister too..who could probably run over you until the next Eid) i can go on for days and believe me in every bad thing a somali girl does is a somali guy's fault because somehow and somewhere her story goes back to one dumb faarax who did her wrong and now she hates the whole somali men. Damn, i should charge you for the lesson i just gave you Faarax,but i shouldn't need to worry because i know you are not smart enough to remember a word of what i just said. Na Na Na<====Faarax this is meant for somebody else . Who's your GHOSTWRITER saxiiib??? No Somali Man that respects himself, would write like that about 'HIMSELF' cause if you are speaking about Faraax's then you are talking about somali men (sujui or not, you're still somali). So Walaal, is all that 'CHEEK TO CHEEK' work getting you anywhere? As the night progressed an Ethio guy came over, and when I said No Thanks, he said <> I was so shocked, wanted to spit on his raw meat eating, cannibal face. It made me wonder if our girls give it easily to non Somalis? Girl, where u been? 'Some' xalimo's treat faraax's like Aliens infront of West Indians/Afro-Americans or anyone that looks like something out of B.E.T. or a Harlquin novel. Somali guys are FREAKY (not the sex-crazed freaky..the other one). Not all, but some. They see you at the mall, and they stare you down. regardless of whether they are wearing the kufi or the bling-bling. Oh, and tell me why I got stalkers calling my house. Girl, you are Turnnnnning me ONNNNNNN! Its hotttttttt in here!!! Somebody grap me some ice, pleasssssssse! You got stalkers, and you don't like Somali guys, well then my name is Andre 'Full Lips' Moore and I'm an Investment Banker and love to write poetry.Oh and did I mention that Sherman Moore from Y & R is my brother. How you like that Truthfully though, you need to meet a faraax who can spark your imagination and make you think that he is 'B.E.T.' or Harliquin material with his sweet words and gestures. Too bad you are Anti-Islam, cause I could have give you some 'Tutoring sessions' and trust me, your GPA would RISE dramatically

Salaamz, You know a friend of mine, a west indian muslim brother who was about 6'4 or so, told me once that he just lovvvvvvvvvved women with BIG FEET! :eek: :eek: :eek: As for me, hmmmm, a weird turn-on would be...... a women with spacing btwn her middle teeth 'Faandaxil-is this the right word!' Do you know why? Cause, hmmmmmm they say ...... well they say that gap toothed people are you know........ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 'FUN' (THIS IS A FAMILY SITE PEOPLE! What did you think that I would say)

Salaamz, Just taking a wild stab at this, but does it involved Opi/DA & QQ or Aeryn Sun.