salaam To all of you i really had a good time with you specially the fun part. any how nafisa macaanto you're shuch sweat heart runtii i even told Big moma about you been here. Every one of you walaahi y'all are amazing and fun ppl to meet. Captivating_SouL,really nice and sweet sister and cool.Sitey-Manoogto , aka unique very gracious sis. imperial lady st paul chick ya'll are very amazing siste's, i can't emagine how nice it was to me meeting you guy's. i f i didn't mention any body that met walaahi i didn't forgot you i love you'all but i'm runing out of time cuz i'm @ work so, ya'll have good time @ school while i will not be in. P.S Malaika sis you're very sweett and adorable, macaanto i wish if i could stick with you and your school but macaant i'm heading back home cuz mom is not doing well, so i dropped all my classes for this semmester. wish me good luck all of you in sha'alaah i will let u know the date i'm leaving. Much love to all of you

salaam Macalimuu nice Questions u shared with us but let me see my self how many of them i got wright hmmm not sure. but i kknw one thing for for sure got almost every one of then wrong.... :cool: justkidding thou. much love to ya'lll

salaam OG moti walaakiis Wlc back to our lovely family missed you. ganbar qaado shaah cab ok.

salaam Originally posted by Muxajabah: My brother is getting married to this reer xamar girl, I know is none of my bizinez who he marries but she is so fake, like the rest of reer xamar ppl. I dont even think they should say they are somalis cause they are not, they are just arab wannabes. How can I tell my brother about her fakeness, and are reer xamar ppl really somalis. Never knew we have some racist around here

salaam i dont speak swahli and never tried to learn, for reall i leved ther for a while never learn i think i'm too damiin to learn hmmmmmmmm. i dont speak swahli,,, same here rudy bro u're not a lone.

salaam hahahaah, realy funy . i like the future wife.

salaam If i'm not mistaken i think mom told me it was a midnight maalin monday ah so i figure it out if it was after midnihgt then it's Tuesday.... :cool: TUESDAY(Talaado): muruqaaqa isticmaal si aad heer sare u gaartid,balse intaas kahor,waxaa lagaaga baahanyahay dadaal ween inaad suubiso ama muujiso,caajisnimo weyn ayaa kaa muuqato,adigoo dadkana kuu maleenayaan amaba kuu yaqaanaan in aad tahay qof khattar ah.adigoo ah qof xagga ganacsiga bussnesska,filimaanta,riwaayadaha iyo heesaha jecel,ku bishaarayso inaad computer ag fadhidid waligaa,ha waalan isna dajji waad kulushahayee,shaqadaadu waa halkaas laakiin indhaha ha beellin,is ilaali,adduunyada way weentahay. most of the sataff is true, much love to ya'll Ps nuune and STHLM_Lady I see we all cajis looyaal huh,,,

salaam st paul chick sis from the first day i ever went to somali mall untill this moment i ask my self why do they hang around the malls? sis i never got the answer but, my solution was when ever i go ther i take my two wonderfull cousins with me so i don't got bothered by any of them. macaanto they don't got any thing else to do i guess if they would have what kinda scheduale i got walaahi none of them would be there, so macaanto take someone with you like a sister or brother. i think brother is the best solution they would be like hmmm she got some one. that is why i got my cousins with me when i go there. To tell the truth walaahi i don't know why? but i beleive they will never change the way they are run ahaatii, they are just typical loosers that is all. you know the only thing that bothers me the most why an earth most of them would be talking on cell and drinking shaax or coffee? walaahi it really amazes me some times don't they have hoome? macaanto i will never stop saying things when it comes them men who got nothinf else to do but stand around. i have to go now. Ps brothers no personel attack but i have to take it out of my chest insread keep in it for ever wich is better u tell me ? much love to ya'll

w'salaam Wlc twisted ayeeyo, i hope u wil enjoy this nomad family stay with us as as u can all right and have fun.much live to ya'll

salaam i scored 6-7 hahahah.... I'm hmmmmConsistent Companion By and large, you're a giving and thoughtful pal. Occasionally, however, you put your interests first and your friends' interests second. That's appropriate some of the time -- the question is: How often are you really there for your friends? Read on and see how you could be an even better friend, in bad times as well as good.... Flyingstill,,,,, coming after you sis since we got the same isue here,,, i mean the same defenision how we are... much love to ya'll.

salaaam Beerka caaro ku goysay,,,, will see what else i coud remeber

salaam To all of you thank you so much for your adivce i honestly apriciated. secondly it's not a arranged marriage the brother aproached her in just a normal way not throught her family u know. so she said ok to him but they only met couple of times as a matter fact she kinda liked him and u know ther's difference between like and a love. the talked for a while but not years just a month or so. As couple of u said i have to talk to her actually i did and i understand that she likes him but not to point when you devalope some feeling u know what i mean. now she thinks it's a good time for her to got marry but the thing is she feels like i need some more time to be with him. I personally beleive you can't know the person unles you share life with. i said to her don't put ur self in bad situation wich will end up destroying ur life. u don' t want to get married to a stranger haaruun abowe he is not a stranger but she does need more time that is all and to tell the truth i even met him he seems to be a good brother typical man. as is back ground he is well known through her familly.the question is is it gonna efect your life if u marry some one u only knew couple of months??. i know some ppl who got mareid with some they just met i beleive in what we call calaf.. "ninka sadax bari ku baran weysid halsano maku baraneysid"( MIZZ-UNIQUE sis that is right macaanto. But Like in aLL reLationships one essentiaL eLement that is a must is COMMUNICATION inorder for the peopLe to understand one another.And another one is PATIENCE if you reaLLy want your marriage to have a surviving chance. Lucky sis this is really importan i have talked to her about it but macaanto she says the seem to communicate good,but she feels like what somalida yiraahdaan he si using. Naag been aa lagu soo xero galiyaa Runa waalagu dhaqaa. it's just what if he is but you can't be really sure about this,it's a theory that runs through somali nation i think.,,,Much love to ya'lll

salaam My mom used to say,,,, Lugooyo badanaa lug iyo laba alle ku gooy. war maxaad lawareegee saq barkaan cidlo gabal kuugu dhace, Duf ku bax,,,, Lagu qaniin,,,, shuban eedadaa hadillo sis walaahi u reminded me, it used to crack me up when mom say that. much love will come back wixii kale i remember,,,, yeah this,,,, dhaga adagaa dhagaha dhub ka dheh,,,,, Meel daran ka dhac...

salaam I think i was around for about a year my celebration was in july so, let's see how o ther nomads have been here. much love to ya'll

Salaam to all of you Freind of mine recently gets proposal from this brother that she didn't really know him enough time, there is this little problem wich is not knowing him enough time. The person is well known throught her familly but she is hesitating abou personalities and dabeecad you know what i mean. the brothter is really ready for marriage so i said go for it and pray the two raka istakhaarah.marka My question is does it really matter how long you have been with the person??? Your comments will be really helpfull.Much love to ya'll

salaam Welcome to S O L, enjoy with us.

salaam Bishaaro first sis Wlc to S O L. Second macaanto i know it's really hard to forgot the person u love but u need to move on in order to got ur life back. sis i have seen ppl suffer like that but all what u need to do is make a du'aa so, allah knows the best. may be some one who is more valuable out ther for you. As Rudy stated; the first cut is the deepest cut when love goes sour i know what that is and it takes years months and days to forgot, it took me more then that don't know how i did it but i did and i'm doing my life just fine. much love to ya'll

salaam Very impresive lakkad thanks for the article u share with us. Other then that i can't rally beleive it that she accepted to be as a second wife. much love to ya'll

salaam we all agree or disagree on abuse thing but plese we all have to remember our parents weren't doing any thing bad to dicpline us . MMA bro i couldn't agree more what u have said, -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by Opinionated: I think 90% of you here...are as backwards as your parents. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Nacaay hadaa rabtid anaga, na dharbaax hadaa rabtid, "abuse" us hadaa rabtid, but our waalid did NOT deserve to be called backwards, and baliis waalidkeena ha u gafin marka i'm not against on no one but please let's not call our parents or grand prent's backwards. much love to ya'll

salaam Deeqa======Asraa

salaam I got 5 A's and 3 B's Down to earth i guess

Salaam It's really tragedy but are you talking about the same guy who got killed in ceder and 24 i guess but not sure if that is him allah u naxariisto. i hope u not saying it's an other man i hope not cuz that will make three men were killed, the first one was in july, so please let's pray for them , and i think it's time for us to do some thing about it qoslaay u right about that. i don't what to us for now, in sha'alaa next time i will post, much love

salaam thanks for the reminder wardi allah kaa baal mariyo. i came across this webb might be help full but it's written in arabic so some ppl might found hard sorry couldn't find in english, here it's http://www.saaid.net/Minute/mm2.htm

W' salaam warxma walaakiis wlc to S O L, make ur self home hope you enjoy this lovely family. satay with us as long as u can. much love to ya'll

salaam Well let me put this way money doesn't rule my life cuz i beleive allah have ur rizaq. As jamaal said money comes and goes an easy way. we shouldn't let aduunya or money rules ou life. i know money might make easy on some thing that u can't think about if u don't have it. But money plays on big part in my life but i wouldn't put on next to my religion. much love to ya'll