QansaxMeygaag Posted February 20, 2013 Alpha Blondy;919882 wrote: Coofle, Khudbo siro waa maxay? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL a secret marriage Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QansaxMeygaag Posted February 20, 2013 Wadani;919919 wrote: I hear Djibouti is pretty lax with illegitimate pregnancies also. The girl comes home pregnant, and the parents tell her to bring the guy and they get hitched...no biggie. It is called "ceeb-qarin/qadhin" and every Somali clan has it, not just Jabuti peeps. Some poor cousin is usually the victim who does the honorable thing and covers for the girl undercovers... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
QansaxMeygaag Posted February 20, 2013 Coofle;919913 wrote: Hee, Would you like to do it...relieve your body desires in Semi-Halaal away (at least psychologically) Khudbo siro is eloping with your beloved to an area where her wali is at least 90 km away..... for muqdisho residents, Cagaaran was the destination for eloping teens. ..... This practice is not common in Somaliland and frowned up by the society....if you knock up a girl in somaliand you are damned and known, if you are in xamar you can always say ""Waan khudbo siraystay"" even if its not true! it gets the job done at least. I think you are confusing mutca (short-term marriage, even for 3 nights ) and a secret, long-term marriage (khudbo siro) with how a girl is married (the actual mechanics) e.g. roormo/eloping (rather than the formal sow-tuug/go beg for her) because you are afraid you might not be accepted by her reer... I should know, my father has 10 girls and they in turn have an average 5 each, so we have had our fair share of drama... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alpha Blondy Posted February 20, 2013 Che -Guevara;919944 wrote: Reread what you wrote and tell me if there are any flaws there? LOL@Che, Madax Sare there appears to be NO flaws. perhaps, you could point these out? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khayr Posted February 20, 2013 Somalicentric;919945 wrote: A vagina & a pulse. Minor edit - A vagina with a pulse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted February 20, 2013 Funny how everyone made their checklist about the girl and not the guy who is clearly asking for a check list to determine readiness! It's a simple list, Africa. 1- Can you afford to look after more than one person? (mentally & financially) 2- Can you cope with another person under the same roof as you almost ALL the time? 3- Can you accept someone else going through your business and being involved in almost all you do? 4- Have you had enough of dating, makeups, breakups and chasing tail? 5- Do YOU feel ready? 6- Can you afford to look after more than one person? (mentally & financially) I personally think you're ready. In fact, you've been ready for a while ninyaho. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khayr Posted February 20, 2013 NGONGE;920037 wrote: Funny how everyone made their checklist about the girl and not the guy who is clearly asking for a check list to determine readiness! It's a simple list, Africa. 1- Can you afford to look after more than one person? (mentally & financially) 2- Can you cope with another person under the same roof as you almost ALL the time? 3- Can you accept someone else going through your business and being involved in almost all you do? 4- Have you had enough of dating, makeups, breakups and chasing tail? 5- Do YOU feel ready? 6- Can you afford to look after more than one person? (mentally & financially) I personally think you're ready. In fact, you've been ready for a while ninyaho. Words of wisdom - what are you on today saxib? Lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted February 20, 2013 hadaad diintaadi taqaanid, dhaqankaagi taqaanid, luqadaadi hooyo taqaanid, shaqo fiican haysatid, qof mas'uul ahna tahay oo caruur korin kara reerna dhaqi kara I would say go for it .. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ducaysane Posted February 20, 2013 Ala Aaliyah talo xumaa Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted February 20, 2013 anoo talinaya ayaanba dhashay. Sheeko. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salahudin Posted February 20, 2013 Africaown n aaliya would make a good couple, wouldnt they? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted February 20, 2013 Salahuddin Africaown requested a marriage checklist, you being married should be able to give a little insight on that ..try not to go off topic he didn't ask to be hitched with a Soler. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salahudin Posted February 20, 2013 Aaliya wa runta walal, laakin this is what married pple do, they play matchmakers...but, back to the topic I think u gave the best talo ang I cosign it.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SomaliPhilosopher Posted February 20, 2013 QansaxMeygaag;919973 wrote: I think you are confusing mutca (short-term marriage, even for 3 nights ) and a secret, long-term marriage (khudbo siro) with how a girl is married (the actual mechanics) e.g. roormo/eloping (rather than the formal sow-tuug/go beg for her) because you are afraid you might not be accepted by her reer... I should know, my father has 10 girls and they in turn have an average 5 each, so we have had our fair share of drama... Qansax, please explain this 'mucta' for me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
