As for my budy Nin_Yaaban, i do understand your point,it seems a lot of ppl missed you, yes specially Somali Women who we derived from and breed from, must not do Abortion at all,You are the Choosen Women ( so why start something that you never did). As for the sister who said she is supporter of Pro abortion, let me ask you this. Every baby won’t grow up to be a perfect, but doesn’t every human deserve the chance to make the most of their life? Even if we know that there is something wrong with the fetus, what gives us the right to compare the baby with ourselves and our own abilities? Isn’t it arrogant to ask another human to live up to our expectations instead of their own?

Maasha allah, this is amazingly is a great Topic, not its contents but its hidden and abstract dilema. Sister Xalima has raised an issue where we as in general Muslim PPL like to ignore it , and is happneing all around us. If you're considering abortion, you owe it to yourself and your child to understand fully what you would be aborting before you make any decisions.Did you know that a fetus can taste, smell, hear and react to touch while still in the womb? Please Don't do it, it is xaraam and you will be asked in qiyaama, beside that if the issue is b/w life and death , then let the Doctors Choose the right path. May allah protect all of you.

Nafta i want blv your story,as if i want you to be happy, but something is not adding up here, first you said you have stood up the brother for all the so called dates ,b/w the two of you, and secondly you said you have consulted yor GF. The biggest mistake you made is involving your GF's about your own life, when it comes to dating and pursuing your future , have it occured to you 99% of female friends if they are not engaged or married, don't want see the happiness of their immediate gf, so do your thing and , go back to the brother and explain to him , that it was not your fault it is your GF's fault they hate you so much, tell him anything, he will understand, and next time make up ur mind solely and don't consult with the ladies. Good luck

I never wanted to reply this Lousy thread ,but i couldn't help myself but noticing how the siter lowered somali men in "General" First thing you've got to do: Change your cheesy idea of Describing yourself. Your babe-o-meter needs readjusting. Right now, you probably have it set to go off . Look beyond the shortcomings. And plz when you find one brother with whom you can carry on a conversation, spend some time with him — and find out.You know not all of us "Alike"

It used to be that you would look around very carefully before deciding to cheat or not, and sample of women's around you, and you would get a gut feeling if it is more sophisticated to start cheating. Now it is ezy for both sexes to cheat and boast about it. So yes both men and women cheat big time. Before the Marriage and after the marriage.

Now days it is unbecoming to be Nice Person , at all, ppl let you down, abuse you,and even bad mouth you for just being nice to them, so i am taking a course now how to reverse all that good actions and join the so non-frinedly faces.

Hey Qoslaye, don't you think this topic should have been in Teen section, rather than here, since u are talking about GIRLS not WOmen, unless you r confused about the two Syllaps.

Peace upon them, and condolences goes to all the families.

Peace upon them, and condolences goes to all the families.

The offensive of labelling people as extreme fundamentally too young , Vibe or all of these, is to accuse them for not being as they should. It underlines the purpose of this arguement so called Future of Somalia , I also would argue, that it is exactly this cheap thread, but popular in term of putting down people in general,appeals to the emotions and constitute oppostional arguments.

Wlc back NinYaabin , has it been that long, damn it is , wlc

The tragedy of this thread is ,after the destruction in our county a disproportionately great violence has been leveled against somali women. And now it is no surprsining that men like you have to open their dry mouth , to insult once again our wonderfull women like a token of toys. I am down with sister Xalimo, tell me again sister where are you, i am surprised how you asked God to revise his scripture, lol. Respect.

Please let's know if there is any web site for donation, is being set up. If one needs to contribute, thanks. So sad.

It is a heartbreaking news, to hear any body being murdered let alone , that person is another Somali Individual. What is going on that rubbish state (MN), are you all happy out there, not long ago i have mentioned that ,the stories i have been hearing from MN, is an awfull ones. If you are a decendent of Somali Origin , you are a victim of choice being Robbed, Killed and Insulted, how on earth ppl live out there. my condolences goes to the family of this innocent victim. May Allah Take care him, and every one who lives in that state,be carefull.

I am very much interested in knowing xalimo7,if you ever got your money back, plz update us on this one?

This seems a very interesting thread ,Somalians no matter where you at is crying for salvation now more than at any time before. It is time for everyone to be concerned rather than keeping aloof and commenting from safe distance. A dangerous polarization should not be tolerated to take root. The civic societies should come up in support of immediate dialogue to solve the crisis. The much-awaited National Conferences should also be considered to take place sooner than later. So let'all cool down for a while and stop negating every comment or thread one makes.

Thank you sister Xalimo7, for sharing this important information with us, i for one will never use these two organization that you labeled"Thugs". Never will they get my money.

Well i have read so many stories about Horrible situation that happened in Somalia, yes i was very lucky to have left the country at an early age and never have to experience what i have heard, but sure some of my family suffered too, but the point i am making basicaly is, it is important to remember that a young child's pereception is based on what is felt in the moment. In Zadiq's case she does not comprehend the concept of death, Zadiq when a person is gone then always a person is there. It is very hard maybe you have missed the rhythm and that is causing your specific grieveness. well put your act together.

I am torn between two people to get my vote. But let me throw my hat in the ring My vote goes to Xalimo7 Congrat, sister xalimo yeh i know you around

Point well taken A-Sheikh, but to be sad is better then not showing any feeling toward killing of innocent human life. Sure they might be having this meetings , but am only speaking for my heart , i have to show how saddening it is to me , it might not be to you, but it is in me. Cz i could have been that Doc!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well all i have to say is, if you got the time to listen O'Riley and Fox news , then you must be pretty hard headed, it is not a news organisation , we know for fact who FOX (Fear of xtreme) stands for, so don't waste your time watching him.

This is very touching story,and it really affects me personally.To pick up a gun and aim it at another(Docotor) human being and to fire, it's not a human thing to do,It's not nice. It's not pleasant. It's gory, it's bloody. It overcomes every human instinct. the only thing that would be worse to me , would be to do nothing , and to allow those killers loose, if the so called Somali gov, in that region don't act quickly, don't count those of us who are hoping to return in these killing fields, you guys better act quickly and find those thugs.

Congratulation! so you have been snooping this site for a while, now xalimo how do you feel? Congrat . Well deserved But ezy with the Aliens from now on.

well xalimo, little sis i luv 2 meet u 2. Thank you just let me know. I already met several of SOL Nomads via video Net Meeting, and i luv'd .

And yes Xalimo, as i have mentioned to you, anytime anyday , you wlc in my hut.Just bring your hotel money .Bye siter