sister as i was surfing i came across your writing and i felt like a rock was thrown into me to read ur article, i wish most of the true somali muslim women listen up and see that it is not in thier best interest to immitate, i for one a prgressive somali men, usually i don;t pay attention what our btlf somali women wear, but lately i am becoming little bit concern about that, i don;t know if that is good or bad, but i think u made a good point and i hope that they atleast pay attention into ur timing, good luck and may god bless u,

you have asked a great question, but u missed the whole point, i think most of the somali women are great women and they need to be treated like a queen, first you should not be making angry a women who had a child not five but even one child how dare can you even ask that question when this women , offspring five kids , and wakes up everyday and cooks cleans and puts to bed these children of urs, while u some where god knows what the helll u r doing, u got my point bro, she must be so angry that she don;t want deal ur stinking ass. so respect the lady and learn to grow up quickly before she disappears .good luck

somebody enlighten me plz, why it is the same when i said i love you to a lady, you said it meant that you want to put her in bed and have sex. If that is the definiton of true love then i think you belong to a different category of individuals, becuase i do not see that way, if i say i love you some one , i really mean it, but i have never heard some one went to a lady and said i love you, then can i have a sex with you, what is that? are u crazy or u from another world?

well if we don't talk about Love then we do not need to talk at all, it is a very important aspect in our lives, one must however differntiate when to say it and when not to,so we just can't burry it , we have to talk about, because love is the only way we can solve any issues around your home and around the world.

well said sis and i do agree with you, so i think maybe we need an understanding b/w us so that one must never aggrevate the other individual, but sis your point well taken, it takes one to advise . So i respect that and thank you for your heartworming reply. take care and good luck

Very intersting, well said i think one must be very honest to say i love you for the first time you encounter some one you never met, it is an honor one to say i love you and respect you, but sometimes yes we do use the word love in a different content, but the important is , if the person who is saying i love meant its content then you should accept it and see if you can elaborate it, but if you can't then it will be the interest of the the two parties to work it out and sort out what is the true feeling of that individual is, but i agree with you some somali men do u use the word love, just to meet you, but not all of them. So sis i do not know much about you but i think you sound a very nice person and intellegent , so if you ever receive or get some one who tells you they love and you agree with that individual take the opportunity and check it out. Good luck and hope to hear back from you walaal.

Well i am responding to the lady who asked why some somali men always say i love you when they meet a new person? good question but the reality is sis one must be humble to be said i love you when it meant its content , because as a man or women if one can't express their true feeling then we all at loss, i myself always express my love when i find the true individual.so it is no shame to be called i love you, it is you who will decide then if that love is true or not, so accept the loving and care shown to you,