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  1. I agree with Flip.. PEOPLE it's called Loving your deen loving Allaah and His messenger only wanting Allaahs pleasure.
  2. As'salamu aleykum... Bro even though you want naseeha (advice) do you think your wife would be happy about you discussing your marriage matters on SOL? Aallahu allam! Firstable the best marriage and the best love is the one that happens for the sake of Allaah subhanaAllaah'ta'aala, no doubt about that. But yeaa i would like to throw my two cents in inshaAllaah, make sure you and your wife have memorised your rights over one another.. if not here are the rights... 1Wifies rights over the husband: 2Feeds her when he feeds himself 3Clothes her 2 Is kind to her, shows love and affection, careing, compassionate and playful, preventing jelousy hatred or rancour 3)Provides in general 4) EDUCATES HER Gives quality time 5)Sexual gratification 6) Has the right not to be taken from her family (Unless he fears evil from their company influencing her) Should keep her family name Provides a seperate place if he marries another wife Should not speak ill of her in absence spreak household secrets speak about her at all in general and gossip Has the right to a khula Cannot have sex on her mensus or on her stomache Husbands rights: DObedience in that which is good, halal, and in accordance with the book and the sunnah. Does not allow people in the house he is not pleased with Does not missappropriate his money Guards his property in absence She must educate his children Gives him children if wanted Maintains the household (master of the household, basically what she says goes as long as its not on contrary with the book and the sunnah) Does not speak ill of him in his absence, spread household secrets or gossip or speak about him at all in general. Sexual gratification. Should ask permission to leave the house Should not fast voluntary, or sunnah prayer without his permission. Rights to divorce, talaq. yeaa,, this is All you need Quraan wa sunnah and these rights tell her Ittiqullah, and also you fear Allaah as we all should... I hope this helps May Allâh increase our Taq'wa, Îman, Ihsân and Ikhlas, Allâh huma amîn. May we be loyal to our Creator no matter what the circumstance, Ameen.
  3. Hypocrits should be 1st on the list.since they will be in the lowest pit in hellfire.
  4. As'salamu alaykum ! Sayid Qutb?... as in the finder of the Qutubis? Allahu Mustaa'an Brother i dont know whetehr you have studied Manhaj & Aqeedah but inshaAllaah my nasee7a to you is do a little back information about sayd Qutb because subhanaAllaah you shouldnt be promoting devience Astaghfir'Allaah. his teachings, his student and his followers till this day are being refuted so inshaAllaah reincheck! inshaAllaah i'll give you some of his errors.. His denial of some of the Attributes of Allaah in the way and style of the Jahmiyyah. [The way of the Mu'attilah] His attacks on the Miracles of the Messenger (sallallaahu alayhi wasallam) . His refusal of the acceptance of ahaad hadeeth in matters of Aqeedah. [The way of the Mu'tazilah] His denial that Eesaa (as) was raised to the heaven His claim that the point of dispute between the Messenger and the Pagans was with respect to Tawheed ur-Ruboobiyyah only and that Tawheed ul-Uloohiyyah is but Tawheed ur-Ruboobiyyah His claim that the Sifaat (Attributes of Allaah) are but mere imaginations (takhyeel) His refusal to pray Salaatul-Jumu'ah with the justification that there is no khilaafah at the present time. This list could go on and on inshaAllaah I hope this encourages you to do a little background search on him and make Tawbah if you were jaheel on the issue if Not May Allaah guide you Aameen May Allâh increase our Taq'wa, Îman, Ihsân and Ikhlas, Allâh huma amîn. May we be loyal to our Creator no matter what the circumstance, Aameen.
  5. salaam alaykum once again..,, Gosh1 sis i used to hate cooking but now i've learned that cooking is an art that i can master, im also busy with school, and stuff... i agree with you we should really have some cooking tips, or else this shouldn't be called the womens section --FeeAmenALLAH-
  6. As-salaam alaykum wr wb InshaALLAH this should answer ur question akhi.... The Fiqh of Working for a Bank Answered by Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam, Darul Iftaa (Leicester, UK) I am currently working for a bank, and I know at a basic level that you're not allowed to work in bank due to Interest. This is not an Islamic bank.All that I am doing is checking if the customer has filled in the form right and sending a letter back to the customer, letting them know what is happening about the bank account. I don't deal with the money or the financial aspect of this . Also is it allowed for a cleaner or someone concerning the food aspects to work at a bank? I was wondering what is the Islamic rule or law concerning someone working at a bank, and is it right for me to still work for them?. In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful, As a principle, it should be remembered that, the permissibility or impermissibility of employment in a particular firm or company basically depends on two things: 1)The nature of the job must be lawful (halal), meaning if the work entails something that is prohibited in Shariah, such as posing for nude picture-taking, serving alcohol or recording and calculating interest transactions, etc, then this type of work will be unlawful. The reason for its prohibition is that, the work itself has been prohibited in Shariah. And due to this, even if the salary was paid from a Halal source, the work will still remain unlawful. 2)The salary or income that one receives must also be from a Halal source. If the work itself is lawful (halal), but the salary is paid from unlawful and impure money, such as stolen or interest money, it will still be unlawful to accept that job. Keeping the above two points in mind, the ruling with regards to working in a bank depends on exactly what the job consists of. Employment at a bank that entails direct involvement with interest based transactions, such as the job of a manager, cashier, clerk, etc will be unlawful (haram). Sayyiduna Abd Allah ibn Mas’ud (Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace) cursed the one who accepted usury, the one who paid it, the witness to it, and the one who recorded it. (Sunan Abu Dawud: Book 22, Number 3327). In another Hadith, the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) invoked curse (la’na) on the receiver of interest, the payer of interest, the scribe and the two witnesses. And he said: “They are the same†(i.e. in sin, m). (Sahih Muslim) Thus, the warning of the Messenger of Allah is very severe. The one who is directly involved with interest transactions in any way, shape or form, such as writing or calculating the transaction will earn the curse of Allah Almighty and his beloved Messenger (Allah bless him & give him peace). Therefore, one must avoid accepting a job at a bank, which consists of being involved in interest transactions and dealings. It is unlawful (haram) to help and assist others in their interest-based dealings. One must decide between temporary worldly gains and the curse (la’na) of Allah Almighty and his Messenger (Allah bless him & give him peace). If a person is already employed at a bank, then he is advised by the scholars not to leave his job immediately, rather he should look for a permissible job elsewhere and when he succeeds in obtaining one, he should leave the employment at the bank. The important point here is that one must exert all possible ways and means in order to a find an alternative job. If one puts in the effort and is willingly ready to accept comparatively reduced benefits, then there is no reason why a suitable job is not found. (See: Contemporary Fatawa by Shaykh Taqi Usmani, P. 280-281). However, if the employment at a bank is such that it does not have a direct involvement whatsoever with interest based transactions, such as the job of being a guard, cleaner or cook, etc, then this type of job will be lawful although superior to avoid. As for the income received on such jobs is concerned, scholars mention that the money stored in a bank is not all interest money, rather the cash stored in the bank (and from which the salary is given), comprises of the depositors depositing their money in various accounts, capital put in by the owners of the bank and also interest money. In fact, the portion of interest money is usually less in comparison to the other two types of income. Therefore, the salary received from the bank is a mixture of unlawful and lawful wealth of which the majority is lawful. As such, it would be permissible to accept this money as income provided the actual job is lawful. (See: al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya: 5/343). In conclusion, it will be unlawful to employ one’s self in jobs at a bank (or any other place) that have a direct involvement with interest-based transactions. However, if the job has no connection with interest dealings whatsoever, then it would be permitted to take this job, although detested. And Allah knows best Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari Darul Iftaa, Leicester, UK
  7. As-salaam Alaykum..wr wb InshaALLAH you are all in high emaan and best health, these days im crazy about cooking, especially International F-O-O-D so here's my favourite and my hubby also inshaALLAH chilli karahi chicken: that my lahori friend taught me Ingredients: -3 lb chicken (cut into small pieces) -2 tomatoes (cut into squares) -ginger -oil( Oilive oil yaah) -salt(i usually use the vegie oil i think my aussie sisters know what am talking abt. -red pepper -turmeric -coriander powder -yogurt(ofcourse natural Yogurt) -2 little green pepper thingies - the thin jalapeno peppers that are pointy at the end(cut into pieces) -coriander aka cilantro Directions: 1) Put some oil in the pot 2) Cut 1 square inch ginger and put into pot 3) When ginger starts getting slightly brown, add in chicken 4) Stir; When chicken is turning brownish color, Add: - 1 teaspoon salt - 1 teaspoon red pepper - 1/4 teaspoon turmeric - 1 teaspoon corriander power 5) Mix in spices, and add half cup yogurt 6) Cover pot and let cook on low heat until chicken is soft/tender 7) When water is dry, add in tomato cubes, 2 little green peppers, and another 1 inch piece of ginger (thinly cut) 8) Cover pot again and when tomatoes are softer & water is mostly dry, you're done! [Also you can decorate the top with cilantro] Also we usually eat it with plain rice meaning don't Fry the rice because the karahi chicken has too many flavours..
  8. i orgot the last bit here it goes again... <.. Giggling Congratulations, Sensual_Healing! Your IQ score is 86 This number is based on a scientific formula that compares how many questions you answered correctly on the Classic IQ Test relative to others. Your Intellectual Type is Word Warrior. This means you have exceptional verbal skills. You can easily make sense of complex issues and take an unusually creative approach to solving problems. Your strengths also make you a visionary. Even without trying you're able to come up with lots of new and creative ideas. And that's just a small part of what we know about you from your test results.
  9. as-salaam alaykum wr wb i WISH i never took it, but of all the IQ test's i've taken this is the lowest score so far But im still Proude of myself so give me a pat on the head..
  10. As-salaam Alaykum wr wb inshaALLAH i hope you all benefit from this, i know i did. HEADACHE? EAT FISH! Eat plenty of fish -- fish oil helps prevent headaches. So does ginger, which reduces inflammation and pain. HAY FEVER? EAT YOGURT! Eat lots of yogurt before pollen season. Also-eat honey from your area (local region) daily. TO PREVENT STROKE DRINK TEA! Prevent build-up of fatty deposits on artery walls with regular doses of tea. (actually, tea suppresses appetite and keeps the pounds from invading....Green tea is great for our immune system)! INSOMNIA (CAN'T SLEEP?) HONEY! Use honey as a tranquilizer and sedative. ASTHMA? EAT ONIONS!!!! Eating onions helps ease constriction of bronchial tubes. (onion packs place on chest helped the respiratory ailments and actually made breathing better). ARTHRITIS? EAT FISH, TOO!! Salmon, tuna, mackerel and sardines actually prevent arthritis. (fish has omega oils, good for our immune system) UPSET STOMACH? BANANAS - GINGER!!!!! Bananas will settle an upset stomach. Ginger will cure morning sickness and nausea. BLADDER INFECTION? DRINK CRANBERRY JUICE!!!! High-acid cranberry juice controls harmful bacteria. BONE PROBLEMS? EAT PINEAPPLE!!! Bone fractures and osteoporosis can be prevented by the manganese in pineapple. MEMORY PROBLEMS? EAT OYSTERS! Oysters help improve your mental functioning by supplying much-needed zinc. COLDS? EAT GARLIC! Clear up that stuffy head with garlic. (remember, garlic lowers cholesterol,too.) COUGHING? USE RED PEPPERS!! A substance similar to that found in the cough syrups is found in hot red pepper. Use red (cayenne) pepper with caution-it can irritate your tummy. BREAST CANCER? EAT Wheat, bran and cabbage Helps to maintain oestrogen at healthy levels. LUNG CANCER? EAT DARK GREEN AND ORANGE AND VEGGIES!!! A good antidote is beta carotene, a form of Vitamin A found in dark green and orange vegetables. ULCERS? EAT CABBAGE ALSO!!! Cabbage contains chemicals that help heal both gastric and duodenal ulcers. DIARRHEA? EAT APPLES! Grate an apple with its skin, let it turn brown and eat it to cure this condition. (Bananas are good for this ailment) CLOGGED ARTERIES? EAT AVOCADO! Mono unsaturated fat in avocados lowers cholesterol. HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE? EAT CELERY AND OLIVE OIL!!! Olive oil has been shown to lower blood pressure. Celery contains a chemical that lowers pressure too. BLOOD SUGAR IMBALANCE? EAT BROCCOLI AND PEANUTS!!! The chromium in broccoli and peanuts helps regulate insulin and blood sugar. Kiwi: Tiny but mighty. This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, Vitamin E & fibre. It's Vitamin C content is twice that of an orange. Apple: An apple a day keeps the doctor away? Although an apple has a low Vitamin C content, it has antioxidants & flavonoids which enhances the activity of Vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke. Strawberry: Protective fruit. Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits & protects the body from cancer causing, blood vessels clogging free radicals. (Actually, any berry is good for you..they're high in anti-oxidants and they actually keep us young.........blueberries are the best and very versatile in the health field........they get rid of all the free-radicals that invade our bodies) Orange: Sweetest medicine. Taking 2 - 4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessen the risk of colon cancer. Watermelon: Coolest Thirst Quencher. Composed of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione which helps boost our immune system. They are also a key source of lycopene - the cancer fighting oxidant. Other nutrients found in watermelon are Vitamin C & Potassium. (watermelon also has natural substances [natural SPF sources] that keep our skin healthy, protecting our skin from those darn uv rays) Guava & Papaya: Top awards for Vitamin C. They are the clear winners for their high Vitamin C content. Guava is also rich in fibre which helps prevent constipation. Papaya is rich in carotene, this is good for your eyes. (also good for gas and indigestion) Tomatoes are very good as a preventative measure for men, keeps those prostrate problems from invading their bodies.
  11. I took these quotes from these *******s from various editorials from newspaper ariticles.This is what they truly think of us.And then you have some muslims wanting to vote for taghoot and live and die in the west in support of this foul people.I have labeled the people in brackets accordingly as what they are. No Jokes Nomads NEVER BEFRIEND A KAFFIR!!!!!! Jim Robinson(american terrorist) I think that his turban is wrapped a tad too tight. Its cutting off much needed oxygen to his brain F14 Pilot(american terrorist) Maj. Gen. Rahim Safawi, we have you surrounded. Free your people or suffer. dawn53(american terrorist) I wish W would press the red button and do some 'series' damage on these bas-tards. It might make an impact on their thought process. Where is Enola Gay when we need her? (enola gay is one of the planes that drop the atomic bomb on the japanese). F14 Pilot(american terrorist) The problem with these people is that they think they are tough because they are able to so easily bully their own people around. They have thugs march around and, for the most part, people comply with their demands. They think it makes them strong.They aren't familiar with what a real military force can do. They can bluster all they want, but when the war comes they will be crushed just like Saddam. aardvark1(american terrorist) Hell, I'm in a bad mood (tree through my house thanks to Jeanne) let's just nuke them now before breakfast and get on with the day. F14 Pilot(american terrorist) I'd advise Mr. Safawi to mass all of Iran's armed forces (army, air force, etc.) on the Iraq border and then challenge The Great Satan to a face-to-face fight. With Allah on your side Mr. Safawi, how can you lose? (smirk)(this is what we want you piece of crap kaffir cowards) Former Military Chick(american terrorist/whore) Our job to eliminate and eradicate!! Kill them all equally..Gods job to deal out forgivness or sentences to the lake of fire... I think it getting hotter. Former Military Chick(american terrorist/whore) Disturbing, yes. When the alternative is a lifetime of suffering under abusive, oppressive, fanatic men, suicide becomes an attractive option for hopeless Islamic women. Former Military Chick(american terrorist/whore) We are yet at the scientific and social stage where killing fertile women is the most efficient long term solution to defeating an enemy.If the enemy kills his own fertile women, who are we to complain? All(american terrorist) So from now on, women can be considered legitimate targets, too? politicalmerc(american terrorist) Here's what we should do, load up about twenty C-17's with rose pedals and dump them over whatever city these *******s are in. Included in with the rose pedals are leaflets telling the locals that unless they hand over the terrorists the next flight over the neighborhood will be from B-52s loaded for bear with as many bombs as there were rose pedals and give them a week to decide their own fate. Then if we don't have the terrorists by the end of the week we wipe that city from the map permanantly. On their way out of the city we interview and fingerprint every last person that leaves, all possibles are arrested on the spot. once that is done we repeat the process where ever any terrorists operate. Sounds a little over dramatic doesn't it? a bit too nnnniiiiicccccee! usmcobra(american terrorist) Rose petals? Nonsense. Go straight to "...wipe the city from the map...". Think about it. It only took 2 atomic bombs and a Dresden-type fire-bombing of Tokyo to gain an unconditional surrender from the EMPIRE of Japan. Abar(american terrorist) looks like islam has some "hot plans" for us this ramadan season.looks like some of them plans are being foiled.hope allah's got kevlar. Travis McGee (american dumb @$$) We will not tolerate those in this country and around the world who threaten to kill and have killed us.We are about to Jihad your mangy a$$es in America and around the world! BOHICA you scumbags, here it comes!(you mean the way its coming to you in Iraq and Afghanistan?) Sweet_Sunflower29(american ***** ) Human shield or human bomb, makes no difference to me. At least this guy saved us some $$ for the ammo we didn't have to use. Sweet_Sunflower29(american ***** ) Wonder if this oaf still gets an instant pass to heaven with all the virgins to sooth his pain? sarasmom(american whore/aids sufferer) These guys are really bad at math. Don't they realize that at some point, Alah is going to be running out of human virgins? And isn't all this talk about rewards of virgins really connected to earthly lust? This right there seems to me would make ol' Acme Abdul say "hmmmmm...." nuconvert(american drug addict) Maybe it's time for all Muslims to do a good deed per day for a non Muslim and preferably a jew. Would work wonders. RISU(hellfire candidate) Muslims are called upon to emulate the "exemplary life" of this murderous prophet. The more civilized Muslims play a game of pretend where the beneficent examples are acknowledged and the existence of the murderous examples is denied. RISU(hellfire candidate) Islam imposes a threat to the whole world . . . which is far worse than deforestation, nuclear destruction or AIDS. It is an insidious, devilish disease creeping into the veins of the world. Every individual must realize the destructive and evil nature of this religion, for it eats away at the very foundation of humanity, which is: nuconvert(american retard/monk) No need for the question mark. What I am saying is that Islam is the "false" religion, not even a religion at all, but an attempt by men to control opther men, and that it should be terminated wherever it existis, justlike communism, and National Socialism (Nazi). nuconvert(american retard/trash) The impoverished and backward lands where Islam predominates can never compare materially with the West.Today it is characterized by suicidal maniacs who glory in the murder of infants.(kinda like when you bombed the japanese?) The good Muslims, if they exist at all, are either silenced by fear or apathy. RISU(hellfire candidate) islam is one turd the cannot be polished. The fact that so many are duped by a psychopathic pedophile who brought nothing to the world besides grief is what is truly horrible. What type of sick freak would get on their knees to pray to such a vile person? islam is a joke. GeekDejure("geek of the day") To understand the evil that islam is and always has been, read the biography of the 'prophet' - download The Life of Mohammad - click Fred Nerks for Link. hyperpoly8(american terd) The only way Islam can hold on its followers is force them never to leave or be killed!(thats why its still the worlds fastest growing religion right?) dsc(crack baby) How does orthodox Christianity "dialog" with any other religion? The god of Islam is not the Creator God of the universe, the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.How can the church tolerate this? This is almost unbelievable!!!! dsc(crack baby) Well, I would place kissing the Koran in the same category as kissing the Satanic Bible, or some witchcraft manual, or the Book of Mormon..... why kiss it...especially if it is not the inspired Word of God? Why send mixed messages to people? You are either on the side of the Lord Jesus Christ, or the side of Satan...there are ONLY two side.( I wonder if he could tell us the five pillars of Islam? since he knows so much about Islam) FearlessRightwinger (playstation warrior) Nah, you can shoot the enemy all you like and hate them while you're doing it. I would even encourage pissing on the islamofascist baby killers.(like the jew that got pissed on?) NYer (child molester) My solution to conflict with Islam is ----- eliminate Islam. and it goes on and on. ALLAH GIVE THESE PEOPLE WHAT THEY DESERVE AND TAKE ACCOUNT OF THEIR TONGUES...
  12. As-salaam alaykum wr wb.. Lateafa, SubhanaALLAH i LOVE you... Feesabilillah anyways i think this is an old thread but never the less WELCOME BACK...
  13. As- salaam Alaykum wr wb. LoL Rudy, i can't believe you havn't bought her Gold,. I DEMAND YOU BUY IT FOR HER!! Indian Gold is my favourite they are hand made Oooh, and Bango gold is soo In these days, man! you have a nice Obediant wife MashaALLAH Lakini she shouldn't even ask for it, your complaining about Gold i want Diamonds.! P.S/ if you don't want to you don't have to, because islamically your only responsible for shelter, food, clothing, and mating
  14. SubhanaALLAH, when ever i think of kidnapping one woman comes into my mind this somali woman she was m neighbour it was like ten years ago when somalis were very new to the country, i think she went to the call box to call africa, Two white men approached her and tried to kidnap her, she was like Hoqeey! or Baa'aay something like that and went straight for the ground they couldn't pick her up. MashaALLAH a lil meat can really help our mali women we still talk about it and laugh
  15. Salaam. Let me Get my Dhacas, why can't we all just relax and Dring Caano Geel or something But yeaa good Advicei got my Dhacas Now.. -Allah Hafiz...
  16. Originally posted by Qacbaro: p.s. mother in laws, know the lazy things girls do, they used to be girls, and now they want the best thing for their sons, that is not a problem, i think,u shouldn't be calling her a witch, i think this relationship is in bad ice, u and ur husband the mother should sit soon, before this goes to something else. Im not lazy and More women enter Hell because they are ungrateful to their husbands. not to their mother in laws, and I'm not Lazy and if i was it would non of her business. Originally posted by SCORPION_SISTA: To original poster, reading your topic quiet honestly leaves me with some questions...First of all, before marrying your husband had you not met your mother-in-law to be at all? Had you never attempted before moving in with her to interact or get to know her any better? Why didn't you just postpone your wedding until your husband and yourself were in better financial situtions?...Personally i feel that you posting such a topic about your own mother-in-law regardless of your feeling or her action shows bad taste and bad manner on your part...Keep your personal family business just that and Personal..if you felt you had to let some steam out there are multiple of ways to do so and would not be disrespectful to someone older than yourself regardless of their behavior....I think you owed it to your husband to not disrespect his mother publicly in a website...Bee bye Your right it is Quiet personal, But i havn't mention her name or anything and i just wanted to hear the nomads opinions and experiences, i mean no Dis respect to her and i've said that earlier, and Al hamdulillah i DON'T HAVE BAD MANNERS! by the way people are not the same when you meet them outside home and when you actually live with them, and being her daughter in law doesn't make the situation easier! Originally posted by GlassEyeGirl: SubxanAllah, I couldn't imagine my sister in-laws calling my mother witch, old bag and such a disrespectful names. Walaahi intaan guriga utu tagaan soo rifi lahaa, no joke. Haa ii soo mariin in that case, she's only 46 yrs old, she should know how it feels she was a daughter in law once upon a time right? we were going to live at my parents house plenty of space there but she wouldn't let him she said what would people think? she wanted me to move in with them so she could harrass me (lol)
  17. i want to ask a question, smali politics is basically based on Tribesman right? so can i be a tribeswoman?lol
  18. whats true the size of the wheels on the motorcycle?
  19. Originally posted by Qacbaro: If u can't tell the difference then u r doomed to be played. sis. Most of the time i don't even know whether a guy is being too friendly or trying to hit on me Seriously things should be in black and white for me other wise i'll be lost in the middle lakini al hamdulillah my husband puts everything in black and white, so i won't complain.
  20. they do, just ask Shoobaro [/QB] aha aha Yahuuuuu, but if his a male i guess his allowed since his allowed to marry four women
  21. Question #49016: The real meaning of ‘uboodiyyah (true submission to Allaah) Question : I read in question no.11804 that the purpose for which mankind was created was to devote their worship to Allaah alone. Can you explain to me the real meaning of worship?. Answer : Praise be to Allaah. Praise be to Allaah and blessings and peace be upon the Messenger of Allaah. ‘Ibaadah (worship) in Arabic means submission and humbling oneself. The Arabs use the phrase tareeq mu’abbad to describe a smooth path which has been become smooth because so many feet have walked on it. In Islamic terminology the word ‘ibaadah is used in two senses: 1 – The actions of a person, such as praying or paying zakaah, which are described as ‘ibaadah. The scholars defined it as follows: It means obeying Allaah by doing that which He has commanded and avoiding that which He has forbidden, whilst loving Allaah, fearing Him and putting one’s hopes in Him. 2 – It also refers to the action itself in abstract terms, such as prayer, zakaah, etc. The scholars defined it as follows: This is a comprehensive word which includes all word and deeds that Allaah loves and is pleased with, both outward and inward. These enjoined actions are called ‘ibaadaat (acts of worship) because people do them in humility and with love for their Lord. In worshipping Allaah there has to be complete love as well as complete submission to Him. Our Lord has told us that the ultimate purpose behind the creation of the jinn and mankind is so that they will worship Him alone with no partner or associate. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)†[al-Dhaariyaat 51:56] How can we achieve this purpose and fulfil this goal? Many people think that ‘ibaadah only refers to a number of rituals that Allaah has commanded should be done at certain times – such as prayer, fasting and Hajj – and that this is the end of the matter. But it is not as these people think. How long does it take to do these rituals of worship every day and night. Indeed how long does it take in a person’s lifetime? What about the rest of his life then? What about the rest of his energy? What about the rest of his time? How should it be spent and where does it go? Should he spend it in worship or something else? If he is going to spend it in something other than worship, then how can he fulfil the purpose for which mankind was created, which the verse limited completely to worship of Allaah? How can he fulfil the words of Allaah (interpretation of the meaning): “Say (O Muhammad): Verily, my Salaah (prayer), my sacrifice, my living, and my dying are for Allaah, the Lord of the ‘Aalameen (mankind, jinn and all that exists)†[al-An’aam 6:162]? ‘Uboodiyyah is a holistic matter that encompasses the life of the Muslim. When he strives in the land seeking provision he is worshipping Allaah, because Allaah has commanded him to do that, as He says (interpretation of the meaning): “so walk in the path thereof and eat of His provision. And to Him will be the Resurrection†[al-Mulk 67:15] When he sleeps, he sleeps so as to gather strength to worship Allaah, as Mu’aadh ibn Jabal (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “I seek reward for my sleep just as I seek reward for praying qiyaam†(narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4342). Indeed the Muslim is not content unless his pleasure in eating, drinking and marital relations is counted in the scale of his good deeds, as the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “In the intimacy of one of you there is sadaqah (charity, a good deed).†They said: “O Messenger of Allaah, if one of us satisfies his desires will he be rewarded for that?†He said: “What do you think, if you were to do it in a haraam way, would you not have a burden of sin?†They said, “Yes.†He said: “Similarly if he does it in a halaal way he will have a reward.†Narrated by Muslim, 1006. The way to attain this great status is for a person always to remember his Lord whatever he is doing in all spheres of life, and to ask himself whether he is in a situation where his Lord will be pleased with him or angry with him. If he is in a situation where Allaah will be pleased with him, then let him praise Allaah and do more good. If it is otherwise then let him seek Allaah’s forgiveness and repent to Him, as Allaah describes His pious slaves as doing when He says (interpretation of the meaning): “And those who, when they have committed Faahishah (illegal sexual intercourse) or wronged themselves with evil, remember Allaah and ask forgiveness for their sins; — and none can forgive sins but Allaah — and do not persist in what (wrong) they have done, while they know. 136. For such, the reward is forgiveness from their Lord, and Gardens with rivers flowing underneath (Paradise), wherein they shall abide forever. How excellent is this reward for the doers (who do righteous deeds according to Allaah’s Orders)†[Aal ‘Imraan 3:135-136] This is how our righteous forebears, the Salaf and those who followed them, understood ‘ibaadah. They did not limit it just to rituals and the times when they performed those rituals, and make the rest of their lives “outside worshipâ€. Rather any one of them would have felt that his entire life was worship and that the rituals were moments when he could focus and renew his spiritual energy to help him do all the other acts of worship that were required of him. Hence they used to pay a great deal of attention to it just as a traveller acquires pays a great deal of attention to the supplies that will help him on his way. They were as their Lord described them (interpretation of the meaning): “Those who remember Allaah (always, and in prayers) standing, sitting, and lying down on their sides†[Aal ‘Imraan 3:191] In all circumstances they used to remember Allaah verbally and in their hearts. The idea of Allaah’s greatness and fear of Allaah were constantly present in their hearts in everything that they did or said. If one of them made a mistake or slipped, he would correct himself as described in the verse quoted above from Soorat Aal ‘Imraan. And you should note that man is a worshipper by nature; worship is instilled in him. So either he will worship Allaah alone, with no partner or associate, or he will worship something other than Allaah, alongside Him or instead of Him – it makes no difference. This kind of worship is that which Allaah called “the worship of the Shaytaan†because it is a response to the call of the Shaytaan. And Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Did I not command you, O Children of Adam, that you should not worship Shaytaan (Satan). Verily, he is a plain enemy to you†[Yaa-Seen 36:60 ]. Man cannot worship both Allaah and the Shaytaan: “Is he who walks prone (without seeing) on his face, more rightly guided, or he who (sees and) walks upright on the Straight Way (i.e. Islamic Monotheism)?†[al-Mulk 67:22] “Say: Is the blind equal to the one who sees? Or darkness equal to light?†[al-Ra’d 13:16] The Shaytaan tries to lead man away from the worship of Allaah gradually. Sometimes he succeeds on a temporary basis, as in the case of sin, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “No one who commits zina is a believer at the moment of committing zina, and no thief is a believer at the moment of stealing…†Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2475; Muslim, 57. And sometimes he succeeds completely and severs the connection between a person and his Lord, so that he commits shirk or kufr or heresy – we seek refuge with Allaah. This worship of the Shaytaan sometimes consists of worshipping whims and desires, as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Have you (O Muhammad) seen him who has taken as his ilaah (god) his own vain desire? Would you then be a Wakeel (a disposer of his affairs or a watcher) over him?†[al-Furqaan 25:43] This person who follows the dictates of his whims and desires – doing whatever he thinks is good and abstaining from whatever he thinks is bad – is obeying the whims and desires of his own self, which calls to him, so it is as if he is worshipping it as a man worships his god. And sometimes it takes the form of worshipping money, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Perish the slave of the dinar and the slave of the dirham and the slave of fine clothing; if he is given he is pleased and if he is not given he is angry. Let him perish and relapse, and if he is pierced by a thorn let him not find anyone to remove it for him…†Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2887. This applies to everyone whose heart is attached to something other than Allaah of his own whims and desires. If he gets what he wants he is happy and if he does not then he is angry. So he is a slave to whatever he desires, for slavery in fact refers to the enslavement of the heart. The more he is enslaved to these desires, the weaker his submission to his Lord, so if his enslavement to these whims and desires is so strong that it prevents him from adhering to religion completely, then he will become a mushrik and a kaafir. If these whims and desires keep him from doing some of the things that he is obliged to do or they make the idea of doing some of the things that he is forbidden to do, but which do not put a person beyond the pale of Islam, seem attractive to him, then that affects his submission to his Lord and his faith, to the extent to which they keep him from fulfilling his religious commitment. We ask Allaah to bless us by enabling us to submit completely to Him, and to make us among His sincere slaves and close friends, for He is All-hearing, Ever-Near and Ever-Responsive. And Allaah knows best. May Allaah send blessings and peace upon His slave and Prophet Muhammad and upon his family and companions. See Mafaaheem yanbaghi an tusahhah by Shaykh Muhammad Qutub, 20-23, 174-182; al-‘Uboodiyyah by Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah. (The latter book is available in English translation under the title ‘Uboodiyyah – Being A True Slave of Allaah, published by Ta-Ha, London, UK). Islam Q&A (
  22. As-salaam Alaykum wr wb... Book 033, Number 6393: 'Abdullah b. Mas'ud reported: Evil one is he who is evil in the womb of his mother and the good one is he who takes lesson from the (fate of) others. The narrator came to a person from amongst the Companion of Allah's Me ssenger (may peace be upon him) who was called Hudhaifa b. Usaid Ghifari and said: How can a person be an evil one without (cornmittilng an evil) deed? Thereupon the person said to him: You are surprised at this, whereas I have heard Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saving: When forty nights pass after the semen gets into the womb, Allah sends the angel and gives him the shape. Then he creates his sense of hearing, sense of sight, his skin, his flesh, his bones, and then says: My Lord, would he be male or female? And your Lord decides as He desires and the angel then puts down that also and then says: My Lord, what about his age? And your Lord decides as He likes it and the angel puts it down. Then he says: My Lord, what about his livelihood? And then the Lord decides as He likes and the angel writes it down, and then the angel gets out with his scroll of destiny in his hand and nothing is added to it and nothing is subtracted from it.
  23. 3oudubelahi Mina'Shay Tani Rajiim. May ALLAH Destroy those Homos. Ameeen...
  24. All i said was "LAME" i'm sowwie :cool: :cool: