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  1. Salaam alakum.. Well i know the difference between a Bajunni and a somali sujui somali sujui is a typical somali and a Bajuni is an arab and Kenyan mixed, they are NOT dark dear the are very Light with Thick hair, thei Featurs are vey African But the are Not dark Pale is the word Dear, anywayz iw asn't calling you a Bujunii i know Bujunis and sujuis can't stand each other..... Yea abaao thats all iw aned to say.. Allah hafiz
  2. Salaam alakum.. Well i know the difference between a Bajunni and a somali sujui somali sujui is a typical somali and a Bajuni is an arab and Kenyan mixed, they are NOT dark dear the are very Light with Thick hair, thei Featurs are vey African But the are Not dark Pale is the word Dear, anywayz iw asn't calling you a Bujunii i know Bujunis and sujuis can't stand each other..... Yea abaao thats all iw aned to say.. Allah hafiz
  3. Salaam Alakum''All, Well, i presented you with a complex problem, and for all the sisters'& Brothers that said she's only 17 yrs Old! Well age is just a number it doesn't determine whether someone can fall in love at the age of 17 or know what True love means at that age, Love has NO age Limit! Dear brothers and sisters this girl has no intention of leaving her education and she has no intention of dissapointing her caring parents, But i'm personally affraid for her mental health! she's going Out of her mind and someone of you might think it's Pathetic to Go Crazy over a Guy! or a Girl, But it does happen, it becomes really unbearable, to Go on Knowing that your Heart is about to Break in two pieces i know i sound like a drama Queen, But i'm just saying what she feels, she simply fell inlove with a Brother For his religion First,than came attraction etc! i just Wish her parents would look Beyondthe age, ethnic, and wife and Concentrate in How Religious, and True he really is, and how much he loves their Daughter!!!! I don't Think she's STUPID! nor do i think fallin in love at the age of 17 is STUPID,, nothing stupid about that, You are all saying how Young she is, But this girl hasn't adopted the teen life style, she's Farley strict when it comes to ISLAM, and Mature, if i might add that, Masha'Allah i really liked how sister' or Brother i don't know,Umm...Mujahid i think it's a sis,, i liked the questions she put forward Yes she is mrrying him for Allah's Sake, and desires have somethign to do with it as well Actually his wife says she's o.k. with it But she never allows him to contact her even e-mail she says that she doesn't want them to communicate too much because it might leadto Zina :rolleyes: she also continously plants doubts in her Mind, which i find Ironic! Brotha Rampage it's easier to say than to do, thanks Though. Shyhem Brotha Love is Risk Taking you can never gurantee whether someone will cheat or stay with with you forever, or even marry another woman. thats The Headache of it. Kool Kat, i know she's Not Stupid!! Love is Blind keep that in mind and whether he's married or not thats doesn't change her Love for Him Once You inlove it's like you are trapped in each others WORLD.... and the world around you doesn't make sense.. sister Jawahiir Obviously he can because his at the uk and she's at Down under and so far he made three trips just For her,, so Fanancially i think he can support her Alhamdulillah, Allah will Lead them in any other help they need i truly Belive that and he Got LOADZ of Love to Give that should mean something Ma'salama
  4. Salaam again i meant sister Janade Sorry Abaayo. i just had to coe back and type your name RIGHT oopsy Dassy.!
  5. Salaam alakum again' Dand and Kat. Oh! i so know wat you mean. Drinking is a BIG No No ! Period, But when they do it in somali parties, it's just Not Funny! But, i think the people that are watching it happen for eg Us, should do something about it, and i hate it How they have a Prty just be4 Ramadhaan, it really takes the piss outa me, i have actually been to one of those New Year parties, and Oh! it wa so Horrifying! You won't believe what i witnessed. there was this 40 + Year old Dude, and he was dancing By himself getting his Groove On! And he was DEAD Drunk there are so mnay ISSUES ... But Drinking Nedd attention and it needs it NOW more than ever, it's still New, But before it gets out of controle i think someone should Hold a conference or something some of you might say i'm over exageratting., But really i'm NOT and if it's starting to Look Normal there is something Seriously Wrong wit US! it, just really makes me Sick when i see somali ppl behaving like that Cozz to me it's like My pEOPLE oH! I can never imagine them doing anything Wrong, Well.,, you see it you hear it.. But when are you going to say STOP ,, enough is Enough? i Honesly don't know what i'm talking about Right Now. and people should takeit serious too, Cozz eitherw ay Drinking is NOT Kool or cool,kewl LOL.. Not in this Society and Not in Allah's Eyes!!! and for the sisters that do get drunk and get Pregnant well i would say thats a one way to Hell! ma'salama..... May Allah open our Eyes to Reality.
  6. SAlaam alakum 'all Brotha Sheyhem i wouldn't Put it better myselve Masha'Allah Very True Islam has no Faults it's the men that interprate it differently..... or should i say the Muslims, Subhan'Allah Islam is all about the Quran and the Quran is the Words of Allah , Now how can anyone Critisis the Words Of Allah? and how can there be any Faults. For Allah is Al Alim, the Knowledgeable... So Again. MASHA'ALLAH it just makes me happy when brothers have that possitive attitude,
  7. Salaam alakum brothers'n sisters in ISLAM. i have this friend of mine and she fall in Love with this None somali Guy that was already married with three Kids. He wanted to marry her But her family didn't like an idea of a none somali guy that was married with three kids, as a muslim his allowed to marry Four Wives.... He tells her he doesn't love the other woman and he loves her more than in one in this World! even his Kids, You see, this guy is 24 years old and she's 17 years old, he got married to his wife when he was 17 yrs of age and she was 24, ,,,,,,,, Back in his jahiliya Days than she got pregnant and he had to marry her, they both wern't religios, But they are boths very religious Now, and His Not happy he says Since he got married to his wife all he has been doing is Please his wife and kids and never pleases Himselves, and if he married this somali girl, because he loves her he 'll be much happier the Problem is, the girl is a bit scared because her family is against it, and his wife is not happy about it, which might cause some Problems for his family! and i heared that Destroying a family is like Destroying the Kabah.................... Also she thought about running away with the guy But he always says No. he has tried three times But her family keep on refusing,,,,,, and she has No heart For no one else other than Him. What should She Do?? Ma'salama
  8. Salaam alakum brothers and sister.. i just wanted to ask am i the only one thats worried about Our Young Youth, Drinking Problem.. i don't whether the parents know it or they are just Ignoring it and hoping the sick habits will disappear,.. i Remember going to this somali party and i invated few of my arab friends. we were told it was strictly ' Only Girls party! Just a simple, Girs Night Out we thought. well when we got there Alahmdulillah we were still covered, we found out it was packed with BoYz, No Grown Ups..... And the thing that really Shocked me was there was Alcohol being given, surprisingly ppl i knew were Drinking, :mad: It was ShockinG! i was so disappointed.. and Embarrassed Because of my arab friends, :confused: AnyWaYz....it was a bit too much for me to handle. But shouldn't it be an ''ISSUE'' in our community?? i Wish someone would raise the problem, and stress, about the teaching of ISLAM, Allah' hafiz
  9. wa' salaam alakum warahmatullah wabarakatu.. sister Cambaro_LuuL.. Masha'Allah is, it certainly is something to Think About. thank You very much... We need more posts like this in the Forum. ma'salama
  10. Salaam alakum'all.. Murad' Brother i've attended some lecture like that, and i'm very sad to say that i was a little ignorent towards my religion at the time, so, i would adive for any muslims not to participate in any personal insults towards ISLAM ,, because it makes our imam a little weak.... these people are prepared to use anything against us, always keep that in mind,, The best way is, really to educate yourselve just like Murad said, thats the best solution i would say! Fee''meen ''Allah
  11. salaam. Good topic lakkad i think i've some interesting ones' By tha way tha faramuto bit it's italian 'and it's very famous with my granny heheheh... But here's one. ( Nayaa naag'so dharagtaay maxa ugo goslee?) Lamo cali ma'is waytineso taas' and somali onlines lastQuot' ''Naa' hoy! niinki la'gugeeyo'shaan wu'ga'dhaliina ee Joog!'' OUCH.... ''lab' laboleey lax malahaa'' Hope u.understood'ma brokin somali even though i'm very Proude of it lool ma'salamah
  12. SALAAM ALAKUM'ALL Did i hear, someone saying i love u osoma Bin Laden if u killed innocent people??? Acudubillah! Jewels what have gotten into u sis?? are you, O.K.,,, someone that kills innocent people is not a ''hero''...someone that saves them. for the love of his/her lord is a ''HERO''...like i said be4 Alahu alaam if Osoma did it or Not. Allah knows best But, if he did, :mad: and do you know how many Shia's are killed in pakistan, because of the osoma bin laden followers they prefer Christians then their own sisters'n brothers in ISLAM!!! so, before you announce the so called ''hero'' think' what your Hero has done to deserve' tha Title!! did i mention giveing Muslims a bad name?? Yes you heared me... Look at us NOW people are horrified of us, :confused: ma'salamah
  13. salaam alakum' to Iqarkii Ameen Ameeen' May Allah bless all that are TRUE Well, i always knew somali people wwhere ever they are always have Triblism issues' But i gotta be honest im not familiar with this *** So i'm gonna tell You you something, when i 1st came to down under, i knew Nothing'bout somalis'n it's Sub clans!! Alhamdulillah & i wish i never did! But i learned more then i should've.... as You Probubly know in the Middle east their are alote of Madibaans'thats tha Appropriate word, and this dear Family we Traveled together, wewere like family, i never knew what tribe i was at the time, so i figuredwewere close family friends of theirs that i must have been related to'em.. anyhow!! Things changed, people found out 'bout their Tribe'n Acudubillah' i once heared some Old Arogant Lady say' did u know that u are not to touch any food of theirs,,,,, May Allah show her the Truth ( Ameen) i pretended i didn't understand her,,,,,,, i went 'n asked my parents and they explained the concept to me... The funny thing is Every Madibaan or boon guy i see is DEAD cute wallahi?? WHY IS THAT? maybe Allah is showing us signs,,, and their Girls are masha'allah, So why do somalis do this??? i think they are just Paranoid!!! Safia sweety, i think it's time we Broke tha old Traditions' Marry anyone that fears 'Allah'n that shows no Signs of Ignorance'n arogance!! thats what i would've said to You if i was Your Mother, You don't need somalis to Critisis You! i don't get it, why is that people always say you*** Asif it's a BAD thing, wallahi it upsets me Greatly! 'n it should Upset anyone with a heart! You want me to be Honest with YOU?? i swear i neer knew any somalis, and all somalis were lamoghodlo to me, that was it, LOL then' i stoped saying it when some people got offended, i never knew how to communicate with them,,, But i learned Alhamdulillah, and Now i cans ay ama Proude somali, But when i hear Racist Comments OUCH!!!Ow Yeah,,, and why are we so racist to the madibaan people? and not to the non somalis as Much??? Uuuuf!!! :rolleyes: anyone that Discriminates Madibaan people is a Disguis, to the somali society!! oops that would be 90% of somalis, i well!! :mad: and Keep in mind Allah will Punnish you for it! Ma'salamah'mAY ALLAH show us all the ''Ameen ''truth! :confused:
  14. Salaam... Caadey,,, you, said tha dude took the many huh? Well Good on him! i think i would've taken it...... if no one was Around'n 'n there were no camera attachments, thats like a one chance Oppurtunity, LOL left' Right Zip Up'n make a run for it..... Nah.. i think that money is HARAM.... Allah'll make you vomit it in tha here after so ''KEEP AWAY''!!! Imagine people pointing their fingers at You, thats tha theive even though anyone would've made a run for it, Ma' salamah May Allah keep the Devil in his place!
  15. salaam alakum'all.. sis, as Long as the person is muslim, you are allowed to fall in love with him,, But he must be a Practising Muslim.... But i know where Ballerz is comming from it's always good to marry someone from your Culture, it helps with the Process, Most marriages in our days don't work, with tha your own, ethnic Group... Imagine someone else... and also think of your family dear' thats all... ma'salamah
  16. salaam alakum'all.. sis, as Long as the person is muslim, you are allowed to fall in love with him,, But he must be a Practising Muslim.... But i know where Ballerz is comming from it's always good to marry someone from your Culture, it helps with the Process, Most marriages in our days don't work, with tha your own, ethnic Group... Imagine someone else... and also think of your family dear' thats all... ma'salamah
  17. salaam alakum'all.. sis, as Long as the person is muslim, you are allowed to fall in love with him,, But he must be a Practising Muslim.... But i know where Ballerz is comming from it's always good to marry someone from your Culture, it helps with the Process, Most marriages in our days don't work, with tha your own, ethnic Group... Imagine someone else... and also think of your family dear' thats all... ma'salamah
  18. salaam alakum'all.. sis, as Long as the person is muslim, you are allowed to fall in love with him,, But he must be a Practising Muslim.... But i know where Ballerz is comming from it's always good to marry someone from your Culture, it helps with the Process, Most marriages in our days don't work, with tha your own, ethnic Group... Imagine someone else... and also think of your family dear' thats all... ma'salamah
  19. salaam'all.. Well. Huney sorry to say But, i kinda Pick on sUJUI PEOPLE alote!!! and i'll tell you my reason as you know there are somalis in somalia that don't speak somali some do, some don't thats because they speak barawani. of tha coast of hammer'n marka cadeey' those people don't look like somali nor do they speak the language But they are somalis'n when the war Brokin down in somalia, tha Majority of the barawanis Moved from somalia to tha coast of Mombassa... and the Sujui people Oh! well they denied Us?? they told the kenyatis that we won't somalis no were we Sujuis'n it wasn't just one Sujui Hundreds of them.. even though we spoke Brokin somali.... Now tell me do i 've a Good reason to pick on them?? i think i do... Sujui means in swahili ''dunno'' Right??? Well when ever we'would ask help from 'em their Response would be ''dunno'' Bajuniis/// Acudubillah!!!! Wallahi they were soo ''NASTY''..... all i've to say is Alhamdulillah' we were Egyptian citizens No, hard Feeling' im not trying to Generalise But among those people there were some Horrible People among'em Heartless too!! and Huney sis don't let it get to You,, really somalis always have a stupid excuse to Pick on someone....i can say me'n You are in tha same Shoes' i get picked on alote too.. Because of my accent.. i sound like a ''sujui when i speak somali.. it's nothing personal just tha way they are raced i Guess!!! Ma'salamah
  20. salaam'all.. Well. Huney sorry to say But, i kinda Pick on sUJUI PEOPLE alote!!! and i'll tell you my reason as you know there are somalis in somalia that don't speak somali some do, some don't thats because they speak barawani. of tha coast of hammer'n marka cadeey' those people don't look like somali nor do they speak the language But they are somalis'n when the war Brokin down in somalia, tha Majority of the barawanis Moved from somalia to tha coast of Mombassa... and the Sujui people Oh! well they denied Us?? they told the kenyatis that we won't somalis no were we Sujuis'n it wasn't just one Sujui Hundreds of them.. even though we spoke Brokin somali.... Now tell me do i 've a Good reason to pick on them?? i think i do... Sujui means in swahili ''dunno'' Right??? Well when ever we'would ask help from 'em their Response would be ''dunno'' Bajuniis/// Acudubillah!!!! Wallahi they were soo ''NASTY''..... all i've to say is Alhamdulillah' we were Egyptian citizens No, hard Feeling' im not trying to Generalise But among those people there were some Horrible People among'em Heartless too!! and Huney sis don't let it get to You,, really somalis always have a stupid excuse to Pick on someone....i can say me'n You are in tha same Shoes' i get picked on alote too.. Because of my accent.. i sound like a ''sujui when i speak somali.. it's nothing personal just tha way they are raced i Guess!!! Ma'salamah
  21. salaam'all.. Well. Huney sorry to say But, i kinda Pick on sUJUI PEOPLE alote!!! and i'll tell you my reason as you know there are somalis in somalia that don't speak somali some do, some don't thats because they speak barawani. of tha coast of hammer'n marka cadeey' those people don't look like somali nor do they speak the language But they are somalis'n when the war Brokin down in somalia, tha Majority of the barawanis Moved from somalia to tha coast of Mombassa... and the Sujui people Oh! well they denied Us?? they told the kenyatis that we won't somalis no were we Sujuis'n it wasn't just one Sujui Hundreds of them.. even though we spoke Brokin somali.... Now tell me do i 've a Good reason to pick on them?? i think i do... Sujui means in swahili ''dunno'' Right??? Well when ever we'would ask help from 'em their Response would be ''dunno'' Bajuniis/// Acudubillah!!!! Wallahi they were soo ''NASTY''..... all i've to say is Alhamdulillah' we were Egyptian citizens No, hard Feeling' im not trying to Generalise But among those people there were some Horrible People among'em Heartless too!! and Huney sis don't let it get to You,, really somalis always have a stupid excuse to Pick on someone....i can say me'n You are in tha same Shoes' i get picked on alote too.. Because of my accent.. i sound like a ''sujui when i speak somali.. it's nothing personal just tha way they are raced i Guess!!! Ma'salamah
  22. salaam'all.. Well. Huney sorry to say But, i kinda Pick on sUJUI PEOPLE alote!!! and i'll tell you my reason as you know there are somalis in somalia that don't speak somali some do, some don't thats because they speak barawani. of tha coast of hammer'n marka cadeey' those people don't look like somali nor do they speak the language But they are somalis'n when the war Brokin down in somalia, tha Majority of the barawanis Moved from somalia to tha coast of Mombassa... and the Sujui people Oh! well they denied Us?? they told the kenyatis that we won't somalis no were we Sujuis'n it wasn't just one Sujui Hundreds of them.. even though we spoke Brokin somali.... Now tell me do i 've a Good reason to pick on them?? i think i do... Sujui means in swahili ''dunno'' Right??? Well when ever we'would ask help from 'em their Response would be ''dunno'' Bajuniis/// Acudubillah!!!! Wallahi they were soo ''NASTY''..... all i've to say is Alhamdulillah' we were Egyptian citizens No, hard Feeling' im not trying to Generalise But among those people there were some Horrible People among'em Heartless too!! and Huney sis don't let it get to You,, really somalis always have a stupid excuse to Pick on someone....i can say me'n You are in tha same Shoes' i get picked on alote too.. Because of my accent.. i sound like a ''sujui when i speak somali.. it's nothing personal just tha way they are raced i Guess!!! Ma'salamah