^Live in the moment old man.

'Celibacy can be rebellious' But not fun.

Speaking of Charity, is it acceptable to pay it from your overdraft? Interest-free no less . Thats a serious Q.

Originally posted by Dabshid: Ghanima, Do you cover your head? Maya, iyadoo qaawan bey dadka dhex martaa.

Another Ramadan, and still too busy to enjoy it to the fullest ! Hunger, total lack of concentration and iftar on the train ! I just hope to spend one Ramadan not focusing on anything but fasting, prayer, dua and making delicious Iftars. Ramadan Mubarak Nomads. May all your fasting and prayers and dua be accepted. Amin.

I just want to point out that although I didnt see the need for Xiin acting all uppity, Caano's analysis actually makes no sense at all. . However, his second diagram does. And its quite insulting too. So Xiin, give him a good whooping now.

^Do you have a picture?

Originally posted by xiinfaniin: I went through the same process where romantic demands tramp cyber networking. Who are you kidding? We all know you got hitched before the internet was invented! Che, you're very silly.

Xiin, I’ve not seen a post as condescending as that second last post of yours, lately. Stop stifling Caano’s creativity!

Serenity's face .

Quantum Leap have you gotten hitched? Is this honeymoon? 'cause I dont blv you're on the Nile on your own Val, you dont know me. I belong in a wild, anarchic and temperate land.

^ oh stop it already! I dont know Val... maybe Africa? Its where opportunity is apparently.

^ And the shower gel too. Hmm.

Originally posted by umu zakaria: am paranoid that he will pick on his freinds trendy guur lifestyle! u know dariskaa diintiisuu ku baraa! Aw Bless! You're looking out for yourself then? lol. All this husband talk is making me want to get one. I really could use a masseuse at the end of my day.

Londoners, please answer me this - why do we live in this ridiculously expensive, ridiculously polluted, ridiculously poor connected and with the most ridiculous weather I've seen of a city? Especially since we're all educated and capable of getting work anywhere? Whats your excuse people?? I'm getting out of here soon. Hold me onto that. Give me a year and some.

^And I remember a time when we used to wonder if there were any Somalis down under! I got in at 9:30 . But then, I never went home last night and didn't have to suffer those insufferable trains!

^ Inanku af-dheeraa! Rudy, when you're able to keep a woman, dadka la hadal. Till then, save the advice, alright homie? I see nothing wrong with KK's schedule. Looks like she has her life the way she wants it. What was the topic?

Ngonge, It took me 3hrs to get to work this morning. And 3hrs last night to get home. I've decided I'm going to camp at my aunts in North London from today. There is no way in hell I'm going on that effing Pic Line again! and yeah I hate this effin city! And I'm moving out come May '09. :mad:

Originally posted by Ghanima: - Serenity: likes to appear evil and scary? :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

I sure hope the 7 was a typo. Or perhaps they fell in love at 15. Then its sweet too. Otherwise... 7yrs of your youth is truly a lifetime. A lifetime spent in waiting. And that is not good Skipper buddy. Whats keeping you apart anyway?

My only advice to you skipper, would be to be realistic. How long is this going to be long distance? 6 months? a year? a year and half? All tolerable if you're both strong and truly love each other. However, if you have no timelines and no idea how to bridge the distance, let it go. You dont want to spend 2-5yrs waiting only to realize it wont work or you guys have grown so far apart that it wasnt worth the wait.

Interesting discussion. Naomi, I would love to help you, living in London and all, but I hardly come across any farah's of any age . Speaking of age, I concur with you on how important it is for the guy to be older. There is something in my psyche that cannot simply accept a guy younger than me. I dont really know why. Anyways, I once met a brother, who was nice, very educated, very fun, very ambitious... erm, he was good ... and then I found out he was a month younger than I was... and I was shattered I tell ya. Shattered. And then I started to find reasons why he was not mature enough for me ... and the reasons just kept coming after that. I guess I was subconsciously unable to accept the 'age' difference (or lack of). Perhaps its possible to be happy with a husband who is less educated,less wordly and who earns less,works less and expects less[after all who is to say that any of those factors make me better than him]. Marriage is not like playing with Lego:you cant simply pick up two pieces and make them fit.Perhaps its better to have simple expactations and be happy than have unreachable ones No its not possible. Not unless one is willing to suppress all their other (intellectual, financial etc) needs... which account for more than emotional needs, at least to me. Those above mentioned qualities dont make one better or not than the other person. It just makes for better compatibility.

Originally posted by Ghanima: Injustice to Xiin you say, dear he speaks about women like they were put on earth for no other reason then men, and they have no brain, irrational emotional beings who cannot reason or possible know what is good for them. You of all people should find that offensive, unless you are taken in by his sweet talk of hooyal hooyal hoo. hopefully this will get xiin out of hiding Well, clearly I havent been paying attention. All the hooyal hooyal hoo stuff ma fahmin. ^^^Jimcaale, please stop being so rude, you clearly known I am Somalilisticly challenged! why do you insist on speaking to me in Somali. Shall I tell you how I read that. "women, do you not recognize me? I am the one who owns a space in the middle of you." hahahahahahaha!!!!

Originally posted by Ghanima: -Serenity: Now she was one scary, bossy lady, lord have mercy. But in reality she is very lovable, and she is a laugh and easy going (can you believe that?) At the risk of seeming like I only respond when my nick is mentioned, I will reply to this thread... numerous times probably, because someone will not STOP trying to get under my skin. There you go perpetuating that virtual image of me as 'scary and bossy' when I have even been on good behaviour for two whole years! Like some old and very wise said 'when I'm good, no1 remembers, when I'm bad, no1 forgets!' I've to say, I found you majorly annoying on SOL, always encouraging trolling in every topic.. but in person, I totally love you... you've absolutely sweet, highly energetic (I can hardly keep up with the speed you talk, let alone your pace of walking) and I wouldnt change a thing about you... And stop saying stuff like 'can you blv it'.. of course they can! :mad: - Baashi and Xiin: Talk down to women, patronizing to women and new ideas, but oddly enough they are still likeable characters. You've done great injustice to Xiin there. He is not patronizing at all, infact, his only problem is he comes across as a little greedy and eager where women are concerned. And last but not the least, Castro please come back. I too miss you so and so. Did I mention you're very sweet too Ibs?

Originally posted by Ghanima: ^^^Then let me be . I have recently noticed a fully working Somali Police, All started by our very own “expert” Serenity! :rolleyes: Bal yaa inantan yar iga reeba. Af soomaali soo baro cay maaha.