Originally posted by Bishaaro: W'up with Somali girl's addiction to blck men these days? It saddens me to see them walk on the streets freely holding hands, thinking she's on top of the world. Besides, midii madow raacdaba maxay ragga Somalida u caysaa? :mad: Why should it matter who somali girls are dating? It would make you happy to see them with a somali dude, but then again, it's really not about YOU. You need to evaluate WHY it makes you angry that they are with them. Besides, I believe that somali men are no different that somali women. They too date black, hispanic, white and asian women. That is really up to them, dont you think. Caramel Kisses, Does it make you sleep better at night that you are not "sanka dhuudhi"? Don't get upset cuz I called you out on your racist comment, sister. double :rolleyes:

Originally posted by caramel_kisses: sanka dhuudhi! This type of attitude is what makes me NOT want to be with a Somali :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Somali men just need to realize that they have competition. Instead of whining about how other men loves up, step up and prove your worthy!

Sue, Star actually reminds me of last winter. I can't wait till its REAL summer. God, how I hate winters. I am dying to sit out in my back porch and just chill. Songs that remind me of last summer would have to be Jason Mraz ..dont remember the name. But everytime I hear it, it takes me back to my tanned dayz **daydreaming**

Nice day, humph! It's cold. It's rainy, my hair is up in frizz. I gotta work, then I have a presentation, then I have to study! Yesterday was a nice day though

lol@scorpia sista, Gosh girl, welcome to the club. One pop after the other of "where ya at", no "hi, how are ya?" or nothing....just "where ya repping" or some silly sh!t like that. You know I have to be creative with my answers like "hell", or " right behind yah" .... I feel the pain thou...

Is FGM practiced outside of Somalia by somalis? I havent heard of any cases here.

Nomad, The only people I've ever heard say that feminist have been brainwashed by the media are males and overzealous shiekhs. Hmmmm, thanks, but let me formulated my own perception of Feminism.

Nomad, That's kind of sexist don't you think? You are undermining the struggles of those who fought for women's right into a JOKE. I didn't find it that funny.

OG_Girl, *clap clap* Thanks for sharing girl. I'm sure some PEOPLE will benefit from your thread. :cool:

CM, And what are your sources dear?

Stop chasing me around the forum garab. Honestly, You are too clingy!

Originally posted by Ameenah: quote:Originally posted by Devil's Advocate: what's a "kafir" land? I thought Allah created the world. So all the lands are Allah's creation. So when did it become "kufr/kafir" land? And if it is so kafir, why are muslims living there when they can go to a "muslim" land? And while we're on the topic, what and where is a "muslim" land? : Islamic principle of Hijrah is based on the notion that Muslims should not be in the land of disbleive (kafir = a disbeliever) unless they are opressed in their own countries or are giving dacwah. Why are muslims in kafir countries.. well, thats the million dollar question. To question why there is kafir lands and muslim lands - is like asking why there are muslims and kafirs- after all we are all the creation of Allah..right? Land of kufr = a country where the majority are kafirs - none belivers Land of islam = a country where the majority are muslims I'm sorry Ameenah, but is this your own definition of a kafir land? I was under the impression that the soil we walk on belonged to Allah, as it is His creation.

Farah, The truth being that a "perfect" culture like that of the Somalis practices such a barbaric act like Female Genital Mutilation. :cool:

This thread will lead SOL to another battle of the sexes. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

what's a "kafir" land? I thought Allah created the world. So all the lands are Allah's creation. So when did it become "kufr/kafir" land? And if it is so kafir, why are muslims living there when they can go to a "muslim" land? And while we're on the topic, what and where is a "muslim" land? **someone who had no idea a land could be kafir or a believer** :confused:

Originally posted by Farah: She defiled the Somali culture! Defiled the culture by telling the truth about what is done to women in Somalia ! :cool:

Originally posted by Gediid: I have to politely disagree with you DA,90% of our girls were circumcised but you wont hear them disassociate themselves from Somalis or their culture. Are you dismissing the plight of the somali women so easily? She had her femininity sliced, diced and sawed. Excuse her for not trying to sweep it under the carpet, like ALL THE OTHER WOMEN. 'Course, it must be the greed!

Originally posted by Hibo: I don't if any one mentioned this b4.. as I am usually late to do so.. but one thing I noticed is.. why do all the famous Somali girls.. diss our beautiful culture? Because hon, every beautiful culture has a flaw. Ours happens to be FGM. Can you attest to that? Or that women were not emotionally and physically affected by this barbaric acts against their bodies? And if they run from the culture that has mutilated their bodies, can you really blame them? Excuse me, but do not make it seem like our culture, our people, or our practices are above the rest, because the reality is that it really isnt much different.

So in essence, we shouldn't be celebrating birthdays?

lmao Hmmmm, I can smell SOL becoming like SNet in the near future.

Beware, Basra! *lol* Just kidding! Welcome.. :cool:

Originally posted by Qac Qaac: Opi, seriously i didn't understand what the hell u just said. K, now are you telling me that you can't speak basic english. I said "I don't appreciate being called a feminist in a thread that I haven't yet had the chance to participate in." get it? Originally posted by Qac Qac Princess Sexy... another soldier in the feminist homeland security led by Opi and X... Then.... Originally posted by Qac Qaac: all i understood from was don't call me feminist. we are not. your actions are calling u to that... Hmmmmmm, maybe you should just stick to Somali? How about that... :cool: Gosh, these people!

Xiddig, Man above Law, and MMA, I am extremely disappointed in you brothers and your hateful responses. This woman has done nothing to you. She is Somali, lived her own life, did her own thing, spoke out against FGM. Now, Who gave you the right to judge her? Because she has somali blood? Do you think she owes you anything because she is of the same nationality? MMA, you would knock her down to? Man-Above-Law, you wish death on her? Ask yourselves this one questions: WHAT HAS SHE DONE TO YOU?

Princess, Its not uncommon you know. She probably thought she had no control over the situation. Who knows?

UD, Yeah it can be. OTT is Ottawa, and I don't think you would want to sign up because it seems there's an epidemic outbreak there. :cool: