^^so how many are you on? 5?

SB: lool; First post i read of yours in a while that suprised me Okay where do I start..o yeah,welcome back first of all luv! Cheers luv, how do you do? Secondly,please don't hate me,I am not what you think I am..lol Anyways, I am never a someoen who pushes people to do the right thing,because I am fully aware that usually does more harm to someone then by helping. I don't hate anyone Good, so far so good! Moreover,who said Jeans is Haram? they are not Haram,just not meant to be warn in Public,if you were it in Public,I wonder who are you trying to impress especially if you are married women,there are other ways to look cool then by breaking the law(not directed towards anyone). Jeans are not worn to impress anyone, If i wanted to impress someone i would not wear jeans! what kind of madness is that. I personally have/will/still break the law and do some crazy stuff,which throws out the "angel" part out of the discussion. I won't ask what they are! but i agree everyone breaks some sort of laws now and then. Anyways,if there was a girl who wears jeans,what I'd do is,I would marry her,then tell her to put it on for me at home not just a jeans but you know those 'segsy' women outfits they sell at Victoria secret store..yeah those,perhaps this would make her not impress other man,since she has a man to impress at home.lol Again your logic is flawed her, First of all, you should not marry her!) First mistake: you would just end up getting a divorce! why would you marry someone relying on them to change? :confused: For example would you marry someone who eats pork, and assume she won't do it anymore, because you have hala chicken at home? secondly, i am very suprised that you have this mentality that Women base their outfit/ clothes on what guys think (thats if they think) In fact women dress well to impress other women! FACT: Now I expected better from you my friend!

^^^ lool^ Imagine if things go wrong you will be able to shift the blame, at least this way it will be your mistake. Family marriages are messy, It is a family marriage! rather than between two people. That is problematic. SB: I see many young people, who may or may not have tribalist parents, who could not care any less themselves. In any case learnt behaviour can be unlearnt! Selectivity in learnt behaviour is not unheard of.

dharkaaga hidaha iyo dhaqanka ?? Who I'm trying to impress, hmmm: I won't know till i see em! Myself, and the camera which will snap these moments loool @devil: YEs dear. she: i know that's what I am thinking! Going shopping today after work, On my way this morning i walked past this shop, with a really nice dress on the window, but i have feeling the price tag was huge! lool

^^who said they don't, I was adopted as a child, and my parent adopted 3 other children. I think it is great. But then again i would, wouldn't I. lool Best age to have children: when you think you can handle it! I hate people who have kids for the sake of having kids :rolleyes: Kids are not toy's. :cool:

loool. i could not read, but did they run or whatever sport it was with those big a*ss skrits; loool. Congrats to them.

che, there is a such thing as male ***, ohh please male *** female *** there is no such thing as *** u choose to expand ure sexual encounters y should u be judged and given a title for? also who wants a man who does not knw wht to do in bed? plz i think its vital that he sleeps with alot of woman and will i judge him for that HELL NO, well i judge a woman who chooses to sleep with a lot of man HELL NO. Expand :rolleyes: you say, hunny you get labelled for everything in life, your sexual expanish is no difference, and many names come to my head, and i am sure you are aware of them! I think the reason you think it is vital for him to have slept with a number of women is because you expect him to extend the same level understanding towards you and not judge you on your experiences. NB: ("you" does not mean you personally, i mean anyone who has that mentality, for i have no idea what you do in your private life and i don't make assumptions, nor is the thread personal) cheers

^^^depends on on well your mum knows you and what they think is important in life, which is different from what you think is important in life; Most young people, don't think that clan, race, Family status are toooo important, where parents are more likely to look for these things. Ridwaan, thats way below the belt, and you are wrong, i just don't like MEN. Ful. really

ps disclosure of ones past shenanigans should be limited to drugs, sexual disease or lovechild and if he has been quite scandalous in his past in terms of woman i mean common that only adds value to the bloke . :confused: He's been around, how does that add to his value, he is basicly a male Ho*e. :confused: :cool:

^^loool^ you are a freak indeed. lool. Impatient, there is a cure for it... i think, i remember reading it, if i find it i iwll send it to you. lool. You know all good things come to those who wait! or so it is said. I don't think you are a control freak, i know one, and you don't sound like them, but possible just curious about things

P.s-I'm at my Uni library and two rows ahead of me there's a Somali girl on SOL.She is too far for me to see if she is logged in lakiin I'm intrigued. If you are reading this gabadhyahay and there is a wide eyed,buck toothed Xalimo sitting on a pc behind you it's me! loool that had me rolling. When i was at uni there was a guy who was addicted to SOl, Everytime i walked saw him in the lib he was on SOL, never managed to find out his SOL nick; lool. Val: I agree, i think in time everything comes out, sonner or later, if you are around long enough, so often if you let nature work on its own you don't ve to ask any questions.

after all i been inside a woman for nine months and how ever many days i was late, and in future will make a deposit into one ... Edit It wz bit evil, i take it back but still :rolleyes: Odd way at looking at things :rolleyes: :cool: I think we've hijacked the thread enough as it is,Xalimopatra will kick you *a*s*s when she see's this

loool; not my fault you type and post like a women, not to mention the avatar which is very feminine fix up, type like a man and I’m sure the doubt will easy

^now why did i think you were a chick :confused: now you are starting to sound like a dude :confused: sharing is good trust, just share with the right people ...like moi ^that statement just told us (the public more than we needed to know) for your sake i hope you don't use that on the regular I'm not interested in sharing anything with you or anyone else, now or ever

^^^lool^^ oh get lost, on second thoughts, are you asking me coz you want me to ask you? okay then why ve u, u are more than wlc to share! loool I think it is a tricky thing to get around, i'm sure everyone will find out one way or the other, it just might be too late for some! :cool: p.s. Too much sharing is currently the problem, would you not agree Hizb? so it is certainly not caring! :eek:

YOu know i was think about this a while back, because someone asked me sonething (not going to say what) and i was so shocked they could even get the question past their lips, and then they added, "i'm mean it does not make a difference to me, if you have" :rolleyes: :mad: I was so upset, i stopped talking to them, i mean seriously how dare you, but then i've been thinking lately that mayb, just maybe i overreacted! I guess it depends on the person, If you kind of know they had a wild past life, or they got a bit side tract, then take them to the doc, Better be safe than sorry, maybe you can get tested same time so that it does not become an argument or cause offense. Make a condition before your marriage or something. I guess how well you know the person, trust, etc comes into it, but hey don't trust anyone when it comes to your health!

Ibtisam, Poor nephew,he getting dhaqancelis..I think he will like it there,I have a good feeling. but my main focus has been how to get YOU get back home for once and see how things are.. overcome your fears luv ,Xalimopatra has gone already,so maybe she can tell you of few of the positives she met while she was visiting back home. loool, yeah he getting dhaqancelis, OVercome my fears :rolleyes: :confused: of what? (other than animals and skinny farahs with AK40's ) Ridwan: i did not recognise you in your new dirac/ macawis good to see ya.

^^you wanna take that back or I'll show yo trash :rolleyes: As for LA, i can't speak of it, never see, never been.

^^come you could’ve come up with a better first post! i say try again. Wearing Jeans does not make you an outcast in society and fit in with another! the Muslim's of Bosnia wore jeans, had blue eyes and blond hair and they still did not fit in. Anyone who wears something to fit in is deluding themselves. As i said people wear it because they think they look good, or they find it comfy or they find them warm in the winter or the can't walk in skirts, etc. JB: blond :eek: :eek: what got into you? :confused: that does not even suit a white dude, let alone a skinny dark farah lool just kidding,

^^lool^ Val , Serinity J.lee ,Ibtis and many more will sure be punished for looking good on those Jeans, or was it for showing it off? or was it for loving who they are? i really don't know for what , i just want them punished. Repent to your God girls and swap those Jeans for an ugly garment. by ugly i mean , unattractive. You best run while you still CANold man!!!

^^^^loooool Most people do. My family told me in the weekend they were not coming coz they are going on holiday instead! so i might even go really, and they have sent us our qualifications by post already. SO might just save my money instead.

Nafta: I tried the stylist at topshop, It was so funny, seriously it was the most funniest experience in ages. Lets just say nothing fitted me, too tight, too loose, too short, too long, to dull and very strange looks to say the least. Maybe I’m just not experimental enough, I was horrified as some of her suggestions! Lool. Water: I think I just might, I have one WEEK to find an outfit, lool. Camabro i like the blue number, where is that available? Thanks everyone else much appreciated!.

^^loool^^^ don't be so sure dear

"in the mean time you shouldn’t' give up on telling them, keep telling them until they come in terms with what is good and there is force in involved in the process of telling someone what is good" Ridwaan, people like you will drive me mad in real life, seriously I would’ve avoided you like a disease . lool. People wear jeans etc because they want to, not because they think it is the correct Islamic dressing to wear. They choose to be disobedient, or follow a different path in life than what Islam teaches them, lecturing them doe not make a difference, if anything it push's them further away from the community. I hate snobbish so "called religious people". They drive me up the wall. Judgmental little brats, who think God, sent them down as angles to look at everyone's actions but their own and lookdown on everyone. Get a life people. SURAMBAYA, what are you the hijab police? Personally i don't wear one, I spend too much money, effort and time on my hair to cover it up! Everytime i decided i'm start, i change my mind, because of many reasons, one of them being i hate with passion people coming to me, and acting like i reverted back to Islam or something :rolleyes: " Marshallah the say "allah has finally guided you, you look like............." Few months ago I invited this lady (friend of my family who for the last 10years sat in her high chair expressing her opinion on me to everyone and anyone) to help me change my wardrobe around to suit a hajibfied girl, she even had issues with my shoes! ( too high, make too much noise, to bright, open toes) :rolleyes: my jackets, boots, handbags, even my coloured scarf’s I brought were not good enough for her. At the end of the day it just a piece of material, it doe not do anything on it's own, it is the intention and actions behind it. I've seen so called hijab's at the most odd places, engaged at the in even worse actions. Get your own house in order before you start worrying about Somali’s girls in tight jeans and scarf’s who clearly don't give a toss about your existence let alone your opinion.

^^who on God's earth ever listens to your advise dear Fartun i'm going in the summer inshallah for the first time. If you go before then do share your experience.