Have you ever wanted something badly and right when it was handed to you, you realized you didn’t really want it as much as you thought you did? That really, you could be happily indifferent to it?

lol@Marc, all I can say is that it's a lot harder than it looks. My event was an all ladies engagment party, wonder though how you fared amongst all these women, suprised no one kicked you out. Did you notice how everyone went a little wild whenever qabil was mentioned? CL, lool, the old women are impressive. I only saw the summer sault on a video years ago, we nearly cried from laughter. It looked so out of this world...

No Marc, this one was in North London. Why, did you also witness spectacular burambur?

Because CL, she was really good. I meant it in a good way, plesantly suprised should be the right phrase.

This past weekend I witnessed a teenage girl doing spectacular burambur, quiet shocking really.

^^^lol,no,never heard of it. does that mean 'dumarka wa qaxwo'? Ibti, of course you can bribe yourself, go to that fab restaurant you walked past or get that lovely top you saw or anything else that makes you happy, it should motivate you!

^^^Hello lol@wa in la shaaha, did you just make that up?

Ibti, why don't you do your work dear? Then you can treat yourself to something nice?

Ibti, Hello folks, damn this weather, it's so cold. Ibti, I think at the very least you have to be initiated (e.g. bushwalk through blistering heat and eat some wild animal’s intestines). Legend, what's this talk of horses? I call it a natural high

JB, not every Monday is a blue Monday, it's a 4 day week...some Mondays are good days to recover from the weekend, my heart is still racing from the weekend so I dont mind sitting here delaying doing work.

Biological relationship does not equal love. I'm not defending lazy irresponsible fathers............ but not constantly holding your hand, and not going to kids sporting events..... and not constantly saying 'i love you ' , or kissing them goodnight ... is enough to make some of these kids hate their parents. I fail to see how showing kindness to children is 'over the top'. Of course a child would think they are less loved if all his friend's parents took them out, went to their football games etc. and their own parents weren't interest in them. Those 'chores' are part of being a parent & being in touch with your child. There is nothing wrong with showing your child affection, taking care of them does not translate into loving them, children need to be told. It's confidence building.

It's your own fault for getting buses that late, how disgusting!

Yes that may well be for the ppl in Somalia, but I was wondering about SOLers responses. Layzie, I object to the method, I'm perfectly aware ppl die in war. Edit: Ngonge, I agree, nobody actually knows if those 3 soldiers raped, killd or did anything of the like, they could just have been killed for their political affiliation (assuming they have any and weren't concerned about feeding themselves). Like we said, ppl have no time for morals.

Obviously pain, hatred and suffering clouds the mind and in turn judgment.

I don't think you have to loose your humanity to make a point, and beheding the enemy, even if he does it on a daily basis, makes you a little less human. It is barbaric.

Hey All (waves from cloud 9) Ibti, I hope you get better soon hon. You need to rest and stop rushing around (somehow I always have an image of you rushing around ).

Well this Che has a way with words, first it was 'A Quickie' now it's 'Sex and Power'... I'm off soon I'm trolling to fill up the time until my next train...G'day ppl.

FB, mushot doesn't sound like a pretty prospect... lol@Layzie, I 'm wondering where all the Londonders are...wrong topic I guess!

I dislike them all equally, Labour had a bit of hope before Tony wiped the ground with them...in any case I believe in ideals before parties destory them.

^Hello

Really, unless you drive a 4 by 4 I don't see how the mayor of London will affect your life.

Too much coffee?

Layzie, it is fair to generalize that practising young Muslim women are not promiscuous and generally wait till after marriage for sex and as such greatly reduce their chance of getting STDs. No one is saying they are immune to it. Cara dhibley, put away your popcorn

Lacking inspiration today Does anyone watch the BBC2 'White Season'? Last night's 'The Poles Are Coming!'? was quiet sad. To work from dawn (6 am) till dusk, bending over vegetables all day for £7 an hour, six days a week is very sad. At the same time you have to really admire the dedication and determination of the Poles to improve their lifes. I wonder if the some of the Somalis receiving Income Support would ever take up such jobs?

Only they don't take as much delight as the US in appearing ******* Don't you guys have work to do manta? I see ppl are waking up on the other side of the pond.