Pig Posted December 10, 2001 Nomads: would you rather hear the "just wanna be friends" line or "I'm not attracted to you" line or "aniga iyo adiga walaalaan nahay' line. I've had to listen to so many of my Somali guy friends complain about the 'friends' line, but do you REALLY want to hear the REAL reason? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyFatima Posted December 11, 2001 Hmmmmmm? the TRUTH Hurts...but as they say a "A lie would have no sense unless the truth were felt dangerous." as Much as I like a Person to be HONEST with me, when it comes to this issue I think I rather hear the LIE? and tell the LIE... Seriously, how can you tell someone that you didn't like them cuz of how they look?? Cia Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
unixguru Posted December 22, 2001 How can you tell a person you don't like how they look? Easy... You look at them and laugh... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaber Posted December 22, 2001 Its a well known fact that 9 outta 10 times a guy gets rejected by some girl,its the rule of the universe,so most men are naturally prepared to get dumped at any moment for no particular reasons,some cry,some beg and some ask,why?!...And some walk away with whats left of their dignity. Women on the other hand can't handle rejection,they too emotional,just like children when they want a toy to play with,therefore,a gentleman should take it easy on a lady,if you don't like her do like I do,be polite yet firm. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted December 22, 2001 Iiman: defintely wait till I see......the same liking in them...b4 I make my move Jaber: Women r too emotional.. just like children.. is that what u said...I am disappointed ...I thought u were gr8 brotha.. but recently something been messingup ur thoughts... guess u r looking for a place to vent..n we weren't exacly the folks...that would listen hhe.. anyways.. we r hearing u out now... shot it all out baby! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jaber Posted December 23, 2001 Hiboooooo This is exactly why I think women r way too emotional,its a fact,you take things personal,didn't mean to offend your womanhoodness,but in the Somali culture there is a saying "Dumarku waa caruur kurtay". There's nothing wrong with it,hey,kids r cool,we all love kids,but at times they could really be irritating especially when they grow up. Another Somali saying goes like this "Women are breasts'(hope you don't find it offensive too),its our beautiful culture. By the way,am still thats good ol' Jaber you knew. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hibo Posted December 23, 2001 'Women r breats'??? U mean we get worned out after a while??... Is that it?? Tolaayeey....hoogney.. bisinka ------------------ "Honesty is the best policy..shove it up their arses ...whether they like it or not" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LadyFatima Posted December 24, 2001 Jaberoo Walaal Runtu Waa lagma Raystaan! Waxaad tiri " Women can't handle rejection,they too emotional" I've seen men who are Much Much Much more Way toooooooooooo Damn Emotional! then us ladies! Walaahi bilaah I'm not lying men on the Exterior look Strong and Powerful but when It's the matters of the Heart they too are Emotional! Remember Cilmi Boodhari? Akuyeey Wadnuhu Jilicsanaa! Bi'i waa jacaylow Boodheri inuu dilay Been baan u haystee....... Wasn't Boodhari a Man?? So Waxba Hanooo Maahmaahin we all know what the deal is? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted June 17, 2003 God, I miss LadyFatima! I wonder wot the male nomads have to say about this? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ayaan8321 Posted June 17, 2003 Barwaaqo,sis me too.. as for the subject....xaajiga waxaa kufilan inaa ladhaho... walaal naftaa kudiidey Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Xafsa Posted June 17, 2003 alla sthml-lady xaasidsanaa...lol...str8 to the point. I normally use the line " i'm not trying to get into a realtionship right now..I need to concentrate on my books ..but i'll put you on the list for sure." peace and luv oh yeah I miss Ladyfatima too..I wonder where she went :confused: BArwaaqo we missed you too where have you been these days? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Iffah Posted June 17, 2003 Lol@STHLM-Lady...Ouch! Gabar maskiinka ka qaleey nooh I'm with LadyFatima. I can't be straight up when it comes to things like this. As for what I'd rather hear...Ooh this is tough!...I think the truth would be best, tho it will be hard to digest. LF..amay aqal gashay? I hope all is well with her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Captivating_SouL Posted June 17, 2003 Come on ladies'- am sure we all done and said lies but where will it get us'..its like each and every time you make somethin obvious and yet seem not to be rude' they think everythin is str8..? So get to the point-- Here's two scenrio's which one do you prefer? 1. You tell a brotha a lie' as in "eh saxiib am NOT ready for a relationship" or we'll take flying-still line " need to concentrate on my books eitha way'- if you see someone you are merely attracted to physically..and you wanna get to knoe this person...you'll need to in actuallty go on a date rite..ight now just say the guy you lied to call him X see's you n tha hot fella Y on date...and they knoe one anotha..eitha be brotha's..cousins..best friends..family friend..acquantants etc (you knoe how we somalis are lol).. how you gonna feel?..drama' drama..n shout it might even ruin thingz btw you n Y..even thou X may not speak to him of tha' your guilt will kick in..and its a motha*****h wallaahi..n you feel like ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzz dosin off lol. O. R 2. Tell him "i respect you as a friend n that's all the reason why i dont wanna give you a line or lie bout somethin cuz that aint in me...you see' you and me aren't connecting on that level..i dont wanna sound too cheesy but i just prefer we'll be bettah off as being friends.. ( you see' you pulled everythin on the table..you didnt lie..you were smooth and he just might take you on that offer of being friends without any heart feelings...) N LADIES..REMEMBER BE SMART BOUT HOW YOU END THINGS..BE RESPECTABLE..N STR8 TO THE T . CUZ NOWADAYS BROTHA'S BE TALKIN..AH HUH...JUST LIKE TLC GIRLS TALK BOUT .........INDEED THE BROTHA'S TOO..SO MAKE SURE YOU GOT YOUR BACK...CUZ MAN CAN BE SOOO WHAA :EMOTIONAL WHEN IT COMES TO REJECTION..THAT'S MORAL OF THE STORY N BY BAD MOUTHIN..OR TELLIN LIES TO THEIR BOYZ OF HOW THEY DUMPED YOU.or HOW BLAH BLAH..BUT IF YOU KEEP EM AS FRIENDS THEY WONT TALK....HOW DID THAT SAYING GO.........UMMMM KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE AND YOUR ENIEMIES CLOSER RITE...EXACTLY' NOW LET THAT SEAK N SOOO LONG 1 2 3 ................. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted June 17, 2003 Ilhaam, Maybe she did and she just doesn't want us to know. "walaal naftaa kudiidey" STHLM_Lady...wow...would u really say that? :eek: I couldn't. Originally posted by flying-still: BArwaaqo we missed you too where have you been these days? I've been around sis...just didn't feel like posting. Am trying to wean myself off the internet (too addicted 4 ma own good), so I take some days off here and there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rudy-Diiriye Posted June 17, 2003 Remember Cilmi Boodhari? Akuyeey Wadnuhu Jilicsanaa! Bi'i waa jacaylow Boodheri inuu dilay Been baan u haystee....... Wasn't Boodhari a Man?? was this dude a porno movie star! with big u know....what!!how come every women knows him!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
