^LoooooooooooooL..tell me about it.

Alla ha unaxariisto!

I'm afraid NGONGE is right in this instance.

^LooooooL..look who's talking. Igaaryaho aan kala gadisano Xiin would appreciatate though, and Bob would take peak and look away

Originally posted by Cara: Tip for the guys: if you ARE getting coffee, drink it black and with no sugar. Very manly waxa nafciga leg aa noo diidey miyaa..It is like gabar ladhahe shaax iyo caano ha cabin if you wanna be qalajon.

sarah

^LoooooooooooooooL...Thanks for answering the mistress question.People got off track but Aaliyah has been wonderful.

LoooooooooL@hotline to paradise but on serious note, Nephtys I know I haven't help laakin it seems you had an epiphany whihc is good thing, however you need to remember diinta is not meant to shackle us, it is to free us and keep us at peace-assuming that you have to meet a certain set of goals is just making the diin hard.There is no qualification to go to Hajj so long as you are sincere and willing to improve as Muslims. I think if you put preconditions, you are deny yourself the very thing you so badly wanna accomplish. I never used to pray and had millions excuses or preconditions not start praying, but one day, I just had to decide to do it and I'm better for it. Imagine if I would have said, I better memorize the Quran first before I could even think about praying. I would have never get there. With that said, I can't believe I'm actually preaching about diin P.S. I agree with Shaken, I think wiswis badan ku jira or either you are unsure of things. Educate yourself about things you are not sure. You are already the niyad and the will, just study and free your mind. I will stop there

^You say I should know the basics of the Diin but thank you.It was just an honest curousity since that are two halves of us (the good and the bad one or demented in my case). I mean that sincerely!

^LooooooooooooooooL..I wasn't talking myself, you just assume it was me.

True-LooooooooooooL..what's the point of repenting if there are no sins unless main existence is a sin. Ootay Aaliyah P.S. Aaliyah...My question is legit. You guys just got fixatated on the wrong part.

^LooooooooooooL...Aaliyah, you really are not corrupted. Ignore the duceysane comment and I will take DD's advice. P.S. I was just pulling ur leg dear. I'm smart enough to know I won't make good kusband.

give them all that love in a halaal way. So, make use of it. where's Thanks for the advice dear. Duceysane

^Monogomy is unnatural but definately honest is the bases of everything (dichotomy ). P.S. I have been through few but I wouldn't know how others would feel under same circumstances.

Aaliyah...I'm very giving and like to share my love. DD...I'm justing there is always a grey area or is it just me?

Aaliyah-If she truely loves me, she would understand! DD...Usheeg dee. mida kale, I doubt Aaliyah have ever been in love hence her clear mind and focus.

^I'm very sensative to these things. Dumarka leegama ag maro

Aaliyah-You are confusing with someone else and please the word xareestay is offensive. Xoolo la xareestay not women!!

DD...That comes with obligations.Besides, it takes the fun out of the whole thing, but we digress, the point being humans are summation of contradictory realities. Isn't? or is everything as clear as 'blue sky' for Aaliyah?+ So True...Now I get,those Faraxs finally found about each other?. One knows the other but the latter is oblivious which I how prefer.

^You never liked two people-put morality aside for second?

^MS.DD...It is complicated.I know that's cliche but it really is. And the intentions could be sincere, twisted yes but sincere. Aaliyah...True likes me. Just ask her. Her reasons have nothing to do with the indifidelity of Somali men.

True2Thruth..You are already contradicting what Aaliyah said. Anyhow, I love my wife too much for me to put her in that predicament. LoooooooL@music thing-I think that proves a thing or two.

^You know it is the music that led to me to the mistress Wa Salaam dear.

^I was just making a point. There is dichotomy in everything we do, I think this is what Nephtys is trying to get at. Does a bad deed nullify good one. Perhaps the mistress thing looks obvious but more relatabl example would like listening to music while making Afur or watching half-clad women on tv right after praying?

^Please reread the post above. The key point is I don't wanna get married to mistress but willing to help her since ee rabto inee soo cibaadeesato.