Nephissa

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  1. waxa la iri, adduun gadoonka waxa lagu gartaa, mayiiko-nimadaa badata. Waxa su'aal ah waxa LG this 4yr old topic u soo revive gareesay..iyo waxa KK saas ugu qosleeso ilaa dalqadeeda la arko. .
  2. Originally posted by Haneefah: You see, a God-fearing sister might ask her husband a permission to go somewhere in attempt to being raaliyo, while I find that quite commendable and virtuous of her to keenly follow the prophetic tradition, another xaalimo who considers herself more 'independent and progressive-thinking' might find that backwardness and old-fashioned (or in the extreme end, even abuse :rolleyes: ). Why, I must ask then? Since we all have different ideals we strive to achieve, why can't we respect and accept our differences? (ok, I know I'm digressing a bit, but important q's to consider nonetheless) Yes to all of ^^, but you forgot to mention the other kind of Raaliyad; the Istupidh one . Please add her to your next lecture. As for Layzie's abused women, I don't understand how running to a bunch of Haliimooyin, unless they're a professional social workers, is going to help an abused woman? The reality is, 9/10 of these women don't want to hear the unsugar coated advice they need to hear. Pity party ayay rabaan and then feel better about themselves and go back for more [as for the case of my neighbor oo i tiri "Ma inuu i furaad doon-dooni"] Aaway qoftii dhamayd aan la taliyay :confused: it went over her head! So if you think about it, all of that Naago-shiris iyo iska dabo orod and calaacal is really pointless, it's them that have to take a stand and put a stop to whatever situation they're in. It's their life, no-one elses, and need to take control over it. I don't see the need private life kooda ay u soo hurgufaan, if they're not going to take care of the problem. Put-up or Get-out, labadaa wax u dhaxeeyaan ma jiraan.
  3. Further, it saddens me to see this concept of 'raaliyonimo' dragged and squished onto the ground so mercilessly, most likely due to lack of proper undertsanding of what it really entails. I just wish some of our misinformed sisters and brothers would begin viewing this concept in its own deserving light, without the mythical and preconceived notions that are often times attached to it. And you just leave it at that, without telling "the misinformed" lot what Raaliyo-nimo really entails? How generous of you.
  4. Dadka deegaanka ayaa waxay sheegeen in ay la hadleen Dagaalyahanadaas oo ay u sheegeen in ay is dajiyaan ^ . Dad dhanoo duulaan ah sidee loo ira is daji?
  5. Nephissa

    Wedding!!!

    Naa yur. Ana waxaan sugaayay warkii adduunka oo duuduuban. Thanks for nothing. :rolleyes:
  6. Never heard of the ICE thing, but I have my home phone number: "HOME", and my parents: "MOM" saved into my cell phone for similar reasons. Great advice though, thanks.
  7. Originally posted by Oodweyne: ^^^^ Mr. Me Waryaa, adiguna, ma waxaad ahayd, kuwa ***** lagu dhaley, ee aan waligood, meel edeb iyo hadal raganimo lagu hayo aan ka soo toosin... Walee waa cajiib; war talow, Ina-libaax-sanka-taabte makhaayadiisan SOL , yaa yidhi wixii ***** ah, wixii ***** ***** ah, iyo intii haybtood garan waa ah , oo dhan heysugu yimaadaan halkan. Waxaan, filayaa, hadaanad kuwaa aan soo sheegay aheyn, in aad tahay kuwii, dhadhaab iyo Kenya ****** la-aanta loogu dhaley; oo waliba ****** hoostiisa ku calool-galey habeen gudcur ah oo modow, oo ay askartii kikuuyada sangadhuudhiga aheyd, ee xeryaha qaxootiga Somalida ilaalineysay ******. Oo dabadeedana, qurbaha ku ******; gaar ahaan, markii Flight 13 lagu soo qaaday, ee Uncle Sam yidhi anaa ka ma suul ah. Markaa ka dibna, lagu yidhi, wiilow , heybtaada la garan maayo e, waxaad yeeleysaa, ***** iyo Hargeisa iska sheego, waa intaasoyba kuwa Hargeisa iyo Somaliland ka yimaadaa ay ku yidhaahdeen, "Adeer soo dhawoow, sababta oo ah, wiil lahelay waa xoog lahelay e" . Markaa, wiilow , waxaad yeeleysaa, orod oo wax kaa neefiya oo kula wad-wada, hawada ka doono. Sababtoo ah, adiga oo kale, inaan bakoorad ilkaha ugu meydho mooye, waxa kaleba inaan weydiiyaa waa iga xaaraan, xageyga. Nabadeey, Adeer... I've never seen anyone bleeped so many times in one single post! Waxanu ISFIILITO ka badan, malaha waa Raabiyo.
  8. ^ What a load of BALLOONEY!! Even if he's a loser kuyeh. :rolleyes: . I've seen men that base their view of how a woman should be on how their mother behaved/acted/treated their father. Somalia, oday kastoo abusive/loser ahaa, habarta madaxay saari jirtay. Screwed up parents iga dheh who didn't hide their screwed-up-ness from their young boys such that now the boys are screwed up and are going to perpetuate it, and likely go on to raise screwed up boys who think that women are slaves to men. Originally posted by -Lily-: Nephtys, it appears she is still suffering from the 'you are nothing without a man' herb that was sprinkled into her food since childhood. It must have been a heavy dose as most Xalimos manage to get it out of their system. I know eh'! Hard to believe there are still women in the 21st century who like to live the old fashioned traditional lifestyle. Ok Ok I take that back , there is really nothing wrong with that, but just not to the point of losing their identity. Originally posted by -Serenity-: Oh Nephthys , you're just jealous because you cant be her. And your hubby isnt as smiley and happy as hers Be who? I don't know whether to laugh or knock your teeth out the back of your head. :mad: Aan kuu sheego bal haddaba. I was fed up with naagtan calaacal-keeda misana cad-keeda goosan karin, telling me how she runs to fetch his slippers in the evening when he gets home, and how he expects her to cook and wear dirac iyo uunsi while doing so, along with bunch of other crap matag kaa qabaanaayo that I can't say in here. So, last time she came by I was like: Tell you what, naf is geli waad dhimatee, tell the annoying little ****ard off and to buy his own fekkin' dirac and wear it, if it's so important to him! Of course, being the dameer, brainwashed, self-esteem-lacking little doormat of a woman she is, I expected her to tell him word by word what I said, and I think she did b/c not a word did he say markaan iska soo hor baxnay maalin hore. Now I predict the dude will be knocking on my door in the next few days. Sitting in my salooto with my Farax spouting off about how he's the king of the castle and I, his wife and therefore must do as he says iyo unnecessary cantaraabaqash kale . So, see ma dear, odayaashu waa faduul miiran, inaan iska mooso aa rabaa intuu isooo galin. Jaluusiya maaha!
  9. Nephissa

    Wedding!!!

    Originally posted by Kool_Kat: Ok this is the story, I am going to a wedding tonite (yeeeey)...Well, word has it that the Bride and Groom will be arriving in style...What's in style you ask: HELICOPTER!!! dhug dhug dhug dhug dhug dhug... Qaaaxqqqqaaaxqax@dhug dhug dhug! Yaa waaye yaa waaye, ma aqaanaa? PM-me please . And who is paying for all that? Shalookadii may qaateeen? Qaaxqqqxxx it sounds so damn cheesy Walahi. I love drama just as much as the next gal but this is a little too much for even me.LOL. Mar dho bikini beach wedding baa jiraa maqli. AND AND AND, the Bride and Groom will SING to each other...Ohh how cute...Toloow maxey isu heesi doonaan (Waqti dhaaxaa, waqti dhaaxaan ku raadiyaayee)... Woooow eesh calaa fii laxam couple waayeee..Guur-keena guuur kheyr [dhara-ra-ra-ran] Deen-tana Allah naga baxsho [dhara-ra-ra-ran].. Guri-geena guri kheyr.. saas ay hoosta ka heesaayaan..LOL. PS: What are you wearing? It's a black tie maaha?Are you doing the whole shebang, strapless and all? Caawa mar-marsiinyo aa xusuladii baruurta aha ku soo saartid aaba heshay, waa kuu dhacatay .
  10. Is Ummu tawkin' to me, or she's tawkin to me? Originally posted by umu zakaria: war Ileen. since when was a trouser and a mini skirt ur dress code? Since I left Somalia. I remember how excited I was to be here, Ohhhh how amazed I was at the freedoms enjoyed by all. ALL. I wish you knew how lucky you are. She is was not a security agent so no need to wrestle with any terrorist. maxaad qiil ay ku qawaanaato un u raadinaysaan. war isku xishooda oo hadaad adinku wax isku filaynin, leave those who respect themselves and their dinity and hold their faith dear alone. Was she not an airport security officer? and isn't physically restraining anyone they find suspicious part of their job? Mise waysadaa ka jabayso?
  11. This is not a religious outcry! It's a safety issue. To say it's anymore is ludicrous. Making something out of nothing is what causes all the stress and disharmony in this world!! Do you know how hard it is to wrestle a terrorist down to the ground with that 4m long gooono on? Pleaaasee!
  12. Originally posted by -Nomadique-: Displaced children carry plastic cans in search of water It sickens me to see these kids as young as my nieces and nephews who are still in diapers having nowhere to live, no comforts and no way out. Deprived of even the most basic ie; their rights as children. If I could I'd adopt ALL three Walahi. Ahhhhh! I better stop before I weep all over my keyboard. PS: Fadhiga ka-kaca. Lacago hala diro! Even a buck is something to someone who has nothing. I encourage anyone to do so.
  13. Nephissa

    Maxaad?

    ^ Ha u fadhin taas! Aniga wax yaalahaasoo kale afkayga ma karo, adba waa og tahay.. .
  14. naa ka tag, toosh ha ku sii shidine. Tu cousin tayda camal oo markii koow L.A ay maqashay tiri L A jabhad miyaa!!! qaaaxqqqax civil war-kii aa madaxa soo waaalay.
  15. Originally posted by SheekhaJacaylka: are you living in Turkey ?? .
  16. Walahi markan arkay Zoro leenba soo xasuustay.
  17. Originally posted by Legend of Zu: Yaa Yiri kuwaas raaliyo waaye, F1 ay barkinta hoosteeda kuu gelinaayaan...too violent i tell yuh! anagaa horay ugu soo baaba'nay ee na weydiiya ! ^ L0L . How many did you burry under the Zu Mountains? warka igu soo boob . Originally posted by Faarax-Brawn: Haye, Xaajiga maa kuu bootenoya? mey mey, it's just that I have this couple next door and she's sooo dameer, arrrgggg!! lets just say the woman knows her place and is happy with it. Albaabkay ushii lagu garaaci lahaa iyo caano la taagan tahay! :mad:
  18. Wait a minute! Holup..holup..holup! I said: "[insert name here] xaq bu u leeyahay inuu wax bur-bursho".. as in, I see perfectly fine that they get up and protest, and let their voice be heard [not go on a killing spree] - Don't make your own assumptions guys 'cause you know the rest.... p.s. I have to admit, much as I like you Cara, if [insert name here] offers me a free car and money to avenge for what your tribesmen did, I'd be surely tempted to lure you back to their place and have them poison your shaax! And just for the record my tribesmen didn't ACTUALLY kill anyone.
  19. Political power struggle? Yes. Tutsi ruled Hutu for a long time but Hutu decided enough was enough. ----------------------------------- Yes. For the most part, ****** ruled ***** and *****. So if *****=***** and *****=****, what is ***** = to? Rwanda is/was in the same predicament as those in Somalia, the Tutsis even believed that they were made to rule and Hutus were made to respect. :mad: . ***** inuu wax bur-bursho xaq bu u leeyahay! [ November 23, 2007, 01:18 AM: Message edited by: Miskiin-Macruuf-Aqiyaar ]
  20. Nephissa

    The Show..

    .. Af-xaarkii aa ii soo socdo, where's KK hayga laaluushteee. Wax dhaaxe ooy waa i tiree, cawada indhaheey maraq aa ka daatanooyo..
  21. I just don't like this Nur guy. Nothing he said or did in particular, he just has this sneaky look about him. Almost like he's perpetually up to mischief. Time will tell laakin.
  22. Nephissa

    Maxaad?

    C'mon Cara, you must admit Cambuulo with the whole candle light romantic atmosphere and some great sexy back ground music is xaaax. . Oh oh, If I were her I'd light some candles in the bathroom too, just incase you know..