Captivating_SouL

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  1. oh my god' i feel beautiful already lol. naaaah i agree' and thanx for letting us on the truth but remmeber beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and since you're the judge of it all.....rate yaself a 10 every morining. ONE xxxxxxxxxx
  2. a female and a male being strickly friends' i doubt it. Ractionaling speaking' everyone judges one anotha firsly on looks(and if you say no, than you're obviously lying to yourselve)- and shortly afta, when you figure out the otha person isnt willing to connect with you on that level, you choose to be friends. Yes i do have guy friends which i kick with but not as much as my girl friends, you can't tell me you can share same amount of time as you do with your boyz, girls with the opposite sex...cuz really emotions are to develope sooner or later...so if you sayin... a guy and a girl can be friends in the sense of less communciation than oppose to your home girls n boyz than i agree.... one xxxxxxxxxxxx
  3. In definition suppression means'-conscious and forceful action to put an end to something, destroy it, or prevent it from becoming known. Liberation'-gaining equal rights for a particular group by setting its members free from traditional socially imposed constraints such as those arising from sexual or ageist stereotyping. And for you nomads who think' a sistah without a hijab will be viewded less differently' are wrong. I'm not arguing in saying' wearing the hijab is less by all means but really it all comes down to how you carry yourself as sistah' brotha and so far. Nevertheless' i seen a lot of sistah who pretray themselves as "innoicient, relgious person" but in reality' that's all a face. But if you guys would of connected "how one carries oneselve to how one maybe viewd" than i won't have anything to argue....... so just because someone looks respectble, innocient doesn't necessary mean it's the true self they are appearing to the public.....what happen' thought looks can be deceiving...?
  4. tough decisoin- but am have to go for my main man ' KOOOOBBBBBBBBBEEEEE'- alot of people hate on him cuz he resembles something of jordan but really you cant hate' the brotha has it worked out- trust the lakers are going to take it for the 4th consective year...wanna bet? one xxxxxxxxxxxx
  5. tough decisoin- but am have to go for my main man ' KOOOOBBBBBBBBBEEEEE'- alot of people hate on him cuz he resembles something of jordan but really you cant hate' the brotha has it worked out- trust the lakers are going to take it for the 4th consective year...wanna bet? one xxxxxxxxxxxx
  6. kacabuji- couldn't agree with you more. There are other ways of dealing with cases as such..come to think bout it' i do recall such ideas from phyciology 101 -of how beating up can make a child intimated and mystifacte their true feelings to their parents. If being cold hearted and emotionless to your kids is your thang-' than hey' suit yeah self........ one xxxxxxxxxxx
  7. lol- eh am be str8 up with you ! You know what you sound like you had your heart string too many times hon...but on the real note- it's not so bad if people ova the net find someone who is to their likings. Who knows' they might not live in a open community surrounded by their nomads...or they just happen to be shy in real life. To clear the air out- i don't come online to find me a mate but find read or chitchat with my net friends... Oh bout tha movie ' chatrooms' yeah i watched that way in the days- not just to have a sense of what if's but curiousity. And yes people aren't as they assume to be- wheather it was old picture they told when they were attractive or personality wise -- but if you look back at that movie' - where the black guy is in search of a girl and he happens to bump into her ugly mom and thought it was- and in fact tha girl was attractive and smart- who fault was it when he screwed up and started bad mouthing her mom? yeah the guy- so check your facts hon before you make everything as bad when it really isn't one XXXXXX
  8. Wheather she be stoned or not isn't up to us. Are we that righteous to make such infer decisions as such- i think not. And as my other nomads said' "are there enough evidance"- and using the quran as way of evidance isn't right. Allah has created 'islam" in ways of invering and changing for the better not to use it as such.- yes some may stone her even if found with the evidance'- but as human beings we are'- are you willingly to killl someone-' wheather it's amina'- your sister, or mother? Some may say yes and others no- cuz really-that's when our emotions tamp dance within- i personaliy would say- don't stone her'- if she commmitted sin' than let her suffer- but way of killing her -it will make it easier for her....and even if she were to live and prays to allah for forgives- who knows it may work- because allah is forgivin as long as you know wha you did was wrong and what not-......remember'- we are not robotics' we don't do and say everything as we're suppose-----just don't make yourselves seem to be right all the time cuz it's you and i know it's not- one
  9. Obviously getting rid of him/her would be the smartest and first thang in our list....and for all of you that say "it won't happen to me" reality check'- cuz the chances are it already happen or will happen if you keep being naive bout it...- of course you want to take action cuz he/she made you suffer -and distroyed the fantasy of having a good mate and what not but- let it be cuz whatevea happens - happens for a reason....- and remmeber someone doesn't just cheat once, become a playa ova a nite'- as i always say' --- if you're curious; than look deeper into their patterns and if you smell a roated fish' than ---adeous amecouz rite...one
  10. Is it me or have i lost all touchs with my nomads.? Why is it that we do or say what we already know will not benefit us? It's propaganda how we demean ourselves. Who is to say that covering up or praying for the month of ramadan is bad? I believe it's more good than bad, and for you to make false assumptions as such is inappropriate. If that confused,vulnerable, mislaid brotha & sistah needs some comforting during that month and in search find a understanding, knowlegebale shiek,brotha,sister and change for the better than it's obvious it has changed their views and by that became a better understanding muslim. I don't mean to lecture but i've over heard and tired of how we make ourselves highly of others; yes we all have our own sins and faults but one to judge isnt rite. As far as partying goes after or before ramadan'- well if we retrive back to the quran, we're not suppose to AT ALL...NO EXCEPTIONS...and people making in connection with ramadan has no place. If you wanna take it ' than do so by all means no partying' but don't be fool and say it's harm just cuz it followed after ramadan' it's wrong regardless of anyday of the year PERIOD... VIEWERS DON'T BY-PASS THIS TOPIC' CONTRIBUTE AND LET US HEAR YA FEEDBACKS .... ONE xxxxxxxx
  11. ~~~Malikia ! Iska waran saxiib' Am be frank with you all before you come in here bashing my girl. I'm equal person and am gonna have to agree with what you all had to say in contrast to creater of this topic. Yes there are good mens out there, same as my other nomads included previous and of course you can't have ups with out your downs. Look at it this way; every stright hair girl wants nothing more than to have curly onces rite, okay' lets take that further...every white girl wants nothing more than to be tainted and everyone will fall for the wrong one,once in their lives'.There are things out of our reach as to who we fall in love or when we're going to die; but such things as searching for the good mate could be hard task but reachable. See that goes to tell you that' even though allah has granted us this beautiful gift, we still long for change. In conclusion' don't think of it as' where are the good onces but rather slowing down on the journey in search of one and perhaps one will peak up behind you before you know it...and besides there is such things as fate' and am true beliver by that... one ___
  12. 1. SHOES-walaahi, it's nasty as heck. When they have freaking dress pants with running shoes or sandals ...brotha' please- work em ish wont cha for the sistah's and oh yeah like someone else mention it "sense of style". 2.Teeth-get the yellow stains get outtie here.. 3.bold brotha's tha shave their hair' to try make themselves younger (ain't working ....) 4.yellow eyes (that resemble some sort of maleria lol) 5.long noses 6.adam-apples big as tennis ball 7.players that don't know the true essence of the word..lol( i mean if you gonna play-play good or let the ish slide) 8.people that front too much-be confident n keep the ish on the DL
  13. Thought i give you both of advantages+disadvantage- .......... LOVE: -attention -how we can fake to left HEAVY objects -smelling good-NO ODOR lol -sense of wonder HATE: -emotions that come with it-hard-tough rockin chick lol..none of tha emotional grab lol -working -stressing about every details -menality of ours' of how a woman should knee-down
  14. Thank you all for your feedbacks !- It's true our society is blinded by what is given to them wheather tha being in tv,written or communcating forms. Secondly'for sectionsixer and tamina-yes this is a classic sample of capitalism' and simple economic theories of demand and supply may undertake; but- as someone has mentioned above "if it wasn't our well educated advisor's than; we would be neglected and abdondon of our intellegence-;since no one will work for free.-But is our soceity really this unconscious and unwillingly to go about' other relative solotion?
  15. Umm-just got the shivers lol.. Walaahi i don't know; it's something in our genes i suppose,that seem to look younger brotha's in disgusted way when viewed as either your boi or husband. Quit frankly' i won't even hestiate to look back if i know he's even a week younger olol..yeah it's all physciological to be honest. Besides i believe the previous ladies already stated that' in few years when you get old and resemblie your grandma; that he's gonna main a GQ look..and that's not right. when your boi looks betta than yeah.NAAAH ;than wha do you think is gonna happen...yeah being cheated on--but if he's older than heck- you have no prob' you get what you want and he gets what he wants..younger girl and all...so what's the point- go for something that satisfies both parties...RITE LADIES..? YEAH..ITS PRETTY MUCH FROM ONE PERSECTIVE; if you don't agree- explore your option baby-girl. xxxx
  16. No doubt,Harry Belafonte stated his opioion, one that was pretty much shared by many people. I personally am not aware of the political issues at hand but i do come by-pass it whenever, but if i recall back Colin Powell was doing same amount of jobs as the "master's assistance"so why is he at targeted? Just because; he's the the only black-male political republican doesn't necessary mean he has to break loose; everyone has their opoioins and when you're an sectary of state, you by pass all that and go about your job..so once again; why should powell stand up to the bush admin when everyone else isn't doing much wheather it be at work,school, or simply speaking your thought to a friend?
  17. Lad- one contiplate reason i found is: lack of security. Regardless of being in university or college' it's true 'many of our nomad students tend to run the otha way, simply because he/she is scared of the critisium one may get; wheather it be judged on their language skills, clothing or simply gestures. And to be honest' i believe it's less of qabile discrimination but once again lack or security;critisum and level of comfort. True love may stark more than once' so don't fall for the sake of falling-explore your options!
  18. Post Preview I'd like to hear you feedbacks to why more and more entertainers are being paid double-if not triple the amount of money than those educaters whom-may i add guide this nation to brighter days.? I realize that we all need some entertainments one way or another-in order to fullfill lifes means but isn't it more logical to investment on what really matters for the future? For instance' take MJ-one of the famous basketball player - and compare it to school teacher-'You be shocked & amazed of the difference. For instance entertainers would rather drink their money up than contribute it that-to schools. Cute,build-blonde-browish wavy boys is what it takes to cough up some big money than eager little kids wanting nothing more than to read "Cat In The Cat".. Nowadays' school administrators are cutting down on supplies-teacher salaries and extra curriculums activities due to the amount of money that's at issue. And entertainers are living the life after line or two in a comedy series. Most of our childhood contained of school related activties-weather that being -making life long friends ova a game of basketball or debatin on speech team. What is the essentail value we're teaching to our younger generations-? That quitting school is ok- opposed to entertaining jobs? It makes me shiver of the thought-not giving oppourity to curious-activate little boys and girls and how they wanted nothing more than to become a journalist-doctor or artistic phisopher dreams is-no longer at reach and becomes impossible because of the views of the society. It's pathatic how this world is turning upside down as the days perserve. I believe- one voice can make difference' by all means- stand up and let it be heard. p.s haven read some of the artistic favours of style- the nomadic community was sharin- i thought i hit you with vibrating miss Brown_Sugah. Welcome a sistah to the joint and express your reflection-deliberation,rumination & speculations -------------------- ~~True Soul Lays Within~~
  19. :eek: Pretty' good sense of a topic you brought there ' but anywho rolling along . I agree with you all to extend' but the reality of it all is ignorance. You can't blame our parents for lacking off interests in our education, it's something that was brought down to them from their parents and so on and so forth. Perhaps, another form of looking at is to distinguish the characteristic each one holds. I believe many of us by-pass the knowledge out parents carry and many ways judge them; because of the language difficulties. Perhaps it’s us; who need to express what we love to accomplish and letting them contribute to our school life as well as personal. And by “US” opening up to them, by speaking what we strive for; they’ll get a little more in depth to who we really are. In conclusion’ start opening up to your momz and popz ‘ and maybe’ just maybe you’ll find what you hope to find. - Brown-Sugah sayin soo long…..’ohh yeah ‘welcome a sistah to the nomadic community won’t cha , being her first post and all lo...lol take care’