Ibtisam

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  1. SalamAlikum everyone. Ngonge I am so sad that you of all people would say that!!!!! You've known me to be a valuable contribution to what ever society I join whether it be the Bengali's, Indians, Somalis, Syrian or English. :D Juxa: big wave: Xxxx
  2. There is nothing wrong with a marriage of convenience, it just needs to suit your needs and wants in life- if he is threatening to beat you or cheating, you just need to leave and find another one that makes you happy for however long it may last. People get bogged down with trying to find something that lasts forever be it by force or glue or clan. :cool: JB your article implies it was always the women fault- damn the witchdoctor JUXa; lool malah you nearly answered the question.
  3. ^^^HUH? Probably the impact of waging a war during the abaaro/ drought season, diaspora had to support their individuals family rather than clan interest. Either that or the money is in his personal bank account:- If he goes on a fundraising trip to the Western now, it is probably the latter reason. Wixii Khyire leeh allaho ha ka digo. P.s. He should've sent a memo to his clan members and attempted to solve the issue- instead of admitting this openly and undermining his group. Or maybe he wants people to dig deeper than they normally would. Even if the SSC movement collapses, there would be a new group or groups replacing it with more or less same membership soon or later until the underlying issues are addressed.
  4. Nuune waraben ku daar- Faheema- yeah I got it- will have to fill in the gaps when I finish with this other thing- which I've been trying to attach to an e-mail for u since 8am!! New copy since u aint looked at the previous one yet.
  5. Nuune you need glasses!!!!! either that or you see too many monkeys and ladies that look alike- eer where do u hang out dude? lol Faheema Good luck- bake a cake for the old ladies- that will shut them up- for a while. alhumdulilah day then
  6. Can't decided if I am having a good day or bad day-----hhhhm I guess depends on which way I look at it :cool: SalamAlikum
  7. http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2011/06/12/137139179/gay-girl-in-damascus-apologizes-reveals-she-was-an-american-man?ft=1&f=1001&sc=tw&utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter Over the last several months, Amina Arraf, a blogger who said she was Syrian-American and went by the name Gay Girl In Damascus, captured the world's attention. Her blog caught on just as the protests against President Bashar al-Assad of Syria became widespread and the crackdowns more violent. On June 6, it all came to a screeching halt when Amina's cousin declared on the blog that Amina had met the fate of many bloggers in authoritarian regimes: Assad's police had taken her into custody. Whether she was alive or dead, no one knew. As soon as "Free Amina" groups popped up on Facebook and the State Department began looking for her, the story began to seem a lot like fiction. No one had ever talked to Amina. The Guardian published a profile of her June 7 that included a picture they soon found out wasn't Amina but of a Londoner called Jelena Lecic. The biographical details in her blog posts did not check out. Amina Arraf couldn't be found in any public records in Georgia or Virginia and the names of her father and mother also turned up nothing. Today, the Gay Girl In Damascus blog ended the mystery, posting an apology that revealed Amina was in fact the work of Tom MacMaster, an American from Georgia whose university records show is in a medieval studies graduate program at the University of Edinburgh in Scotland. On the blog, he wrote: I never expected this level of attention. While the narrative voıce may have been fictional, the facts on thıs blog are true and not mısleading as to the situation on the ground. I do not believe that I have harmed anyone — I feel that I have created an important voice for issues that I feel strongly about. The revelation came hours after NPR approached Britta Froelicher, his wife, with some evidence that connected her with Gay Girl In Damascus. Other news organizations appeared to be zeroing in on the couple, too. Over the past week, we've been talking to people who kept in contact with "Amina." Some of them had been in contact with this online persona for as long as five years. A digital poster that was distributed across the Web after the Amina was allegedly arrested in Syria. via Facebook A digital poster that was distributed across the Web after the Amina was allegedly arrested in Syria. We obtained hundreds of emails from a Yahoo! group called thecrescentland that was administered by the online persona. The group has since been removed. One of the people on that list, however, provided us with a mailing address the online persona had given them. The website The Electronic Infatada connected the address with the owner Tom MacMaster. Sandra Bagaria provided us pictures that Amina had sent her during their six-month friendship in which they exchanged some 500 emails. We found that nine of them matched pictures uploaded by Froelicher in 2008 to a public album that has since been made private. We matched up the pictures of a trip to Syria visually, then compared the data embedded in the pictures and found all of them contained the same time stamp and all of the pictures contained the same focal length, aperture and exposure time. The only difference we found in the photo data was that the pictures posted to Picasa were edited using the photo editing program iPhoto, whereas the pictures sent to our source appeared to be the originals from the digital camera. Many of the details in the emails also corresponded with MacMaster's life. In his emails to the Yahoo! group for example, Amina shared detailed observations of Edinburgh and a great deal of knowledge of the Atlanta area. In other emails Amina wrote about getting a post graduate degree at the University of Edinburgh. Another clue came from Paula Brooks, the executive editor of a lesbian news site called LezGetReal. Amina began blogging on her site before she started her own blog. Brooks told us she confronted Amina at first, because the IP address that came up when she accessed the LezGetReal site traced back to Edinburgh, not Syria, where Amina said she was. Amina told her through email that she used a proxy. Brooks accepted that explanation until this story started breaking. Late last week, she checked her server logs and found that the IP address was from Edinburgh all 135 times Amina logged in. That is highly unusual if one uses a proxy. Froelicher told us by email that the she and her husband were on vacation. She pointed us to the statement on the blog, which they published a few minutes after emailing NPR. "We are on vacation in Turkey," she wrote, "and just really want to have a nice time and not deal with all this craziness at the moment." In interviews with Washington Post, before the announcement was put on the blog, MacMaster denied any involvement with the blog: "Look, if I was the genius who had pulled this off, I would say, 'Yeah,' and write a book," said MacMaster, reached in Istanbul, where he is vacationing with his wife, a graduate student working on a PhD in international relations. On the blog, MacMaster said he created Amina to illuminate the story of the Middle East for a western audience. In a lot of ways, the accessibility of the blog was likely the reason it got so much attention. Since February, it has been filled with posts that are dramatic and compelling and full of action. Amina had love interests and a father with failing health. She was a gay woman living in a country where being gay is illegal. She was a girl with close ties to the Assad regime but with heartfelt sympathy for the aspirations of an oppressed people. She spoke against Assad and his iron fist with literary flair and with an unflinching and courageous tongue. "I only hope that people pay as much attention to the people of the Middle East and their struggles in this year of revolutions. The events there are beıng shaped by the people living them on a daily basis. I have only tried to illuminate them for a western audience," wrote MacMaster on the blog. "This experience," he continues, "has sadly only confirmed my feelings regarding the often superficial coverage of the Middle East and the pervasiveness of new forms of liberal Orientalism."
  8. Hargeisa should be live with people by the end of the month; too lazy to post my pictures!
  9. From What I know Abaarso Tech is indeed for everyone; I jokingly asked "Do you ask the students clans" and they dont. As for the No Somali anywhere in the campus policy; I happen to approve, all the other students in other university have degrees or even postgraduate qualifications, but outside of the text books/ specific subject, they have yet to master the English language to an acceptable standard to allow them to take advantage of opportunities after finishing. Somaliland is full of such people, and practice makes it perfect, this will just speed up their learning process so they can keep up with the curriculum.
  10. JB, no they are not, plus I am Royal in any case, the other ban does not apply to me either; only to those who need controlling. Blessed there is always e-mail.
  11. Blessed I go through phases and once in a while boredom iyo the self righteousness of some folks ba ii geeya. I am approaching my anti social period;- deactivating from cyber space for a while.
  12. ^^^LOOOOL Lool My thoughts exactly!! POly: You are so random!!!! loool lool You are not going to find a wife online if you sound confused 24/7. Perhaps you can reflect your real personality a little bit more- it is not THAT bad :D
  13. LOOOOl, I thought you was quitting all online discussions- waxaan iislaha waadnimaadba baa meel kale ka tuurtey Yeap sure I will karbaash you if I see you in here.
  14. ^^Or that he can make his own breakfast [ as nasty as the combination is]
  15. Allahu Akbar, times better invested indeed. I wish you all the best I might follow in the government of Bladland's example.
  16. Polanyi: Iska Sl in the closest ayaad tahey despite being the "wrong" clan The Zack my aunty believes in Akhiro and has no time for Somali Politics and she is certain that she wont see it again in its glory. Plus I am sure her old house either no longer exists or has been occupied and looted and now has a new owner. The old curse of having property in a city where you clan dont live or have claims to. Che they didn't give me a citizenship in any case.;
  17. What do you support Polanyi??? Care to share and defend? Before you jump down my throat I don't support anyone and have no interest in any of them, clan or otherwise.
  18. Hmmmm might consider sending an SL hardcore delegation to Boston. We should make a flag-less june 26 to include all, then no one is offended. I am so against all forms of parties for any day- Somalis have nothing to celebrate- war/choas iyo party xagey iska kaalan- such waste of money and this is how we end up missing Allah's blessings.
  19. Its true, my dad's side of the family spent their younger years in Xamar and tell some surreal stories [i use to to think my edo was telling me about a fantasy place because I cannot for the live of me imagine it being anything like she describes!!!] Now forget calling it home, she turns her head away when she sees pictures or videos of certain areas. It use to be a country, a place people called home, now it is not even a shell, some remain hopeful nevertheless.
  20. My parents country use to be Somalia, sadly I don't feel at home anywhere as it stands. So I have no country. But amen allow nabadee- maybe then I can try it and see if the shoe fits or if it feels like home.
  21. Che, its a clan part, weereka iska daaf, it would be pointless to call it anything but that;- I can bet my bottom dollar that even central Somalis had their own xuus separately. :cool:
  22. Clearly my ethnicity does not change, laakin like the Afro Americans and Carribians in the UK, my subsequent generations will lay their claims and stakes to a different place, a new home as it were if we continue in this direction.
  23. And so it just becomes yet another pointless clan celebration and we shall remain in that state for so long as we cannot tolerate each others difference. All hail the clan parties. :cool: