somalien....walaahi thats true ,,,,,nearly all somali women from Africa are mutilated,,,,,soo, how can they exclude them,,,,,what they planning to do?....take the young children and leave the mother behind? uuuuf! and these somali's will fall for it thinking US is doing their kids a favour! quite,,,,aint it unfair?

Quite,,,,hmmm......that was a wild guess,,,,,and i cant seem to b able to prove it,,,oops!

looooooooooooooool well a religious guy always has the upper hand over me! it isnt really intimidation,,,i just respect them! oooh and old men,,yeah,,,,i move out their way when i see them on the streets!

Quite-storm,,,,,,lol,,,,,i think i worked it out,,, if u concentrate, the second shape, is slightly bigger than the previous. lol

BIG MUMMMA....lol, if i was getting married, u sure will be the first to get the big peice of the xalwaad, infact, u can cook it! hehee,,,,,and i love u aswell for the sake of Allah! muaah! and i dont get made easily!

hey, when the white ppl realised the meaning of racism, they stop calling blackboards , black, coss they thought it was being racists! ok, the topic is a sensitive issue, and i dont think that people in here are going about it in a mature manner. SAMIGYRL---- All you had to say was, 'S-land has built it self and is living happily and independantly,,,,InshaAllah i pray that somalia achieves the same success and that we can in future live side-by-side in peace and as 2 seperate states. Allah (swt) gave peace to S-land, and the way most of us are boasting and acting aint right, we should say Alhamdulillah and be thankful, and we should not be putting down our brother and sisters in somalia, we should pray for the

listen, every somali guy that i know lost his viginty by the time he was 15, if not earlier, they all slept around, and some still do. somali guys after coming to the west are crazy about sex. i would not have minded if they stuck with somali sisters, but they be sleeping with other races, and then tryna settle with my good-girls! as for girls going bad in Qurbo, that is a very small minority. the majority of somali girls might loose their hijaab and wear trousers but they still keeping their legs closed, and that really matters more1 girls are misunderstood, if they dont wear a big hijaab, but guys are rightfully doubted!

well, you aint going to see me in a club, so i really cant ansa that. and the girls i know that go clubbing will never take a guy they meet in a club seriously, so change your scene------try weddings!

Allah,,,,u joka,,,,u seriously just added the somali Questions yourself,,,,right?

i dont know a single person in here, not a friend,or a relative (heheee) i can get away with soo much shiit! seriously, how do u ppl respond honestly to stuff, when you know that your family will be reading your posts?

oooh dear, i feel so sorry for moi when ppl start talking about places they been 2. i aint been outta London-----till last year,,,,i went to Holland-Amsterdam, Rotterdam, and Utrecht, and i stayed at Leylastad,,,for those that live there. it was hell, and i never wanna leave london again!

PEARL.....well said, i feel sorry for them women that get beaten up and cant stand up for themselves. well me personaly, a man touchs me, and he finds the lockes of the house changed and his clothes ouside in the bin, ill change my fone number and tell the police to put a ristraining order on him. if he is rich and owns the house,,,,,,thank God for the west and women-protection agencies. i'll do the new identity and run-away.

Miss Lexus, naa miyaanan lagu barin in aad nimanka xushmeesid? Nimanka saa loogulama hadlo uuf,odaaygan is getting on my nerves, eeyaa, somalia iyo xiligii gumaysigii waa lagasoo waregay. these days its all about womens rights!

OK,.,,,,,ALL U GUYS ARE OUT OF ORDER,,, I SERIOUSLY TOLD MY HEARTBREAKER SO I COULD HEAR YOURS,,,,AND U ALL KEEPING SHTUM SEE IF I TRUST U GUYS AGAIN, 2REAL U ONE SICK BRADA! , i mean u killed a disabled cat.did u think the reason the cat never moved when u threw stones at it, is because it's too scared, it has better balance when standing still then when hopping around, imagine it tried to run, u hit it and it tripped, that could kill it. u should go down for animal cruelty!!! and at such a youngage ,,,,i could have understood if you thought the disabled cat was harming yours, but it was plain sex,,,she wanted it, he needed it, ,,,u get my drift unless u was gonna give your cat some,,she had to get it somehow. and as for snapping the chickens neck,,,,hope u didn eat it afterwards!,,,i mean, isnt their a Halaal way of killing chickens and animals that limits the suffering that they go through? y could you not just get a nife, face the Qiblaa, say bismillah and cut the throut like u was meant 2?

i seen married old men with the internet at home, so i guess we have a widespread of different ages coming online. but since the majority of older somali ppl are I.T- illeterate, i would say that most of us in here, are in our late-teens late 20's i think ppl in their 30's have great minds and opinions, but should quit flirting with young girls online!

ASRA....MashaAllah...glad to have u as my brother/sister in Islaam everybody has given all the pro's and i dont disagree ,i agree with them 100% but im going to try and show u the otherside! ok,,,, 1-how long has he been a muslim and how well is he practicing? i heard that a few converts, revert back to their previous faith after hangging around non-practicing somali's. 2-how does your family feel? dont give a damn about other somali's and their opinions sister even if u married the best man on earth, some would complain and u cant please all. but your family has to be happy, if they aint your marriage will start off on a bad note and could end up pair-shaped.(this is not only to with converts but in general) 3-if you moved from the west,,would he concider somalia? this one bothers me alot, simply because other somali's worry about going to the north or south, because of racist violence. if the brother is white and from a non-muslim country, they are usually more open minded to what Islamic state to move to. but some brother from other muslim countries or jamaicans that are bale to live happily in their country and practice their new faith, would not concider somalia. 4- could you seriously handle your children being seen as different by other somali's, are you strong enuff to handle the gossip and bull-shit that other ppl give u.? this last one walaalo, is about ur strength. somali's are very racist people and will give you alot of grief, u shouldnt care, but alot of sisters do. i have spoken to sisters that have married white, they are very happy, but if only others would let them stay that way. these are just a few issues that you have to talk about, concider. would i marry them? hell yeah! i think they cute, they pationate about Islaam, and the culture that they were baught up in has alot of respect for women and children(unlike our fellow mali's). if u2 can communicate well, u serious about your deen, and u can handle a couple of old ladiese chatting shiit, and your family is happy,,,,,what you waiting for? hurry up ,and dont 4get my envite for the wedding!

lol...this was one i recieved a few days ago, and my mobile,,,,i have no idea who sent it. "pass these wods**ALLAHU AKBAR** 2 12ppl and make a wish,after 12 days ur wish will come true. ignore this & u'll have badluck 4 12 yrs" walaahi, i thought what an ignorent heartless freak! i mean 1- bad luck is shirk and so is good luck 2-only Allah knows the unseen and wish coming true in 12days is like fortune-telling. 3-and the fact they tryna force it upon u to obey their command, or they curse u????uuf! and the funny thing is even if i did believe them.....i had no more texting credit, and i couldnt ring them coss they text from the net.

MashaAllah.......that was beautiful advice. and trust me,,,girl gets all that and she would be the luckiest, happiest being that lives! and she would go out her way to please her man back!

CLOWN,,,,,U SAC SAC!! LOL, everybody has different tastes, me i like swahil girls, because they are soo open, innocent and honest. and thats coming from a stubborn S-lander! somali from somalia if they know how to drive a car? even if they have never seen a car in their life, they will say that they know how to drive. looolllzzz,,,,,,thats soo me, i can touch the sky, untill i try it and am proven wrong! those that hate sijuis' and those of u in here that are speaking swahil and not translating for those of us that cant understand...... AKUNA ADAABU!!!

Hrageisa girl,,,,,,,give my love to the somali's there, u might pump into my family, tell them i'll come and see them after i can afford and i finish my intense therapy!!!(hehee) and every1, safe trip and have fun, for me aswell!

well,,,,,,give me a few years of therapy, and then ill tell u if i can go to somali, im not saying back to somalia--u have to have a recollection of the place to go back---i dont remember somalia, i dont know what im missing. the thereapy--well thats for my fear of creepy crawlies! and snakes, and lions,and dogs, ,,,basically every animal that could scratch, bite me or look at me agressively.

looool@ QA' QA' naah, let me explain the religious thing, i love a man that practices his deen, prayer regular, goes to mosque, takes lessons. But i dont want these so called shiekhs that are so hung up on the deen and preaching that they 4get the wifey and kids indoors, they spend 50% of their time at the mosque, and the rest is shared between their leisure, family, work and sleep. a guy that eats Qaat will never breath near me! listen, i know that when i pump in to mr.right i wont careless for the stuff i put up, coss as they say love is blind. but, im just saying, there aint much to choose from, u guys are loosing your qualities!

let me answer you on y do somali's refer to to other blacks as 'ADOONS' simply because, somalians were never inslaved by other humans, but many africans were inslaved and deported! is it right for us to call the ADOONS? well no, but i have done this many times in life, simply because, other africans dont regard me as an african, in an arguement, a nigerian girl called somalians--aliens, she said we are neither black nor white, we are lost aliens my ansa:,,,, every1 wants to b somalian, the whites are getting skin-cancer to get our tan, and trying there best to give their hair our volume,and the blacks b using bleach on their faces to lighten their complexion and chemicals that burn their sculp to soften their hair. that shut her up 4good! to defend my self, i would call them Adoons, if it would make them see that they cant diss my people! i aint disagreeing with the religious side, and i know that its wrong to put yourself above other,and true Allah made us all equal, but in an arguement, i give as good as i get!, im not gonna sit down and let them think they above me!

ILAHAAM,,,,lol,,,,same here,,,but no1 tried my pancake bariis!

ok, please, im posted up in here because i really dont wanna b judged. i just want some advice! ok, well most of us somali's grew up without our parents. 4me, i aint seen my mother since i was 3, and the first telephone conversation i had with her was when i was 17. i have only ever spoken to her 2/3 times, and each time, no matter how hard i try, i cant control my emotions. i just want to burst out crying. so i hand the phone over to some1 else. another 2 years have passed since i last spoke to her, and im feeling uncomfartable with the situation. bassically, i was adopted by my mothers sister, i spent all my life calling her mother, and her daughters my sisters. i dont know and cant relate to my blood family. i cant complain about my life, the past cant be changed. thing is i know the significance of a mother, and i really want to build a relationship with mine,my father died a few years back and the thought of loosing my mother aswell is devastating. if u guys been through similar stuff, or have any advice, please share it with me! or ,,,how would u tackle my dilema if u was in my shoes?