Loooooool@Castro. Illeen geed baad ku gabbaneysey adeer lol. Afro, you are right actually. Kaftan and idle talk aside, I think the practical hardships you have mentioned need serious consideration. I guess it's up to those women who 'juggle' work and family life to come to their own conclussions. This is not about one's self being beyond the restraints of archaic gender expections, but about choices that either add to one's enjoyment or troubles of life. Some sisters might seriously think that they must do this and that to prove a point. But that shouldn't be the case really. After all it's your life and how you choose to live it is your business. I must emphasize the men who some of the sisters quote as being in opposition to their choices, might have already, almost certainly, made their decisions to go and find brides they find suitable to marry. I am yet to see a brother sweating about these issues. Here's how it is for (the educated average) faraxs: she who is willing gets to be the wife, and there are many sisters who are willing. No sweat at all. PS: The strange thing is the defiant girls happen to the averagely educated Xalimos. The number of enlightened Phd holding single Xalimos I know points to something else. Little education perhaps?

^Sawir kale ma weydey? Anoo hal iyo nigir meher ku bixin raba ayaadba suul meesha soo saartay! La xowla! Hadeer hasheydii iyo nirigtii la noqdey! Sujuuga geela sharaftiisa ayaan daawac halis ah u geysatey adeer. Way oo way! Geel beelay!

MsDD It must be the summer breeze wafting under the cool shades of tranquility, which has now blown twice across the plains of my baldness! It's a good feeling, a breath of fresh air... PS: Haddii la ii gabado xitaa anu cantuugada horaa igu filan walaal Originally posted by Afromantic GirL: I hear more women than men talk about getting married as a goal . Ama jaamac kaso bax ama PHD wado ..GURI tirtirow ban ini wada dambeen Afro, walaaleey ka daa gabdhaha yeey naga didan hadana 'e .

^Haa Qureysho, Alla fiicnidaa . The EDIT saved me .

^ You might learn something. Xalimo Sacdiyo, welcome sister. You are another fresh of breath air in this forum.

^Hal iyo nirig ka waran, Qureysho?

Originally posted by Cara: quote:Originally posted by Paragon: quote: Originally posted by chubacka: I knew there was something missing,where da hell is JB? :confused: I can show you his tora bora, but you'll have to give me money for it . Whoa man, SOL is not that kind of website! What is it not? What are you thinking lady!? Chubaka, no no. You have to take my word for it. I've located him and I have an 'O' circling on him as aI write this .

^Try that another day .

Fahiye, thanks. Ibti, Booraame? Check NGONGE's topic: http://www.somaliaonline.com/ubb/ultimatebb.php?/topic/2/2239

^Gaadaco has summed it all for me. Seen how those women looked like they have Ruuxaamo? Ilbaxnimada aanan koontroolka lahayd waa gaari bilaa fariin ah waa taasoo kale . Ka jooga ayaan idin leeyahay. **Kaftan mode off ***

Originally posted by chubacka: I knew there was something missing,where da hell is JB? :confused: I can show you his tora bora, but you'll have to give me money for it .

^You mean these ones --> . Fahiye, indeed sxb lol. Ibti, listen to Lily. You know waxaad tahaye . Remember I am not depending on only photos. Think again. Beauty preceeds you .

NGONGE, it's just a layer, a layer to be peeled off. Nothing to it .

^That, deep deep deep down, you really are a beautiful and serenely merciful raaliyo of a girl . Do you know why I say that? 'Cos I saw your smile, and it was the sort only future raaliyos can bring to their face .

^She's something good, but I cannot yet map her out altogether. When I do we'll know. Ibti, do you what I know about your character?

^I'm sure she'll be back soon enough. We're depending on her, Castro . Lily, maxaa dhacay, hadalka aan iri miyaad yara dhibsatey? Waa caadi nooh .

Originally posted by Legend of Zu: ^^^^ we are not referring to a sitcom episode here....hand to hand combat - macawis is a liability - unless you throw it away and run through the streets with alfalaax even thos some faraxs could have opted comando Cheers No, no. Waa la xaydtaa macawuusta sxb. Inta dhinacyada ka laalaabto, ayaa ka tarta la dhex mariyaa guntiga ku dhuuqsan moxogga gadaale la geshaa. I tell you sxb, there is no better garment when it comes to sinsaaro, qonof, sabaaxad or lagdin in general. It's very convenient. The trouser is more ways restricting than the macawuus.

^No, no need for poking fun dear. Waa sida ay tahay, waana sidaan u sheegey. Muran maba jiri karo, Rahima.

The usual suspects, the usual comments, the usual attempts at humour and cynicism, the usual futility, the usual.... OK, a better line to tow would be very amusing right about now . Please, be creative ladies. Give us a new show . Princesa, your mind works beautifully .

Originally posted by Haneefah: ^Amaanta waxaan aqbali markaad la noqoto gafka gabdhaha kale aad ka gashey. Waa inaad gabey u tirisaa. Ok, let's not hijack Miss Bella's thread. Ka soco. Waad i xujeysey, Haneefah. Waa inoo kal kale. Ka luuday halkeer . PS: Princesa, welcome again dear. Sorry about hijacking your topic alittle .

^Anagu hadda waxay naga joogtaa: Innaa fajacnaa wa argagaxnaa! Allaahu mana-jinaa bilcaan macawiis xiran! .

Haneefah, soo daa, soo daa walaaleey. Carabka cabsi lama baro ee bal soo daa . OK. OK. Mar haddaad arrinkaa ka xishootey waa gar. Anna ka aamusey! Adam, Heedhe ma anaa mooday mise wuxu waxaa ku jira dumar macwiiseysan? Sawirka hoose?

^Lol. Ma hubaalbaa waarkaa? Adoo raalli iga ah aan ku suaal yar ku weydiiyee; maxaa lagu test-gareeyey khamiiska noocani ah ood isu leedahay waa lama-siibaan .

^Maya maya. Oo kaalay adigu ma amaantaydiibaa kaaga dartay hadeer? Heedhe walaaleey ma wax runta dhaafsiisan baan sheegay? Waana mid ay raggu dhamaantii, dumarka qaarkii iyo our princessba igu raacsan yihiin. Ee Haneefaay, amaanta aan halkeedii ka sii wadee adigu bal aan heshiinno .

^Boqorad Haneefah, adigu dee miyaad la fac tahayba dumarka kale? Kunkarroon hadaan kuugu yeero xitaa uma qalantid