just one. No need for more than that. Gonna be here for 6 years this coming august. Whoa, how time flies lol

mashallah allah ha u siyaadiyo.

Wadani you are not the only one, im on the same page. I wouldnt approve if my sisters daughters(inshallah wen i get em) or any of my good friends to follow that path. I would strongly disapprove it and try to advice them. But, everyone at the end decides what they are gonna do with their lives and like you pointed out there are girls her age who do things that are far worse. So good luck to her. salaam

LOOOL@rudy what happen to your wify? the one you were saying cooks white rice every night? loool walee waad walanatahay. Showqi, looool@ your crazy story!

loooool no i agree that for the most part with age you kinda go okey maybe i dont need all that..but you still get to see some people in their 30s expecting so muchh so it has a lot to do with wisdom than age. I don't think its just age...sometimes you just learn that certain things are not as important as you thought they were when you were younger. I am 24 and I have always dreamed about marrying a rich guy for instance and then now I wonder where I GOT such notion..like he has to make a decent living no doubt but i dont know this whole rich thing? ma aqaan cida nugu qururuxisa nin lacag leh keensada. People have to focus on the person's personality more thats more lasting. and i love your list..i was dying reading it LOOOL..like age 32 one of the list was "|has enough money for dinner"?? walahi thats heart breaking..in 8 years ama be like that..hada mesha iskaga kaca and get one that has a career..casho beela with that im off to bed. Night. salaam

LOL..yeah they do say a picture speaks thousand words. You got that right. and lol@ your making me blush. You are one funny sister..habeen wacan xabiibti. I am off to bed gotta wake up early in the morning haduu alle idmo.

lol i love the way you use those animated images to convey your message - it is cute.

Che, two goats iyo your brother miya somalicentric sinasaa? walaalka ma sida xoolaha ba lo bixinaya somalicentric lol that cat looks so serious...

you are wlc.

^lmao

SpectaKooler;820873 wrote: Standards change with age. lol Not necessarily. More like standards change with wisdom. lol..

He isnt saying pretty girls cant be educated and what not you are right looks and credentials dont have to be mutually exclusive. But, the girl in question only spoke of her beauty she didnt mention anything else she was like "im 25 and pretty" thats about it lol...He is basically saying if she is only bringing to the table her beauty then he is better off marrying an average looking girl who has more than beauty (ie educated etc) at least that girl's education waxbu ka faidaya..tan laakin quruxda markay ka tago maxay kale mesha ku haysa..hope that explains it. salaam

lol another year passed since i had that discussion with Chimera - waqtigu orad badnaa ..

clearly the point is those average looking women bring something other than their looks on the table - credentials, money etc..

Tears are flowing down my cheeks as I read it but ina likuli nafsin ajalin musama ilaahay ha unaxaristo hoyadood. She herself didn't have it easy being raised by foster home. But alhamdulilah she still managed to raise her sons right and it warms my heart that they have her sister and grandma and are not comletley alone. Also, it doesn't matter why their father left their mother and them he is still their father I hope somehow they reunite and that he should take the full resposibility of his kids. I pray that Allah swt makes their life easier. This is too much for four young boys to go through but who said life was fair we have to always put our trust in Allah and be ready to tackle whatever comes our way.

ilaahay ha u naxaristo wiilka yar. I don't know what to say, I am at loss for words. salaam

Alpha, barakalaahu lakuma wa barakalaahu calaikuma wa jamaca baynakumaa fii khyr inshallah. Guurkiina guur khyr qaba oo waara oo kala hela ubad dadkooda,dalkooda, iyo walidkooda anfaca. Caano, wiil iyo gabadh walaal. salaam

*Blessed;820113 wrote: Fadeexadii Toogane. ditto.

^^ Koob shaaha ma iga bixin laheyd, by the way, am not random guy, waxaan ku aqaaney adoo 14 sano jir ah marka hadii lagu guursado xataa, geela lagaa bixinayo waxbaan ku leeyahey, soo ma ahan. Nune lool . You are a random Farah I dont see anything wrong with a girl paying for a coffee? I dont know where girls got the idea a guy has to pay for them who isnt even married to them..hadhowna haduu disrespect gareeyo way yaabayaan he said that to me? oo hadaase he showered you with gifts maxa umaleesay..you have to earn respect pay your share. If a girl is married to a guy is different he can shower her with whatever - even then she shouldnt take him for granted. salaam

ka diiday inuu coffee yar ka bixiyo saqajaan buu ahaa lool but whats wrong if the girl pays for her coffee? he isnt ur husband right so he doesnt really have to lool..girls need to understand there is a fine line between a random farah and your husband. A random Farah doesnt have to pay for anything. (I heard abt a girl who says her phone bills are even paid by this guy let alone anything else lol.gabadha qaar ba iga yaabiya LOOL) salaam

sad story.... ilaahay ha unaxariisto ilmaha dhintay. Yaduna Duni iyo akhiraba way seegtay salaam

Ummu maryam, don't pay attention to ina jaad. He makes the dumbest comments. Best of luck hun with your issues inshallah.

"O' Allah we seek refuge in you from anxiety and grief; we seek refuge in You from incapability and laziness; we seek refuge in You from miserlines and cowardliness; we seek refuge in You from the burden of debt and from the subjugation of man" Amiin yaa rab. Thank you for starting this inspiring thread.

Malika mashallah well said sis. Inshalah khyr. I wish you a good night oh wait you prolly have a different time anyhow althou it is a bit early on my end I've this intense headche so im gonna get some sleep. Salaam

anger does that how many times have we said "we hate someone" due to the emotion we feel then and there. Inshallah she will get over it. salaam