Malika hate is a strong word sis. She doesnt hate them and they dont hate her. They just need to sit together and communicate. (from the look of it the mother in law is angry that ummu maryam didnt attend her sister in law's wedding and that it escalated from there..and maybe the cultural gap is also fueling it)..either way..there is a way where there is a will. If tehy want to make it work they can. Otherwise, they will have a life time of resentment toward each other and this life is nothing but a temporary abode anyways..is it worth it? I think Not.!!..It is sad that sometimes when people are blessed and Allah swt gave them every reason to smile they try to mess their life? and im not saying umm maryam is making her life harder than it is im just saying so many people have it worse..lets not allow little things to get our way!..alhamdulilah she is blessed. She has her kids, she has her husband who loves her. and that lil issue with the MIL will go ( from my understanding her MIL is somali..i think its something deeply rooted in the somali culture for the mother in law to have an issue with her daughter in law like i seen many of that something that culturally we should change...the daughter in law isnt going to replace the mother in law and neither is the mother in law a threat..that relationship could be precious its all how you make it.).. salaam

Umm Maryam..today the khutbah was about being forgiving. The shiekh was telling us how there was a family that abu bakr may Allah be pleased with him used to support financially and how they spread rumor about Aisha may allah swt be pleased with her - rumors about her reputation. And abu bakr took an oath not to support them of course that being a normal reaction to someone who slanders your own daughter...then an ayah was revealed to the prophet csw along the lines of dont take an oath and that you should support the less fortunate than you and don't you guys want allah swt to forgive you (my apology for not knowing that ayah percisely but that was the jist of it)..And then the companion abu bakr was moved by the last line "dont you want allah swt to forgive you" . Of course we sin day in and day out and we expect Allah swt to accept our repentance. Likewise remove that grudge against your MIL forgive her for Allahs sake. and make it work ..and dont say "you dont care" ..Yes you do hun and you can fix that relationship with your MIL for your sake and for your kids sake if not even for your husbands sake. Believe me it doesnt matter how many times you say "oh im gonna be nice to her" (your actions will speak what your heart feels)...you are not going to be nice to someone you feel anger toward?...you have to let it go sister. Just my advice. You will be in my duas. take care of yourself. Seems to me you have a blessed family. Just few misunderstanding here and there. Stay blessed.

Alpha, actually that is not true. It is becoming more prevalent in the somali community. The poster, thank you for sharing this article. Jazakalaah.

Everyone looks amazing here including dr cali ciise. Mashalah

mashallah lovely pics khaatumo ha tagin waliga ha dagin waan ku doorane, dugsi no ahow. Guul!

umm Maryam, wa iyyaki habiibti. I am glad everything worked out. salaam

umm maryam pray salatu istikhaara sis (guidance prayer) and inshallah things will work out for the best. Your mother in law invited you for a bbq so theres still some hope with her. Like she isnt totally ignoring you, and even thou you wholeheartedly wanted to go you couldnt as you explained which is understandable we are all human and we have the tendency to be forgetful. All you have to do is explain to your mother in law what you are explaining on this forum. Sit with her and have a talk, same goes with your hubby. Also, you were gonna cook for your mother in law as a apology gesture but changed your mind when your husband gave you the silent treatment, dont correct a mistake with another. It is all going to get worse if you do that. It is all small little issues that can turn into something bigger if its not put to stop right now and hate is a strong word you do not hate your mother in law and neither does she. Work it out sis. Communicating with one another is the key. And you were saying how ur hubby was feeding your baby and singing to him/her..that sounds like a keeper mashallah. As for the job? inshallah push him to get a full time job and remind him that its his duty as a muslim husband to provide for his family since you are most likely a housewife trying to care for your kid/kids. I will pray for you hun. salaam

This ad might be in your face as some of you put it. But so are the other christian ads I came across and never heard of anyone complaining although in the video I believe that guy was saying they do get complains from all sort of religious ads and if that's the case it didn't make it to the news lol.seriously it is obvious that anything to do with Islam gets the attention of the media. I personally seen the ad and went like "oh my god its an Islamic ad" gives you that good feeling. I'm glad the ttc has no objection to religious ads and has no intention to remove it. Hopefully ilaahay dad buu kuso hadeen. Ilaahay khyr ha siiyo those who posted it we don't need to criticize them at least they are taking the initiative to spread our beautiful deen. MMA you could have just took a copy I'm sure they have many. As long as you will use it and read and it won't end up sitting on your shelf khyr adba waad ka heli (I'm assuming you wanted an English translation of the Quran some people prefer to read the Koran in English. I personally prefer to read it in Somali althou I've some grasp of the Arabic language it touches my heart so much more when I read it in Somali) Salaam

http://www.citytv.com/toronto/citynews/videos/199040

Ilaahay ha u naxariisto

^ I dont think it changed much now even thou women can take care of themselves financially speaking. i BELIEVE it is universal for women to always want someone older that is to prefer. Of course if they end up liking someone younger maybe nowadays they are a bit lenient to change their ways than previously in the past. But, it is still the preference for most i WOULD SAY. Cofle loool hahah@miyan korinaya...those old ladies have a valid point.

^loooooooool ooohh my god he is sooo short. One thing one can learn from this "dont assume things" he thought she had issue with his race. lool.. I also have one question why did the friend told her to wear high heels when she knew this guy was short??

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Somalia, relisten to the video prof Ali khalif said no such thing. I think you don't have a good grasp of somali. mise waad is yeelyeeli Xaaji waqti um hayo adoo kale in aan la hadlo. Orad waxkale qabso.

Chimera;816312 wrote: Your date had a beard, and still you went out for dinner, blind indeed LOL I didnt get this. What do you mean his date had a beard? lol

Abdul, just ignore xaaji. Macno badan ma sameeyo kaas.

kingofkings;816172 wrote: for one thing here is cali khalif admitting wanting to destroy PL before there was such thing as SSC/when he was the prime minister of somalia First, What is the point of posting this video, when we can find million videos Faroole degraging, insulting, underminging, and badmouth SSC and Khaatumo. Faroole said SSC and Khaatumo are terrorists, enemies, thieves,loosers, bloodthirsty, etc. I can't think of anything worse. Second, Faroole admitted so many times that he is committed to fight and destroy SSC and Khaatumo. Faroole said many times he will fight SSC who he calls them "enemies and terrorists" Third, for the sake of the conversations, lets go back to the video, Prof. Ali Khaliif clearly said that he had political conflict with Abdulahi Yusuf, Ali KhaliF denied he had conflict with Puntland or Garowe clan. Because Abdulahi Yusuf went against Prime Minister Cali Khaliif's government. why? Abdulahi Yusuf himself wanted to be President. Fourth, In 2000 Abdulahi Yusuf opposed Ali Khaliif Prime Minister-ship. and not long ago Faroole opposed Farmaajo, because of qabiil. This is the sad reality of somali politics. Fifth, if you listened the video clip that you posted which I doubt Cali Khaliif said it was Adeerkaa TNG Defence Minister Abdullahi Boqor Muse 'King Kong' who was sending funds to Islaan maxamed and Saciid Garaase of Garowe. Islaan Abduwahaab Gurey of Galkacyo to fight against Abdulahi Yusuf. so in conclusion, this video helps cali khalif and makes him come across as honest and innocent man. You need to take accountable your adeerayaal stop qabyaalada. You failed in coming up with good evidence to support your stand next time listen to your videos before you post them.

kingofkings;816160 wrote: i don't know why i thought you of all people were reasonable and enlighten when it came to somali politics, but tonight you confirmed one thing for me, you are no different than the other what's her name that got ban. I careless what you think of me. Dont get angry when people criticize your adeer while you and your likes are dissing and spreading fake rumors about other people's leader.

Kingofkings stop fabricating stories. No Khaatumo leader ever badmouthed puntland. Farole and some puntlanders insult day in and day out khaatumo. farole went to the extent of calling SSC terrorists. As for cali khalif he never did anything to puntland ii sheeg marku cayay? Waxa kaliya kaxuntihin qarkiin in uu prime minister noqday asaga iyo farmaajo. If we talk about reality it is farole whose going out of his way to destroy khaatumo. It was today when farole said referring to khaatumo "waa dad dhiiga dadka ka ganacsada" . Cuqdado idinka ee nificneen many of your websites are against khaatumo. Also your excuse for farole being one man the same can be said about cali khalif. So the question is why many of you are against khaatumo like moge moonlight somalia etc? And I can ask you the same question where did you get the idea that cali khalif should be held accountable for waxan jirin while calling your adeer farole mujahid even though he is so disrespectful to khaatumo daily? I don't hold people of puntland accountable for whatever bad thing farole says about khaatumo. I only hold accountable farole and his supporters. Lastly, I don't understand what forole has against khaatumo? Till today I'm wondering.

^it is double standard that some puntlanders want to insult our leaders who have done nothing to puntlanders yet when you mention faroole who bad mouthed again and again khaatumo ayeey cirka bay isku shareerayaan. Walahi wa iska adun gadomay

Faroole wuu afalagadey reer khaatumo taasi waa sheeko run ah. Aduu hadaad sida ku jeceshay waa sheeko ku taala and I didn't even insult him other than stating the fact that he badmouthed khaatumo. Tan kale faroole wuu cadeestay inuu khaatumo kaso horjedo marka shekadaada farole wan la jira khaatumana waan la jira uma malenayo in ay ismaqabanaso. Anyhow, I don't really care about who you support. You are entitled. But adeerka faroole asaga ayaa reer khaatumo agtooda iska qiima tirey..aflagadada ayuu umad dhan iskaga so horjediyey iyo hadalu iskaso tuurtuuro asago wax thinking ah sameen. Last but not least if saying the truth is hurting your feelings because we arediscussing your adeer then tough luck.

If you are ready for marriage and your cousin suggested a friend go for it if she suggested a relative? Stay away. I just don't like dealing with a family. Bari hadaad rabin if she was just a friend what's the chance ull meet her.

Mr script hadaad gobolka khaatumo support gareesid then waad fiicantahay waa in aad tageerta wixi somalinimo midnimo iyo wanaag ka shaqeenaya taas oo sameneen jacayl puntlan u qabtid. Reer Puntland iyo khaatumo waa dad walaalo ah yago laba kala gobol ah ayeey wanaag dhex ooli karta marka la iska dhaafi farole oo walaladi aflagadeyey iyo inti u hesasa.