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aa ka nabad gashide nabad gali bulshada nabad gali...

Loool this is pure entertainment. Love the ending @ this is not from her it is from my fridge. Lol.. By the way isn't possible that she might have lost her phones? You can see she has a kid and juggling too much work. And who knows she just felt like inviting you out of courtesy..maybe you are just full of yourself lol..

Ace of Spadez 1- The issue of Alshabab can very much be dealt with internally within Somaliland. Lets not kid ourselves, SL is made up of a clan, and the advantage of a clan is conflict resolution. These waqooyi men who are leading Alshabab are from your region, hence your one-clan maamul should play an important role in putting stop to this alshabab movement. Or, does the continuous demise in Hamar work for SL. After all here is Edna crying to the international world telling them Somalis are Alshabab “ who in the right mind wants to unite with Alshabab”. Does she really think SL will get recognition by labeling all Somalis as terrorists? What is more baffling is her none too subtle threat of how young people from her region will become terrorists if they don’t get recognition? Walahi this is too funny and sad at the same time. 2- Awdal has the right for self-determination so they can have a representation in the Somali federal parliament. So I state that SL should refrain from “suppressing” that. I have seen those demonstrations in Borame where the reer awdal civilians had the Somali flag along with the Awdal flag, those people believe in unity. Reer Awdal have the right to decide their future. They have chosen both within Somalia and abroad to establish their state :Awdal State of Somalia, and every Somali out there who has a mind and who is not blinded by his clan’s interests would support them. 3- The Khaatumo issue hits home. Lascaanod have never supported your one-clan state. As for Buuhodle? tell me what your qabiil militia are doing in Sooljoogto and continuously warring with reer Buuhodle?? Your SL militia has no place in Laascaanod, Buuhodle, or any region within Khaatumo. The facts are that SL are wrongly in other people’s territories and are trying to force them on an ideology they would never entertain. Reer Khaatumo will never secede from the rest of the Somalis. Your folks are on their own with this nonsense of seceding from Somalia. 4- This point was not the only one that went over your head. Your folks are not standing outside of the conflicts within Somalia and looking from far and shaking their head at the other Somalis as your eedo Edna was doing in the video. But, your one-clan maamul is part of the problem. Do not try to point fingers at other Somalis and act like you have it all figured out and that everyone else is part of the problem but not SL. Your so called “Somaliland” are causing havoc and continuous war against their neighbors in the north, not to mention the men who hail from their region that are leading Al-shabab. If anything SL play a greater role in the problem than anyone else. The card of always pointing fingers at other Somalis does not cut it. Edna pointed out that there are terrorists and pirates in Somalia, well I must add that there are also secessionists in the boiling pot of Somalia. After all that is the full picture of what is going on in SOMALIA.

Wiil Cusub;840884 wrote: Allaa dawayn kara Xasidka Waa runtaa waan kusoo ducaynayaa. LOL

Chimera, I simply meant if the parents play an important role in developing the child's intellect during childhood which is a critical period then that child will develop respect for his parents. Hence, when it comes to the teenage years he will develop restraint in regards with the activities he does with his peers because of the respect he holds for his parents. Quite frankly, he will be a mature person due to how they raised him. Other than that, I agree with you when it comes to the need for somali culture and community centres.

Ace of Spadez: stop dancing around the issues. Somaliland has withdrawn from the union in 1991. What has Somaliland done or contributed to make Somalia the failed state that it is today since 1991. Let’s hear your grievance. Let me educate you on what your one-clan state is inflicting in Somalia. 1- Alshabab in the south is led by waqooyi galbeed men. Consequently maintaining the instability in Hamar. Which facilitated the bringing in of foreign troops far into our country's territory. When it could have been prevented with Somaliland administrators calling back their cousins. Perhaps, they can bring their Islamist court into Somaliland.SMH 2- Suppressing Awdal State for over 20 years. 3- The unjustified oppression on Khaatumo territories (kalshale, buuhodle, laascaanod etc) 4- Playing a big part in the overall political and national instability in Somalia with this notion of secessionist group making a feeble but nonetheless angry stance (Edna is a fine example) against Somalia when it comes to the international Somali conflict resolution conferences. My grievances yes. Facts also YES.

lol@ gaaray. I love that song between. P.S nice wedding. Alle haka dhigo labadii isku waara.

oba hiloowlow;840788 wrote: ^^ Aaliyyah madax adeeygoodi somalida kale baan ka goosaneyna bey leeyahiin Awdal iyo SSC na uma ogolo hypocrites sow maha In badan oo ka mid ah waa habartan oo kale oo ma rabaan soomaali in ay wax ku darsadaan. Marka in aad somaali nacdo, somaalida qaarna rabtid in aad ku meel gaadhid ma wax caqliga galaya..taasi wa maya. Caqli xumada nocaasa yaga og mesha ee geenaso. Laakin reer khaatumo oo aan ka dhashay iyo reer Awdal wa tashadeen oo somalinimo iyo midnimo ayeey ku goaansadeen. Qof walbana dhulkisa waa u madax banaanyahay in uu wuxu rabo ku qabsado kii raba sadexdiisa magaalo in uu goosto dee ha goosto qof kale dhulkisa miyaad xaq u leedahay taasi wa maya.

oba hiloowlow;840777 wrote: Che waa runtaa laakin dee dhiiga igu kacay waxaaso kale looma dulqaadan karo,, Xaaji Awdal iyo SSC iska ilooba, 3da hartay la baxa Waa runtaa Oba. Laakin ya ka dhadhicinaya. Waa umad 20 sano la brainwash gareenayey.

Cara.;840671 wrote: I'm just in awe of all that hair. It's a wonder she can hold her head up! I second that. I used to see few Ethiopian girls in my uni who used to have so much hair extensions added to their hair. I used to wonder too. LOL

Waxaa Qof walba oo muwaadin Soomaaliyeed ah saaqday neecoow wadaninimo, Neecaw qabow oo caafimaad markaasaa mid kacleeya iyo mid kadleeyaba u xidhxidhay in uu soo arko Caasimadii dhulkii hooyo ee Muqdisho. Halkani waa garoonka Diyaaradaha Aadan cadde ee caalamiga ah, garoonkani wuxuu tusaale wanaagsan u yahay oo uu ifafaale qurxoon ka bixinayaa magaalada uu ku yaallo ee Xamar/Muqdisho, markaan il’mug leh ku eegay habsami u socodka shaqada garoonka, qalabkan casriga ah iyo adeegyada kala duwan ee loo dalbay socdaalayaasha ayaan fahmay farriinta garoonka oo wuxuu ileeyahay “hadda uun baan caalami ahay adduunkana la jaanqaaday”. Waa markii labaad ee aan noloshayda cagta soo dhigay Caasimada Soomaaliya ee Muqdisho, halkan dadku way wadafaraxsanyihiin niyada ayaana u dhisan noloshuna si caadi ah ayay u socotaaa,Subaxdii ubadku Dugsiyada Qur’aanka iyo goobaha kale ee waxbarasho ayay u jarmaadaan,xoogsataduna goobahooda shaqada. 20 sano in ka badan waxay Xamar la il’darneyd waxyeelada dagaaladii sokeeye oo gaar siiyey burbur laxaad leh ayadoo ay u weheliyeen qax joogto ah, abaaro iyo dagaalo waa colaad sokeeyee. Mar baan ku calaacalay ma nasiibkaygaa xumaaday oo maxaan u calafsan waayey maalmihii muqdisho nabadeedu saraysay, magaceedu kor ahaa , cududeedana laga haybsan jiray hadana waxaan isku qanciyay hadaba jidkaas ayaa jaanta lagu hayaa ee dulqaado ,Waa markii u horaysay ee aan jirahay-joogahay arkay Xamar Cadeey oo nabad iyo barwaaqo sooran ku jirta.7 Muqdisho waxaa ka jirta nayaayiro wanaagsan markaad aragto niyad wanaagga hooyooyinka, dadaalka ardayda dugsiyada iyo jaamacadaha, dawladda iyo barnaamijyada dib-u-dhiska, heeganka ciidanka Qaranka, idaacadaha la dhegaysto iyo kuwa la iska arko ee u carabisan baraarujinta iyo hanuuninta qaranka, waxaa kale oo ku soojeedinaya tamashlaynta ka socota xeebta liido iyo dib u dhiska ku socda hotellada nasashada iyo sharikadaha adeegyada kala duwan qabanaya, Sidoo kale waxaa aad arkaysaa laamiyada magaalada wadnaha u ah sida maka al-mukarama oo kale oo aroor yada hore loosoo shaqo tegaayo oo la xaadhayo Bacaadkii shalay lagaga hoyday. Iyo jidadka waaweyn oo lagu qurxinaayo laydhadh waaweyn oo Solar ah oo Iskood iyagu isu shida isuna damiya Waa Yaab!!! Waxa wadooyinka waaweyn ee magaalada laga wadaa qurxinta iyo hagaajinta taas oo lagu dareemi karo hanaan dawlad nimo, Geeskaad ka soo wareegtoba waxaa taagan Traffic kala hagaya baabuurta eegayana gaadhiga aan haysan (Licence-ka) buuga wadista gaadiidka iyo Jaandiga Baaruurka wadaha aan haysan ama mid ka maqan yahay waa laga dhigayaa si sharci ah gaadhiga. Hadii aad xamar ku noolayd 20-kii sano ee ugu danbeeyay oo ay dhegahaagu laqabsadeen jabaqda iyo daryanka rasaasta hadii aad xilligan aan joogo aad maqasho jabaqda Qow Qow hada la soco waa fuundi isku garacaaya musmaar iyo alwaax oo guri dhisayee ma ahan codkii dhegahaagu horay ula qabsadeen, Xamar oo burbur xoogani soo gaadhay 20-kii sano ee la soo dhaafay hada waxay tusaysaa farxad dadka ku dhexnool gudeheeda, wajiyadoodana waxaa ka muuqata niyad wanaag adkaysi leh. Maxaan ku til maamaa Xamartan manta? Ma waxaan dhahaa waa xeego oo xanaf iyo xurmoba waa taalaa? Mise waxaan iraahdaa waa sidii misigtii la falfaliyey oo cad iyo lafba way leedahay? Mise sida dadka guraca wax u eega ayaan idhaahdaa Xamar waa xaruntii ma deganayaasha geeska afrika?. Mayee aan iraahdo Xamar Cadayeey barasho wanaagsan. Waa qalinkii Dr: Mustafe Mohamed Duulane Boocame Online

http://waagacusub.com/news/11.06.12.1godob.htm

Lol why sunday mass?

Lol adey ku jirtaa waxaad sameenasid. Laakin dadka sawiradooda melaha hakuso dhajin waa laga fiicanyahay.

Dhaqanku waa dhaqan markii la rabo baa docda laga tuuri kara qofku waa in uu diin leeyahay. Laakin dhib saa u sii ridan maba arko labada qof way is gursadeen somaha. Ka edabta daran waa kaso sawirtay iyo ka sol kuso dhajiyay. Aaway dhaqankaagi markaad waxano kale lasooshir tagasid mr carafaat?

lol@ bahda yar..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=zo7DPAty8kw#!" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen> Reer imaraadka way ku mahadsanyihiin sida wacan ee usoo agaasimeen xaflada lugu so dhoweenaya Dr xaglatoosiyo iyo prof Cali khalif. Mashallah.. Ninkii hadlayaba ha iska hadlee halka ku nageeya rays kale. Guul Khaatumo.

I was emphasizing the importance of having a good father figure at home. And, I sort of believe that it starts from there, and everything else will fall in its place after that. But, in no way was I discounting all the other factors that can also play an important role in that child's upbringing. You all made amazing points no doubt and fatherhood alone will not guarantee an amazing child. Like Abu Salmaan pointed out good schools, good neighborhood, finance, knowing the importance of education etc etc can play a critical role in how that child's ends up. And this one point Abu salmaan made "dont build homes invest in them" I agree with him. I believe he was referring to somalis going back home to build homes and spending anything from 20k 40k or so to buy homes. Horta we have to know they are buying those lands as investment for their child. Laakin waxa wanagsan invest in your child right now, bari haduu ka halaabo 40k lands waxba ma taraso. So that is that. It is also true that we live in materialistic world and you need to provide for your child the little things that he wants so he doesnt feel out of place when he is at school. Without obviously spoiling him, everything is good in moderation. Inshallah then you can raise a productive young person. No guarantees but you did your best then. p.s Wadani alhamdulilah there are amazing young people who grew up without fathers and yet turned out great. Ilaahay baa mahad leh. But, those are exceptions. Usually if a child doesn't have a father that has a negative impact on them. Not to say those mothers were not doing their best, but usually mothers are "soft" they can't discipline a child. Usually. I am not saying that is always the case. Or maybe it is not just about them not disciplining the child but the fact that they are playing both parents' role. You can't be a father and a mother at the same time. That is hard.

Loool Chimera. Get some sleep.

Adeerka faroole baa tuug ah ee saado waxay odhan haka alifin.

Chimera if the father instils in his child our cultural/religious values. Then that would affect the type of friends that child picks. The reason any child would hang out with the wrong crowd is when they don’t have a good father model to emulate. One that keeps tab on his child’s life. One poster in Sol I don’t remember his nickname on top of my head but I remember him writing on this thread that he had a curfew till he was 16 or so. And how he sees nowadays youngsters chilling out so late in the night with no supervision. So this is a profound example of how parents who don’t supervise their kids can end up taking the wrong path in life. who will take the blame then? The child? Or the parent who simply doesnt care what his child does at such a young age You are also trying so hard to take the blame from the fathers. Previously you said it doesn’t matter whether fathers spend quality time with their kids and that those kids at the end will rebel .Yet, you are telling me how those kids spend more time with their friends and how because of that they will act like their friends. Huuno waxaad fahantaa that quality time that I was speaking about was to try to tackle that lengthy time that child is spending with their friends whether it is at school or after school etc That quality time is suppose to compensate all that time that child is spending elsewhere. That quality time that father is giving to his child is make sure that he directs his child the right way, so he can make the right friends in life. Ones that will help him make better choices in life. I am also talking about when that child is young (ie elementary school, middle school). Definitely, a father regardless of how much quality time he suddenly decides to give his high school kid he might not be able to exert the same influence that he could have had if he took these steps when that child was much younger. You can’t change a grown person, although it is never good to lose hope. As for the youth in the video. I don’t know them or their parents right. So I can’t be like oh their parents were there and they still failed? I can’t really say. However, we have to know it is not just about having your father alive. Abaha haduu noolyahay but he is not going out of his way to discipline you, to teach you about your dhaqan , deen, akhlaaq. Then, you might as well be “fatherless” waa isla meeshi. Fatherhood is not about just bringing food to the table - although a father is the provider of his family waana waajib saaran. But, it does not end there. He has to know his child inside out. He should not just come from work and be like “hey kid how was school” and just leave it at that. The kid will probably say “fine” and many fathers probably leave at that. But, that kid was at school for 8 hours “fine” does not cut it. So, a father has to be more engaging than that and know whats going on in their child’s life. Ilmaha wuxu sideeda saac qabanayey waa in aad ogtahay. Waa in aa ogtahay after school caruurtu la ciyaaro nocey tahay? Waa in aad ka war haysaa. Last but not least, I am not painting all Somali youth with the same brush. After all you and I are in our mid 20s and we grew up abroad. But, many of our youngesters going astray is an issue that needs to be addressed. That is we need to really find why is this happening in our community? If we can’t save the ones who already messed their lives how can we make the next generation avoid the same mistakes?.. It is really heart breaking to see all these youth losing their lives over drugs and what not. You have to also know majority of those are boys anything from 17 to mid 20s. Girls are for the most part very productive and very responsible alhamdulilah. So, I don’t agree with your comment about them being an exception and not the rule? Because these are not just one , two or handful…we are talking about huge numbers whether they are in America, Europe, or Canada. It wasn’t that long ago when MMA in that other thread asked me if I ever seen those jails around dixon area or something and how one will be astonished when they see how many somalis are in there. I personally haven’t seen but I have heard numerous stories about women complaining about their children so I get the picture and it is not something to underestimate. If somalis don’t do something about it will only get worse with every generation. And believe me it starts with parenthood...before anyone helps their community they need to start from their kids. So parents (in particular fathers) need to realize that raising a family is not a piece of a cake like it was in Somalia. It is a huge responsibility in qurbaha. I will leave you with that I think I wrote a bit too much. That was not my intention lol. salaam

LOL I am humored. Anyways, most of somalis including khaatumo State and Awdal State have also made their choice. They want Somali Unity. So reer waqooyi galbeed yaga og mesha ee adayaan iyo haday sadexdooda magaalo gosanayaan. Waa sheeko u taala.

Chimera, it is true that there are children out there who lost their fathers either to the war or a death for whatever reason. And yet turned out responsible productive adults. But, walaal that is not the rule that is the exception. The issues that face the somali community on top of the civil war is the lack of father figures at home. That is the sad truth. It is amazing if one has uncles, male cousins and good role male models in their family. But, a father is irreplaceable especially in the qurbaha, perhaps back home your uncles and male relatives are the same as your father. A father has a certain power/position in his family and an obligation over his kids that relatives don't have. There is no way around this, and no way to underestimate the need for a good father who spends quality time with his kids. The concept of oh these kids are just rebels does not cut it. A baby is innocent and it is how you raise him/her that plays such an important role on how he/she ends up. Of course the environment can have its impact on the child. But, if the parents take that extra mile to prepare that child to be a productive/responsible human being waxaan halkan ku fadhiyaa in ay ku khasareeen. Ilmo kasta oo waqti la galiyo oo lugu tacbo ilaahayna waalidka masuuliyadiisa kasoo baxay wuu cawinaya oo ilmaha luguma khasaarayo. salaam

Mashallah, congrats walaal. Noqo aabo wacan, yagana alle haka dhigo kuwii ku anfaca akhiro iyo aduun.