^ Althou like you said the ladies who lived in the city call it "love" or "violent love". I personally would call that infatuation. She was into him because he was really good looking, even when those ladies saw him they said "this is not a man, is he an angel" or something along those lines. Hence, I think that wouldn't serve as a good example. However, I did like your theory that whatever the person feels before the marriage if it doesn't change into a real love (mawadda) then there is that certain meltdown. That makes sense. Hence, why islam is against dating, it opens a door to emotional break down. Something that can be avoided if one tries to avoid dating and rather gets to know someone following the islamic guidelines not the western type of dating that people get really close and there is no boundaries. Where if you are following the islamic guidelines, then that person is no more than a prospective spouse and you are there to see if they are the type of person you want to share your life with and raise a family. So if it doesn't work out you didn't open your heart 100%, you have nothing to lose you are just going to turn the page. Islam is a way of life, and it is only there to protect us. salaam

Horta madey af joga loma adeego asaga baa no shegaya wuxu uga jeday. Laakin hadaad saa shegtay uu uga jeedo dee madaxweyne ha isku so sharaxo oo wuxu isku hayo miiska haso dhigo waa lo bahanyahay dad dalkooda wax kuso kordhinaya. Tan labaad farmaajo qabiil kuma aan tageerin as much as mr abwaan would love to make it that way ee waa nin jira oo dad badan oo meel walba u dhshay ay tageersanyihiin. Farmajo somaliweyn ayaa tageertay.

ma fahmin Abwaan, maxaad farmaajo kaga horeesa?

tazers and pepper sprays are illegal in the UK. I doubt tasers are legal here either. Ninyaaban good advice though. Qashinkaas wuu istaahila

you are wlc Narniah. That is exactly what I was talking about, your sister is right. You are right "love" doesn't always mean saying yes, I guess sometimes you can say "no' if you want to have some kind of boundary. But, I doubt that will work with sisters. It is a general rule for sisters to share everything lol..haha dont be discouraged though, try to make some rules. salaam

Cambuulo easy money is probably a factor. But, that is not the whole picture. Only someone who is already corrupted would be interested in getting money the easy way.

^ You are wlc.

I don't go to that school, but i have went to that campus number of times. So, I think York U is relatively safe. However, these type of incidents are increasing in number so that is somewhat alarming. If you know any girls who go to that school, do advice them to be careful. It doesn't hurt to be cautious.

lol@ carafaat..way na wareeriyeen kulahaa. Dhaaf dadka hala hadlaan dadkoode. As for the topic, this is crazy stuff. Who would do such thing?..Why didn't they investigate more and find out who did it? I can't believe they are dropping the charges. p.s this reminds me of a story I was told where a somali guy was talking rather loud in a local bank. And, people who were there said it sounded like he was talking to somalia since he was rather loud (you know those receptionist desks in the banks, I believe it was briefly left unattended lol).I believe thou he was escorted out of the bank right there and then kolay million dollar uma maleenayo in uu bangiga kusoo dalacay lol. But, I mean someone like him must have done this lol...

York University assaults: Man arrested, students say campus officials too slow in warning about attacks http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/crime/article/1223603--york-fails-at-broadcasting-sexual-assault-students-say A trio of sexual assaults at York University has students questioning their safety and the response of campus officials at the university plagued by high-profile security incidents. Police are investigating three alleged sexual assaults that took place last Thursday afternoon near Vari Hall at the Keele campus. One man was arrested Monday night and charged in relation to the assaults. Police said they think there may be more victims. Sociology student Priya Kant said she only heard about the incidents on Sunday when it was reported on the news. “It’s not good at all; it’s scary being here by yourself,” said Kant, who attends night classes. “I would think after the first assaults, this wouldn’t happen. It just shows that they’re not doing anything about it.” York has previously drawn criticism for its reaction to assaults and robberies that have taken place at the university, attended by about 54,000 students. University officials said an internal security bulletin was posted on York’s security website Thursday night and revised Friday after additional assaults were reported. A mass email was sent to students on Monday, four days after the alleged assaults. “We take these assaults, which involved unwanted touching, very seriously. The victims have been offered counselling,” said university spokeswoman Janice Walls. Vanessa Hunt, president of the York Federation of Students, said the university’s news portal, YFile, should have made efforts to notify students online sooner. “Whether or not a thousand students read it, it should be on there,” Hunt said. “It should be publicized. People need to know what’s going on.” She added that while the university did post security bulletins across campus, they could have done more. “We keep pushing. They could really do better for communications with students.” Summer student Maya Menezes only heard about the assaults on Monday. She said she hadn’t received an email or seen posters. “I think it’s a safe school overall and these things could happen anywhere,” Menezes said. “Still, they can take steps to protect us.” York said it was stepping up security patrols in the area where the assaults occurred. Psychology student Paulina Camino said she heard about the incidents through a friend. “You become a little bit more hesitant,” Camino said. “I feel safe but I don’t know how safe it is.” Priya Kant, who is in her final year, said she used to leave her car in a free parking area nearby and hoof it to save on parking fees. She’s not doing that any more. “It’s more money for your safety,” she said. “It’s ridiculous.” Last year, York said, it was beefing up security, including hiring more staff, in response to a safety audit. Oshane Leach, 20, of Toronto, has been charged with three counts of sexual assault, two counts of criminal harassment, and two counts of assault. He will appear in court Tuesday morning.

Sayid*Somal;849734 wrote: ^Duuledka Qardho iyo Taleex u dheexeyaan ari ku raaci jidhay - and believe me i know about love - but unlike Ayoub and Cilmi Boodhari - we don't do heart breaks lol@ duleedka qardho iyo taleex. Anyways, I am on the same page as you. I believe neither men nor women should claim to have their hearts broken prior to marriage. Real love happens after marriage, if things didn't work out with someone then move on. There is no need for drama. Maxaad qofka u dhibatay to have your heart broken? few cashos here and there?..It is different story if someone got divorced then maybe they can claim to have their hearts broken...one invested in their marriage in every way so it is understandable. Mise reer qardho are made of a better stuff even in marriage they don't get their heart broken

Sayid waxan u haystay in uu magaalo weyn oo qardho la dhoho ka yimid? livestock laga hadlayo muxu yahay meshu ma miyi baa

Funny, but as many already pointed out it was probably photoshopped.

^ Well said Rampage. Mashallah my thoughts exactly. Alpha, death is the best reminder, so it is good that you are thinking about it. Insha-allah strive to better yourself and get close to our creator Allah swt..After all waa lakala horeeyaa uune meshaa uun lo socdaa. Norf, alle ha u naxaristo your uncle. Sabar iyo imaan to you and your family.

Narniah, lol I know what you mean. But, still hun it is a blessing to have your sisters there wanting to share with you things. Waligiin ma wada joogi doontin, at some point you all going to have your own life. And, then you will wish to have a sister who bugs you and borrows your clothes or shoes. So it is all a blessing in disguise. Make the most of it ..just talk to them to be a little more responsible when dealing with your clothes. That should suffice. salaam

marry someone because you find them compatible or you see them as a father material for your future kids and that obviously you have some sort of attraction. Definitely, don't marry someone because you think it will heal you of whatever pain you think you feel by yur breakup with that other guy (although you must note there is no love before marriage it is all an illusion) With that beings said, get to know this new guy and inshallah you will marry him if he is meant to be. Just don't rush it for the wrong reasons.

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^ kulaha so gata bistoolad, shekado saas ma aha waa in "dhalinyarada" siiba wilasha xabadaha laga dhiga, oo sidii umad caadi ha doontaan shaqo. Oo iska dhafaan drugs iyo balayada ee ku jiran. salaam

if you didn't hear already, caasimuda will move to Hargeysa. sharif supports this and that is why they left it out in constitution. siilanyo got what he wanted. Moge, I am curious to know what are your sources?? mise as usual you seem to hear things that other people haven't heard about. Neither of these polar groups Xamar badali karo its status as a magaalo madax, xarunta iyo xudunta Soomaaliyeed. Xamar Soomaaliweyn idil ahaantooda ka wada dhaxeysaa and will remain so. I agree with you MMA. Majority of Somalis have no problem with having hamar as their capital city. And, I do believe hamar will stay the capital city.

^ I thought it was something novel and interesting. But, you don't have to agree with that. Somali philosopher, lol@ talk to myself when I am 50. It won't be as fun as talking to your 12 years old self, but yeah give it a shot ..and I didn't know it was posted earlier.

^ you are right there is that denial. We have to accept our problem and then find a solution for it. Waana runtaa waa naxdin in la arko wilasheena somaliyeed magacyadooda in mesha lugu so taxo. Sabar iyo imaan to their families (I read from the article the latest guy who died is a cousin of the guy who was killed in eaton centre) That's pretty sad. I can only imagine what that family in particular is going through. walee kii raba qurbe in uu caruurtisa ku korsado, haka fakaro siduu u korino iyo meshu ku korino sheeko sahlan ma aha.. salaam

Reer Cali shire waa reer muhtarimiin ah oo tageersan maamulka khaatumo. Halkan ha dhageeso Cali Shire's older brother who supports khaatumo, here is the audio Mudane halyey Faarax Aw-Cali Shire " Waxaan taageersanahay maamulka khaatumo shacabka Caasimada Taleex waxey Taageersanyihiin khaatumo" Dhegayso SSCRadio oo waraysi la yeelatay Farax Aw-Cali Shire oo sheegay inay dagaal lagu qaadayo Khaatumo State oo ka yimaada Nuur Axmed ma jiri doono hana ku fekerina. http://www.kaafinews.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/Farah-Aw-Cali-Shire20120611.mp3 And, here in Sol we actually have representative of reer cali shire and people of Taleex and he is our own Taleexi who is a big supporter of Khaatumo. So who are you inafaroole to speak for reer cali shire?

Alle ha u naxaristo intii dhimatay. Arintan waa arin serious ah oo faraha ka baxday. Ilaahay ha sahlo,