Read the long post that I posted above. That should give you an explanation.

oba hiloowlow;869047 wrote: Thanks sis! A friend of mine told me he did mutca so we had this conversation about it maanta.. P.s i dont like abu mussab wajdi he is a extreme salaf.. I think he is amazing, I personally loved every single video of his. There was never a video of his were I felt he was extreme in anyway. I felt he just said everything as it is without sugar coating. One of my favourite videos of his are "where is this wedding going" and "is this sister going to Jannah" and many more I actually love all his videos. He is mashallah.

A friend of mine who was Iraqi told me they do practice it (She is shia)..and that was the very first time that I personally heard of it. It left me shocked.. Anyhow, read this, Temporary Marriage (Mut'ah) Marriage in Islam is a strong bond, a binding contract, based on the intention of both partners to live together permanently in order to attain, as individuals, the benefit of the repose, affection, and mercy which are mentioned in the Qur'an, as well as to attain the social goal of the reproduction and perpetuation of the human species: And Allah has made for our spouses of your own nature, and from your spouses has made for you sons and grandsons....(16:72) Now, in temporary marriage (known in Arabic as mut'ah), which is contracted by the two parties to lafor a specified period of time in exchange for a specified sum of money, the above-mentioned purposes of marriage are not realized. While the Prophet (peace be on him) permitted temporary marriage during journeys and military campaigns before the Islamiclegislative process was complete, he later forbid it and made it forever haram. The reason for it was permitted in the beginning was that the Muslims were passing through what might be called a period of transition from jahiliyyah to Islam. Fornication was very common and wide-spread among the pre-Islamic Arabs. After the advent of Islam, when they were required to go on military expeditions, they were under great pressure as a result of being absent from their wives for long periods of time. Among the Believers were some who were strong in faith and others who were weak. The weak ones feared that they would be tempted to commit adultery, a major sin and an evil course, while the strong in faith, on the other hand, were ready to castrate themselves, as stated by Ibn Mas'ud: We were on an expedition with the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) and did not have our wives with us, so we asked Allah's Messenger (peace be on him), 'Should we not castrate ourselves? (The reason for this request was the desire to maintain their purity of mind and body, which was in danger of being affected by their unmet needs. (Trans.)) He forbade us to do so but permitted us to contract marriage with a woman up to a specified date, giving her a garment as a dower (mahr) (Reported by al-Bukhari and Muslim.) Thus temporary marriage provided a solution to the dilemma in which both the weak and the strong found themselves. It was also a step toward the final legalization of the complete marital life in which the objectives of permanence, chastity, reproduction, love, and mercy, as well as the widening of the circle of relationships through marriage ties were to be realized. We may recall that the Qur'an adopted a gradual course in prohibiting intoxicants and usury, as these two evils were widespread and deeply rooted in the jahili society. In the same manner' the Prophet (peace be on him) adopted a course of gradualism in the matter of sex, at first permitting temporary marriage as a step leading away from fornication and adultery, and at the same time coming closer to the permanent marriage relationship. He then prohibited it absolutely, as has been reported by 'All and many other Companions. Muslim has reported this in his Sahih, mentioning that al-Juhani was with the Prophet (peace be on him) at the conquest of Makkah and that the Prophet (peace be on him) gave some Muslims permission to contract temporary marriages. Al-Juhani said, "Before leaving Makkah the Messenger of Allah(peace be on him) prohibited it." In another version of the hadith we find the Prophet's own words, "Allah has made it haram until the Day of Resurrection." The question then remains—Is temporary marriage (mut'ah) absolutely haram, like marriage to one's own mother or daughter, or is it like the prohibition concerning the eating of pork or dead meat, which becomes permissible under real necessity, the necessity in this case being the fear of committing the sin of zina ? The majority of the Companions held the view that after the completion of the Islamic legislation, temporary marriage was made absolutely haram. Ibn 'Abbas, however, held a different opinion, permitting it under necessity. A person asked him about marrying women on a temporary basis and he permitted him to do so. A servant of his then asked, "Is this not under hard conditions, when women are few and the like?" and he replied, "Yes." (Reported by al-Bukhari.) Later, however, when Ibn 'Abbas saw that people had become lax and were engaging in temporary marriages without necessity, he withdrew his ruling, reversing his opinion. (Zad al-Mi'ad,vol.4,p. 7. Bayhaqi transmitted it and Muslim as well.)

It is haraam walaal.

Dr Ali Cise is educated well-respected man who would make a great prime minister. I support him. Farmaajo is a great man as well. But, he doesn't seem popular among the MPs. Dr. Ali Khalif seems to have a shot since he supported mudane Hassan before the election. Lastly, I would fully support any new man who is chosen regardless of his clan affiliation. We need a new face in order to move forward. Sharif is out and it would be reasonable to request the former pm to leave as well. They both had their chance, and it is good to turn the page.

Suave Arvind Sanmugam enrolled his daughters at expensive Bishop Strachan private school and bragged that he was a Cambridge-educated venture capitalist with the Midas touch. In reality, the conman was an English grad from India with no financial background who took the elderly and the trusting for a costly ride that has left several destitute. Sanmugam, 52, has pleaded guilty to bilking his “clients” of more than $1 million from 2007 until his arrest in 2010. Among his victims are a retired couple in their 80s forced to sell their home, an elderly widow who lost her life savings and a young doctor at Women’s College Hospital who he wooed on the e-harmony dating website and eventually asked to marry him — while she trustingly handed over her cash. “This was a crime motivated by avarice; this was a crime of greed. I find any argument to the contrary, ridiculous,” declared Justice Todd Ducharme in a blistering indictment of Sanmugam during his sentencing hearing. “He lied about the nature of his qualifications and the nature of his company and he would seek out people who were not financially sophisticated.” According to the agreed statement of facts, his company, Bunting & Waddington, was never registered with the Ontario Securities Commission and Sanmugam wasn’t licensed to trade securities or offer financial advice in Ontario or anywhere else. “This is an unmitigated horror story for these complainants and there’s no hope of restitution,” says Crown attorney Grace Hession David, who is asking for a three-year sentence. The Blizzards are an elderly Barrie couple who were told by Sanmugam that if they invested $100,000 with his company, he could make them a monthly profit of $8,000 less his $3,500 fee. They mortgaged their home and gave him $118,700. They paid Sanmugam his outrageous retainer every month, unaware their portfolio was making no money and they were trading heavily on margin. They only realized they were in trouble a year later when they began to get margin calls from TD Waterhouse Discount Brokerage. By then, Sanmugam refused to take their panicked calls. The desperate couple lodged a complaint with securities regulators but were told nothing could be done for them because Sanmugam was never licensed. He met his next victim, 73-year-old Linda Zink, while she was dropping off her grandchildren at Bishop Strachan in 2008. The Vancouver widow was in town on a visit and Sanmugam befriended her and convinced her that he was a professional investor who could earn her enough to afford a second home in Toronto. He warned her to keep their plans secret. Eventually she transferred $662,000 to him by mortgaging her properties and liquidating the entire stock portfolio her late husband had left her. Sanmugam didn’t even pretend to invest her money for her — he just transferred the cash from his account into his other business ventures. When Dr. Tuhina Biswas, 31, met Sanmugam on eHarmony in the fall of 2008, he told her he was unattached when he was really a divorced father of four with a common-law wife. “His behaviour from the outset was to gain my trust,” she wrote in her victim impact statement. “He used our intimate relationship to exploit me and my family.” Claiming to a certified financial advisor, he said could make her money to help support her disabled brother. Biswas had no financial background and trusted her lover’s smooth-talking assurances. She and her mother mortgaged the family’s home and gave Sanmugam $328,705 to invest. During their relationship, Biswas also lent him about $170,000. In January 2010, he proposed and they were supposed to marry in August. Instead, he broke her heart by simply disappearing that June. She learned later that not only had he hit on her friend using the same dating website, he’d been charged with fraud. She filed a report with police two months later. Asked if he had anything to say, the fraudster apologized to his victims and pledged to pay the money back. “I don’t think I can ever forgive myself for this. I’m sorry,” he told the court. Ducharme will deliver his sentence Oct. 9. Thankfully, Sanmugam, a temporary resident, faces deportation to his native India after serving his time. ***** Three victim impact statements were filed with the court: •Dr. Tuhina Biswas, 31, wrote that her lying “fiance” left her humiliated and devastated. “I have been traumatized, my sense of financial security gone, my belief in the fundamental goodness of humanity — shattered. I feel like someone has taken a hammer to me and broken me into a thousand little shards of glass on the inside.” She suffers from constant guilt: her 69-year-old mother is now unable to retire and they can no longer afford to send her disabled brother to his program. “The worst thing of all is I feel that I no longer trust myself to make any important decisions.” •Linda Zink, 73, wrote that she must now live off her children’s charity and she’s consumed by embarrassment and suicidal thoughts: “The emotional loss my family and I have suffered is horrific and ongoing and will be for the rest of our lives. For the past four years my pride, my dignity, my self-worth, my confidence and my health have been irrevocably damaged. Arvind Sanmugam has destroyed my spirit.” •William and Barbara Blizzard blame Sanmugam for ruining their retirement years and ensuring that their grandchildren will not be able to afford university. “You came into our home and lied like someone who knows how to do it and I guess you did,” they wrote. “When we went to the bank, there was nothing there.”

Inshallah our new president Mudane Hassan will be fair to all the somali maamuls and make somalia prosper once again. He seems to have all the qualities of a great leader (diin iyo aqoonba) By the way, I don't know if it is true but I heard his wife is from Khaatumo State of Somalia.

lol ileen shaqa wanaagsan buu helay. Kama qasna. Ana aan u hambalyeeye yaa warkaas so wariyey ma jiniyadiisi

no i don't want to see your collection of bukharis I got my own LOL.. seriously heard most of them and they sound lame ..

lol Malika. Jini nasiixadii ma dhageesanayo. Balo Speaking abt the weather...it is already getting cold. Can't believe the summer is over.

Hopefully he is fine somewhere. One of the coolest guys on Sol. His contribution is definitely missed.

I was reading throu some old posts and I was like Adam forgot to post this one when he digged up the other posts about interracial marraiges than I saw your last post loool.. alle kan waxba kama tagin

There are many verses that I love equally, but here is my favorite Surah. I love this Surah

Madaxwaynaha cusub waan so dhowaynayaa. Ilaahay xilku qaaday ha u fududeeyo waa nin diin iyo aqoonba ka muuqato. Shacabka somaliyeed oo dhana waa inay dhinac istagaan si dalka u nabad u helo iyo horumar.

Somalia, Shiekh Sharif got 79 votes. lf you are unaware of that fact. It is a good day for our country Somalia. Hopefully, Xasan Shiekh Mohamud will live up to our expectations. No more old faces like Gas.

A_Khadar;867332 wrote: Mooge, what happened to your prediction? Where is Gaas's winning predictions? Mr Gas got 30 votes, Professor Cali Khalif baaba dhaamay he had 77 votes LOL. Their prediction was way off.

Congrats to Hasan Shiekh Mohamud. He is officially the president of Somalia. Alle haka dhigo kii dadkiisa iyo dalkiisaba anfaca. Ameen ameen

Somalia;867171 wrote: I can't because it's not true, Khaatumites are supporting Sheikh Shariif, I wish they'd vote for change! Halkan akhriso, http://boramanews.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=2364&catid=34&Itemid=53

Somalia your adeer is supporting the same presidential candidate as Professor Cali Khalif. So I believe the Somali politics is moving to the right direction... Grab that mango shake now and enjoy yourself

Hassan Shiekh Mohamoud ayeey u egtahay in uu guleesan doono. Support badan ayuu haystaa oo ay ka midyihiin Professor Cali Khalif iyo Khaatumo Mps. Maantana sidaan ka dareemay Abdiwali Gas marku tanasulay hadaladiisa asna wuxu lasoo saftay Hassan Shiekh Mohamoud inkasto toos u odhan. Marka Hassan Shiekh Mohamoud has a good shot. Lets see how it goes

chubacka;866374 wrote: So this thread is to let off steam and to vent about those little things that really annoy you. Okay first Tatoos Why on earth does every second person have some horrendous scribble up their arm,down their neck, across their thighs, on their fingers . Its not body art, its crap, really just get a framed picture of whatever you want to draw on yourself and hang it up. THEN WE DON'T HAVE TO SEE IT. Arrrgggghhhhh. Whenever something goes mainstream it quickly becomes naff, this is exactly what has happened with tatoos. Facebook Food i) Nobody cares what you had for breakfast, lunch, snacks, dinner, hot drinks etc. I wish people would stop posting pics of what they are about to eat. Just eat it, it really isn't that interesting. The worst pic I had on my home feed was someone's treadmill monitor after they had finished on it. hahaha. Why do you think ppl would care? Ahhh. I feel better already. What things make you want to jump up and down in protest? I agree with you people post too many details of their lives on facebook. People have stopped enjoying their life and instead put too much energy to take photo of everything they do..yaa wax u sheega oo ku dhaha enjoy your dinner..or whatever else you doing. As for what annoys me...people who smoke annoy me. I just can't stand it....when I am walking downtown and every little side there's someone puffing a cigarette ...if I can make it illegal to smoke I would have.

Bluelicious;866410 wrote: Thank God I don't wear glasses too. That is messed up when people wear glasses for fashion when they don't even need glasses. Have you ever came across those glasses that don't have any glass in them it's just the frame. I've seen people wear it like that lol. I actually want to wear glasses for fashion. I was thinking about that hehe. There's something attractive about wearing one lol@ frames with no glass - now that's taking it to another level. eww

Shinbir Majabe;866334 wrote: Or Laaascaano.. Abdirahman Xashi doesn't have a chance walaal. But, thanks Insha-allah ka noqda madaxwaynaba kuu rabo ha noqdee alle haka dhigo nin dadkiisa, naftiisa, umadiisa, dalkiisaba wax tara. Ameen yaa rab.

" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen> The cutest little girl. Mashallah.

any of the candidates who are from Mogadishu. We will see though.