regardless of the outcome as long as you are wishing them well that's all that matters...dadna cirka yagoo xoog leh kama imaan waxay aheed wax in badan laga so shaqeenayey oo taag iyo caqli iyo maalba la isku daray..everything is a process. alle SSC ha GARAB galo kolay anu ducada afka kama qaadayo.. salaam

as for old singers even thou anu ad uma jecla..hiba nura bal hesaheeda ka war doona..Especially mid la dhoho hargaysa (since i dnt wanna upload any song or get the danbi for u folks listening to it too..idinku youtube ka raadsada ama just write the names lol) the lyrics go somin like this..waligaaaaaa haba baydhabaydh ama balad kale qabo waad imaan bartii iyo baradii hargaysiyo halki ayunu barigi ku wadaagnay barashee.. salaam

I was just listening to that song blessed posted...how cool is that lol. And, I HAVENT heard her either! bt shes good. salaam

I was watching this clip the other day with my mama. aad baan uga helay.. salaam

LOOOL@ ma ilaahay baa ku waxyooday..A khadar walahi waad iga qoslisay..anyways khatumo alle khyr haka dhigo xaasidna haka xijaabO...i DNT KNOW why it is hard on some ppl to just wish their brothers/sisters success...after all qofkasta soma rabo wixisa in uu ku filnaando oo meel wacan ka gaadho..mise in la is guumeesta aya laga helaa..wa yaab salaam

Ayoub lol@ devil's neighbor...to be truthful somalis are the same whereever they are they have the tendency to self invite ... And somalis have open policy with feasts cuz they cant really organize much..islaanti rabta dalaq ama wiilki raba ama odeygi raba mesha iska imanaya..and u cant turn them away unless u want the whole city to gossip about you Of course having a small wedding and keeping it really private helps ..laakin islaan ba islaan kale u shegasa before u know it everyone knows..so i dnt know hw somalis can ever have a small wedding.. as fr calling u a wedding crasher, we all are at sme point. Like I WENT to couple of weddings where ladies who are related to the groom or the bride invited me...so i went there nt knowing neither the groom or the bride but like im inivited by someone they are related to ..even those kinda weddings i feel uncomfortable bt usually u have to go..unless u wanna offend that lady who took the effort to invite u. salaam

^lafoole..heard couple of his songs..not a fan though, bt many ppl love him. I guess the song is called aduunko dhan so look it up in youtube. salaam

^were u a typical somali wedding crasher..mesha hilibka iyo bariiska ma ka garanasay

wa iyyakum. Zak inshallah she is...nabad diidaye sido kale waxaan rajaynaya in ilaahya kuligeen janada nugu simo... since many guys found themselves watching this clip (not that theres anything wrong with that and this speaker himself said to the guys on his audience that they needed to pay attention after all they are related to women and have sisters aunts wives etc)..bt this one is more tuned to men...so watch it salaam

BarakAllahu laki, wa barakAllah 'alayki, wa jam'a baynakumaa fee khair...hambalyo sis. Noqda labadii wanag is fara inshallah wixi xuna iska reeeba caruur wacan oo umadooda , ehelkooda, iyo dalkoodana wax tara hela..ameen ameen..alf mabrouk! salaam

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jacaylbaro lool u are too funny horta..secondly, I heard the same song by ahmed cegaag, so im assuming he isnt the original singer..whats up with somalis cant they make their own lyrics..if they are talented (Especially ahmed cegaag he is so talented)..either way love the song!..

welcome to SOL..I think now the admins became too lenient with adding ppl to this site...way too many new people!!..maybe its time we seniors find somein else to do with our time salaam

dhag dhag by farxiya fiska ... salaam

like already said get some blood tests done, I would watch out for the iron level, I used to feel tired all the time and when i got my blood test like couple of yrs back my doctor was like ur iron level was so bad and he gave me some iron pills i guess it worked cuz i feel fine now alhamdulilah.. but also eat qudarada aad that is where u get ur iron from..ana qudrada wa necbahay so yeah cuntada wacan aya ka fiican kiniini oo dhan but if u have to then by all means take some iron pills.. inta ka sakow hadii xanuun kale jirin bal quraan isku akhri (and i dont mean to be sarcastic or anything but u knw quranka maxa ka fiican!) salaam

first of all it is not an accent but a dialect. Secondly, I don't find southern dialect feminine but rather romantic..abayo macaanto..aboowe..it is lovely!!..on the other hand, our northern dialect isn't as friendly as the southern one..waryaahee..nayahee.and so on and so forth.. salaam

^lol im not worried at all, wax polygamy ka hadlaya maba arag oo lodkeyga ah...most of them are happy to find that one perfect sister ..so no worries at all. I AM JUST answering the topic Zack brought forward, and that it is not an option at my end... bacda madow might not be easy..but eww i would never share a husband..thats one of things that just disguest me personally! regardless of what islam says abut it..i have my personal opinion and I am entitled!..of course i will not stop a guy from getting two or three or four wives by all means..I just have noin to do with ittt.. salaam

lol@ promoted to number one..?? awal number one miyana aheen..one and only should I add... anyways polygamy waxba kama shegayo aan ku danbaabin laakin for some it doesn't work and that's all there's to it. tan kale yaa taag u haya in markasta reerkaaga lasoo qaado lugugka sheegi ma tii hore...as if u got expired or something lol~~..not to mention naa heblo ii waran ..asxaab am good..naa away kii...kii tii buu ku maqanyahay..balo ma adiga iyo caruurti kaliya mesha ku bas beelay wa dhib lol...no thank you! he needs to be in his house 24/7 or bacda madow! anyways, i gotta sleep it's like 12:30 am ..tasbaxuu cala khyr! salaam

*Unsolicited advice: *Wait two years before you bring kids to this world. *By then you will get to know her very well. *Guur xumaada waa masiibo gaar ahaan marka caruur la isu dhalo. *Make it work brother. Baashi, a lot of people say that and I have agreed with it at some point. But, now when I think about if qofku yahay qof masuuliyad qaadi karin ilmaha ama dhal right away ama dhal three years later the truth of him will come out thenn..yacni when its all fun everything is nice and dandy. It is only when responsibility adds up that u gonna see someone's true colors..so i dnt really think having a kid right away or two years later makes much ofa difference...intaadba guursan ka fiirso..waxa layidhi ilmahaga favour waxaad u sameen karta uun when ur choosing the spouse..later on waa too late! wixi aad hooyo ama abo uga dhigto haduu xunyahay yacni bari bay kuso noqon..nt that im saying u can be perfect..u can make a mistake even after u strived to choose the right person..bt i mean try your best..once ur married get kids as soon as possible..they are a blessing..and if he turns out a jackass and someone really tried their best then hey it was meant to be! salaam

dude i already said it is religiously alright so clearly I am referring to that verse..laakin aduu ayada in intaad la soo shir tagtid inta kale jeebka ha gashan..this is the full verse and u should always state the whole verse not the bit ku cuntamasa lol And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice]. 4:3 and with that been said, women have the right to walk out of the door, i wouldnt advice them to clinge to hte guy and tell him hey stay with me...runtii haday noqoto anuu qof sii socda waxa lo baryayo ayaanba fahmi kari laáhay lol like i said earlier bacda halo sii xanbaariy oo haloo dhoho inukala wad mesha lol other htan polygamy i believe other issues should be dealt with and u know solved..laakin polygamy kolay ma aha sheeko sahlan..and it is not something gogol lo dhiganayo o la solve gareenayo..u either be like ok ama be part of it, or u just wak out..and the latter sounds perfect to moi.. salaam

^lol@ ya is weydiiyey..waa caadi bacda madow uun baa ii talo ah! ...dhib ma leh anyone is replaceableeeeee!....reminds me of beyonce's song .. You must not know 'bout me You must not know 'bout me I can have another you by tomorrow So don't you ever for a second get to thinking you're irreplaceable. LOL A_Khadar lol Zack waan iska dhibaya wax kale ma aha!!!..and he is probably joking, wuxu ka bixi wayey aaliyaay get married married life is the best....qalanjo baa ku dhacday! alle qeyr ha uga dhigo! salaam

lol@ qarxiska jooji..My bad. I was just trying to be helpful!..I think you will look a lot better with a hair ..kaftan bas! salaam

*Yo Liyyah, I like your list of requirements, it says nothing about polygamy. LOL Zack adiga horta u just recently got yourself a wifey..maxa dhacay oo already polygamy uka fakari..la arag odayaal ilka dhacsaday oo second wife raadinaya..but you need to enjoy your first wife before u think about more loool between waxa i haysta in aan ku dhaho gabadhaas kan waa too jumpy ee bal xajiso! salaam p.s. meeeeeee wont everrrr do polygamy lol ewww!! and double ewwww!..bt i know religiously is alright, so whoever wants to be part of it ilaahay ha u sakhiro!..but im the type of person who believe whats mine is mine..lol..