Ms DD Posted August 30, 2006 The way i see it: Half the responsiblity for me and double the burden for him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NGONGE Posted August 30, 2006 You mean you’ll wash half his clothes and she’ll wash the other half? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted August 30, 2006 ^^ NO. I will be chilling with family and friends/increasing my knowledge/pampering myself whilst he is working overtime to keep 2 family/get 2 nagging wives if he falls behind on his duties etc etc. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abaadir Posted August 31, 2006 inta xaraaradu jirto un buu romance jiraa. ninkii gabyay muxuu yir: Wax la xiisoo maalaba markay, xaganto laabteedu - Ee gabadha xaluskii ka baxay, xaydhu ka idlaato - Iyadaa xadhaadhaan sidii, xabag dhunkaaleede Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaliyyah Posted September 1, 2006 Asalaamu alaikum, Cambaro when you are saying "....that having a second wife is a gift Allah blessed with your husband if he chooses Who are you to disallow it when Allah permitted it". Are you saying if your husband chooses to have a second wife you will still be married to em? :confused: . Honestly, if i was married i would certainly not forbid since u just mentioned allah swt said it is permissible in the quran and going againt polygamy would mean i am in opposition to allah swt . However, that deosnt mean i will stick around :rolleyes: . If it is my house bacda madow u tuuri laha , and if its his i will pack up and hit the road wa salaaamu alaikum Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Legend of Zu Posted September 1, 2006 ^^^ After few kids and looking like Fuusto? that is a tough choice ma'am...I hope if ever you are in a such situation (God forbid - as i do not wish you to be in that predicament) that you will try to figure a win win outcome becoz the issues are more complicated and complex than i will leave {jidkaan laba ka dhigi lahaa}. the bravado won't do anyone good - i tell yuh! Cheers Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Valenteenah. Posted September 1, 2006 ^ Erm, you know, there are men ka hela women who have kids and look like foostooyin. Some of them are even non-polygamous. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted September 1, 2006 Originally posted by AAliyah416: Asalaamu alaikum, Cambaro when you are saying "....that having a second wife is a gift Allah blessed with your husband if he chooses Who are you to disallow it when Allah permitted it". Are you saying if your husband chooses to have a second wife you will still be married to em? :confused: . Honestly, if i was married i would certainly not forbid since u just mentioned allah swt said it is permissible in the quran and going againt polygamy would mean i am in opposition to allah swt . However, that deosnt mean i will stick around :rolleyes: . If it is my house bacda madow u tuuri laha , and if its his i will pack up and hit the road wa salaaamu alaikum Wa aleykum salaam aaliya You have the choice to take it or leave it. But instead of rushing to divorce, the best thing to do is to have a clause in your marriage contract from the beginning that he cant marry under any circumstance or with few conditions. I have actually seen where a polygamy marriage has worked succesfully for all parties concerned. It gave the wives time for themselves to pursue their interest whilst helping each other to bring up the family. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ms DD Posted September 1, 2006 Originally posted by Legend of Zu: ^^^ After few kids and looking like Fuusto? that is a tough choice ma'am...I hope if ever you are in a such situation (God forbid - as i do not wish you to be in that predicament) that you will try to figure a win win outcome becoz the issues are more complicated and complex than i will leave {jidkaan laba ka dhigi lahaa}. the bravado won't do anyone good - i tell yuh! Cheers salaam Fuusto women aint attractive anymore? Back home in Somalia, 'jamaal iyo joog' was sought after. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Galool Posted September 1, 2006 I am warming up to this Rahima character; she seems to have grasped the art of marriage. Briantly put honey. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khalaf Posted September 1, 2006 ^^^Don't let her fool u sxb....the ones that act like they dont care for romance are the soft ones yaa muminah i bet u cry reading love novels or watching love movies Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khalaf Posted September 1, 2006 Originally posted by Khalaf: ^^^Don't let her fool u sxb....the ones that act like they dont care for romance are the soft ones yaa muminah i bet u cry reading love novels or watching love movies ^^^jokes really :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rahima Posted September 1, 2006 ^ Not to mention absurd :rolleyes: . Khalaf don’t make me post that private message where you admitted that your favourite all time movie was the titanic because of the way they captured the essence of romance . I have ammunition, watch your back and behave yourself . Galool, welcome on board . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jacpher Posted September 1, 2006 lol@fuusto. Wax ula har hooyooyinka macalinka see camal. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Legend of Zu Posted September 1, 2006 ^^^ So our Tough Guy Khalaf watches Titanic on Friday Nights and Cries?? Innaa Lillaahi wa Innaa Ilayhi Raajicuun.. Waar tanoo kale! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
