^ Shouldnt you be scouting for some 13yr old? Not scorning on those who know what they want

Housewife like the ladies above mentioned is a full time job and a half. Measuring the level of “success†of such a role entirely depends on who or what you’re using as your yardstick. Now a mother who sits at home and takes care of her adolescent children is “less successful†considering the various factors mentioned in the post i.e. independence, professionalism, experience, management and being self-sufficient than a mother who fulfils the same role while maintaining a full time job. But if you were to compare the role of a mother to that of another woman who just maintains a full time job, the effort level of the mother-role tips the scale. I personally believe there are crucial years in a child’s life when they need the constant attention of atleast one of their parents and no child should have to go without it. Having children is a personal choice and one that should be taken up, fully aware of the sacrifices needed. But this period is limited and I don’t think you can be a housewife for life. That’s just being a bum and that’s why some women say it with a sigh “I’m just a motherâ€.

Old models built recently and furbished with new parts are classic. Old cars left in the cold over a period of time tend to get rusty. It’s the way of the universe.

I’m not implying anything. Everything I write isn’t about me. Perhaps that how you operate..? I think that’s very sound advice. But I wonder if you’re one of those people who say “do as I say, not as I do!â€.

Immaculate. What do reckon happens to car parts that have stayed in the garage for far too long un-used? (since ur the car expert n all )

I'm always attributed the less than standard achievement of Somali kids in school the condition of their fathers at the time of conception. Might increase quantity, but quality is diminished.

^So would you say you were of loose moral character?

Originally posted by underdog: Question for the guys: If your friend has met a girl and he likes her, but you know this girl and she has "made mistakes" in the past, Do you tell him? Why dont you mind your own business and let her tell him herself all in good time? Why spoil it for them? Question for the girls: If you have a friend who engages in shady tactics and she just met a really nice guy would you ask her to wise up? Of course...even before the guy comes alone.

A man who was filmed by security cameras assaulting a woman is thought to be the first person in England to be convicted of a rape attack on a victim who has not been found . We are finally 1st on something. :rolleyes:

LOOOOOOOOOOL@Animal Farm. Thumps up bro.

Rahima, kindly quote ur source. 3. Rasûlullâh sallallâhu ‘alayhi wa sallam said that at such a time , expect the following punishments: a red hurricane will come and some people will be drawn into the ground. Stones will rain down from the skies. The appearance of people will be transformed, i.e. (??) they will be turned into pigs and dogs. Many other calamities will follow one after the other in quick succession just as when a string of beads breaks up and the beads begin falling off in quick succession. What time is the reference to? Did the "i.e." come in the english translation or was it in the arabic text? Did any1 ever turn into an animal in the prophet's time scw for disrespecting the Quran?

Bitter Bitter Bitter. Its sweet-smelling compared to the pungent odour that was emanating from this post all along. But hey, if its any consolation, ur pong doesn’t bother me anymore. Call it immunity. I find how u think most intriguing UD. If a guy doesn’t delight at ur show of chauvinism, he gets an ‘F’? Good one. Like how you always think of urself as the authority to hand out grades and grace. Anyways... blah blah blah to the crap thats about follow.

Ofleh, Welcome to SOL. What a sweet-smelling scent you bring. Dont worry about Afro, he is just jealous your coof looks better. And you're right on all accounts.

Are you sure deformity referred to transformation into animals Rahima? Cuz I thought it meant deformation in physical features due to illness and other genetic and natural defects. Believe me, I LIVED in Oman and there have been countless stories of people turning into animals. But this has nothing to do with Islam. There are people who are said to possess black magic in those regions (infact, the interior region of Oman has been known since time immemorial for black magic) and I’ve heard horrible stories of people being possessed, turned into werewolves, frogs, goats, etc (this is just in the news cuz of the pic) and even the scariest of all – babies born with the ability and the craving to eat flesh! None of them have ever been substantiated with proof and I find this picture hard to swallow. Especially with the number of picture editing tools available. Sounds something out of the twilight-zone to me.

LOL@Zep. Dang! That was explosive. Some more... Zephyrine You don't believe she's made her point, eh? Dear Chauvinist, perhaps you would feel differently if your ar e was the one getting swiped. Shall I get my MasterCard out? No, you misunderstand. He's not an arsehole because he's by-passing me, he is one simply because he is a man. Its inherent and instinctual and not about me at all. Femme You haven't seen anything yet Mister. I was kind enough to let you keep on daydreaming, laakin I changed my mind. I meant the living ones are jackarses (too big of an arsehole) and the rest are dead. There isnt a middle ground. And since you aren't dead...shall I leave it off for you to finish the thought, or is your mental capacity for such a task too small? I had to dumb down my question for your itty-bitty brain power, generated by the three remaining malnourished brain cells, to grasp. Pity it takes four brain cells to "grunt and scratch". And one of my fave: Kheyr Why go abroad for a 'broad' aka a Xalimo/Xaas? Pros - She will be Debt free , meaning she can stay home and be a housewife instead of running for the tube or bus in the morning with you. Kheyr has time and again campaigned for the debt-free woman since.

^ Thats asking too much. Lets just hope no1 borders on blasphemy.. or just ask bad - passing such judgement 'cause you dont agree with the person. Interesting topic.

^ Now thats FUNNY!! (and untrue) Afro... I dont appreciate you lusting after Sue.

ahem...the signature is taken.

^ Of course I wont. Maybe in 20-30yrs time? You're just in your prime

^ They dont hand those out in this junction. Unfortunately. Maybe you can recommend it? Afro... :eek: :eek: ... you rascal! You didnt have to go for the kill already! :mad:

^ LOL. ... bring it on Afro.

I dont talk out of my ... u know... p.s. I think I made u rather look good...u know...setting the stage right for the main slaughter, the main course is yet to be served.

While going through the archives in the women’s section (the reason is not really necessary), I came across certain comments that had chuckling to myself in pure amusement. Who needs wisdom quotes by supposedly great people when our own nomads are constantly spitting these little gems worth their weight in gold! I'll start with our 1-line Extraordinaire. Zephyrine Do you mean they should be castrated? Isn't that harsh? Plus, how will our nation reproduce in the future? As for vasectomies, I think they rock! The more Somali men put out of action the bettter! I'm not interested in your sexual shenanigans dear boy. I said I wanted a HOLIDAY, in a beautifully scenic and sunny region of the world. And not some viagra-assisted 2-minute fumble in some alleyway. Nin-Yaaban NO, and NO. Now more than ever, I badly believe any women who gets beaten up by her husband has probably deserved it. Why else would her husband raise his arm on her? Unless she has done something that?s unspeakable?.Dumarka mar mar waa eey u baahan yihiin inla tumo. Aminah, i also call women WARYAA. Nayaa is now old-fashioned. Calling women NAAYAADA is sexually arousing, walahi. I always found it to be sexually arousing. You wouldn't want your husband to call you NAAG? Arent you his NAAG? Financially, i can support 2 wifes, and upto 7 babies. Underdog We all want something different, maybe I want a sex kitten who knows to keep her mouth shut and can cook a buffet while wearing nothing but stilletos and a thong So when you tell me you're a brain surgeon on track for a nobel prize in 2015, and I say "good luck with that" and leave, please try and understand you didn't "intimidate" me, I just not shopping for what you're selling. For every woman who feels it necessary to tell the world she can stand alone, there's one who'll tell you she'll stand with you. NGONGE 54 is a fairly young age for a man, sxb. Guys who are 54 are as fit as you and me and can last as long (if not more) as any of us. He’s not 80 you know. Some suffer from impotence but clearly this guy’s uncle doesn?t. Heh. Qac Qaac what!!!, i think, a girl who passed 22, who still not married, damn... that's all i have to say.. don't get me wrong.. Femme Fatal That is so not true…men are a bunch load of extra fat that women lose everyday all around the world….trust me… I pride myself on not being emotional. DONT YOU DARE CONFUSE PASSION WITH EMOTION!!!! Men and their egos Waxaan ka baqayaa inaa odayaal weyn oohin ka keeno.Sida dhooro ukun ku dheqtey ineey meesha ka baaq baaq leeyaan. But since Im in a generous mood...Ill let some other sister explain "why the grass is always always greener on the other side". Xoogsade Xoogsade Personally, I don't mind if I am The One being LOVED. Then I can call the shots . A vantage point from which I can negotiate a better deal Well… the quotes speak for themselves. My break is over. More to come. No1 is safe.

Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain - Leo Buscaglia Damn right it is!

Rahima believe it. I really hope Baashi will be a good sport. I'm terribly scared of vengeance.