Reading and Doin Noin are my fav pass times - but I'm constantly on the move - so I don't have the times you speak off! Cheers

Just to report back...I do believe I am making a progress - Left the Laptop at the office - twice in a week - how good is that! Actually I'm delegating more now and confining my self at the strategic level rather than hands-on operational level but there is a long way to go. Cheers

^^ How does it stark the difference between kufaars and muslims specially where your argument that it is one day affair! :cool: Cheers

^^^^ I hate to be pedantic sxb...but seriously you had all the time to analyse and count his assets, where in your logic you thought "if I were him, I would/could have done this and that for the Darfur hundreds dying day in & day out!" but never stopped (spent time) to see what you could do for them, with your actions, money, energy and with all other abilities you possess Aaar aadanahaanaa!

Kooleey, may be you were already asked this question or may be not; did you and Mr. Kool planned for the Valentine's B'day? you know... said to your selves "if we.... then...give/take a week, the b'day will be around Val day...hmmm...let's go for it? Say Happy B'day to the young princess for me Cheers

^^^ it is all about missed targets i.e. new year's day, valentines, leap year and of course the australian day Cheers

Allaaahu Akbar! seriously you (xaliimos) have an urge to ask your farax's opinion when it comes to the way you look. hang on let me rephrase it, all women need the opinion of their men when it comes to how they look... does the term " does this make my behind big" ring a bell? of course you need to consult him it is perfectly normal All it needed was him to look at her new-look indifferently and when she asks why he should have replied "Frankly my dear, it makes you look like LiL' Kim" But the issue is when he doesn't like it but she loves it then I say the dude doesn't need to be control freak he should let her have it am sure she wll outgrow it before the next weekend! Cheers

^^^ She is not a citizen, is she?

I think marriage will save me! Faheeema I was starting to think you want me to die...pheeew. Cheers

Ok...Where were we?

^^^^ lol. Seriously I haven't paid attention to my facebook account lately. Insha Allah in a months time - I'll have more time. For some strange reasons, I have refused to give my FB to my colleagues May be I am struggling to reconcial my SOL persona with my career personality. Cheers

Originally posted by -Lily-: I fear you are a lost cause! Have clear boundaries btw work and your time outside of work. Never take work home. Otherwise the best years of your life will pass you by under artificial light and a monitor. May be I am struggling to see the boundaries! Hoping things will change in married life. Cheers

^^^ Never do that sxb well done! But my issue is a lost cause...instead of gorgoues xaliimo by my side in bed i have my work laptop and work files (i mean large files of paper)...After praying subax it is the first thing I do..and it is the last thing I do before I go to sleep. my daily and nightly hours vary from 12 - 14 hours plus weekends. Gediid, It is no I like I do not have social acitivities nor am I running from a bad wife and that is why I have no clue how to tackle this issue. You can pretty much say I am waaay bussier than Messr. G W Bush. my 24 hours consist of juggling between social acitivities, work, family and community work. Perhaps what I need is prioritisation, get rid of the things that are less important to me, or change job or request demotion! Something has to give! Cheers

No, not really it bore me quickier than you can yawn...my spreadsheets and graphs are more fun than annoying you Now I am off to sleep I have got work tomorrow Cheers

This is me trying to cure it " Annoy Ibtisam " Cheers

^^^ You clearly have the hots for him..Accept it before you go to the graves for Jaceyl Cheers

See i like to start my sentences with the word "Well" so that I can feel positive about any issue I am addressing but lately there is nothing positive about how I am feeling towards my working hours. I took some test and they have identified me as a workaholic Perhaps you could argue by knowing the problem in itself is a positive step...well..it is not! cos i have been aware of this problem for quite a while. I tell you if I had a wife she would have sought a divorce, if I had a pet it would have died of hunger and if you were under my care you would have looked like a malnutritioned ethiopian! According to my self, accepting the fake reasoning/justification that I will reduce my working hours once a project ends was the easy way out... that doesn't cut it anymore what is the best way to get out of such a habit? anyone who have similar issues? and DO NOT tell me about Workaholic Anonymous cos they won't be of any help to me... Tell us how many hours do you work? do you take your work to home? do you feel you need to do this job to ensure it is done? Cheers

^^^^ how would yours be?

See...sometimes what you think something u need to change is what makes the ppl close to you love about you. so Allah wudnt have made u this way if it is not the best imperfection for you. Now...to your q..am fing suspcious all the time. why does singing in the shower sound so good?

well....nothing Why do holdays end so quick?

Originally posted by NGONGE: My joke was wasted on this thread. Wasted I tell you. actually it wasn't wasted they deemed it as a waste a toxic one that is, perhaps it is under toxic waste management program! Cheers

^^^ Watch out for me then!...

^ Busy with catching you culprits like you So where are you going for shopping, I'll conveniently appear at any shops you are going to Cheers

^^^ Soon you will be charged for killing the somali language. Cheers

^^^ No, we cant believe it!