"A WOMAN IS MORE LIKELY TO BE KILLED BY TERORIST THAN FIND A MAN AFTER THE AGE OF 40" sleepless in seattle...I will add the rest when ever they come to me...till next time. okay another one i remembered is from the movie "my big fat creek wedding" at the reception..."Their last name means appele and ours means orange...We are different but we all fruits together..." of course i forgot parts but..

To me everything that happens in life has a negative and positive effect...So i guess the question is wether all the positive results outweights the negative effects?...I can't answer for everyone in that, it all depends how everyone views their own progress...I really can't imagine how my life back in somali would be like and since i didn't live that life i personally can't compare how it could been or might have been to what it really it is today...There are things that i have lost with the civil war, being close to my family and the opportunity to might have been someone else...But at the same time, i gained education and self-knowledge i might have not if constricted by the social structures back home...So at the end for me, my life now is nice and i am happy with it(except during finals like now ) As a final thought, regardless of where one might end up, there are basic things about the individuals that wouldn't change with different society, so if one doesn't try to improve their life here they wouldn't do so even back home...So those people who don't put effort in achieving something, they will never do in any country...Bee bye!!!Sorry for rambling my cell brains are fried with microbiology now :mad: :mad: Oh yeah i had one more comment, better off than what really????

hmmm that's seems like a lot of sounds to remember but i will try to see if i can use it... That's cool Samiha i did too, right by the "nadil-el-shaams" in masar-el-gedida...Who knows maybe we even went to the same school together... I was just shawn couple of days how to use paltalk maybe we can all set like a date where we all sign-up and talk in arabic...It would be much better than trying to write it here...Let me know if u guyz are up for it or not...Bee bye.

loooool oh yeah Che_Guevara from what i read and heard so far, i am definitely not a marriage-material

looool P_S well the "Yusuf" could be any guy friend you have who is game to play a prank on a somali guy...It's just a pretend your friend is a gay kind of game, he doesn't really have to be..But i heard it might be better if he knew how to box just in case ...Bee bye. oh Nova glad that you enjoyed that one, so did my friends....I think my favorite is the Qaat one

Hey ayuubos what took you so long to say anything...U must been a member for a quiet a long time now...Anyways, i am glad to be reminded about arab countries, I myself resided in Cairo for about five years...Unfortunately i don't know why u guyz using numbers to write arabic, is that associated with specific sound???? let me know, so maybe i can put my 1 1/2 cents of arabic knowledge here...Bee bye.

loooooooool Che_Guevara i guess you had no other choice but to tell the truth ha....

looool well one thing for sure, I am officially today on the single shelf for the rest of my life...best of luck to Pala in finding his good wife...bee bye.

lovely-me excately this topic was posted by SAGAL like couple of days ago...no need to open two topics for the same thing. It's nice poem though.

hmmm interesting idea, i guess now people can not only combat pre-sexual activities with religion but real life and regulations...Well i guess when the problem is unconventional it's good to use unconvential weapons..."commitment card" ha that makes it sound there would be reprecution in case one partner breaks the vow??? But it was nice article...Bee bye.

looooool that's a deal man...You better start practicing that toe crossing because i am not really nice when KINGS lose..It could be very painful experience to ya...bee bye

looooool Lefty...I started to worry there for second that you left our "King" side and went to Lakers :mad: :mad: side...Well i am rooting for KINGS all the way...Bee bye.

Hey Magnoona girl i can't believe u just said that...I mean don't u remember not long ago when u posted that topic about pregent girls and guyz marrying how everyone was saying that maybe it was u and u got knocked off....Didn't expect this from you woman...Anyways back to the topic, maybe some people use "thick" instead of "fat" because there are different types of fatness...I mean i know girls who are 165 pounds but are tall and filled in the right spot so by her standard she is not fat...And then there are the other fat ones that u can see got extra pounds in the wrong spot...So i guess it just means what u would define as "fat" looking gal and not...Hope that helped...P.s. I am fat

looooool Malaika i will let u know if there is an opening in the anger mangement class it's soooooo full right now Hey sofine don't sweat it seems my name is destined to be misspelled by you....Well i can understand where you were coming from...Take care now...

hey welcome back question mark lady, missed ya here...hmmm well i usually don't have troubles making friends with girls, but i don't like to make a lot of girl-friends...Because when man come between two women, most of the females i had noticed choose the man over the friend where it's the opposite for the guys...So i don't conciously choose guys over girls as friends but when it comes to making girls as friend i am more catious or maticiouls about it...Cause i want a long lasting friendship not just a friend till some dude comes into the picture...Alright woman bee bye.

loooooool sofine i can't believe you would spell my name wrong like that and not just once just playing...But seriously though i am fat and not good looking...I am sure u have seen people like that so that's me I accept myself...I don't know why anyone would lie about those stuffs or pretend otherwise...Thanx for the compliments...I am assuming you talking about Darman, yeah he is the joker in sol now...Maybe this is the "Darman's Age" or what not...Talk to ya later

He sounds to me like a guy who was in love with the idea of loving someone...Sort of putting a person on a pedstol without the intention of even trying to abtain them...Maybe, him being in love with her from far is what gave him the inspiration to write those hit songs or poem or what not...And if he expressed his feelings and got her, it would have ended whatever he was tapping into at that time...So to me i think it wasn't lust and neither was it love...I guess when reality intruded on his life or he realised his inspirational time would end soon...He just wanted to go out in a way that would give him immortality in this world...That's my opionin...Bee bye

hmmmm...Check this "Topic: Who's ur favourite author and what's ur favourite novel/s?"

looooooooooooooool that's a funny one...hehehehehe

Hey i thought since we almost look like cousins I would be the first to respond to these set of questions. All the nomads i have mentioned could work for any of those catogories, but thought to spread it around...Here it goes: 1) A nomad you always read his/her topics and replies Legend of Zu 2) A nomad you think is an asset for SOL Baashi 3) A nomad you have a feeling is Habar or Oday (old) The Rock's Chick 4) A nomad you would love to meet Che_Guevara/lulla 5) A nomad you are proud to know…. Abdinur 6) A nomad you think is popular in SOL (in terms of the replies to his/her topics) Cambaro-LuuL 7) A nomad who has an extremely cool personality Wiil_Waal 8) A nomad who makes you laugh out loud Shyhem 9) A nomad whom your like his/her mentality Abdinur/Che-Guevara/Cambaro_LuuL 10) A nomad you want to whoop his/her ass I REFUSE TO ANSWER THIS QUESTION, ON GROUNDS IT MIGHT DEPRESS ME TO THINK OF ALL THOSE PEOPLE!!!

loooooool Sofine and Gediid you guys don't believe me :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: Just kidding...Yeah i have learned all my Urdu from movies. You know i wasn't just watching because of the songs and the outfits I guess being exposed to it continously had kept my ears sharp for the sounds...But don't ask me to write anything. loooooool Sofine didn't you noticed, according to some people, "I am a fat girl sitting at the computer all time, have never had a guy speak to her" or "I got major ISSUES," and etc etc I am more likely to be nominated for Anger Mangement class than running this place...And that was for just expressing my opinions, imagine the death threats I would get if i became the admin of Somaliaonline and start editing people...Although i agree with what u didn't say outloud

Hey i was reading this comic and i thought it was so funny that i would make a link for it here...So check it out

hmmm...I am assuming this about somali love between men and women and not general love...If that is the case this is my input if not ooooops. 1. Know "self" first --> I can't even stress how important that is for everyone to do so...One should never lie to themselves about who and what they stand for...Espcially in a somali community where most of the times we are all lumped up together with every single girl that's out there...Quite a lot of my friends get mad when guyz say stuffs about somali girls and i say to them always, "if u know who you are it shouldn't matter what some dude says cause you really don't have to validate yourself in anyone's eyes. If guys want to make assumption about girls that's their loss, don't sweat it.." 2.Understand my own 'somalianess' My family...Their love, interactions, values, how they fight together but united against anyone else. And the list goes on, but to me they are and will always be my image of somali... 3. Self actualization/realization of what 'love' is to me. --> You know what i really laugh when i see a lot of men trying to blame what women say now they need from a relationship or expect on western hypnosis...I mean really our social interaction structure has changed...Maybe some of people wouldn't be signing the tune they weren't here now or back in Somalia, but that's the whole point. We are not the people we could or should have been because we are continously shaped and re-shaped in our needs and values by many aspects and that's part of growing up...So it's not to be blamed on watching "sleepless in seattle" movie and now we all want that type of "love"...I mean most of us back in Somali didn't even wonder or care about love, who is to say that we wouldn't have had the same or close ideology about "love" that we have now... 3. Recognize what I want from a relationship --> Excately, again don't lie to yourself...No shit about trying to change a person or what not...Either take them like they are or leave them...Don't be cocky.. 4.Be sure about what I am willing to give to a relationship. --> Do onto others as you would like others to do onto to ya...Don't ask for anything you aren't willing to give...Because with equality we have a balance..Best advice i heard So after all that rambling on, my final thought...I don't believe in somali love between males and females...As a matter of fact from what i had seen so far, a somali guy or woman for that matter saying "1-4-3" isn't even worth a shit in my opinion...That's more than my usual 1 1/2 cents on this topic...

looooooool Lefty..."some" hope u ain't implying anything :eek: :eek: :eek: Just kidding

Hey Bambina nice name it reminds me of something but don't know what it was right now. Let see about your question...I have gotten to know a couple of great people from here who we continue to keep in touch for a year now...And i did meet one of those member actually and had a great time...There was a member here from my state who we tried to get together but our schedule never really allowed it...So those members that i have be-friended i wouldn't mind seeing them or dropping by whenever i am in their states or country...But i would recomend that you atleast know them for couple of months or even try to speak to them on the phone, before meeting them...Because it's just depends on the "vibe" or in my case "gut feelings" you get from the people...Sorry if i rambled on i just finished a chemistry exam so i am out of it....bee bye