I think that most of the times people fight without any apparent reasons. But on the other hand sometimes there are major factors that couples fight, for example: finance is a major problem no matter who is in control of the money. I also think that both immediate and extended family have sometimes something to do with the conflict, when in-laws get too much involved with the couple. Last but not least friends of both sides of the couple can be the major cause: it is amazing how so called friends can be evil and try to break the family. I think that couples should keep their mouths closed and not let others get involved in their business. These problems existed before we moved to western countries, but what we lost here is the type of respect our parents had for each other. They had the commitment and sacrificed everything in order to deal with the conflict before they break up for the sake of their children. In my opinion women were the real reason why most Somali families stayed together, let us be honest! Now it is time for Somali couples specially men to put their ego to the side and start thinking the future of their children.

Matan Af gini n'est pas difficile elle est tres facile. Vouz pouvez parlez Francais que est une longue tres difficile bien sure! Mon Dieu! Bon chance !

Casa popolare baby. I will invite all of you when we go back with Zab hilib ari iyo bariis. The list goes on: qamiir iyo maraq & calooleey,cambuulo, bun sharuur iyo macsaro. Finale waxaa la cunaa gaxwo xaraar,xalwo sanbuus,qumbo,sisin,shushumoow,i cun kackac,kabaab, macsharo, bajiyo, bur saliid. Did I forget something? if yes please bring it with you before you come to visit. See you @ my place the year 2010.

Ahaaa...it was a bit tricky to get the ninth one but if you keep looking you will see it. Nice job Ismahan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you keep them coming~

Being a Somali means: Unstable Home sick Angry Frustrated Depressed & victims of post traumatic stress disorder Victims of war, social breakdown, loss of family Homeless Supporters Survivors Nurturers Fighters Dreamers Unbreakables Winners Soamlis

Guys all you talk about is european and world soccer players how about the legendary somali soccer players like Cafiif, shaash, Mohamed Ismaciil,kuus and so on? They existed I do not know where they are now.

Soul-Lady c'mon give me a break I am the new version of Araweelo. Have nothing in common with the old lady believe me. Ah Ah she was very cruel sis I am very nice to guys as the matter of fact I love guys. I grew up around guys I hang around with guys. They are my brothers my father my best friends for God sake!!!! Can't live without them. I will write onother song next time. Ciao!

I want to share this song with you it is my favorite: Neyruusku waaa haa ciid waa negi adduunyadu Waa naar kalgacalkuye nasiiboow waa naar kalgacalkuye naftaydoow waa nibiri caashaqu nugul waa u daranyay Anigay noqnoqashadu i naanaabineysaa Sidan kuugu nabanahay hadaad iigu nugushahay ama iigu nabantahay Xiskeenoo negaadiyo haa uum nimco la arki doonee

Geesho laawan aa sheema ak cosoto~~~~~~~~~~ haayi ijisiji sijisijinta. ak xab ab rawyaa yilaac rafjanno,yilaac laafoone

I make mo money than my future huby, I guess he is not too happy about that. I do not have a problem if he made more. More money = More vacations

My brother is married to a caucatian woman they have a child together he is the best thing that happened to him, he looks just like him. My mother was absolutely against it at first she did not want to have anything to do with him or his family. She was heartbroken. After I had a long talk with her I finally convinced her to think about the little child who has got nothing to do with all of this drama. They are doing fine we have a good relationship with his wife and I can't wait to see my little nephew sometime soon.

If you are tall, dark & 6'2", fit, and you shave your bald head before the hair grows back then you are sexy. But if you are 4'9", with a round mid section and let your hair grow from the sides like a river you are butt ugly.

What is up with you and this hate towards the lady, brother have some respect for Lady Fatima. Yes she got the vote quite a lot and you did not. Are we being jealous now. Subxaana Allah.

Let me try to help the brothers here if I could: Please no pleated pants they are out of style. Pants with no pleats, slim, straight in earth colors. Shirts with short collars and tips far wide open (like a wide V), in terms of coulors(put on some colors)they are cool, if you are not confortable with the pool of colors then stay more earthy or simply black or white, grey is my favorite color. Shoes: The square toe used to be in but are still ok, the cool sporty leather shoes with the stipes on the side, toes lifted up. Belts big belts are back find yourself the one you like. Summer is almost near a pair of jeans and sandals with nice belt you are good to go. Perfumes: try the new Cartier. Watches: if you want to buy expensive watches go with Movado, if not you can get Guess watches. Good Luck!

Og Moti I will try the chinese appetizer any time. Let me say something about cambuulo dish: Cambuulo is a very common dish in south Somalia. I grew up eating cambuulo, it is still the most favorite dish that my mom eats every night. It is a nutritious food with lots of protein and fiber good for your body and good for your soul. Let us all invite each other and eat canbuulo and bun sharuur with saliid macsaro. I promise you we will not regret it.

Safi good job, it is the truth and the truth hurts sometimes. Papa is using American tax payers money without their consent for Baby to kill innocent Palestinian civilians every day. I printed your post to share it with my fellow co-workers today. It was shocking to them but this is the reality that most Americans aren't aware of. Keep up the good work safi.

Does someone know the lyrics of: Bal kaalay baxsanoow aan kuu warramee Bal koow Bilaneey Bal koow Bilaneey aan kaa guro eeh"""""""""""""

I DID NOT SAY I WILL LIKE EVERYTHING I JUST SAID I WILL TRY! NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT WALAALO.

THESE ARE SOME GOOD AND VALID POINTS FOLKS! SOMALI PPL STARE AT EACH OTHER. I DON'T KNOW THE REASON BEHIND IT. I THINK WHAT GETS PEOPLE'S ATTENTION IS NOT WHO YOU ARE WITH OR HOW YOU ARE DRESSED BUT MORE LIKE HOW YOU BEHAVE IN PUBLIC. IF YOU ARE SOMEWHERE WITH SOMEONE AND SOMEONE STARES AT YOU STARE THEM BACK, THAT KINDA WORKED FOR ME. YOU HAVE TO DEVELOP A REASONABLE WAY TO LIVE IN THE COMMUNITY WITHOUT BEING VICTIMIZED. THE BEST THING IS TO HAVE A TOUGH SKIN AND NOT TO PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEY DO OR SAY. DIFFERENT PEOPLE ALWAYS JUDGE FOR DIFFERENT REASONS NO MATTER WHAT. Text TAKE CARE WHERE EVER YOU GO AND SMILE AT PEOPLE THAT WILL MAKE THEM FEEL BAD AND WILL NOT STARE.

BEING RAALIYO IS NOT A BAD THINK AFTER ALL MR. MATOTE. IF MY MAN TREATS ME RIGHT I WOULD DO ANYTHING. MUTUAL RESPECT AND UNDERSTANDING IS THE KEY TO A SUCCESFUL RELATIONSHIP. BOTH MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER THROUGH THICK AND THIN IF YOU KNOW THE TRUE SENSE OF THE WORD. THE SUBJECT WAS WHY WOMEN PUT UP SO MUCH WHEN THEY ARE IN A BAD RELATIONSHIP? Text

Sushi is good girl~~~~~~specially them DYNAMITE ROLLS.....hot & spicy YUMMY, girlfriend you got to try them they are good affordiziac too. THERE IS NOTHING IN THIS WORLD i WOULD NOT TRY **LIZARDS** BRING THEM ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Women are treated just the way they want. It is all about self confidence and the courage to move on if you do not get the treatment you deserve. Women stay because they do not think after having few kids they look as good as they were. Perhaps if she leaves he is going to get a younger prettier woman. The truth is if she was in a miserable life then any woman that comes after her would face the same horror, cause he is never going to change so it is all good.``` Some men do not realize what they have until it is gone. Good Bye

Text Isn't Walendoz Non Suju Somali's, specially those from Somalia.

My vote goes to: El~nino, Qaxooti kombuter heshay,libaax sankataabte,MMA,lady Fatima Roula,unixguru,kashulty,honesita,silent-guy kool-kat,bouncer,soul lady,xoolo-nool,motor cyclecruiser,jamal11,caanogeel,somaali,ameena lady jesto,aplus,najma03.

SIS THANKS I COULD NOT COME UP WITH THOSE WORDS WHEN I NEEDED IT. I AM NOT A POET BUT I THINK I COULD USE YOURS IF IT IS OK WITH YOU.