Ibtisam

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  1. Ibtisam

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    Education is over rated and over priced :rolleyes: £12,000 a year for a bloody masters :rolleyes: :mad: Not including living costs. What a bloody rip off!! :eek: Not to mention how anti social you become, nerdy and tired, lack of sleep and stress. Some people go mad. There is appreciating education and then there is going bonkers over it. I have a friend who dropped out of GCSE (we were in the same class), He went into property development and I carried on with years of education, he is now a millionaire and I am working to pay for my masters and make ends meet. So education just makes you broke and stuck up :eek: I'm tell everyone i know to drop out as kids and make money; lool
  2. ^^by then it is too late lool. Girl you said his personality is not very good/ easy. I say run while you still can. I can't help you. But i can confuse you a bit more if you want :)I don't think people on a forum can help. Find someone who knows you both well. And you should already know what kind of person he is and have your own impressions of him. Which weigh up his negative side with his good. cheers. N good luck,
  3. where do u live dear? Up my ends it covered everything and it looked soooooo nice, till you reached the main road, :rolleyes: Then yeah Black Slush on roads. Still it was well exciting!
  4. JAC: YEs Snow is my Fav! lool I've been laughin all day. It cheers me up to no end, and it covers all the mess, everything looks clean. North; loool @those were the days i know what you mean it hardly snows anymore But i hear that it will be like this till friday. As for pictures, whe i figure out how to get pictures our of my phone (using this thing that looks like a USP) to the computer i'll post em. I've been taking them all day. cheers ppl
  5. coool, I Had a surprise waiting for me when i left my house at 6this morning. Boy oh boy It is soooooooooooo goooooooooooood to see snow again. my long lost friend. Anyone share my excitement?? It did make my journeys to work longer by almost 25mins. Enjoy people
  6. MKY :rolleyes: I swear religious people are meant to be likeable :rolleyes: This one makes me want to slap him silly
  7. looool you guys are well funny. Zafir I remember you offered everything you had to Val last V Day now you say plastic earings :rolleyes: something tells me you need to go back to school to learn the art of... og what the hell nevermind
  8. You mean know one you know is brand new.... You know scarface people hardly hang their old cloths in the same place as their new ones . same way i don't think the two groups mix (call it a clash of ideas if you want) And they do exist, in fact there are many, they just keep away from the used iteams, so in turn believe they don't exist!
  9. What on GOds earth makes you think you have a right to be so picky?? In fact would it be just served dessert if you ended up with one like you,,, same experience and all?? Secondly for a women who has been so "normal" her whole life, chance are she wants a normal man to be her husband, not one who bumps into an ex every few yards or who has been around the block one two many times. what would she want with a used and abused farah. She wants brand new one or no one. By the way I say you not because i am assuming anything but because i am talking to you
  10. ^^^Is that so... You were the one who was miles ahead to start with. I am glade you have jumped off the train :cool: Scarface: same difference. both parties are getting something/s. Taking her out/ gifts/ phone bills: that is paying her dear! and you do all that without even noticing:D
  11. So i hear these days! :rolleyes:trust you to knwo them Don't sound too happy. When you get hitched and some dude, somewhere will be sing same song about your wife bet you are not best pleased now oh i guess it will safe him a bit of hime if he gives her a form first and the deed is done the next hour. I don't get it, if she is gone give it up away why would you wait days/ months. I have yet to meet one of these Xalimo's farah but when i do thats what i would like to ask! :rolleyes:
  12. I see it happen all the time with my own eyes, it is called observational skills ... yes i know you are think do I follow them everywhere and know what they get up to. Of course i don't, I just have their words to take for it. ( i doubt i guy will lie about it after words, even if a female would...) In fact is it not a wide spread thing here in the UK for Somali dudes to go out with white chick's Coz they give freebies with no hassle? Again Scarface those women who you mainpulate because you tell em what they want to hear in have major problems to start with: insecure or they feel like they have to please everyone :rolleyes:
  13. Bloom is that so :rolleyes: good luck to you. You can ask the questions where you get an answer or a honest one at all is a different story and simplky beyond your control. I believe that people will tell you and act in away consist with what they want from you. Again wanting something and having it is different. I do not believe that a grown *** women can be Manipulated into giving something she did not want to give in the first place. Is that right or is taht right
  14. HEnce we go back to what i said at the start that people will treat you, how you view/ present yourself. If she is on "you" as you term and she runs around with you to places than sooner of later it is possible somehting will happen. BUT she has put herself in a position to allow something to happen by spending so much time with some random dude, so then claiming and cry about the after effect is lost on me :rolleyes: And to answer your question. no. what is your point?
  15. YEs it is completely lost on me :rolleyes: WHy on gods earth will you put yourself in a position where some dude knows you so well, that he knows your desires and weakness and hence can attack you using them against you. I would never put myself at such disadvantage :rolleyes: Talk about boxing yourself in and sealing all roots out! women who do that want something to happen :rolleyes: :cool:
  16. Bloom and Scareface. No offence intended BUt you must hang out in certain places where you meet these "weak" women. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: No one can be made to do that which they do not want to do and at times even if they do want to do something they CAN stop themselves from doing it.
  17. I think you have me confused or at least you have the thread confused. I have not said anything is such in this thread. Nor have i ever argued for "free trawling the streets of anywhere" or even dating. So again i don't know why you keep jumping to conclusions. In fact i quiet agree with you, such waste of precious time i simple don't have. Now would you get off my case Please
  18. ^^^no Bloom I have not claimed such thing, nor did i find it funny so i have no idea what you are laughin about :rolleyes: How did you reach that understanding. Don't put words into my post! Man_in_ Malaysia of course there is such as self control?? :rolleyes: what kind of madness is that
  19. ^^^it is called self control ^^and Yes you can keep yourself away
  20. ^^apologies that should have said Mahram MEN: 1. What the Muslim woman can uncover in front of a kaafir woman is the same as what she can uncover in front of her mahrams, i.e., the places of adornment or the places of wudoo’. Shaykh Muhammad Saalih ibn ‘Uthaymeen said: “In front of her mahrams she can uncover her face, head, neck, hands, forearms, feet and calves, and she should cover everything else.” (Fataawaa al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah, 1/417). Allaah knows best, thanks for the correction.
  21. ^^I'm not getting into a ding dong with you :rolleyes: No point making it personal :rolleyes:
  22. Only if you look like the kind of girl who will go out and have sex with people :rolleyes: If you attract people who you think you are that kind of girl then something is not right. There are plenty of guys who go out with women knowing they won't even get a kiss/ hug or even hold her bag let alone sex!
  23. JACY we are talking about the topic... How dare you! I mean come on
  24. I thought as much! lool Okay suit your self. You can always sit at home and be a book worm